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By *ravus OP Couple
over a year ago
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We are wondering how much interest there would be in a swingers dining club? The idea would be that four or five like-minded couples would come for dinner at our house - H is a great cook - and then, should the mood take them, have fun in whatever combinations they liked.
Our house has several bedrooms and a couple of sitting rooms so people could play if they like but without any pressure. It would sit between a social and a party. We'd charge for dinner but people could bring their own wine etc. We are based in West Yorkshire. Any thoughts? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I like clubs for the variety. Your idea sounds nice, but only if I knew the people beforehand. Otherwise I would just be limiting myself to a small group of people when I could have just had a private meet.
It's a nice idea, I just don't think it would be what I personally am looking for.
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Having experienced something very similar on one occasion it isn't something I would want to do again. The intimacy of the setting makes it quite awkward if you don't want to play with any of the other guests but they want to play with you. The idea is appealing in theory and could work but I think you'd need to choose the guests carefully. |
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"Having experienced something very similar on one occasion it isn't something I would want to do again. The intimacy of the setting makes it quite awkward if you don't want to play with any of the other guests but they want to play with you. The idea is appealing in theory and could work but I think you'd need to choose the guests carefully."
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By *ravus OP Couple
over a year ago
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Thanks everyone... sounds like it might be a challenge to get the right mix of people and not create too much expectation in terms of playing. I know a lot of people prefer to meet people socially first and meeting in a club can raise people's expectations.
I imagine it being like a dinner party (do people have those anymore?) but, in this case, if two people want to have some fun they can without having to hide in a cupboard? Imagine sitting at the table and your partner whispers that they're "just popping upstairs..". |
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"Thanks everyone... sounds like it might be a challenge to get the right mix of people and not create too much expectation in terms of playing. I know a lot of people prefer to meet people socially first and meeting in a club can raise people's expectations.
I imagine it being like a dinner party (do people have those anymore?) but, in this case, if two people want to have some fun they can without having to hide in a cupboard? Imagine sitting at the table and your partner whispers that they're "just popping upstairs.."."
We enjoy inviting a couple or a man to dinner and making a long evening of food, wine and flirting with sex mixed in. We have also been to other people's houses and done this with varying success. It has always been after we have got to know them a little socially though.
As I say, done right it could be amazing. |
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