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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Before i joinned the world of fab i used to think that being told i look younger then i am was a good thing. But being here as made me think it goes against me. Would that put any girls off guys or vice versa? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Before i joinned the world of fab i used to think that being told i look younger then i am was a good thing. But being here as made me think it goes against me. Would that put any girls off guys or vice versa? - OP "
Well... younger, cute, teddy bears are very appealing x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being thought of as younger is the bomb!
I'm young at heart, so that levels it out. Kinda strange being handed flyers for raves by much younger people when out and about though - especially when my son's with me, he hates it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ive always bin told told that i look younger then my age i hated it when i was younger could never get in2 pubs but now i lv it and my eldest son whos 35 gets asked for id all the time hahahaha he hates it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm 33 and told a lot i look more 23.
I call it the deadzone of dating. Anyone older thinks i look way too young, girls the same age think i look too young and dont want people to think bad of them. Slightly younger are fine with it til they realize my age and i still live with my parents, they expect any guy my age to have a home, car, successful job, then younger 18+ are fine with looks, living at home but hate the age gap. |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"I regularly get told that if it weren't for my hair I'd get put at a whole lot younger than I actually am...
Can I just say what a fantastic body you have...that is all "
Aww...thank you sweetie  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A 38 yr old looking like a 28 yr old is one thing,a 28 yr old looking like an 18yr old is a totally different ball game. I've been told I look younger,I don't feel younger  |
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"I regularly get told that if it weren't for my hair I'd get put at a whole lot younger than I actually am...
Can I just say what a fantastic body you have...that is all
Aww...thank you sweetie "
No worries don't usually do public displays of pwwwoooarrnes but hey ho I'm in a good mood  |
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Get told often they can not believe i am 60 kept my looks and body in good shape with out trying very hard i go swimming every week thats all never been to a gym eat well and have a drink most days.
But it has its down side as well i know i get nasty comments from other women my age always dress smartly never tarty when people look at my photos on here been asked a few times is that me or someone else photos |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"I regularly get told that if it weren't for my hair I'd get put at a whole lot younger than I actually am...
Can I just say what a fantastic body you have...that is all
Aww...thank you sweetie
No worries don't usually do public displays of pwwwoooarrnes but hey ho I'm in a good mood "
Nothing wrong with a bit of 'pwwwooarness'...especially when it's aimed at me  |
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By *annooWoman
over a year ago
Hastings |
I'm 32 and get told I look 23/25.... It used to annoy me, but to be honest it suddenly occurrd to me to think of it as a compliment
And as someone else here busy said .. What is my age supposed to look like.
I dnt act my age..i feel younger and forget sometimes I'm meant to be a certain way ha ha
Or am I?  |
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"I regularly get told that if it weren't for my hair I'd get put at a whole lot younger than I actually am...
Can I just say what a fantastic body you have...that is all
Aww...thank you sweetie
No worries don't usually do public displays of pwwwoooarrnes but hey ho I'm in a good mood
Nothing wrong with a bit of 'pwwwooarness'...especially when it's aimed at me "
Ok enough of that I don't want to give your ego any further attention  |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"I regularly get told that if it weren't for my hair I'd get put at a whole lot younger than I actually am...
Can I just say what a fantastic body you have...that is all
Aww...thank you sweetie
No worries don't usually do public displays of pwwwoooarrnes but hey ho I'm in a good mood
Nothing wrong with a bit of 'pwwwooarness'...especially when it's aimed at me
Ok enough of that I don't want to give your ego any further attention "
Its not my ego that currently requires attention  |
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"I regularly get told that if it weren't for my hair I'd get put at a whole lot younger than I actually am...
Can I just say what a fantastic body you have...that is all
Aww...thank you sweetie
No worries don't usually do public displays of pwwwoooarrnes but hey ho I'm in a good mood
Nothing wrong with a bit of 'pwwwooarness'...especially when it's aimed at me
Ok enough of that I don't want to give your ego any further attention
Its not my ego that currently requires attention "
I'm not going to ask  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm 30 and I look 30 (except when I got ID'd buying superglue last year )
I'm totally happy with that, I'm not the babyfaced type and I don't really want to spend my life wishing my face looked different. I may change my tune when I'm 50. |
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"I'm 33 and told a lot i look more 23.
I call it the deadzone of dating. Anyone older thinks i look way too young, girls the same age think i look too young and dont want people to think bad of them. Slightly younger are fine with it til they realize my age and i still live with my parents, they expect any guy my age to have a home, car, successful job, then younger 18+ are fine with looks, living at home but hate the age gap."
I'm 33 and some girl thought I was 20. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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aww you're cute
i used to get that a lot, but not so much now. (thankfully)
I don't mind people looking younger, but probably not fancy someone if they were 35-40 and looked 60 odd |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I told a lady who used to be on here, we are still in touch, that I'd just had my 50th, she acted very surprised!
Although maybe she thought I looked older! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I challenge anyone to top this.
I was 21 at the time, went to asda to buy a DVD rated a 15.
Got asked for ID despite the fact I've got a full sleeve tattoo and had my car keys in my right hand, handed the guy my drivers licence which he still proceeded to take several moments to work out my age despite having to be 17 to have a license  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Before i joinned the world of fab i used to think that being told i look younger then i am was a good thing. But being here as made me think it goes against me. Would that put any girls off guys or vice versa?"
In your case. ..no..   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No!
....but people still mistake me for being about 17/18 but it doesn't seem to put people off.
Strange that "
It's like you're implied that I attract perverts  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No!
....but people still mistake me for being about 17/18 but it doesn't seem to put people off.
Strange that
It's like you're implied that I attract perverts
You calling me a pervert? "
Are you a pervert?? Be honest now  |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"No!
....but people still mistake me for being about 17/18 but it doesn't seem to put people off.
Strange that
It's like you're implied that I attract perverts
You calling me a pervert?
Are you a pervert?? Be honest now "
As far as you are concerned, most definitely!!  |
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It's a pity in many ways that we have magnified the benefits of youth today. It used to be kids that emulated adults, wanting to appear older, now it's more often than not older adults who start emulating old teens somewhat.
Polyfilla is your friend. Followed by a few coats of high quality paint. But I am no DIYer, so please try on an inconspicuous area first.
My visible age varies a fair bit. I wake up and think it's halloween most mornings when I look in the mirror. If I'm rested (but not after a night's sleep) I can look 100X better and a few years younger.
I think if we just accept ourselves as we are and get on with life it's far healthier. I'm going to etch my bathroom mirror soon, so that it shows a foggy look, which I could accept. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nobody can ever guess my age, they always sat around mid to late twenties which I'm always happy to accept, apparently I'm a northern version of Benjamin button lol  |
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"Before i joinned the world of fab i used to think that being told i look younger then i am was a good thing. But being here as made me think it goes against me. Would that put any girls off guys or vice versa?"
Funnily enough only yesterday I said I need guys that are over 35 that look under 30.. As I like younger looking guys mostly but don't feel comfortable meeting anyone too young!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Before i joinned the world of fab i used to think that being told i look younger then i am was a good thing. But being here as made me think it goes against me. Would that put any girls off guys or vice versa?"
Yes it would put me off. Hate men that look younger, how dare they!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People say I look late 20s which is all good. If I put a beanie hat on or something iblook younger due to my slightly receding hairline being covered and a few greys  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Get told often they can not believe i am 60 kept my looks and body in good shape with out trying very hard i go swimming every week thats all never been to a gym eat well and have a drink most days.
But it has its down side as well i know i get nasty comments from other women my age always dress smartly never tarty when people look at my photos on here been asked a few times is that me or someone else photos "
Must be something in the water around these parts , as I'm 61 and people often say what????.......nooooo....really?..lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I received a nice compliment from a chap I was chatting to in a club last week. He said I looked good for my age. I think I look younger than I am because I have never smoked and have fewer wrinkles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to get told i looked younger than i was...it was a common thing for me to get asked for ID when buying cigarettes in my 20s. Then i had kids and funnily enough i now look like a 42 year old mum. Who would have thought? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like being told I only look mid 40's (who wouldn't at 54?), especially as when I was mid 40's I looked a lot older . I'm guessing it's got something to do with me now being single (less stress).  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I received a nice compliment from a chap I was chatting to in a club last week. He said I looked good for my age. I think I look younger than I am because I have never smoked and have fewer wrinkles. "
Ive never smoked myself..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Funny - I've never heard anyone on Internet say they look older than they are.
Almost seems compulsory for people to say they look younger than they are. Hi, I'm 30/40/50 but everyone says I look younger.
See Pof etc. try asking a teenager how old you look and come back tell us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I received a nice compliment from a chap I was chatting to in a club last week. He said I looked good for my age. I think I look younger than I am because I have never smoked and have fewer wrinkles.
Ive never smoked myself.. "
Bet you wish you could sometimes tho!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Get told often they can not believe i am 60 kept my looks and body in good shape with out trying very hard i go swimming every week thats all never been to a gym eat well and have a drink most days.
But it has its down side as well i know i get nasty comments from other women my age always dress smartly never tarty when people look at my photos on here been asked a few times is that me or someone else photos
Must be something in the water around these parts , as I'm 61 and people often say what????.......nooooo....really?..lol"
Id love to pay that compliment to you in real life x |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I quite often get told I look around mid twenties, apart from my grey hair.
Just for Men?
I've considered it but I'm too lazy to keep it up."
I've grown out my hair dye too. I'm happy to go grey gracefully. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm regularly told I look nowhere near my age, so really pleased when that happens. How old I feel depends on what i'be been up to - if i've been in the gym it's all good, but if it's the paper Round in Beirut not so hot!
Enjoy it while it lasts!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It almost as if there is a default condition that compels crossdressers to wear clothing more suited to someone 20 years younger......
Thank the lord....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a theory......i think people's perceptions of what people of certain ages should look like are way out of balance with what people actually look like. That is why so many claim to be told they look younger than they actually are.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a theory......i think people's perceptions of what people of certain ages should look like are way out of balance with what people actually look like. That is why so many claim to be told they look younger than they actually are. "
I think you're right. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"I have a theory......i think people's perceptions of what people of certain ages should look like are way out of balance with what people actually look like. That is why so many claim to be told they look younger than they actually are.
I think you're right."
I concur. It would explain an awful lot (including why I always guess ages wrong). |
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