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just recoverd from tesstcular cancer
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi i have just been cleared of testicular cancer had a operation and a testicle removed and left with quite a big scar abov my penis worried what people would think if i met up with them an do the deed an really nervous about meeting as feel part of my man hood has gne any advice or help?  |
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Hurrah! Congrats! That must be a massive relief!
I had a mate when I was younger who had a twisted testicle and he had to have one removed. When he was healed we gave the other a test run and it was grand.
It's easy to say that you shouldn't worry, like any scar/medical issue, it's visible to you but most people won't care so try not to worry too much.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This might sound weird but I love a good scar, don't freak out but it's a talking point and yours is a brilliant wonderful happy ending of a story, well done you, I don't know you but I'm well chuffed for you!!! |
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By *sla69Woman
over a year ago
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Being a cancer survivor myself and have the battle scars as well ... as people have said wear it with pride you are a survivor.look at is as a new start a new beginning i have never looked back 3 years now..doesn't change you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi i have just been cleared of testicular cancer had a operation and a testicle removed and left with quite a big scar abov my penis worried what people would think if i met up with them an do the deed an really nervous about meeting as feel part of my man hood has gne any advice or help? "
Firstly may I say I am very happy your have received the good news of being all clear.
Secondly as a previous poster has said, its a scar, its part of you and nothing to be worried about, but possibly something to be proud of in the future.
I have a c-section scar I don't particularly like the look of but no-one has ever been put off by it, and if they are, its their loss. I will always be grateful for my scar because I know why it is there and I hope you will feel the same about yours.
Again, my happy thoughts are with yoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Congratulations! Well done! Wear your scar with pride, lance Armstrong didn't win his first tour until after he'd survived testicular cancer so youre in good company... Oh hang on..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You could make up a story about how you were in SAS and you were ambushed on a night mission in the Kalamari dessert. Then,when she goes oooh really??  you can go nah,just kidding I had an operation |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You could make up a story about how you were in SAS and you were ambushed on a night mission in the Kalamari dessert. Then,when she goes oooh really?? you can go nah,just kidding I had an operation "
no he can just tell the truth and us woman will love him for that .  |
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Well done OP. Congratulations. Don't worry about the scar. Think of it as a battle scar and wear it with pride. A reminder of what you've fought through.
And don't worry, anyone worth knowing won't be bothered by the scar I'm sure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You could make up a story about how you were in SAS and you were ambushed on a night mission in the Kalamari dessert. Then,when she goes oooh really?? you can go nah,just kidding I had an operation "
The Kalamari ?
Was he attacked by a giant squid ? |
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"Firstly congrats on beating it , secondly be proud you beat it and have scares to prove it . Your one of the lucky ones , we survived ,my scars internal ..your external wear them well xx Red"
I 2nd this!! Mine was caught early & I was very lucky (will start a separate thread) Congratulations, I hope you've celebrated??? xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If ever there was a poster campaign to get people to check their balls. This is the perfect guy to be the face of it .
What do you think everyone ?
Mrs x
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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago
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"You could make up a story about how you were in SAS and you were ambushed on a night mission in the Kalamari dessert. Then,when she goes oooh really?? you can go nah,just kidding I had an operation
The Kalamari ?
Was he attacked by a giant squid ? "
haha its the Kalahari Desert |
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"Hi i have just been cleared of testicular cancer had a operation and a testicle removed and left with quite a big scar abov my penis worried what people would think if i met up with them an do the deed an really nervous about meeting as feel part of my man hood has gne any advice or help? "
Mention it when you first start talking. If they have an issue about it, they are not worth meeting.
I got the all clear back in 2004 from the same as you, brilliant feeling when you get the news. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And often can't even tell just one testicle
I thought it was just me that never noticed these things.... Ive had to have it pointed out to me before now  "
Yea same here I didn't notice one bit !! His mates liked to tell girls tho
Lol didn't make no difference to anything lol |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Hi i have just been cleared of testicular cancer had a operation and a testicle removed and left with quite a big scar abov my penis worried what people would think if i met up with them an do the deed an really nervous about meeting as feel part of my man hood has gne any advice or help? "
I have met some one who had undergone surgery for testicular cancer and both his testicles were removed. We were at a club and he only told me once we were in the 'hut' and, erm, got down to it
My only concern was that I might hurt him accidentally (not sure how). He told me not to worry so, I didn't. We had a great time
Checking for scars didn't even cross my mind
Great that you have recovered. I very much doubt that people think of checking scars and if they do, I wonder why they would |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well done mate, I've got a massive scar above mine . People find it fascinating and its a great icebreaker at events.
Remember scars are cool, besides you've survived a big battle anyone put off by it cant see the real you |
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"Hi i have just been cleared of testicular cancer had a operation and a testicle removed and left with quite a big scar abov my penis worried what people would think if i met up with them an do the deed an really nervous about meeting as feel part of my man hood has gne any advice or help? "
Great news and if you show me yours, I'll show you mine - I guarantee mines bigger, I had a new hip a year ago xx |
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Congratulations on reaching the end.
As for only having one and a scar, well I've met a few guys who only had one. One was born that way, a couple had had surgery for different reasons, a couple had had testicular cancer. One guy had even had a falsie fitted!
The scars fade to practically nothing and it becomes pretty unnoticeable. In fact a couple of them didn't mention anything and it took quite a while before I noticed! I must have been distracted by other things...
As someone who has whacking great big scars that are sometimes visible when I'm fully dressed my experience is that most people are too busy looking at you, the person, to notice the blemishes on the skin. |
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