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People daren't misread respectful for too nice with me. I don't hold grudges but very happy to disregard any boundaries if others step over mine. I am generally very kind and sweet but only the stupid or ignorent would misinterpret that.
That said, I will go the extra mile for many people and believe in a generosity towards others and the world. 'Too nice' sounds like someone who's more of a victim, not willing to see and speak the truth. |
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"People daren't misread respectful for too nice with me. I don't hold grudges but very happy to disregard any boundaries if others step over mine. I am generally very kind and sweet but only the stupid or ignorent would misinterpret that.
That said, I will go the extra mile for many people and believe in a generosity towards others and the world. 'Too nice' sounds like someone who's more of a victim, not willing to see and speak the truth."
I think people wrongly assume that certain characteristics point to doormat-like tendancies. Being quiet, shy, kind, always see the best in others etc. That doesn't mean you don't possess healthy boundaries. |
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"People daren't misread respectful for too nice with me. I don't hold grudges but very happy to disregard any boundaries if others step over mine. I am generally very kind and sweet but only the stupid or ignorent would misinterpret that.
That said, I will go the extra mile for many people and believe in a generosity towards others and the world. 'Too nice' sounds like someone who's more of a victim, not willing to see and speak the truth."
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I think 'nice' is a bit of a namsy pamsy word if I'm honest. It's not really one I use often. I'd say 'oh you're too cute' if someone does something cool for me or 'great shoes'. I'd never say 'nice shoes' cause that to me sounds a bit lame.
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"I would like to think I am a thoroughly jolly nice chap
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The pooch speaks highly of you 
As for me, I'm definitely no bad guy, and probably too polite for my own good. 
I wouldn't say I'm nice, being all modest like  |
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"I would like to think I am a thoroughly jolly nice chap
The pooch speaks highly of you
As for me, I'm definitely no bad guy, and probably too polite for my own good.
I wouldn't say I'm nice, being all modest like "
You are a jolly spiffing splendid chap and the pooch thinks so to . Rather modest too |
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"I would like to think I am a thoroughly jolly nice chap
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Based solely on your forum posts, I would have to agree. I like reading your posts because they are always so uplifting.
-Courtney |
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"I would like to think I am a thoroughly jolly nice chap
Based solely on your forum posts, I would have to agree. I like reading your posts because they are always so uplifting.
-Courtney"
Aw thank you that's jolly kind of you to say |
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"I would like to think I am a thoroughly jolly nice chap
The pooch speaks highly of you
As for me, I'm definitely no bad guy, and probably too polite for my own good.
I wouldn't say I'm nice, being all modest like
You are a jolly spiffing splendid chap and the pooch thinks so to . Rather modest too "
I don't like to blow my own trumpet |
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"I would like to think I am a thoroughly jolly nice chap
The pooch speaks highly of you
As for me, I'm definitely no bad guy, and probably too polite for my own good.
I wouldn't say I'm nice, being all modest like
You are a jolly spiffing splendid chap and the pooch thinks so to . Rather modest too
I don't like to blow my own trumpet "
You can borrow my kazoo |
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"I would like to think I am a thoroughly jolly nice chap
The pooch speaks highly of you
As for me, I'm definitely no bad guy, and probably too polite for my own good.
I wouldn't say I'm nice, being all modest like
You are a jolly spiffing splendid chap and the pooch thinks so to . Rather modest too
I don't like to blow my own trumpet
You can borrow my kazoo "
I'm starting to get a bit worried !
You were willing to let me come over and play with your 12" the other day  |
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"I would like to think I am a thoroughly jolly nice chap
The pooch speaks highly of you
As for me, I'm definitely no bad guy, and probably too polite for my own good.
I wouldn't say I'm nice, being all modest like
You are a jolly spiffing splendid chap and the pooch thinks so to . Rather modest too
I don't like to blow my own trumpet
You can borrow my kazoo
I'm starting to get a bit worried !
You were willing to let me come over and play with your 12" the other day "
Purely in a plutonic sense dear boy |
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"I would like to think I am a thoroughly jolly nice chap
Indeed you are Taff  "
aw thank you, you have made me smile,
every now and again I wish I wasn't to jolly polite and nice .
but you chaps remind me that , this is who I am thank you |
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