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Why do men have to lie??
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why is it men can't be honest? Met what I thought was an amazing guy on here that told me we were exclusive and I find out tonight I was he wasn't. Why not just say it how it is without the bullshit  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know! All these angelic, perfect, completely honest women and couples (at least the female portions) being ruined by the lying, dishonest, untrustworthy men.
I can't take it anymore! 
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I wasn't hoping for it, it's what he said he wanted, doesn't matter what kind of site it is honesty always counts.be truthful from the start.its not rocket science. |
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"Why is it men can't be honest? Met what I thought was an amazing guy on here that told me we were exclusive and I find out tonight I was he wasn't. Why not just say it how it is without the bullshit "
Aww sorry. Sounds like a real nightmare. Too many on here men and woman are like that though. Want their cake and to eat it so to speak. |
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"I wasn't hoping for it, it's what he said he wanted, doesn't matter what kind of site it is honesty always counts.be truthful from the start.its not rocket science."
Same thing happened to me. No idea why couldn't just say let's go back to meeting others. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'll be completely honest with anyone who contacts me.firstly wether they float my boat and secondly what kinky fuckery I'm in to. Why lie we are all here for the same thing. Thanks for all the nice messages xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wasn't hoping for it, it's what he said he wanted, doesn't matter what kind of site it is honesty always counts.be truthful from the start.its not rocket science."
They will say anything to get what they want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wasn't hoping for it, it's what he said he wanted, doesn't matter what kind of site it is honesty always counts.be truthful from the start.its not rocket science.
They will say anything to get what they want. "
 This is so true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haven't you heard of sweet nothings, men will tell you what you want to hear, once they bored of your pussy they leave for the next.
I just use them for their cock and move on...
Can someone give me an Amen up in here? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I just assume whatever a bloke says to me on here is because he wants the end result to be getting into my pants.
Not always, surely? Otherwise they might not never talk to you again. "
Most of them don't sweety. You're one of the exceptions. |
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"Lying isn't a gender specific trait.
Do the men you meet lie to you?  "
I think many of us have joined here intending to swing and then met someone special and then it can become lovely and simple or difficult and confused. Honesty is the only way though hard though that can sometimes be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Haven't you heard of sweet nothings, men will tell you what you want to hear, once they bored of your pussy they leave for the next.
I just use them for their cock and move on...
Can someone give me an Amen up in here?"
Me too. Wasted breath trying to sweet talk me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lying isn't a gender specific trait.
Do the men you meet lie to you?
I think many of us have joined here intending to swing and then met someone special and then it can become lovely and simple or difficult and confused. Honesty is the only way though hard though that can sometimes be."
Why is honesty so hard? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Welcome to fab s.w.i.n.g.e.r.s!!! 
No need for rolling eyes I'm new and probably not as experienced as you "
Probably not. I've been a right slut. 
You're old enough to understand what a swingers site is though and I'm sure you're not a virgin so you'll know men joining here aren't looking for commitment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it men can't be honest? Met what I thought was an amazing guy on here that told me we were exclusive and I find out tonight I was he wasn't. Why not just say it how it is without the bullshit "
(((HUG))) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it men can't be honest? Met what I thought was an amazing guy on here that told me we were exclusive and I find out tonight I was he wasn't. Why not just say it how it is without the bullshit "
Oh and you women are really honest, please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lying isn't a gender specific trait.
Do the men you meet lie to you?
Yeah. They say I'm beautiful. 
They may mean it "
Don't be silly. Is a 'get in her knickers' (find your own, fella) thing!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just assume whatever a bloke says to me on here is because he wants the end result to be getting into my pants.
I have my own.
Touche  "
I'm in a stupid mood tonight. I feel a forum ban coming on!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry to hear that OP, but I guess a casual sex site is not the place to expect exclusivity, or everyone to be what they claim they are.
Hopefully you're not too put off by the experience and can continue to enjoy the site |
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"Lying isn't a gender specific trait.
Do the men you meet lie to you?
Yeah. They say I'm beautiful.
They may mean it
Don't be silly. Is a 'get in her knickers' (find your own, fella) thing! "
I fabbed your arse pic once, what more do you want? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only men ?
To her probably. To me definitely,I don't meet women
I'm sure a 'why do women have to be naive?' thread would go down a treat too ..."
Try it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Welcome to fab s.w.i.n.g.e.r.s!!!
No need for rolling eyes I'm new and probably not as experienced as you
Probably not. I've been a right slut.
You're old enough to understand what a swingers site is though and I'm sure you're not a virgin so you'll know men joining here aren't looking for commitment. "
Ummmm excuse me for never having been "swinging" before but thanks for your kindness and support to a newbie |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lying isn't a gender specific trait.
Do the men you meet lie to you?
Yeah. They say I'm beautiful.
They may mean it
Don't be silly. Is a 'get in her knickers' (find your own, fella) thing!
I fabbed your arse pic once, what more do you want? "
Kiss my neck, work your way down my spine. Kiss around my hips before you fuck me in the arse?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only men ?
To her probably. To me definitely,I don't meet women
I'm sure a 'why do women have to be naive?' thread would go down a treat too ..."
Just to clarify. I'm not naive,nobody needs to lie to me,they still do. Believing the lies is another matter. I don't want exclusive sex,I've had men say they are being exclusive when they aren't. No idea why they feel the need to pretend when I told them I was meeting other men. I wasn't giving anyone up for an exclusive sexual relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Welcome to fab s.w.i.n.g.e.r.s!!!
No need for rolling eyes I'm new and probably not as experienced as you
Probably not. I've been a right slut.
You're old enough to understand what a swingers site is though and I'm sure you're not a virgin so you'll know men joining here aren't looking for commitment.
Ummmm excuse me for never having been "swinging" before but thanks for your kindness and support to a newbie "
I'm in a dumb ass mood. Working on a ban welcome to fab. Big hint: men lie to fuck us  bastards  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I met a woman on here who said on her profile she was 51- she confessed to be 61...
Not just men that lie young lady!
Did you shag her? "
How hurt were you about that? |
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"Lying isn't a gender specific trait.
Do the men you meet lie to you?
Yeah. They say I'm beautiful.
They may mean it
Don't be silly. Is a 'get in her knickers' (find your own, fella) thing!
I fabbed your arse pic once, what more do you want?
Kiss my neck, work your way down my spine. Kiss around my hips before you fuck me in the arse? "
On a Friday?!?! Harlot  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lying isn't a gender specific trait.
Do the men you meet lie to you?
Yeah. They say I'm beautiful.
They may mean it
Don't be silly. Is a 'get in her knickers' (find your own, fella) thing!
I fabbed your arse pic once, what more do you want?
Kiss my neck, work your way down my spine. Kiss around my hips before you fuck me in the arse?
On a Friday?!?! Harlot "
Yep! I'm now on red wine cooking fish n chips. Classy little slut me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sit down chick take a sip of my wine guess what people lie  they do it for personal gain and not forgetting protecting ones self and many many other reasons xx what did you learn ? Take what you can from it and move on sweet cause it's not just the men who lie pretty sure everyone has one time or another even just an ickle white lie xxx hugs now if your good shag might share his haribo cola bottles with ya |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it men can't be honest? Met what I thought was an amazing guy on here that told me we were exclusive and I find out tonight I was he wasn't. Why not just say it how it is without the bullshit "
lie the same as woman lies are not good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel for you, most men on here are married and inept or with someone who 'doesnt understand them' it's Bullshit!!"
My wife understands me...... I'm still waiting for her to explain it to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it men can't be honest? Met what I thought was an amazing guy on here that told me we were exclusive and I find out tonight I was he wasn't. Why not just say it how it is without the bullshit "
Sorry to hear that honey. Please don't let it put you off the site. There are plenty of good ones on here.......honest! Xx |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
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It's horrible to be deceived and I know how much that can hurts. But it baffles me when I read posts like this to see just how much hated and contempt there is for the males on this site - but you still want then for your GBs and that extra M in your MFM or for whatever.
Stop the hatred show the love, enjoy the site for what it is and accept that we're all human and we all have our good and bad points. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's horrible to be deceived and I know how much that can hurts. But it baffles me when I read posts like this to see just how much hated and contempt there is for the males on this site - but you still want then for your GBs and that extra M in your MFM or for whatever.
Stop the hatred show the love, enjoy the site for what it is and accept that we're all human and we all have our good and bad points. "
I see no hatred. If you're not one of the liars you have nothing to worry about |
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"I feel for you, most men on here are married and inept or with someone who 'doesnt understand them' it's Bullshit!!"
There's plenty of "single" ladies too who turn out to be married. It's not gender specific.
There's just a large ratio of men to women.
Sorry to hear you've been messed around though OP
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel for you, most men on here are married and inept or with someone who 'doesnt understand them' it's Bullshit!!
and reason they do is..?"
To get sex |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sit down chick take a sip of my wine guess what people lie they do it for personal gain and not forgetting protecting ones self and many many other reasons xx what did you learn ? Take what you can from it and move on sweet cause it's not just the men who lie pretty sure everyone has one time or another even just an ickle white lie xxx hugs now if your good shag might share his haribo cola bottles with ya "
Hahahaha thanks lovely |
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"I feel for you, most men on here are married and inept or with someone who 'doesnt understand them' it's Bullshit!!
and reason they do is..?
To get sex"
on the whole yes but its because the above is tolerated and believed by some women..
and its not just men who act in that way and its equally some men who are taken in by it..
Not having a pop at anyone as being duped is annoying, not welcome and hurts but ultimately its about being your own safeguard..
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"Welcome to fab s.w.i.n.g.e.r.s!!!
No need for rolling eyes I'm new and probably not as experienced as you "
You may be new to swinging but you are 41 years old!
You can't have got to this age without realising that people can, and do, lie to get what they want. And in this case what he wanted was sex.
Don't expect truth and honesty from complete strangers on the internet who want to fuck you.
This way lies madness |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel for you, most men on here are married and inept or with someone who 'doesnt understand them' it's Bullshit!!
and reason they do is..?
To get sex
on the whole yes but its because the above is tolerated and believed by some women..
and its not just men who act in that way and its equally some men who are taken in by it..
Not having a pop at anyone as being duped is annoying, not welcome and hurts but ultimately its about being your own safeguard..
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Should we assume that everyone lies to us? Where no strings is concerned there is no need to lie,unless you're trying to get something you couldn't have if you told the truth. |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
"It's horrible to be deceived and I know how much that can hurts. But it baffles me when I read posts like this to see just how much hated and contempt there is for the males on this site - but you still want then for your GBs and that extra M in your MFM or for whatever.
Stop the hatred show the love, enjoy the site for what it is and accept that we're all human and we all have our good and bad points.
I see no hatred. If you're not one of the liars you have nothing to worry about "
Well it may not be hatred but, having read many of these posts, it certainly doesn't feel like there's much affection for the single male on here.
What should the liars be worried about then anyway (other than burning in hell of course)? |
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"I feel for you, most men on here are married and inept or with someone who 'doesnt understand them' it's Bullshit!!
and reason they do is..?
To get sex
on the whole yes but its because the above is tolerated and believed by some women..
and its not just men who act in that way and its equally some men who are taken in by it..
Not having a pop at anyone as being duped is annoying, not welcome and hurts but ultimately its about being your own safeguard..
Should we assume that everyone lies to us? Where no strings is concerned there is no need to lie,unless you're trying to get something you couldn't have if you told the truth. "
not on the whole no because its not all who will act that way, recognising that some will and do and how to spot them comes with experience, maybe being cautious, gut instinct etc..
in an ideal world... |
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