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What has FAB taught you?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just recently there have been certain things I have learnt through FAB especially the forums the biggest clear one for me is never be afraid to ask.
I used to look at a lot of the regular forum users and think I would never stand a chance. Just recently that has changed and I'm so damn happy
So what have you learnt? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A positive answer: How it's changed my opinion on on things and people.
A Negative: learning how much men and some women lie. And to lie to get what they want. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That I'm pretty sane 
Lol love that especially as your profile pic of the chicken in your bra proves how sane you really are lol
Xx
Don't disrespect Colin he is a loyal cock...  "
Oh you can't beat a good loyal cock
Apologies Colin |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A positive answer: How it's changed my opinion on on things and people.
A Negative: learning how much men and some women lie. And to lie to get what they want. "
Agreed on both counts
Sadly the second one is something many of us can't change which is a great shame. |
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There are some genuinely lovely women out there. Real God's honest women.
Women are more perverted than men.
Some people on here are crazier than shithouse rats but this still doesn't stop them getting meets.
If you're a man, having a great body will really help to get you noticed.
I'm not as physically unappealing as I thought.
There's way too much shaving going on.
Women go crazy for mens bums! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That I'm not really a proper swinger. That I need some strings and like to belong. Luckily I found what I needed.... 
That Jinty McGinty isn't her real name  "
Shoosht you!!!! It is so...  |
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"That I'm not really a proper swinger. That I need some strings and like to belong. Luckily I found what I needed....
That Jinty McGinty isn't her real name
Shoosht you!!!! It is so... "
Yeah we hen, thousands would believe you 
Derby is only aboot ....... that far away on the map if ya look at it upside doon, then ya can tell me in person  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That some people really are as shallow as they seem
That some people really are fantastic and genuinely warm
That I am an attractive person...
To be honest theres loads |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That I've much to learn and do
That I'm happier with NSA
There's also some that I cannot mention but the biggest one is
I can still be myself, and I can still have sex, and love, sex, and relationships are different words for a reason |
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That anything is possible and although there are some really rude, scary people on here - the nice ones outnumber them.
It has also helped push my boundaries and allowed me to me meet someone I would have discounted.....you know who you are ?????????????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A positive answer: How it's changed my opinion on on things and people.
A Negative: learning how much men and some women lie. And to lie to get what they want. "
same - and that some dont learn their lesson and keep on doing the same - hurts people when it doesnt need to -
i for one have toughened up a lot and not always i think in a good way - i always used to think good of people and now it takes a long time to trust a person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A positive answer: How it's changed my opinion on on things and people.
A Negative: learning how much men and some women lie. And to lie to get what they want.
same - and that some dont learn their lesson and keep on doing the same - hurts people when it doesnt need to -
i for one have toughened up a lot and not always i think in a good way - i always used to think good of people and now it takes a long time to trust a person "
Sadly, I start from not trusting new people until I know them better |
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"There are some genuinely lovely women out there. Real God's honest women.
Women are more perverted than men.
Some people on here are crazier than shithouse rats but this still doesn't stop them getting meets.
If you're a man, having a great body will really help to get you noticed.
I'm not as physically unappealing as I thought.
There's way too much shaving going on.
Women go crazy for mens bums!"
I seem to be agreeing with you rather frequently today. Sorry, I'll stop stalking you soon. |
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By *MaleMan
over a year ago
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I already knew most but fab gave me a reminder.
Gut feel is real and exists for a reason.
From general contact not meets - Lies, bulls#it, no morals, unhappy in themselves is part of more people's make up than expected.
The person described is rarely the reality.
You certainly have to dig for diamond people.
Shyt or synthetic personas soon kill beauty or appeal.
Good people, and there's many about, are worth their weight in gold.
Some couples have the most amazing relationships. To be trusted & welcomed into that socially & sexually is quite something.
I never fail to appreciate savvy, switched on, good minded others.
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That people lie.
That my gut instinct is always right.
That I like watersports.
That I love bedroom shoes.
That I like sploshing.
That people can be unkind.
That I like being kind to newbies.
That I'm quite funny sometimes.
That I'm fair and quite a reasonable person.
That I like people.
That I like latex.
And bondage.
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"There are some genuinely lovely women out there. Real God's honest women.
Women are more perverted than men.
Some people on here are crazier than shithouse rats but this still doesn't stop them getting meets.
If you're a man, having a great body will really help to get you noticed.
I'm not as physically unappealing as I thought.
There's way too much shaving going on.
Women go crazy for mens bums!
I seem to be agreeing with you rather frequently today. Sorry, I'll stop stalking you soon."
Woo hoo!! Looks like I've got my first Fab stalker! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I should 'go with my gut'.
That married men in particular are incredibly persistent!
That if you're patient, the right people will come along and make you smile.
That a cock-shot and 'Hi Babe/hun' grinds my gears. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
that people can do the same over and over and over and never click that the outcome is driven by this, if they don't change THEIR approach, they will never get what they seek. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That anything is possible and although there are some really rude, scary people on here - the nice ones outnumber them.
It has also helped push my boundaries and allowed me to me meet someone I would have discounted.....you know who you are ??????????????"
Was he black and furry and called Marshall X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To trust myself because I'm generally right. And that I can overcome shyness and enjoy meeting new people. "
It's amazing how many people still feel shy despite the naughtiness FAB can bring me included X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To trust myself because I'm generally right. And that I can overcome shyness and enjoy meeting new people. "
I was just going to post roughly the same thing. |
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That it takes all sorts and is a microcosm of society. I also trust my instincts more, but it has opened my mind. It's also about what you put into it but that life goes on and the world keeps turning regardless |
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"That anything is possible and although there are some really rude, scary people on here - the nice ones outnumber them.
It has also helped push my boundaries and allowed me to me meet someone I would have discounted.....you know who you are ??????????????
Was he black and furry and called Marshall X "
No, he has a liking for coco pops xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That swinging is not for the feint hearted
That gay is contagious
That BBW should only be discussed in the positive
That the world is filled with egotists and lunatics
That there are a lot of naive people out there
That the thoughts of others can be as scary as they are hilarious
That chatting shit to random strangers is addictive
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never to wear my heart on my sleeve. (harsh lesson learnt early on) 
Dont message men first, they dont seem to like it
The theory of "you dont ask you dont get", should be reversed to "you ask and you dont get". Seems men dont like hints or direct requests for things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Negative: found out my ex was on here and he had cheated on me several times. Cheated on his latest partner and got married to her. She passed away and even slept with a woman on the night of her funeral. (A true lowlife)
Positive: met some nice guys and had some of the best sex ive ever had  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Negative: found out my ex was on here and he had cheated on me several times. Cheated on his latest partner and got married to her. She passed away and even slept with a woman on the night of her funeral. (A true lowlife)
im lost for words "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Negative: found out my ex was on here and he had cheated on me several times. Cheated on his latest partner and got married to her. She passed away and even slept with a woman on the night of her funeral. (A true lowlife)"
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"Negative: found out my ex was on here and he had cheated on me several times. Cheated on his latest partner and got married to her. She passed away and even slept with a woman on the night of her funeral. (A true lowlife)
im lost for words "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To explore my sexual fantasies and my bi curious side and to not be as trusting as I once ones and that closed minds should come with closed mouths.
And how naïve some people really are and that a few can live a life of lies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To explore my sexual fantasies and my bi curious side and to not be as trusting as I once ones and that closed minds should come with closed mouths.
And how naïve some people really are and that a few can live a life of lies."
wow sexy that was DEEP its taught me how to write quickly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To explore my sexual fantasies and my bi curious side and to not be as trusting as I once ones and that closed minds should come with closed mouths.
And how naïve some people really are and that a few can live a life of lies."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That some women and men on here have 2 faces. "
no you're thinking of that movie "face off" you're not a morning person are you get out of bed slower next time x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How judgmental some on here are.
That people use the site in very different ways, no one way is the right way.
That I'm definitely more bi-curious than I knew |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That people cant read or just fail to read profiles before messaging.
Half the couples profiles are single blokes or the wife doesnt know.
Not to be too excited about meets untill there's a knock on the door.
Being patient as what you want will be here its just finding it.
New and exciting ways to have a fab time.
And finally.... Its ok and acceptable to be different |
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