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How Honest is to Honest... Do people lie?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Evening Ladies and Gents, As you will see on my profile I have given an honest account of my performance in the Bedroom from a cum point of _iew. I have disclosed this to be upfront so people know what to expect. I wonder how many people there are on here that either lie or exaggerate there performance for attention, maybe I'm just being a pessimist. What are your thoughts? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Evening Ladies and Gents, As you will see on my profile I have given an honest account of my performance in the Bedroom from a cum point of _iew. I have disclosed this to be upfront so people know what to expect. I wonder how many people there are on here that either lie or exaggerate there performance for attention, maybe I'm just being a pessimist. What are your thoughts?"
Ah, the honesty thing.
Well, you may honestly rate your performance. Who knows? We only have your description to go on that.
Your honesty on other issues? It would be much better to state why you cannot accommodate. There are many innocent explanations for that but for someone pleading the honesty card, it would be much clearer to explain that. |
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I like complete honesty but there is a time and a place, depending upon one's audience, for certain disclosures.
I'm not a major fan of verifications that read like bad porn novelettes. And someone who's confident about their abilities is better than someone who's uncertain.
But boastful doesn't appeal.
I've not read your profile but perhaps op you'll take on board my very personal opinion. |
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Fab is riddled with porkies! From us women who plaster ourselves in make up, wear push up bra's and use flattering camera angles to the men who say they are vwe and everyone who says single when actually not. Even down to the fact we use aliases on Fab and not our real names! But that's life, no one is ever 100% honest and vulnerable every day!
It wouldn't put me off to see a man be honest that he isn't a porn star and doesn't last 5 hours (ouch think of the friction burns) 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Evening Ladies and Gents, As you will see on my profile I have given an honest account of my performance in the Bedroom from a cum point of _iew. I have disclosed this to be upfront so people know what to expect. I wonder how many people there are on here that either lie or exaggerate there performance for attention, maybe I'm just being a pessimist. What are your thoughts?"
I think words and how you use them make a world of difference...describe yourself as a multiple repeater and you're being up front without appearing to put yourself down... |
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I'm as honest as suits me at any given moment in a variety of situations.
Rather naive to think anyone is otherwise.
Regarding your profile....... it's only honest as you see honesty. Someone else may rate you much higher or lower.
I'm being honest now .... you wouldn't be getting a round 2 let alone 3 or 4 unless my needs were met in round one.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Take this with a pinch of salt as I'm a male and don't really know what females want from a profile, but your profile reads a bit try hard to me. Good luck though! |
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"  cumin 15 mins into a meet could be embarrassing if your on a bus or in a pub or club  "
Shit I thought he meant after 15 mins of thrusting ...... I wouldn't even have finished me coffee before he creams it!
See what I did there ? eh ? |
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The main issue that I see is perhaps the superfluous use of the word 'sure'.
Some bits could have been said a little bit more succinctly.
You mention a friend for threesomes but consider how that may limit you - he's not identified as a user here and some users could prefer to select the participants, rather than leave it to you. And what about females who already have a guy, including mf couples here? Are you confident in those more likely available circumstances, or if some are bi? Things to consider.
A profile can't say everything and people are not 100% honest with themselves.
Add details of your home situation as well as what area you'll travel to and if you'll meet in clubs. |
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I think you imply that there are many men who come within 15 minutes, but daren't admit it. Not so, as another poster said, if they are in tune and focusing on the other - this is unless it is in my case where I can come within a matter of minutes and that is just me getting started, on some occasions and with some people, of course! I pride myself on being as honest as I can, in life as well as on here - but sometimes I find that people don't know if they are being dishonest with themselves, as much as anything else. |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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Read your profile OP, and it made me smile. It actually took me back to my secondary school days, when there were usually a few guys who liked to tell anybody who would listen, about there great success with the girls.
However, it was usually reckoned that it was actually all talk, and the ones really doing it with the girls, were the quiet ones who simply went about their fun in a discreet manner.
Personally, in my book the lady always comes first, pun intended. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you want my honest opinion your profile is perfect and pretty much sums up what every woman on Fab is looking for.
I honestly expect you to be up to your neck in flange before the weekend is out.
Honestly I expect most guys here will be copying and pasting your profile verbatim, so they can enjoy the same level of success you are.
That's my honest opinion.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the forums or over a few private messages I'm as honest as I can be without giving to much information away about my personal life, But sometimes I can be to honest about myself when I get to know someone |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Very interesting ladies and gents cheers, in answer to the question why I cannot accommodate,(very fair to ask) is because I'm currently of no fixed abode, I wouldn't see it fair to use my friends houses for my sexual endeavours. |
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"Very interesting ladies and gents cheers, in answer to the question why I cannot accommodate,(very fair to ask) is because I'm currently of no fixed abode, I wouldn't see it fair to use my friends houses for my sexual endeavours."
You can still accommodate. E.g half the costs of a hotel. Or are you just after females that are willing to allow you to use their home as a venue, their loo roll , their coffee , their electric, their toys, their ........ etc etc etc ..... sort of like a free personal brothel ?
To be honest I have used hotels but find that the organisation of it all just makes the whole thing unpalatable in the end. |
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"Evening Ladies and Gents, As you will see on my profile I have given an honest account of my performance in the Bedroom from a cum point of _iew. I have disclosed this to be upfront so people know what to expect. I wonder how many people there are on here that either lie or exaggerate there performance for attention, maybe I'm just being a pessimist. What are your thoughts?"
. Why would anyone rate their own performance on their profile?. Surely that is for others to judge . Profiles should contact factual information, not your own assessment of your performance which may vary according to the circumstances . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Evening Ladies and Gents, As you will see on my profile I have given an honest account of my performance in the Bedroom from a cum point of _iew. I have disclosed this to be upfront so people know what to expect. I wonder how many people there are on here that either lie or exaggerate there performance for attention, maybe I'm just being a pessimist. What are your thoughts?. Why would anyone rate their own performance on their profile?. Surely that is for others to judge . Profiles should contact factual information, not your own assessment of your performance which may vary according to the circumstances . "
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