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By *dam_Tina OP Couple
over a year ago
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So last night we had sex, which isn't particularly unusual, and as always we tend to make a bit of an evening of it. Occasionally I (Adam) don't cum and Tina thinks I must be disappointed and wants to suck me until I do but I'm really quite satisfied !
I said to her that the male and female orgasm are very different, certainly in my experience. She is multi orgasmic but for me the real fun is in the whole of the act and the cum is just a pop at the end of it. I described it as sex is like a film, and the cum is just the credits.
Do any of you have any opinions on this ? |
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"So last night we had sex, which isn't particularly unusual, and as always we tend to make a bit of an evening of it. Occasionally I (Adam) don't cum and Tina thinks I must be disappointed and wants to suck me until I do but I'm really quite satisfied !
I said to her that the male and female orgasm are very different, certainly in my experience. She is multi orgasmic but for me the real fun is in the whole of the act and the cum is just a pop at the end of it. I described it as sex is like a film, and the cum is just the credits.
Do any of you have any opinions on this ?"
I agree. The fun is in the whole of the act, the start, the middle and all the bits In between and the orgasm is the "cherry on top" |
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I've had times when I've not cum. But That.i usually because I've had a little too much to drink.
I find the woman I'm with at the time can take it personally. Or they pull out some special move that "always works". |
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Some days it's just not going to happen. I'm happy taking part cause it's all lovely but there comes a point when I know I'm never going to cum and to keep going is pointless. I wouldn't bother faking it. I'm happy to stop and not disappointed I didn't cum. I took part.  |
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Seeing it from her point of view.. She won't be satisfied until you've cum.
Had a bird who'd go mad at me for doing the same but then she explained the fact she won't be fully satisfied until I am.
How's you feel if you pulled off all your moves but your girl never cum? I'm sure you'd be questioning yourself and her about it. |
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You are, of course, right. In Eastern practice (e.g. Tantric, Taoist), as you are probably aware, ejaculation is avoided although orgasm often achieved, and multiple times. But in my experience women feel ejaculation is a validation of their attractiveness. |
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"Seeing it from her point of view.. She won't be satisfied until you've cum.
Had a bird who'd go mad at me for doing the same but then she explained the fact she won't be fully satisfied until I am.
How's you feel if you pulled off all your moves but your girl never cum? I'm sure you'd be questioning yourself and her about it. "
Iv had times where this has happened and the only thing that's worked is the rabbit ears and using it myself. It's nothing to do with guy, sometimes it just doesn't happen. |
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"Seeing it from her point of view.. She won't be satisfied until you've cum.
Had a bird who'd go mad at me for doing the same but then she explained the fact she won't be fully satisfied until I am.
How's you feel if you pulled off all your moves but your girl never cum? I'm sure you'd be questioning yourself and her about it.
Iv had times where this has happened and the only thing that's worked is the rabbit ears and using it myself. It's nothing to do with guy, sometimes it just doesn't happen."
Bet the guy was frustrated lol |
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"You are, of course, right. In Eastern practice (e.g. Tantric, Taoist), as you are probably aware, ejaculation is avoided although orgasm often achieved, and multiple times. But in my experience women feel ejaculation is a validation of their attractiveness."
What is this taoism which you speak 
I rarely ejaculate but I do orgasm multiple times
Many ladies cannot grasp that orgasm and squirt are different, and some seem intent on ignoring my desires striving hard to make me squirt  |
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Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. But I always enjoy myself!  I think some women are under the impression that a man cumming is a basic thing so if he doesn't, it might create a bit of insecurity.
Just explore and talk. I think that's the best thing.  |
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"Seeing it from her point of view.. She won't be satisfied until you've cum.
Had a bird who'd go mad at me for doing the same but then she explained the fact she won't be fully satisfied until I am.
How's you feel if you pulled off all your moves but your girl never cum? I'm sure you'd be questioning yourself and her about it.
Iv had times where this has happened and the only thing that's worked is the rabbit ears and using it myself. It's nothing to do with guy, sometimes it just doesn't happen.
Bet the guy was frustrated lol"
It didn't show if he was, he was happy watching  |
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"So last night we had sex, which isn't particularly unusual, and as always we tend to make a bit of an evening of it. Occasionally I (Adam) don't cum and Tina thinks I must be disappointed and wants to suck me until I do but I'm really quite satisfied !
I said to her that the male and female orgasm are very different, certainly in my experience. She is multi orgasmic but for me the real fun is in the whole of the act and the cum is just a pop at the end of it. I described it as sex is like a film, and the cum is just the credits.
Do any of you have any opinions on this ?"
I would not say just the credits, I love simultaneous orgasm too much for that!  |
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"So last night we had sex, which isn't particularly unusual, and as always we tend to make a bit of an evening of it. Occasionally I (Adam) don't cum and Tina thinks I must be disappointed and wants to suck me until I do but I'm really quite satisfied !
I said to her that the male and female orgasm are very different, certainly in my experience. She is multi orgasmic but for me the real fun is in the whole of the act and the cum is just a pop at the end of it. I described it as sex is like a film, and the cum is just the credits.
Do any of you have any opinions on this ?"
I agree that cumming doesn't necessarily mean enjoyment, however, I don't think cumming and orgasm are the same as I've had full body orgasms without cumming, and I'm a guy.or was last time I checked |
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I very rarely cum with a new meet, it's got nothing to do with the guy and doesn't mean I enjoy it any less, if anything I keep going longer, however in my experience guys see it as some kind of failure or that there's something wrong with me... There also seems to be a big stereo typical thing about women who squirt, that this is somehow a better orgasm.
Also the harder a guy tries, the less it's likely to happen. Get over the ego guys. |
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