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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How many people are on here who have met or fucked people they wouldn't normally give the time of day to in the real world ??
My guess is quite a few !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I haven't. The meets I've had off here and other sites have been people I'm defintely comfortable having no strings one (or perhaps two or three?) off fun with.
Would I want to settle down and have a relationship with all of them if I was single? Some yes, but not all - because what I'm looking for in a meet from a sex site and when I'm looking for someone in "real life" is very different!
So my standards are *different*, not lower!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many people are on here who have met or fucked people they wouldn't normally give the time of day to in the real world ??
My guess is quite a few !! "
Your OP suggests I get a shag in the real world  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How many people are on here who have met or fucked people they wouldn't normally give the time of day to in the real world ??
My guess is quite a few !!
Your OP suggests I get a shag in the real world "
who does have sex in the real world ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I only meet people I'm interested in and only have sex with people who turn me on - no my standards haven't changed."
What if someone who you class as extremely attractive and normally think I wouldn't stand a chance with offers you some sexy time would you take it ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I bet some people do though.
Especially guys, they will lower there standards just do get leg over !! "
Presumably as you are so insistent that this is the case you are speaking from first hand experience? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I bet some people do though.
Especially guys, they will lower there standards just do get leg over !!
Presumably as you are so insistent that this is the case you are speaking from first hand experience?"
no just look at pictures people post and you will find out. I'd never drop my standard to sleep with someone I don't like or fancy. I'd rather have a wank |
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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago
between havant and chichester |
"Not that I generally go out socialising with my meets but I wouldn't meet someone I wouldn't be seen out with or would be able to introduce to my friends (under different circumstances"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hands up! when I first joined and on the few occasions I was really horny my standards slipped slightly.
Guilty as charged "
Well done you for being brave enough to admit it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only meet those who I find I have a connection with there has to be some attraction from pics but when you meet you get to know the real person and that's when I make a final decision as to how far I'm happy to go |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did  His profile was good and he was nice looking but when we met there was no chemistry. I thought I might get into the swing of things as we got going but it was a mechanical and empty experience  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By Fab consensus my standards are quite low anyway. I fuck all races,fat men,skinny men,men who have lower intelligence than me,out of work men etc. I like to call it being diverse, open minded and not too judgemental. I don't need my ego stroked by only fucking hot men either. I do have preferences and men I have better experiences with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've definitely not had everything I'm looking for in a meet. The search continues!"
Enjoy the search. I found someone who ticks every single box and surpassed all expectations and now most other encounters fall woefully short! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I bet some people do though.
Especially guys, they will lower there standards just do get leg over !!
Presumably as you are so insistent that this is the case you are speaking from first hand experience? no just look at pictures people post and you will find out. I'd never drop my standard to sleep with someone I don't like or fancy. I'd rather have a wank "
So basically what you are saying is that if you see someone you don;t personally find attractive getting meets then that can only be because someone has lowered their standards? It couldn't be because be other person finds them attractive? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've definitely not had everything I'm looking for in a meet. The search continues!
Enjoy the search. I found someone who ticks every single box and surpassed all expectations and now most other encounters fall woefully short!"
Is that because you have fallen in love with him? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I bet some people do though.
Especially guys, they will lower there standards just do get leg over !!
Presumably as you are so insistent that this is the case you are speaking from first hand experience? no just look at pictures people post and you will find out. I'd never drop my standard to sleep with someone I don't like or fancy. I'd rather have a wank "
I may find the people you have sex with to be unattractive,would that mean you have lower standards than me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, I've met some socially who I liked as people but I didn't fancy so no sex occurred.
The people I had sex with were ones I was physically and mentally attracted to. |
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By *sla69Woman
over a year ago
coventry/Leicestershire border |
Have always met socially first so as to get a feel for the person..have met once without meeting the person but that turned out to be my best experience i have had on fab.... high standards have been set now |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"I bet some people do though.
Especially guys, they will lower there standards just do get leg over !! "
In which case may I please make a request to you. Please do not lower your standards to "get leg over" me. Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say my standards, or more accurately my tastes, have broadened since being on here, in terms of age, race, build, I've moved away from any kind of 'type' in terms of the men I've met.
But what they've all had in common is that I've found them attractive in some way. So no, I haven't lowered my standards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would personally only go with someone that I felt there was chemistry with. Even when I am at my horniest, if that is not there, I just couldn't continue. Would rather play with my toys than have a mechanical non fun meet just for the sake of it. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would personally only go with someone that I felt there was chemistry with. Even when I am at my horniest, if that is not there, I just couldn't continue. Would rather play with my toys than have a mechanical non fun meet just for the sake of it. Xx"
I'm a science teacher really great at chemistry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not that I generally go out socialising with my meets but I wouldn't meet someone I wouldn't be seen out with or would be able to introduce to my friends (under different circumstances"
This^^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I've met some socially who I liked as people but I didn't fancy so no sex occurred.
The people I had sex with were ones I was physically and mentally attracted to."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've definitely not had everything I'm looking for in a meet. The search continues!
Enjoy the search. I found someone who ticks every single box and surpassed all expectations and now most other encounters fall woefully short!
Is that because you have fallen in love with him? "
Um, *coughs* yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've definitely not had everything I'm looking for in a meet. The search continues!
Enjoy the search. I found someone who ticks every single box and surpassed all expectations and now most other encounters fall woefully short!
Is that because you have fallen in love with him?
Um, *coughs* yes "
Hope it's mutual for your sake. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd say my standards, or more accurately my tastes, have broadened since being on here, in terms of age, race, build, I've moved away from any kind of 'type' in terms of the men I've met.
But what they've all had in common is that I've found them attractive in some way. So no, I haven't lowered my standards. "
I agree with the first bit too ruby |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many people are on here who have (...) fucked people they wouldn't normally give the time of day to in the real world?
My guess is quite a few! "
Oh yes, I am Guilty as Charged! But I have only met people in Clubs, Real Swingers' Clubs, not through the internet.
That's one of the main reasons I liked Swinging from the start, the unwritten rules are very clear, fun and frolics for the night, NO worries about future compatiblity! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love this post !
After almost 5 years of active swinging together the whole standards subject comes up so often . And what makes us smile is the way that so many people , ( especially those with no meets , or just one or two in a year or more ) love to say they won't lower their standards for a sexual encounter .
One poster suggested they met be missing out because of their pickiness . And ain't that the truth !
We see the lifestyle as an opportunity to explore and enjoy so much variety . Some experiences will be mind blowing , some will be great , some will be good , some forgettable . But if you don't try , how will you know what floats your boat ?
Variety is the spice of life guys , and there is a whole world of fun to be had . We have found that each and every playmate has something to offer , and we don't put ourselves above anyone .
Of course we have our own standards , age , size , type and so on . But we have at least 3 meets a week with fantastic people from fab , and enjoy every one of them .
How is it then possible that some people have standards they consider so high that they don't deem anyone good enough to meet them ?
Go figure people ..... Never figure you aren't worthy . Those who don't meet anyone as they feel above them , are probably not the type of people anyone would want to meet anyway .
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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago
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"Love this post !
After almost 5 years of active swinging together the whole standards subject comes up so often . And what makes us smile is the way that so many people , ( especially those with no meets , or just one or two in a year or more ) love to say they won't lower their standards for a sexual encounter .
One poster suggested they met be missing out because of their pickiness . And ain't that the truth !
We see the lifestyle as an opportunity to explore and enjoy so much variety . Some experiences will be mind blowing , some will be great , some will be good , some forgettable . But if you don't try , how will you know what floats your boat ?
Variety is the spice of life guys , and there is a whole world of fun to be had . We have found that each and every playmate has something to offer , and we don't put ourselves above anyone .
Of course we have our own standards , age , size , type and so on . But we have at least 3 meets a week with fantastic people from fab , and enjoy every one of them .
How is it then possible that some people have standards they consider so high that they don't deem anyone good enough to meet them ?
Go figure people ..... Never figure you aren't worthy . Those who don't meet anyone as they feel above them , are probably not the type of people anyone would want to meet anyway .
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Three meets a week!.... Fook
Three meets a year off here, more maybe in Clubs. But we are fussy fookers.
No compromises here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love this post !
After almost 5 years of active swinging together the whole standards subject comes up so often . And what makes us smile is the way that so many people , ( especially those with no meets , or just one or two in a year or more ) love to say they won't lower their standards for a sexual encounter .
One poster suggested they met be missing out because of their pickiness . And ain't that the truth !
We see the lifestyle as an opportunity to explore and enjoy so much variety . Some experiences will be mind blowing , some will be great , some will be good , some forgettable . But if you don't try , how will you know what floats your boat ?
Variety is the spice of life guys , and there is a whole world of fun to be had . We have found that each and every playmate has something to offer , and we don't put ourselves above anyone .
Of course we have our own standards , age , size , type and so on . But we have at least 3 meets a week with fantastic people from fab , and enjoy every one of them .
How is it then possible that some people have standards they consider so high that they don't deem anyone good enough to meet them ?
Go figure people ..... Never figure you aren't worthy . Those who don't meet anyone as they feel above them , are probably not the type of people anyone would want to meet anyway .
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I'm always in agreement regarding this 'standards' pish...most dont know most of the time its intended to be a form of reverse psychology to make someone else think they or you are special...
then people can sit in judgement saying you rode that 'bike' 'slut' 'slapper' etc etc
oh and heres the line...
"not here to sleep my way through the site"..fuck off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really don't have time for 3 meets a week, the hair removal alone would take up all my time. So I'm happy to keep describing my own selection process as standards, I don't think I'm missing out on anything by meeting infrequently and being more careful about who I am meeting since I don't get the opportunity often. None of this means I think I'm better than anyone else |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My use of the word standards is nothing more sinister than a shorthand for "someone I'm attracted to". No reverse psychology going on here, neither do I think I'm something special because I've got quite a narrow field of attraction. Can't help the way I'm made. Should I shag people I'm not into, just to avoid anyone thinking I'm stuck up?  |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
I have met with a women that wouldn't normally be my type. But I ended up having a great time. I have also met women for a drink and decided that there wasn't chemistry. And some women have thought the same about me. It's all part of the fun of fab. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
I don't often meet - sometimes because I can't find people I click with, and other times because I have a life away from fab and responsibilities.
If people think I'm some prude, uptight snob because of it, then so be it - we probably wouldn't get on anyway, so not meeting is no loss.
I cannot do mechanical sex, I need to have a connection and attraction on some level - otherwise the biology just does not work! No judgement on how anybody else meets - if it works for them, then all power to them. There is room in this crazy old fab world for everyone to find what suits them, and not have to be concerned with those that see it differently! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
I don't have standards, I have a 'type'. And even then I have shagged guys who are not my type in a club because, after chatting to them, they turned me on.
I mean, who would shag Paddy on paper? Yet he does pretty well.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't have standards, I have a 'type'. And even then I have shagged guys who are not my type in a club because, after chatting to them, they turned me on.
I mean, who would shag Paddy on paper? Yet he does pretty well. "
lol some have shagged me on sandpaper |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
It is nice to know that there are people who are meeting 150+ people a year; and why not, if they have the time
I would struggle to meet one per week as the only time available to me for leisure is a Saturday evening
Once in a while I can make it on a Friday evening but that involves leaving work on the dot at 17:30 (which I normally cannot do) rushing home, showering, changing, maybe even putting on a bit of makeup and then starting to travel again at 20:00. By the time I get to wherever I have to get to, I am shattered, not just because of the rushing but also because I left home at 07:30 in the morning
I don't have high or low standards. I just want to meet people with physical attributes which I would find attractive. And I look for the same kind of physical attributes which I would find attractive in the Vanilla world too. Nothing to do with me having a superiority complex; if anything, this place gives me an inferiority complex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope I haven't, don't see the point in having sex with someone I'm not attracted to.
Doesn't bother me if people think I am shallow, picky or up my own arse. I'm in a position ( which everyone should be ) that I'll meet who & when I want too.
During my time dabbling in the world of online meeting tho my opinion of what I used to define as 'my type' has changed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't have standards, I have a 'type'. And even then I have shagged guys who are not my type in a club because, after chatting to them, they turned me on.
I mean, who would shag Paddy on paper? Yet he does pretty well. "
Clubs are dimly lit for a reason. 
I'm most popular at 15 minutes before kicking out time. I think they save the best for last. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"I don't have standards, I have a 'type'. And even then I have shagged guys who are not my type in a club because, after chatting to them, they turned me on.
I mean, who would shag Paddy on paper? Yet he does pretty well.
Clubs are dimly lit for a reason.
I'm most popular at 15 minutes before kicking out time. I think they save the best for last. "
Ditto, although I reckon its because all the decent women have gone home and I'm the only one left. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't have standards, I have a 'type'. And even then I have shagged guys who are not my type in a club because, after chatting to them, they turned me on.
I mean, who would shag Paddy on paper? Yet he does pretty well.
Clubs are dimly lit for a reason.
I'm most popular at 15 minutes before kicking out time. I think they save the best for last. "
did we meet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love this post !
After almost 5 years of active swinging together the whole standards subject comes up so often . And what makes us smile is the way that so many people , ( especially those with no meets , or just one or two in a year or more ) love to say they won't lower their standards for a sexual encounter .
One poster suggested they met be missing out because of their pickiness . And ain't that the truth !
We see the lifestyle as an opportunity to explore and enjoy so much variety . Some experiences will be mind blowing , some will be great , some will be good , some forgettable . But if you don't try , how will you know what floats your boat ?
Variety is the spice of life guys , and there is a whole world of fun to be had . We have found that each and every playmate has something to offer , and we don't put ourselves above anyone .
Of course we have our own standards , age , size , type and so on . But we have at least 3 meets a week with fantastic people from fab , and enjoy every one of them .
How is it then possible that some people have standards they consider so high that they don't deem anyone good enough to meet them ?
Go figure people ..... Never figure you aren't worthy . Those who don't meet anyone as they feel above them , are probably not the type of people anyone would want to meet anyway .
I'm always in agreement regarding this 'standards' pish...most dont know most of the time its intended to be a form of reverse psychology to make someone else think they or you are special...
then people can sit in judgement saying you rode that 'bike' 'slut' 'slapper' etc etc
oh and heres the line...
"not here to sleep my way through the site"..fuck off."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't have standards, I have a 'type'. And even then I have shagged guys who are not my type in a club because, after chatting to them, they turned me on.
I mean, who would shag Paddy on paper? Yet he does pretty well.
Clubs are dimly lit for a reason.
I'm most popular at 15 minutes before kicking out time. I think they save the best for last.
Ditto, although I reckon its because all the decent women have gone home and I'm the only one left. "
sometimes I'll take one for the team
then i get praise for the charity work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't have standards, I have a 'type'. And even then I have shagged guys who are not my type in a club because, after chatting to them, they turned me on.
I mean, who would shag Paddy on paper? Yet he does pretty well.
Clubs are dimly lit for a reason.
I'm most popular at 15 minutes before kicking out time. I think they save the best for last.
Ditto, although I reckon its because all the decent women have gone home and I'm the only one left. "
No you are mistaken. My theory is correct.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it is fine to have 'standards' as long as they are not predjudice in disguise. I dont like meeting smokers or married guys playing away. That cuts down my options here. Men who dont like big women wont meet me. That is fine. We can all choose where our limits lay.
Being on fab has changed my outlook. I know myself better and where my own preferences lead me. I would rather wait for someone I really like than have someone I like less. Mr Right not Mr Rightnow as they say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't have standards, I have a 'type'. And even then I have shagged guys who are not my type in a club because, after chatting to them, they turned me on.
I mean, who would shag Paddy on paper? Yet he does pretty well.
Clubs are dimly lit for a reason.
I'm most popular at 15 minutes before kicking out time. I think they save the best for last.
Ditto, although I reckon its because all the decent women have gone home and I'm the only one left.
sometimes I'll take one for the team
then i get praise for the charity work"
I love it when men chuck something in my charity bucket. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't have standards, I have a 'type'. And even then I have shagged guys who are not my type in a club because, after chatting to them, they turned me on.
I mean, who would shag Paddy on paper? Yet he does pretty well.
Clubs are dimly lit for a reason.
I'm most popular at 15 minutes before kicking out time. I think they save the best for last.
Ditto, although I reckon its because all the decent women have gone home and I'm the only one left.
sometimes I'll take one for the team
then i get praise for the charity work
I love it when men chuck something in my charity bucket. "
quite a few money shots in there eh!? |
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By *olgateMan
over a year ago
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"How many people are on here who have met or fucked people they wouldn't normally give the time of day to in the real world ??
My guess is quite a few !! "
Quite a few have probably said that about me.... Then have been over the moon that they didn't miss out
C... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love this post !
After almost 5 years of active swinging together the whole standards subject comes up so often . And what makes us smile is the way that so many people , ( especially those with no meets , or just one or two in a year or more ) love to say they won't lower their standards for a sexual encounter .
One poster suggested they met be missing out because of their pickiness . And ain't that the truth !
We see the lifestyle as an opportunity to explore and enjoy so much variety . Some experiences will be mind blowing , some will be great , some will be good , some forgettable . But if you don't try , how will you know what floats your boat ?
Variety is the spice of life guys , and there is a whole world of fun to be had . We have found that each and every playmate has something to offer , and we don't put ourselves above anyone .
Of course we have our own standards , age , size , type and so on . But we have at least 3 meets a week with fantastic people from fab , and enjoy every one of them .
How is it then possible that some people have standards they consider so high that they don't deem anyone good enough to meet them ?
Go figure people ..... Never figure you aren't worthy . Those who don't meet anyone as they feel above them , are probably not the type of people anyone would want to meet anyway .
I'm always in agreement regarding this 'standards' pish...most dont know most of the time its intended to be a form of reverse psychology to make someone else think they or you are special...
then people can sit in judgement saying you rode that 'bike' 'slut' 'slapper' etc etc
oh and heres the line...
"not here to sleep my way through the site"..fuck off.
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"If anything my standards are getting higher
Actually, this is spectacularly true.
I'm finding that too...."
Same here. I've had some great fun with some very attractive and sexy people since being on this site. I now find I'm a lot more selective when out normally than I used to be. So for me, since being on this site, my standards have gone up and the amount of sex I get has also gone up.
I'm a very happy bunny. |
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"No I haven't. The meets I've had off here and other sites have been people I'm defintely comfortable having no strings one (or perhaps two or three?) off fun with.
Would I want to settle down and have a relationship with all of them if I was single? Some yes, but not all - because what I'm looking for in a meet from a sex site and when I'm looking for someone in "real life" is very different!
So my standards are *different*, not lower! "
So this! |
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"I really don't have time for 3 meets a week, the hair removal alone would take up all my time. So I'm happy to keep describing my own selection process as standards, I don't think I'm missing out on anything by meeting infrequently and being more careful about who I am meeting since I don't get the opportunity often. None of this means I think I'm better than anyone else "
Is it OK for me to think you are one hell of a lot better than many on here; and I didn't just mean more sexually attractive either. |
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What are 'standards' anyway? I only fuck people I want to. That's my standards.
Funny how some people infer that if it's 2 or 3 then that's ok.
If I like 100 people and I fuck them, then people think they can say I don't have standards anymore?
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I have been in clubs and fucked people that I had little or no interest in, it was sex that we were both wanting at that moment in time....
They have never crossed my mind again, until now but that being said..... I can't remember their faces |
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Not having a "type" and not being swayed by a pretty face or muscles makes it hard to find someone I'm attracted to. I don't dismiss someone purely because they don't have a certain look about them. I can have 10 men message me,I may like the look of them all but I don't want to have sex with them all so how do I choose? Something has to make me want them. |
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"I bet some people do though.
Especially guys, they will lower there standards just do get leg over !!
Presumably as you are so insistent that this is the case you are speaking from first hand experience? no just look at pictures people post and you will find out. I'd never drop my standard to sleep with someone I don't like or fancy. I'd rather have a wank
So basically what you are saying is that if you see someone you don;t personally find attractive getting meets then that can only be because someone has lowered their standards? It couldn't be because be other person finds them attractive?"
Funny isn't it, how some people think they're the arbiters of good taste and standards and you fall short if you don't match their definition of ideal. 
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I have been in clubs and fucked people that I had little or no interest in, it was sex that we were both wanting at that moment in time....
They have never crossed my mind again, until now but that being said..... I can't remember their faces"
Well, you weren't looking at their faces, were you? |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I have been in clubs and fucked people that I had little or no interest in, it was sex that we were both wanting at that moment in time....
They have never crossed my mind again, until now but that being said..... I can't remember their faces
Well, you weren't looking at their faces, were you? "
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"What are 'standards' anyway? I only fuck people I want to. That's my standards.
Funny how some people infer that if it's 2 or 3 then that's ok.
If I like 100 people and I fuck them, then people think they can say I don't have standards anymore?
?!
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I guess it comes back to "I dont want to fuck my way through the site"
so whats the plan?
meet 20 men/women then stop/leave?-to find something more fulfilling..
find 2-3 regular men/women and nobody else is needed..then leave swinging..
such a mixed up world sometimes it makes me glad I think I have it figured out and I remain happy and slutty...
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"What are 'standards' anyway? I only fuck people I want to. That's my standards.
Funny how some people infer that if it's 2 or 3 then that's ok.
If I like 100 people and I fuck them, then people think they can say I don't have standards anymore?
?!
I guess it comes back to "I dont want to fuck my way through the site"
so whats the plan?
meet 20 men/women then stop/leave?-to find something more fulfilling..
find 2-3 regular men/women and nobody else is needed..then leave swinging..
such a mixed up world sometimes it makes me glad I think I have it figured out and I remain happy and slutty...
"
Perhaps what works for you and makes you happy doesn't work for some other poor unfortunate souls |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Going on from Keenfucktographers post, I don't care what the reason is for a bloke wanting to shag me. As long as I want to shag him too I'm fine. Accusing people of lowering standards because they have more fun than others seems mealy mouthed to me.
Also, I AM here to shag my way through the site. So what? |
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"Going on from Keenfucktographers post, I don't care what the reason is for a bloke wanting to shag me. As long as I want to shag him too I'm fine. Accusing people of lowering standards because they have more fun than others seems mealy mouthed to me.
Also, I AM here to shag my way through the site. So what?"
Slapper! |
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"What are 'standards' anyway? I only fuck people I want to. That's my standards.
Funny how some people infer that if it's 2 or 3 then that's ok.
If I like 100 people and I fuck them, then people think they can say I don't have standards anymore?
?!
I guess it comes back to "I dont want to fuck my way through the site"
so whats the plan?
meet 20 men/women then stop/leave?-to find something more fulfilling..
find 2-3 regular men/women and nobody else is needed..then leave swinging..
such a mixed up world sometimes it makes me glad I think I have it figured out and I remain happy and slutty...
Perhaps what works for you and makes you happy doesn't work for some other poor unfortunate souls"
those unfortunate souls are often the ones seen complaining as they cannot comprehend what the nsa lifestyle entails.
seen it countlessly over the years...and singles are generally the worst, when they are focussed on a particular mission to find a bf/gf/wife/hubby..
and what they get is a usual backfire after backfire
so yes..slutty honesty works for me...I've grown a thick skin and sometimes a lack of empathy for those who continually fuck themselves up by doing the same thing over n over again.. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Going on from Keenfucktographers post, I don't care what the reason is for a bloke wanting to shag me. As long as I want to shag him too I'm fine. Accusing people of lowering standards because they have more fun than others seems mealy mouthed to me.
Also, I AM here to shag my way through the site. So what?"
goes back to that silly perceived leagues things, the premiers and the not so. |
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"Going on from Keenfucktographers post, I don't care what the reason is for a bloke wanting to shag me. As long as I want to shag him too I'm fine. Accusing people of lowering standards because they have more fun than others seems mealy mouthed to me.
Also, I AM here to shag my way through the site. So what?
Slapper! "
I called her that a few days ago..she's a loveable one though...and gives great head...oops..I meant sucks like a dyson..or a vac..or someother cheaper less known brand |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Going on from Keenfucktographers post, I don't care what the reason is for a bloke wanting to shag me. As long as I want to shag him too I'm fine. Accusing people of lowering standards because they have more fun than others seems mealy mouthed to me.
Also, I AM here to shag my way through the site. So what?
goes back to that silly perceived leagues things, the premiers and the not so."
I'm definitely conference league,, but I try harder. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Going on from Keenfucktographers post, I don't care what the reason is for a bloke wanting to shag me. As long as I want to shag him too I'm fine. Accusing people of lowering standards because they have more fun than others seems mealy mouthed to me.
Also, I AM here to shag my way through the site. So what?
Slapper!
I called her that a few days ago..she's a loveable one though...and gives great head...oops..I meant sucks like a dyson..or a vac..or someother cheaper less known brand "
You'll be getting a slap in a minute. |
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"What are 'standards' anyway? I only fuck people I want to. That's my standards.
Funny how some people infer that if it's 2 or 3 then that's ok.
If I like 100 people and I fuck them, then people think they can say I don't have standards anymore?
?!
I guess it comes back to "I dont want to fuck my way through the site"
so whats the plan?
meet 20 men/women then stop/leave?-to find something more fulfilling..
find 2-3 regular men/women and nobody else is needed..then leave swinging..
such a mixed up world sometimes it makes me glad I think I have it figured out and I remain happy and slutty...
"
You've figured it out - for you - and that's awesome. I've figured it out - for me - and that's equally awesome.
Different strokes for different folks. No big mystery and no superiority. |
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Depends what you mean by standards slipping
I have turned down a few guys because they haven't really been my type but after getting to know them a little I have seen their inner beautie which has made their outer beautie seem more appealing and we have ended up playing |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"What are 'standards' anyway? I only fuck people I want to. That's my standards.
Funny how some people infer that if it's 2 or 3 then that's ok.
If I like 100 people and I fuck them, then people think they can say I don't have standards anymore?
?!
I guess it comes back to "I dont want to fuck my way through the site"
so whats the plan?
meet 20 men/women then stop/leave?-to find something more fulfilling..
find 2-3 regular men/women and nobody else is needed..then leave swinging..
such a mixed up world sometimes it makes me glad I think I have it figured out and I remain happy and slutty...
Perhaps what works for you and makes you happy doesn't work for some other poor unfortunate souls
those unfortunate souls are often the ones seen complaining as they cannot comprehend what the nsa lifestyle entails.
seen it countlessly over the years...and singles are generally the worst, when they are focussed on a particular mission to find a bf/gf/wife/hubby..
and what they get is a usual backfire after backfire
so yes..slutty honesty works for me...I've grown a thick skin and sometimes a lack of empathy for those who continually fuck themselves up by doing the same thing over n over again.."
Then you can feel even sorrier for these poor unfortunates and just leave them be |
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"What are 'standards' anyway? I only fuck people I want to. That's my standards.
Funny how some people infer that if it's 2 or 3 then that's ok.
If I like 100 people and I fuck them, then people think they can say I don't have standards anymore?
?!
I guess it comes back to "I dont want to fuck my way through the site"
so whats the plan?
meet 20 men/women then stop/leave?-to find something more fulfilling..
find 2-3 regular men/women and nobody else is needed..then leave swinging..
such a mixed up world sometimes it makes me glad I think I have it figured out and I remain happy and slutty...
Perhaps what works for you and makes you happy doesn't work for some other poor unfortunate souls
those unfortunate souls are often the ones seen complaining as they cannot comprehend what the nsa lifestyle entails.
seen it countlessly over the years...and singles are generally the worst, when they are focussed on a particular mission to find a bf/gf/wife/hubby..
and what they get is a usual backfire after backfire
so yes..slutty honesty works for me...I've grown a thick skin and sometimes a lack of empathy for those who continually fuck themselves up by doing the same thing over n over again..
Then you can feel even sorrier for these poor unfortunates and just leave them be"
or shag them.. |
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"How many people are on here who have met or fucked people they wouldn't normally give the time of day to in the real world ??
My guess is quite a few !! "
I have respect for them and me, so, never. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"What are 'standards' anyway? I only fuck people I want to. That's my standards.
Funny how some people infer that if it's 2 or 3 then that's ok.
If I like 100 people and I fuck them, then people think they can say I don't have standards anymore?
?!
I guess it comes back to "I dont want to fuck my way through the site"
so whats the plan?
meet 20 men/women then stop/leave?-to find something more fulfilling..
find 2-3 regular men/women and nobody else is needed..then leave swinging..
such a mixed up world sometimes it makes me glad I think I have it figured out and I remain happy and slutty...
Perhaps what works for you and makes you happy doesn't work for some other poor unfortunate souls
those unfortunate souls are often the ones seen complaining as they cannot comprehend what the nsa lifestyle entails.
seen it countlessly over the years...and singles are generally the worst, when they are focussed on a particular mission to find a bf/gf/wife/hubby..
and what they get is a usual backfire after backfire
so yes..slutty honesty works for me...I've grown a thick skin and sometimes a lack of empathy for those who continually fuck themselves up by doing the same thing over n over again..
Then you can feel even sorrier for these poor unfortunates and just leave them be
or shag them.."
If that is what you want AND that is what they want too, then yes; I don't see a problem with that
Just don't try to make them feel bad about themselves for their choices. Maybe cajoling them into doing anything different from what they are doing will cause them harm. You don't want to do that, now do you? |
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"What are 'standards' anyway? I only fuck people I want to. That's my standards.
Funny how some people infer that if it's 2 or 3 then that's ok.
If I like 100 people and I fuck them, then people think they can say I don't have standards anymore?
?!
I guess it comes back to "I dont want to fuck my way through the site"
so whats the plan?
meet 20 men/women then stop/leave?-to find something more fulfilling..
find 2-3 regular men/women and nobody else is needed..then leave swinging..
such a mixed up world sometimes it makes me glad I think I have it figured out and I remain happy and slutty...
You've figured it out - for you - and that's awesome. I've figured it out - for me - and that's equally awesome.
Different strokes for different folks. No big mystery and no superiority."
Well said. Why can't some people accept these most basic of facts...
We are all different (no shit!)
We all like different things (no shit!)
We are all on here looking for different things (no shit!)
People trying to claim some kind of moral high ground because they think what they are doing is the way it should be done is laughable. There is no right or wrong. There are no rules. Do what works for you. |
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"What are 'standards' anyway? I only fuck people I want to. That's my standards.
Funny how some people infer that if it's 2 or 3 then that's ok.
If I like 100 people and I fuck them, then people think they can say I don't have standards anymore?
?!
I guess it comes back to "I dont want to fuck my way through the site"
so whats the plan?
meet 20 men/women then stop/leave?-to find something more fulfilling..
find 2-3 regular men/women and nobody else is needed..then leave swinging..
such a mixed up world sometimes it makes me glad I think I have it figured out and I remain happy and slutty...
Perhaps what works for you and makes you happy doesn't work for some other poor unfortunate souls
those unfortunate souls are often the ones seen complaining as they cannot comprehend what the nsa lifestyle entails.
seen it countlessly over the years...and singles are generally the worst, when they are focussed on a particular mission to find a bf/gf/wife/hubby..
and what they get is a usual backfire after backfire
so yes..slutty honesty works for me...I've grown a thick skin and sometimes a lack of empathy for those who continually fuck themselves up by doing the same thing over n over again..
Then you can feel even sorrier for these poor unfortunates and just leave them be
or shag them..
If that is what you want AND that is what they want too, then yes; I don't see a problem with that
Just don't try to make them feel bad about themselves for their choices. Maybe cajoling them into doing anything different from what they are doing will cause them harm. You don't want to do that, now do you?"
I dunno exactly what you are inferring?
and asking a stupid question to make a point doesn't really make any sense..so I will answer it with 'yes, of course I do...' |
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"How many people are on here who have met or fucked people they wouldn't normally give the time of day to in the real world ??
My guess is quite a few !! "
Guilty as charged! Never again! |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"What are 'standards' anyway? I only fuck people I want to. That's my standards.
Funny how some people infer that if it's 2 or 3 then that's ok.
If I like 100 people and I fuck them, then people think they can say I don't have standards anymore?
?!
I guess it comes back to "I dont want to fuck my way through the site"
so whats the plan?
meet 20 men/women then stop/leave?-to find something more fulfilling..
find 2-3 regular men/women and nobody else is needed..then leave swinging..
such a mixed up world sometimes it makes me glad I think I have it figured out and I remain happy and slutty...
Perhaps what works for you and makes you happy doesn't work for some other poor unfortunate souls
those unfortunate souls are often the ones seen complaining as they cannot comprehend what the nsa lifestyle entails.
seen it countlessly over the years...and singles are generally the worst, when they are focussed on a particular mission to find a bf/gf/wife/hubby..
and what they get is a usual backfire after backfire
so yes..slutty honesty works for me...I've grown a thick skin and sometimes a lack of empathy for those who continually fuck themselves up by doing the same thing over n over again..
Then you can feel even sorrier for these poor unfortunates and just leave them be
or shag them..
If that is what you want AND that is what they want too, then yes; I don't see a problem with that
Just don't try to make them feel bad about themselves for their choices. Maybe cajoling them into doing anything different from what they are doing will cause them harm. You don't want to do that, now do you?
I dunno exactly what you are inferring?
and asking a stupid question to make a point doesn't really make any sense..so I will answer it with 'yes, of course I do...'"
I give up on you; you are obviously far to clever for what I am trying to say |
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"We are all on here looking for different things
People trying to claim some kind of moral high ground because they think what they are doing is the way it should be done is laughable. There is no right or wrong. There are no rules. Do what works for you."
this..
beauty is in the eye of the beholder etc, and we all have different likes and so do others..
in effect there are 'no standards' and no 'league' to aspire to..
its being with whom your with at whatever time and if that floats your boats then enjoy..
i care not what my neighbours will have for their dinner tonight, why would i..?
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"What are 'standards' anyway? I only fuck people I want to. That's my standards.
Funny how some people infer that if it's 2 or 3 then that's ok.
If I like 100 people and I fuck them, then people think they can say I don't have standards anymore?
?!
I guess it comes back to "I dont want to fuck my way through the site"
so whats the plan?
meet 20 men/women then stop/leave?-to find something more fulfilling..
find 2-3 regular men/women and nobody else is needed..then leave swinging..
such a mixed up world sometimes it makes me glad I think I have it figured out and I remain happy and slutty...
You've figured it out - for you - and that's awesome. I've figured it out - for me - and that's equally awesome.
Different strokes for different folks. No big mystery and no superiority.
Well said. Why can't some people accept these most basic of facts...
We are all different (no shit!)
We all like different things (no shit!)
We are all on here looking for different things (no shit!)
People trying to claim some kind of moral high ground because they think what they are doing is the way it should be done is laughable. There is no right or wrong. There are no rules. Do what works for you."
Imo there's way too much time spent on here second guessing other people's reasoning & motives.
It's pretty easy to find the person/s that fit your own criteria / standard / preference & vice versa. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I would suggest that the everyday swingers will just get on with it. The ones constantly speaking about it in forums and chat may elevate themselves in some way or other over someone else. That is for their own benefit, rather than others. |
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"I would suggest that the everyday swingers will just get on with it. The ones constantly speaking about it in forums and chat may elevate themselves in some way or other over someone else. That is for their own benefit, rather than others."
Amen to that! |
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over a year ago
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"How many people are on here who have met or fucked people they wouldn't normally give the time of day to in the real world ??
My guess is quite a few !! "
No never its a case of if the chemistry is there with me .this approach means i'd have taken the women to my bed if they allowed me to if I met them in a club pub or any normal way one meets women.
The only thing different about this way of meeting woman is my sexuality my kink is out in the open so I don't have to behave vanilla in the bedroom like I would; f I met a woman in the normal way .
Plus I attract only women who like to play sexually as I do by using this medium to meet women. |
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"We are all on here looking for different things
People trying to claim some kind of moral high ground because they think what they are doing is the way it should be done is laughable. There is no right or wrong. There are no rules. Do what works for you.
this..
beauty is in the eye of the beholder etc, and we all have different likes and so do others..
in effect there are 'no standards' and no 'league' to aspire to..
its being with whom your with at whatever time and if that floats your boats then enjoy..
i care not what my neighbours will have for their dinner tonight, why would i..?
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Because my neighbours often invite me round for supper. So I do care about what they have to for dinner tonight. |
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"We are all on here looking for different things
People trying to claim some kind of moral high ground because they think what they are doing is the way it should be done is laughable. There is no right or wrong. There are no rules. Do what works for you.
this..
beauty is in the eye of the beholder etc, and we all have different likes and so do others..
in effect there are 'no standards' and no 'league' to aspire to..
its being with whom your with at whatever time and if that floats your boats then enjoy..
i care not what my neighbours will have for their dinner tonight, why would i..?
Because my neighbours often invite me round for supper. So I do care about what they have to for dinner tonight. "
keys in the bowl huh..? |
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"We are all on here looking for different things
People trying to claim some kind of moral high ground because they think what they are doing is the way it should be done is laughable. There is no right or wrong. There are no rules. Do what works for you.
this..
beauty is in the eye of the beholder etc, and we all have different likes and so do others..
in effect there are 'no standards' and no 'league' to aspire to..
its being with whom your with at whatever time and if that floats your boats then enjoy..
i care not what my neighbours will have for their dinner tonight, why would i..?
Because my neighbours often invite me round for supper. So I do care about what they have to for dinner tonight. "
We truly don't care what our neighbours will have for their dinner .
We are too busy having fun with like minded swingers  |
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"We are all on here looking for different things
People trying to claim some kind of moral high ground because they think what they are doing is the way it should be done is laughable. There is no right or wrong. There are no rules. Do what works for you.
this..
beauty is in the eye of the beholder etc, and we all have different likes and so do others..
in effect there are 'no standards' and no 'league' to aspire to..
its being with whom your with at whatever time and if that floats your boats then enjoy..
i care not what my neighbours will have for their dinner tonight, why would i..?
Because my neighbours often invite me round for supper. So I do care about what they have to for dinner tonight.
We truly don't care what our neighbours will have for their dinner .
We are too busy having fun with like minded swingers "
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"We are all on here looking for different things
People trying to claim some kind of moral high ground because they think what they are doing is the way it should be done is laughable. There is no right or wrong. There are no rules. Do what works for you.
this..
beauty is in the eye of the beholder etc, and we all have different likes and so do others..
in effect there are 'no standards' and no 'league' to aspire to..
its being with whom your with at whatever time and if that floats your boats then enjoy..
i care not what my neighbours will have for their dinner tonight, why would i..?
Because my neighbours often invite me round for supper. So I do care about what they have to for dinner tonight.
We truly don't care what our neighbours will have for their dinner .
We are too busy having fun with like minded swingers
you got it.. "
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"We are all on here looking for different things
People trying to claim some kind of moral high ground because they think what they are doing is the way it should be done is laughable. There is no right or wrong. There are no rules. Do what works for you.
this..
beauty is in the eye of the beholder etc, and we all have different likes and so do others..
in effect there are 'no standards' and no 'league' to aspire to..
its being with whom your with at whatever time and if that floats your boats then enjoy..
i care not what my neighbours will have for their dinner tonight, why would i..?
Because my neighbours often invite me round for supper. So I do care about what they have to for dinner tonight.
We truly don't care what our neighbours will have for their dinner .
We are too busy having fun with like minded swingers
you got it..
Well you're right of course but the two things aren't mutually exclusive are they? "
No they're not I guess .
It's not impossible to imagine that we may swing with our neighbours and have a meal first . And since I am vegetarian I would need to know what was on the menu .
In reality we wouldn't dream of having a meal or swinging with our neighbours though .
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