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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I Have noticed as I get older that I take a man by his handshake.
Good solid handshake = genuine bloke
Midling handshake=half interested in you
Wimp hadshake=Putting up with you under suffereness
Am I being neurotic or do other blokes think this way.??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Judging a man by is hand shake is like is like judging a boom by its cover unless you know everything about someone then you cannot accurately judged that person |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Breton I am only going by what I have experienced in my long life that time and time again it has been proven over and over again what I said in my last email. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I Have noticed as I get older that I take a man by his handshake.
Good solid handshake = genuine bloke
Midling handshake=half interested in you
Wimp hadshake=Putting up with you under suffereness
Am I being neurotic or do other blokes think this way.???"
No sorry pal this is way out of date, I shake hands with folk I don't like and let's say there as firm as I can make em without breaking fingers, so in my book firm=thinks your a bellend lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Buzz in you first comment on your email you say you try to squeeze their hand without breaking it.isn't that a typical male trying to prove his dominance over another male.??I am only talking about the character of the man the the power and muscle of a man. |
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"Fist bumps are the way of the future. Handshakes aren't worth risky another's sweaty palm. Yuck.
Indeed.  "
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Yes..you just bow like the Japanese. Just make sure you don't knock your heads.
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But I do make some sort of first impressions from handshakes..and eye (gaze) or other body languages.
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I'm a genuine bloke and have a reasonably firm handshake. It's only polite.
I'm often amused if someone goes for the 'trying to break your hand' routine.
It's always the ones who feel they have something to prove.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry meant to put "not the power of man" in the last email."
Ha I'm not that powerful it's just a good picture!. As for the handshakes if it's someone I respect I'll not grip the hand or be half arsed about it, I prefer the half hug shoulder grab ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I Have noticed as I get older that I take a man by his handshake.
Good solid handshake = genuine bloke
Midling handshake=half interested in you
Wimp hadshake=Putting up with you under suffereness
Am I being neurotic or do other blokes think this way.???"
At 24 I just people probably more than I should on their handshake... in my books, there's nothing more off putting than a ghost handshake.. *shudder* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To me the "half hug shoulder thing" is the most phoniest thing I have ever seen it should be banned by law."
Aww I'm sure if you had genuinely close friends you'd understand it. I don't just give it out to any dude! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do have friends of about 10 years standing and we just greet each other with a "normal" handshake."
I'm obviously closer to my friends!, not close enough that they'll let me fuck their wives tho  |
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"I'm a genuine bloke and have a reasonably firm handshake. It's only polite.
I'm often amused if someone goes for the 'trying to break your hand' routine.
It's always the ones who feel they have something to prove.
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this..
almost cave man like behaviour..
and it means nothing as an indicator of whatever except they've read somewhere that a crushing handshake = dominance / 'manliness'..
bit of a mystery.. |
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"A good firm handshake is an indicator of a genuine character and preferred.
Anything else makes me wary."
Utter nonsense ?
Many people who give a confident handshake are well practiced many are indeed in sales I would take nothing from a good handshake other than the person knows how to give a good handshake , the motives will vary
Sadly personally anecdotally, limp handshakes from either sex seem to be the most trustworthy. But I'm sure world wide statistics would illustrate no significant correlation between a persons handshake style and their trustworthiness
As a man who climbs, has rather a strong grip , I too find it amusing when some , including women , decide to squeeze as hard as they can , I don't compete I always aim to match a persons grip , lulling them into feeling equal
What ? People with confident handshakes are manipulative ? Some are some are not
Assess a person on their handshake , sounds cool however it's an erroneous prejudice xxx |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
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A lot of people associate a strong handshake with confidence, decision making and leadership. For women it could also just be an association with protection and masculinity.
Other might just associate a strong grip as a result of excessive wanking...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I Have noticed as I get older that I take a man by his handshake.
Good solid handshake = genuine bloke
Midling handshake=half interested in you
Wimp hadshake=Putting up with you under suffereness
Am I being neurotic or do other blokes think this way.???"
Totally agree with the above |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to shake hands a lot during work, I find that some men put there hand out palm facing down, so in the hand shake there hand is above yours, sure this is a power thing, them thinking there in charge.
I just slap there hand away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think a good solid handshake and what club tie a chap is wearing can tell you a bally lot about the cut of his jib, don't you know.
I don't mix with commoners or riffraff.
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