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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"Not to start with but over time when i new time was right i would. "
I agree with you, but when is the "right time"? Too early and you lose them, too late and suddenly there's a trust issue?
I imagine it would be very difficult to pitch that conversation with a vanilla-met partner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I liked the person enough and at some point wanted to get her into swinging then I'd wait a while and gradually drop fantasies into our convo and gauge her reaction. Hypothetically speaking of course, as the situation is never likely to arise. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Not to start with but over time when i new time was right i would.
I agree with you, but when is the "right time"? Too early and you lose them, too late and suddenly there's a trust issue?
I imagine it would be very difficult to pitch that conversation with a vanilla-met partner."
Totally agree with you there... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"IF you met someone and started a relationship , would you tell them of your swinging past , ? "
Christ no!! The missus doesn`t even know we`re on here as it is, and we`ve been together twenty odd years.  |
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"IF you met someone and started a relationship , would you tell them of your swinging past , ?
Christ no!! The missus doesn`t even know we`re on here as it is, and we`ve been together twenty odd years. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it highly unlikely I'll ever be in another "normal" relationship again. I like kinky far too much to go back to "straight" sex so anyone I meet will probably be via sites like this, so not a problem! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, and I wouldn't want to know her sexual past. All I'd be interested in is her future. "
If I did meet someone outside this lifestyle then this would be my stance too! |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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But... You meet someone and decide not to tell them and a couple of years down the line you let something slip! Could be a killer, a trust issue as someone said.
Surely it is better in the early part of a relationship to "let slip" a small snippet and see what happens? You can always laugh it off as a "hobby" and in the very early stages wouldn't matter much as you would not be that close.. They may just see it as just another thing about you.
Just my _iew, but must be better to risk the loss at a stage where you are not in love than to risk that when he/she becomes part of your life! |
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