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Anyone else ever suffer from Fab envy?
For example do you ever get envious of other's looks or the fact they are meeting all the time. Or maybe the fact that they are popular on the forums. Not jealousy just envy, there is a difference.
I know my self-confidence has taken a knock of late because I keep seeing all these fit guys and it seems to me that they are the ones that get all the attention from the ladies and more meets than us average guys. I must admit I am in envy of that. Probably daft but I can't be the only one who thinks like this. |
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"Anyone else ever suffer from Fab envy?
For example do you ever get envious of other's looks or the fact they are meeting all the time. Or maybe the fact that they are popular on the forums. Not jealousy just envy, there is a difference.
I know my self-confidence has taken a knock of late because I keep seeing all these fit guys and it seems to me that they are the ones that get all the attention from the ladies and more meets than us average guys. I must admit I am in envy of that. Probably daft but I can't be the only one who thinks like this."
bloody hell with that bod i wouldnt envy anybody Jayne x  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I do like seeing people on here do well, keep their feet on the ground and coming across as authentic.
Having been here for a while, I have seen them come and go and a few stand out for all the right reasons.
some not so.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly NO...
and if that body on your avatar is your body as it is now i suspect this thread is nothing more than attention seeking!...
You look great to me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's human nature to be envious.
All those threads about who we would love to fuck do make me envious. The same names always appear. I'm never going to be as young, slim or attractive as them.
Anyway, Howard, I never name you on them as to me you are worthy of more than just a quick fuck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have "fab" envy as such. I'm not envious of someone one having more meets than me or even who they are meeting. I get envious of someone's intelligence or natural beauty or the bond a couple has. This applies in real life too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Honestly NO...
and if that body on your avatar is your body as it is now i suspect this thread is nothing more than attention seeking!...
You look great to me!"
100% This.
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Envy? Probably the wrong word.
Inadequacy compared to some when it comes to physical attributes to succeed on a casual sex site.
And the odd thought of 'lucky bastard' when I see someone who has a string of gushing veris off stunning ladies.
But I know I have other attributes that make me stand out in other aspects of life so it's all relative  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not really...
Not everyone posts meets, and people are here for different things. Apart from the forums I have a very select group who I chat to and want to meet, and they are also people I would happily take out on a social or a meal as I make connections with them..  |
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Absolutely no..
envy is not a trait i think i have had since i was a child, its not one i think is good in this aspect..
there is always someone someone younger, better looking, etc etc but thats life..
be whom you are.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never envy, and I rarely appear in those threads too, Miss Innocent! I have to admit that I have felt jealous when someone I had fallen for met others. It's fleeting, and I would never make it someone else's problem as it's my rubbish to deal with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not at all Howard - though I can see it's harder for most guys on here!
Other than fellow forumites I'd happily meet I meet little from fab itself though! I tend to go to clubs and parties to socialise - and if I see someone I like I take it from there!
Fab/swinging helps create a perfect family/social/friendship/sex life balance for me! Love it! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't have "fab" envy as such. I'm not envious of someone one having more meets than me or even who they are meeting. I get envious of someone's intelligence or natural beauty or the bond a couple has. This applies in real life too. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Absolutely no..
envy is not a trait i think i have had since i was a child, its not one i think is good in this aspect..
there is always someone someone younger, better looking, etc etc but thats life..
be whom you are.."
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"Anyone else ever suffer from Fab envy?
For example do you ever get envious of other's looks or the fact they are meeting all the time. Or maybe the fact that they are popular on the forums. Not jealousy just envy, there is a difference.
I know my self-confidence has taken a knock of late because I keep seeing all these fit guys and it seems to me that they are the ones that get all the attention from the ladies and more meets than us average guys. I must admit I am in envy of that. Probably daft but I can't be the only one who thinks like this."
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over a year ago
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"Anyone else ever suffer from Fab envy?
For example do you ever get envious of other's looks or the fact they are meeting all the time. Or maybe the fact that they are popular on the forums. Not jealousy just envy, there is a difference.
I know my self-confidence has taken a knock of late because I keep seeing all these fit guys and it seems to me that they are the ones that get all the attention from the ladies and more meets than us average guys. I must admit I am in envy of that. Probably daft but I can't be the only one who thinks like this."
I've just properly clocked who the OP is! Howard, you always seem a really great bloke and you're always mentioned multiple times in pretty much any 'which forumer would you fuck / invite to dinner / go toad wrestling with' type threads and I see you as one of the most popular guys with the ladies on here!
You've definitely got nothing to worry about, the other guys should be the ones having the Fab envy of you! |
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over a year ago
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Nah,if folk are successful n happy on here then good on em I say.....unless they've got with a lass I'd love to meet myself.....then they're cunts!
(joking!)
I waste enough time here as it is so don't want to waste anymore by being envious of others.
Humans are mental...I think we'd be very surprised if we knew who was envious of us and for what reason! |
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"Anyone else ever suffer from Fab envy?
For example do you ever get envious of other's looks or the fact they are meeting all the time. Or maybe the fact that they are popular on the forums. Not jealousy just envy, there is a difference.
I know my self-confidence has taken a knock of late because I keep seeing all these fit guys and it seems to me that they are the ones that get all the attention from the ladies and more meets than us average guys. I must admit I am in envy of that. Probably daft but I can't be the only one who thinks like this.
I've just properly clocked who the OP is! Howard, you always seem a really great bloke and you're always mentioned multiple times in pretty much any 'which forumer would you fuck / invite to dinner / go toad wrestling with' type threads and I see you as one of the most popular guys with the ladies on here!
You've definitely got nothing to worry about, the other guys should be the ones having the Fab envy of you! "
Ha! Well thank you. And thank you everyone for there kind words. This wasn't another 'look at me' thread. It was a genuine question. I have been having problems with self-confidence and self-esteem of late. And I can get envious of other guys with their sixpacks and veri's as long as your arm. And even of women and couples who can get meets really easily. I suppose the key is to not let these things get to me as much, as it seems quite a few of us have these issues from time to time. |
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"Anyone else ever suffer from Fab envy?
For example do you ever get envious of other's looks or the fact they are meeting all the time. Or maybe the fact that they are popular on the forums. Not jealousy just envy, there is a difference.
I know my self-confidence has taken a knock of late because I keep seeing all these fit guys and it seems to me that they are the ones that get all the attention from the ladies and more meets than us average guys. I must admit I am in envy of that. Probably daft but I can't be the only one who thinks like this.
I've just properly clocked who the OP is! Howard, you always seem a really great bloke and you're always mentioned multiple times in pretty much any 'which forumer would you fuck / invite to dinner / go toad wrestling with' type threads and I see you as one of the most popular guys with the ladies on here!
You've definitely got nothing to worry about, the other guys should be the ones having the Fab envy of you!
Ha! Well thank you. And thank you everyone for there kind words. This wasn't another 'look at me' thread. It was a genuine question. I have been having problems with self-confidence and self-esteem of late. And I can get envious of other guys with their sixpacks and veri's as long as your arm. And even of women and couples who can get meets really easily. I suppose the key is to not let these things get to me as much, as it seems quite a few of us have these issues from time to time."
So you think that those who have verifications as long as their arm don't have self confidence or self esteem issues? I remember when I was really rock bottom with my self confidence and self esteem I craved the attention of the opposite sex and clinged onto that attention. I'm not saying that everyone is like that but sometimes you don't know what lies beneath the cracks of other human beings. |
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"I have been having problems with self-confidence and self-esteem of late. I suppose the key is to not let these things get to me as much, as it seems quite a few of us have these issues from time to time."
I've just come out a couple of weeks of feeling like this... |
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I have never been slim or gorgeous or someone all the guys chase after so that mind set has followed me on here and stood me in good stead I recon, so no I'm not envious and why would I be, of course most of the guys/girls at the top of their game will get lots of attention, that's the way the world works |
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"Ha! Well thank you. And thank you everyone for there kind words. This wasn't another 'look at me' thread. It was a genuine question. I have been having problems with self-confidence and self-esteem of late. And I can get envious of other guys with their sixpacks and veri's as long as your arm. And even of women and couples who can get meets really easily. I suppose the key is to not let these things get to me as much, as it seems quite a few of us have these issues from time to time."
Guess what? We've been blocked after sending a message/face pic. We've been let down countless times, with people saying they will meet, then not turning up. 60% of our veris are socials. We've had awkward meets (sometimes even awkward because of Marc and me, not the other person/people).
Even if you think there is someone to be envious of, chances are you're wrong. You seem like a great person. Who gives a crap about anyone else?
-Courtney |
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"Anyone else ever suffer from Fab envy?
For example do you ever get envious of other's looks or the fact they are meeting all the time. Or maybe the fact that they are popular on the forums. Not jealousy just envy, there is a difference.
I know my self-confidence has taken a knock of late because I keep seeing all these fit guys and it seems to me that they are the ones that get all the attention from the ladies and more meets than us average guys. I must admit I am in envy of that. Probably daft but I can't be the only one who thinks like this.
I've just properly clocked who the OP is! Howard, you always seem a really great bloke and you're always mentioned multiple times in pretty much any 'which forumer would you fuck / invite to dinner / go toad wrestling with' type threads and I see you as one of the most popular guys with the ladies on here!
You've definitely got nothing to worry about, the other guys should be the ones having the Fab envy of you!
Ha! Well thank you. And thank you everyone for there kind words. This wasn't another 'look at me' thread. It was a genuine question. I have been having problems with self-confidence and self-esteem of late. And I can get envious of other guys with their sixpacks and veri's as long as your arm. And even of women and couples who can get meets really easily. I suppose the key is to not let these things get to me as much, as it seems quite a few of us have these issues from time to time.
So you think that those who have verifications as long as their arm don't have self confidence or self esteem issues? I remember when I was really rock bottom with my self confidence and self esteem I craved the attention of the opposite sex and clinged onto that attention. I'm not saying that everyone is like that but sometimes you don't know what lies beneath the cracks of other human beings. "
Very true. None of us know what is running through other peoples brains. What we see on the outside is probably rarely mirrored with what's going on on the inside. We are all just masked and anonymous in many ways. |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"Anyone else ever suffer from Fab envy?
For example do you ever get envious of other's looks or the fact they are meeting all the time. Or maybe the fact that they are popular on the forums. Not jealousy just envy, there is a difference.
I know my self-confidence has taken a knock of late because I keep seeing all these fit guys and it seems to me that they are the ones that get all the attention from the ladies and more meets than us average guys. I must admit I am in envy of that. Probably daft but I can't be the only one who thinks like this."
I don't get it OP are you saying your using meets to boost your ego and self esteem .so there fore if you see another guy getting more meets than you your self esteem is taking a hit so you feel envious ...?
If so in my opinion your looking for self worth in the wrong place and using the wrong thing to judge it by.
Maybe a brake is in order because no matter how many meets you get someone out there will always be getting more so being here is only fueling your self esteem and self worth issues if that is what your saying in this post
Or maybe I'm miss reading what your trying to say..
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"Anyone else ever suffer from Fab envy?
For example do you ever get envious of other's looks or the fact they are meeting all the time. Or maybe the fact that they are popular on the forums. Not jealousy just envy, there is a difference.
I know my self-confidence has taken a knock of late because I keep seeing all these fit guys and it seems to me that they are the ones that get all the attention from the ladies and more meets than us average guys. I must admit I am in envy of that. Probably daft but I can't be the only one who thinks like this.
I've just properly clocked who the OP is! Howard, you always seem a really great bloke and you're always mentioned multiple times in pretty much any 'which forumer would you fuck / invite to dinner / go toad wrestling with' type threads and I see you as one of the most popular guys with the ladies on here!
You've definitely got nothing to worry about, the other guys should be the ones having the Fab envy of you!
Ha! Well thank you. And thank you everyone for there kind words. This wasn't another 'look at me' thread. It was a genuine question. I have been having problems with self-confidence and self-esteem of late. And I can get envious of other guys with their sixpacks and veri's as long as your arm. And even of women and couples who can get meets really easily. I suppose the key is to not let these things get to me as much, as it seems quite a few of us have these issues from time to time.
So you think that those who have verifications as long as their arm don't have self confidence or self esteem issues? I remember when I was really rock bottom with my self confidence and self esteem I craved the attention of the opposite sex and clinged onto that attention. I'm not saying that everyone is like that but sometimes you don't know what lies beneath the cracks of other human beings.
Very true. None of us know what is running through other peoples brains. What we see on the outside is probably rarely mirrored with what's going on on the inside. We are all just masked and anonymous in many ways."
Sometimes the most damaged souls are masked with a smile...it will take time to get your self confidence and esteem for me it was a healthy relationship...(I had really destructive crap relationships) that helped me get through some pretty shit issues...don't get me wrong I still get prangs of self doubt...am I too fat for anyone to love me etc but I have tools to get through that and learn to laugh at myself...you seem like a lovely person...focus on all your plus points and not on the negative you will soon learn that your negative points are minor imperfections and not major ones.. |
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"Anyone else ever suffer from Fab envy?
For example do you ever get envious of other's looks or the fact they are meeting all the time. Or maybe the fact that they are popular on the forums. Not jealousy just envy, there is a difference.
I know my self-confidence has taken a knock of late because I keep seeing all these fit guys and it seems to me that they are the ones that get all the attention from the ladies and more meets than us average guys. I must admit I am in envy of that. Probably daft but I can't be the only one who thinks like this.
I don't get it OP are you saying your using meets to boost your ego and self esteem .so there fore if you see another guy getting more meets than you your self esteem is taking a hit so you feel envious ...?
If so in my opinion your looking for self worth in the wrong place and using the wrong thing to judge it by.
Maybe a brake is in order because no matter how many meets you get someone out there will always be getting more so being here is only fueling your self esteem and self worth issues if that is what your saying in this post
Or maybe I'm miss reading what your trying to say..
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The whole reason for this thread was nothing to do with me whatsoever. I was simply asking the question. Do others ever get envious of other people on Fab? That was the question. No more no less. I was just curious to know what others felt. |
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"Anyone else ever suffer from Fab envy?
For example do you ever get envious of other's looks or the fact they are meeting all the time. Or maybe the fact that they are popular on the forums. Not jealousy just envy, there is a difference.
I know my self-confidence has taken a knock of late because I keep seeing all these fit guys and it seems to me that they are the ones that get all the attention from the ladies and more meets than us average guys. I must admit I am in envy of that. Probably daft but I can't be the only one who thinks like this.
I don't get it OP are you saying your using meets to boost your ego and self esteem .so there fore if you see another guy getting more meets than you your self esteem is taking a hit so you feel envious ...?
If so in my opinion your looking for self worth in the wrong place and using the wrong thing to judge it by.
Maybe a brake is in order because no matter how many meets you get someone out there will always be getting more so being here is only fueling your self esteem and self worth issues if that is what your saying in this post
Or maybe I'm miss reading what your trying to say..
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He definitely isn't using meets for that. He would meet for all the right reasons not the wrong ones. |
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"Anyone else ever suffer from Fab envy?
For example do you ever get envious of other's looks or the fact they are meeting all the time. Or maybe the fact that they are popular on the forums. Not jealousy just envy, there is a difference.
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God no, this is fabs Howi not real life!! Most of what goes on, on the forums particularly, is grandstanding, 'chasing the dragon' - trying to boost bottomless ego pits or low self-esteem with ever more extreme sex and shallow admiration. There are some gorgeous bodies housing tormented souls - I would hate to be in their shoes.
You are intelligent, thoughtful, fit as fuck, and have fabulous socks!! 
I am sure if you were meeting you could meet as much as you wanted and have no need to envy anyone.  |
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"Ha! Well thank you. And thank you everyone for there kind words. This wasn't another 'look at me' thread. It was a genuine question. I have been having problems with self-confidence and self-esteem of late. And I can get envious of other guys with their sixpacks and veri's as long as your arm. And even of women and couples who can get meets really easily. I suppose the key is to not let these things get to me as much, as it seems quite a few of us have these issues from time to time.
Guess what? We've been blocked after sending a message/face pic. We've been let down countless times, with people saying they will meet, then not turning up. 60% of our veris are socials. We've had awkward meets (sometimes even awkward because of Marc and me, not the other person/people).
Even if you think there is someone to be envious of, chances are you're wrong. You seem like a great person. Who gives a crap about anyone else?
-Courtney "
He is one of the few gems on this site |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"No ...i only get envious of people having fabulously exotic holidays "
I won't tell you where me and BlondeCaz have just booked for our 50th then 
I'll fess up to pangs of envy when I see people have been to parties or events I couldn't get to. Its nothing to do with them, more to do with me not being organised, or being too busy, But I d get a pang, whatever the reason. |
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I guess I'm envious of couples, especially those where the man really loves watching his partner being fucked by other guys. I do have a lot of fun as a single woman but am really looking for something that is both meaningful and fun. Was looking at all the couples booking for Swingfields next year and wished I was one of them...  |
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"No ...i only get envious of people having fabulously exotic holidays
I won't tell you where me and BlondeCaz have just booked for our 50th then
I'll fess up to pangs of envy when I see people have been to parties or events I couldn't get to. Its nothing to do with them, more to do with me not being organised, or being too busy, But I d get a pang, whatever the reason."
I'm going home for mine ..i cant wait |
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"Anyone else ever suffer from Fab envy?
For example do you ever get envious of other's looks or the fact they are meeting all the time. Or maybe the fact that they are popular on the forums. Not jealousy just envy, there is a difference.
God no, this is fabs Howi not real life!! Most of what goes on, on the forums particularly, is grandstanding, 'chasing the dragon' - trying to boost bottomless ego pits or low self-esteem with ever more extreme sex and shallow admiration. There are some gorgeous bodies housing tormented souls - I would hate to be in their shoes.
You are intelligent, thoughtful, fit as fuck, and have fabulous socks!!
I am sure if you were meeting you could meet as much as you wanted and have no need to envy anyone. "
Thanks Frisky you're very kind. I'll let the socks know what you think of them!
I really was just asking a general question though. This thread wasn't supposed to be about me. Just do people ever feel envious of others on Fab? |
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"Ha! Well thank you. And thank you everyone for there kind words. This wasn't another 'look at me' thread. It was a genuine question. I have been having problems with self-confidence and self-esteem of late. And I can get envious of other guys with their sixpacks and veri's as long as your arm. And even of women and couples who can get meets really easily. I suppose the key is to not let these things get to me as much, as it seems quite a few of us have these issues from time to time.
Guess what? We've been blocked after sending a message/face pic. We've been let down countless times, with people saying they will meet, then not turning up. 60% of our veris are socials. We've had awkward meets (sometimes even awkward because of Marc and me, not the other person/people).
Even if you think there is someone to be envious of, chances are you're wrong. You seem like a great person. Who gives a crap about anyone else?
-Courtney "
I'm sure you're right Courtney. It's one thing being envious but the reality of the person or thing you're being envious towards may not be all that anyway. I guess if we're really that bothered then we just need to work a little harder to achieve what we're really after and not worry about what others may or may not be doing. Which is generally what I like to do. I generally don't care what others do but that can't stop the odd bit of envy creeping in. We are only human after all. |
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"Envious of couples and how loved up they all seem to be.
Makes me aware of how alone & lonely I am."
I would say that's the number one thing I think of too. You're definitely not alone there. That's a perfectly natural thing to think. Even the little things that couples do I get envious of. Even though in reality they could be envious of you as a single! |
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"Honestly NO...
and if that body on your avatar is your body as it is now i suspect this thread is nothing more than attention seeking!...
You look great to me!"
No for me and agree about the body |
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"Anyone else ever suffer from Fab envy?
For example do you ever get envious of other's looks or the fact they are meeting all the time. Or maybe the fact that they are popular on the forums. Not jealousy just envy, there is a difference.
God no, this is fabs Howi not real life!! Most of what goes on, on the forums particularly, is grandstanding, 'chasing the dragon' - trying to boost bottomless ego pits or low self-esteem with ever more extreme sex and shallow admiration. There are some gorgeous bodies housing tormented souls - I would hate to be in their shoes.
You are intelligent, thoughtful, fit as fuck, and have fabulous socks!!
I am sure if you were meeting you could meet as much as you wanted and have no need to envy anyone.
Thanks Frisky you're very kind. I'll let the socks know what you think of them!
I really was just asking a general question though. This thread wasn't supposed to be about me. Just do people ever feel envious of others on Fab?"
Oh Ok, lol! To be truthful the people I envy are the ones who skip off here into the sunset and never need to look back. |
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One thing to remember is that even for the most honest on here, it is still an illusion or fantasy and not reality. Nobody really shares their whole life on here, fab is simply one facet that we choose to share on the forums etc. Yes there are meets and friendships formed etc but at the root of it we do not know what else is going on in that persons life so why be jealous? |
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"I went to check out the OP's profile, saw a nice pic to fab and found I'd already fabbed it
Your profile says you are not meeting, that might be why some people are having more fun than you "
Thanks for the fabs.
I'm not meeting at the minute for various personal reasons. I'm just hanging around the forums for now. But this thread isn't about me!! I was just asking a general question that is all. |
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"Envious of couples and how loved up they all seem to be.
Makes me aware of how alone & lonely I am."
Ooo hugs you......... Stands on your box to hug you. X |
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"One thing to remember is that even for the most honest on here, it is still an illusion or fantasy and not reality. Nobody really shares their whole life on here, fab is simply one facet that we choose to share on the forums etc. Yes there are meets and friendships formed etc but at the root of it we do not know what else is going on in that persons life so why be jealous?"
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"Envious of couples and how loved up they all seem to be.
Makes me aware of how alone & lonely I am.
Ooo hugs you......... Stands on your box to hug you. X"
Thanks xx |
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"One thing to remember is that even for the most honest on here, it is still an illusion or fantasy and not reality. Nobody really shares their whole life on here, fab is simply one facet that we choose to share on the forums etc. Yes there are meets and friendships formed etc but at the root of it we do not know what else is going on in that persons life so why be jealous?
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Not jealous but envious. There's a difference. I'd certainly never be jealous or even envious of someones life outside of Fab, because you just don't know what's going on in their real life. A lot of what people put forward on here is bullshit. A real small part of their lives. I would never worry about that. I take all that with a pinch of salt.
As I stated in my original post. I personally might feel envious of someones looks or something like that. I've got enough going on in my own life to get jealous or envious of anything deeper than that. |
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Not jealous or envious really. I sometimes look at some and think wow I wish I had a body like that or photos like those. However that's just part of human nature and I do that away from fab too.
It's nice people do well for themselves on here.
There are some really nice pepole around. I love when you can see confidence growing in them x |
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over a year ago
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"One thing to remember is that even for the most honest on here, it is still an illusion or fantasy and not reality. Nobody really shares their whole life on here, fab is simply one facet that we choose to share on the forums etc. Yes there are meets and friendships formed etc but at the root of it we do not know what else is going on in that persons life so why be jealous?
Not jealous but envious. There's a difference. I'd certainly never be jealous or even envious of someones life outside of Fab, because you just don't know what's going on in their real life. A lot of what people put forward on here is bullshit. A real small part of their lives. I would never worry about that. I take all that with a pinch of salt.
As I stated in my original post. I personally might feel envious of someones looks or something like that. I've got enough going on in my own life to get jealous or envious of anything deeper than that."
I know, its all a state of perception mate, but for what its worth I reckon you are a good looking fella, and with a bang on personality to boot. (Fist bumps and maybe a man hug before you get the first round in haha).
I have been in a shit place too. It does get better. There are some good people on here, and there is a lot of good feelings towards you (slightly off topic for your original post but hey ho)
If all else fails, watch some jezza...then you realise that your life will never be THAT bad |
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"One thing to remember is that even for the most honest on here, it is still an illusion or fantasy and not reality. Nobody really shares their whole life on here, fab is simply one facet that we choose to share on the forums etc. Yes there are meets and friendships formed etc but at the root of it we do not know what else is going on in that persons life so why be jealous?
Not jealous but envious. There's a difference. I'd certainly never be jealous or even envious of someones life outside of Fab, because you just don't know what's going on in their real life. A lot of what people put forward on here is bullshit. A real small part of their lives. I would never worry about that. I take all that with a pinch of salt.
As I stated in my original post. I personally might feel envious of someones looks or something like that. I've got enough going on in my own life to get jealous or envious of anything deeper than that.
I know, its all a state of perception mate, but for what its worth I reckon you are a good looking fella, and with a bang on personality to boot. (Fist bumps and maybe a man hug before you get the first round in haha).
I have been in a shit place too. It does get better. There are some good people on here, and there is a lot of good feelings towards you (slightly off topic for your original post but hey ho)
If all else fails, watch some jezza...then you realise that your life will never be THAT bad "
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"Op... I envy those socks!!! NOT
I envy that arse though 
You WANT the socks. Admit it!! You will be wearing them one day!!
Yes I know! In your dreams
In OUR dreams! "
Iv been having some dreams lately and not nice ones! I hope your socks are t involved if I have another tonight!  |
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"One thing to remember is that even for the most honest on here, it is still an illusion or fantasy and not reality. Nobody really shares their whole life on here, fab is simply one facet that we choose to share on the forums etc. Yes there are meets and friendships formed etc but at the root of it we do not know what else is going on in that persons life so why be jealous?
Not jealous but envious. There's a difference. I'd certainly never be jealous or even envious of someones life outside of Fab, because you just don't know what's going on in their real life. A lot of what people put forward on here is bullshit. A real small part of their lives. I would never worry about that. I take all that with a pinch of salt.
As I stated in my original post. I personally might feel envious of someones looks or something like that. I've got enough going on in my own life to get jealous or envious of anything deeper than that.
I know, its all a state of perception mate, but for what its worth I reckon you are a good looking fella, and with a bang on personality to boot. (Fist bumps and maybe a man hug before you get the first round in haha).
I have been in a shit place too. It does get better. There are some good people on here, and there is a lot of good feelings towards you (slightly off topic for your original post but hey ho)
If all else fails, watch some jezza...then you realise that your life will never be THAT bad "
Thanks mate. Very much appreciated. My life is ok though! It's all looking up. I feel very good about things. The only bad thing in my life at the minute is this thread turning into a look at me thread! The original question was quite general and straightforward. It was nothing to do with me at all though!
Is this the first time ever someone's produced a look at me thread and they didn't even want it! |
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"One thing to remember is that even for the most honest on here, it is still an illusion or fantasy and not reality. Nobody really shares their whole life on here, fab is simply one facet that we choose to share on the forums etc. Yes there are meets and friendships formed etc but at the root of it we do not know what else is going on in that persons life so why be jealous?
Not jealous but envious. There's a difference. I'd certainly never be jealous or even envious of someones life outside of Fab, because you just don't know what's going on in their real life. A lot of what people put forward on here is bullshit. A real small part of their lives. I would never worry about that. I take all that with a pinch of salt.
As I stated in my original post. I personally might feel envious of someones looks or something like that. I've got enough going on in my own life to get jealous or envious of anything deeper than that.
I know, its all a state of perception mate, but for what its worth I reckon you are a good looking fella, and with a bang on personality to boot. (Fist bumps and maybe a man hug before you get the first round in haha).
I have been in a shit place too. It does get better. There are some good people on here, and there is a lot of good feelings towards you (slightly off topic for your original post but hey ho)
If all else fails, watch some jezza...then you realise that your life will never be THAT bad
Thanks mate. Very much appreciated. My life is ok though! It's all looking up. I feel very good about things. The only bad thing in my life at the minute is this thread turning into a look at me thread! The original question was quite general and straightforward. It was nothing to do with me at all though!
Is this the first time ever someone's produced a look at me thread and they didn't even want it!"
Only subconsciously haha |
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Not envy, because I don't really want to splash who or how often I'm meeting all over the place. I might feel envious of someone's body or something, but no more so than I would of a magazine or whatever. I never get mentioned on the threads people are talking about but I'm quite happy with that as I'd rather one or two messages from someone I like or I might actually meet than a million comments from people I never will. Same applies to fab.
It's not good in life to compare, that way madness lies. |
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over a year ago
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Feel the (I guess) opposite if someone is getting meets all the time... I know it's a swingers site, but meeting a different person all the time is a massive turn off for me!
Shouldn't get envious of people on looks, be happy in yourself and be accepted for that. Those that don't like that or prefer the "fit muscular" type can just carry on past your profile. Simple as that |
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over a year ago
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"One thing to remember is that even for the most honest on here, it is still an illusion or fantasy and not reality. Nobody really shares their whole life on here, fab is simply one facet that we choose to share on the forums etc. Yes there are meets and friendships formed etc but at the root of it we do not know what else is going on in that persons life so why be jealous?
Not jealous but envious. There's a difference. I'd certainly never be jealous or even envious of someones life outside of Fab, because you just don't know what's going on in their real life. A lot of what people put forward on here is bullshit. A real small part of their lives. I would never worry about that. I take all that with a pinch of salt.
As I stated in my original post. I personally might feel envious of someones looks or something like that. I've got enough going on in my own life to get jealous or envious of anything deeper than that.
I know, its all a state of perception mate, but for what its worth I reckon you are a good looking fella, and with a bang on personality to boot. (Fist bumps and maybe a man hug before you get the first round in haha).
I have been in a shit place too. It does get better. There are some good people on here, and there is a lot of good feelings towards you (slightly off topic for your original post but hey ho)
If all else fails, watch some jezza...then you realise that your life will never be THAT bad
Thanks mate. Very much appreciated. My life is ok though! It's all looking up. I feel very good about things. The only bad thing in my life at the minute is this thread turning into a look at me thread! The original question was quite general and straightforward. It was nothing to do with me at all though!
Is this the first time ever someone's produced a look at me thread and they didn't even want it!"
If any one could do it, you could
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"Not envy, because I don't really want to splash who or how often I'm meeting all over the place. I might feel envious of someone's body or something, but no more so than I would of a magazine or whatever. I never get mentioned on the threads people are talking about but I'm quite happy with that as I'd rather one or two messages from someone I like or I might actually meet than a million comments from people I never will. Same applies to fab.
It's not good in life to compare, that way madness lies."
That is pretty much the same with me! Just every now and then I may get envious of another guys body or something like that. I wouldn't get envious of anything much deeper than that though. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Anyone else ever suffer from Fab envy?
For example do you ever get envious of other's looks or the fact they are meeting all the time. Or maybe the fact that they are popular on the forums. Not jealousy just envy, there is a difference.
I know my self-confidence has taken a knock of late because I keep seeing all these fit guys and it seems to me that they are the ones that get all the attention from the ladies and more meets than us average guys. I must admit I am in envy of that. Probably daft but I can't be the only one who thinks like this."
Can't see why you need to be envious. I would have liked to meet you had you not lived so far away. And your socks are very interesting . |
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"Never envy, and I rarely appear in those threads too, Miss Innocent! I have to admit that I have felt jealous when someone I had fallen for met others. It's fleeting, and I would never make it someone else's problem as it's my rubbish to deal with."
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"One thing to remember is that even for the most honest on here, it is still an illusion or fantasy and not reality. Nobody really shares their whole life on here, fab is simply one facet that we choose to share on the forums etc. Yes there are meets and friendships formed etc but at the root of it we do not know what else is going on in that persons life so why be jealous?
Not jealous but envious. There's a difference. I'd certainly never be jealous or even envious of someones life outside of Fab, because you just don't know what's going on in their real life. A lot of what people put forward on here is bullshit. A real small part of their lives. I would never worry about that. I take all that with a pinch of salt.
As I stated in my original post. I personally might feel envious of someones looks or something like that. I've got enough going on in my own life to get jealous or envious of anything deeper than that.
I know, its all a state of perception mate, but for what its worth I reckon you are a good looking fella, and with a bang on personality to boot. (Fist bumps and maybe a man hug before you get the first round in haha).
I have been in a shit place too. It does get better. There are some good people on here, and there is a lot of good feelings towards you (slightly off topic for your original post but hey ho)
If all else fails, watch some jezza...then you realise that your life will never be THAT bad
Thanks mate. Very much appreciated. My life is ok though! It's all looking up. I feel very good about things. The only bad thing in my life at the minute is this thread turning into a look at me thread! The original question was quite general and straightforward. It was nothing to do with me at all though!
Is this the first time ever someone's produced a look at me thread and they didn't even want it!
If any one could do it, you could
Sex bomb!! "
This could be a genuine Fab first! This is why I don't start too many threads as they always end up turning a bit weird |
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"On here, no.
Though in clubs I'm vastly ignored over slim prettier girls which made me a little miffef but soon realised, if they're that vacuous, not worth my time in the first place."
Why are they vacuous? |
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"Anyone else ever suffer from Fab envy?
For example do you ever get envious of other's looks or the fact they are meeting all the time. Or maybe the fact that they are popular on the forums. Not jealousy just envy, there is a difference.
I know my self-confidence has taken a knock of late because I keep seeing all these fit guys and it seems to me that they are the ones that get all the attention from the ladies and more meets than us average guys. I must admit I am in envy of that. Probably daft but I can't be the only one who thinks like this.
Can't see why you need to be envious. I would have liked to meet you had you not lived so far away. And your socks are very interesting . "
My socks are very interesting, that is true! |
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"Anyone else ever suffer from Fab envy?
For example do you ever get envious of other's looks or the fact they are meeting all the time. Or maybe the fact that they are popular on the forums. Not jealousy just envy, there is a difference.
I know my self-confidence has taken a knock of late because I keep seeing all these fit guys and it seems to me that they are the ones that get all the attention from the ladies and more meets than us average guys. I must admit I am in envy of that. Probably daft but I can't be the only one who thinks like this.
Can't see why you need to be envious. I would have liked to meet you had you not lived so far away. And your socks are very interesting .
My socks are very interesting, that is true! "
Your socks are wonderful |
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By *rc83Man
over a year ago
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"I don't have "fab" envy as such. I'm not envious of someone one having more meets than me or even who they are meeting. I get envious of someone's intelligence or natural beauty or the bond a couple has. This applies in real life too. "
Agree with you on this one |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"It's all just pixels in all fairness :p
Some pixels are just more popular than others."
but there always will be. Honestly never let it bother you so. I have never had any interest in the 'vote the most popular' and if my name ever gets mentioned, I will never acknowledge it as I want to distant myself from them as much as possible.
in the old days of the chat room, it was a competition of who got the most hi's and bye's when entering the rooms and it became truly laughable the hissy fits people had if they felt ignored. The forums are no different...
you come across as an authentic women and authenticity to me is worth 100000 fabs |
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"It's all just pixels in all fairness :p
Some pixels are just more popular than others.
but there always will be. Honestly never let it bother you so. I have never had any interest in the 'vote the most popular' and if my name ever gets mentioned, I will never acknowledge it as I want to distant myself from them as much as possible.
in the old days of the chat room, it was a competition of who got the most hi's and bye's when entering the rooms and it became truly laughable the hissy fits people had if they felt ignored. The forums are no different...
you come across as an authentic women and authenticity to me is worth 100000 fabs"
Thank you. That means a hell of a lot more than any fabs, especially coming from you as I really admire you. |
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"It's all just pixels in all fairness :p
Some pixels are just more popular than others.
but there always will be. Honestly never let it bother you so. I have never had any interest in the 'vote the most popular' and if my name ever gets mentioned, I will never acknowledge it as I want to distant myself from them as much as possible.
in the old days of the chat room, it was a competition of who got the most hi's and bye's when entering the rooms and it became truly laughable the hissy fits people had if they felt ignored. The forums are no different...
you come across as an authentic women and authenticity to me is worth 100000 fabs"
I get what you mean, I'm not exactly all about popularity contests etc either but sometimes I have days on here where I like to come into these threads and fab a few pictures because I like what I see...
nothing wrong with that now is there? |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"It's all just pixels in all fairness :p
Some pixels are just more popular than others.
but there always will be. Honestly never let it bother you so. I have never had any interest in the 'vote the most popular' and if my name ever gets mentioned, I will never acknowledge it as I want to distant myself from them as much as possible.
in the old days of the chat room, it was a competition of who got the most hi's and bye's when entering the rooms and it became truly laughable the hissy fits people had if they felt ignored. The forums are no different...
you come across as an authentic women and authenticity to me is worth 100000 fabs
Thank you. That means a hell of a lot more than any fabs, especially coming from you as I really admire you."
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nothing wrong with that now is there?
I don't believe I said there was. Fab away "
wow....erm read you're profile _iew that is a rather long list of things you don't do, has you're list always been like that or did it gradually become like that over time for certain reasons?
I'm just wondering.. |
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No not at all...we all have our preferences thank god and we are all different. I don't give a shit if someone's popular ...meeting loads and the rest I am HERE FOR ME...so I'm enjoying what I want. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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nothing wrong with that now is there?
I don't believe I said there was. Fab away
wow....erm read you're profile _iew that is a rather long list of things you don't do, has you're list always been like that or did it gradually become like that over time for certain reasons?
I'm just wondering.."
no, I have evolved |
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The only thing I'm envious of on here is that everyone seems to have time to do things in their life. ...It's probably just perception but i get envious when people talk about books they are reading or just having time to get bored. ..i wouldn't mind that for a day |
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nothing wrong with that now is there?
I don't believe I said there was. Fab away
wow....erm read you're profile _iew that is a rather long list of things you don't do, has you're list always been like that or did it gradually become like that over time for certain reasons?
I'm just wondering..
no, I have evolved"
I see so either over time you made a list of things you don't do which was a small simple list at first.
Then over time gradually being on here some things which started to annoy you more or were said/done you have added to you're list then as people were either kept on asking or going on about it? |
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oh crap....like an Idiot I just realised this is not a fabbing picture thread , oh well my mistake guess...
I do get a little envious sometimes I will admit of others on here every now and then I won't lie. |
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"Honestly NO...
and if that body on your avatar is your body as it is now i suspect this thread is nothing more than attention seeking!...
You look great to me!
100% This.
-Courtney"
of course it is he's advertising and doing well |
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nothing wrong with that now is there?
I don't believe I said there was. Fab away
wow....erm read you're profile _iew that is a rather long list of things you don't do, has you're list always been like that or did it gradually become like that over time for certain reasons?
I'm just wondering..
no, I have evolved"
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But only over shoes. 
Your profile says you are not meeting, that might be why some people are having more fun than you 
