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By *ourge OP Man
over a year ago
stourport nr kidderminster |
.why do lots of people
.on fab .judge you in these way .
.have just tryd to help a couple .on some advice . .sayin would give my number to them. .
.I no that I have message them before .and got no thanks. .but the advice they wanted .I no about. |
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".why do lots of people
.on fab .judge you in these way .
.have just tryd to help a couple .on some advice . .sayin would give my number to them. .
.I no that I have message them before .and got no thanks. .but the advice they wanted .I no about."
If you'd contacted them previously and they said "no thanks" it could appear as you were trying a different approach.
If you really just wanted to help, instead of sending a message with your number, why didn't you just send the information?
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".why do lots of people
.on fab .judge you in these way .
.have just tryd to help a couple .on some advice . .sayin would give my number to them. .
.I no that I have message them before .and got no thanks. .but the advice they wanted .I no about."
How is that judging you? |
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".why do lots of people
.on fab .judge you in these way .
.have just tryd to help a couple .on some advice . .sayin would give my number to them. .
.I no that I have message them before .and got no thanks. .but the advice they wanted .I no about.
How is that judging you? "
I did wonder that too. |
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"It's obvious that people will form their opinions based on what they see, especially when that's all they've got access to.
Oh and aren't full stops supposed to go at the end of a sentence 
al"
----- Cal
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"It's obvious that people will form their opinions based on what they see, especially when that's all they've got access to.
Oh and aren't full stops supposed to go at the end of a sentence
al"
I think the full stop thing will be down to the device he's using. On my phone the full stop is so close to the space bar that I'm for ever sending texts littered with them.
I agree thought about judging by appearances, it's all we have to go on on the first instance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's obvious that people will form their opinions based on what they see, especially when that's all they've got access to.
Oh and aren't full stops supposed to go at the end of a sentence
al"
The OP is in Greek? |
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By *ourge OP Man
over a year ago
stourport nr kidderminster |
.have tryd to pm them to message me .so could help .it was bout car adivce. but never said that it was about .and it be easier to tell some on the phone .than long winded messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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100% Women are the biggest Book cover girls.
All that tosh about personality.load of shit
(Men are also book covers,but don't even try to pretend personality matters)
Keep it quite though*they get the camel when I speak for them)
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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".why do lots of people
.on fab .judge you in these way .
.have just tryd to help a couple .on some advice . .sayin would give my number to them. .
.I no that I have message them before .and got no thanks. .but the advice they wanted .I no about."
If the advice was on how to use punctuation, I have a feeling I know why they ignored it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"100% Women are the biggest Book cover girls.
All that tosh about personality.load of shit
(Men are also book covers,but don't even try to pretend personality matters)
Keep it quite though*they get the camel when I speak for them)
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Are you still moaning 
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Because many people use such things as a ploy to get your contact details.
Can you genuinely say that you would stop at the advice and respect that they have already said no or would you then start sending "You're very sexy"/"I want to do this, that and the other" messages to them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"100% Women are the biggest Book cover girls.
All that tosh about personality.load of shit
(Men are also book covers,but don't even try to pretend personality matters)
Keep it quite though*they get the camel when I speak for them)
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You are like 50 shades of grey. Nice cover bull full of ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you've read a lot of books you'll become quite good at making a fairly good decision based on its cover, yes some gems might slip through but most people can live with that. |
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1 that isn't judging you
2 you could have just gave the advice via pm so giving them your number was irrelevant, via pm or over the phone your advice should be no different should it, unless you were trying to use wanting to help them as a tactic |
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By *ourge OP Man
over a year ago
stourport nr kidderminster |
I would have pm'd them the advice but they did not specify what car advice they needed and as phoning them goes it would have been a lot lot easier to explain over the phone.
2.thought this was an adults site not a children's playground lol. |
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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago
Bedworth |
"I would have pm'd them the advice but they did not specify what car advice they needed and as phoning them goes it would have been a lot lot easier to explain over the phone.
2.thought this was an adults site not a children's playground lol."
You could have pm'd some general car advice and followed it with an offer of more specific advice if they would like it.
Again, no need at all for phone numbers. |
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".why do lots of people
.on fab .judge you in these way .
.have just tryd to help a couple .on some advice . .sayin would give my number to them. .
.I no that I have message them before .and got no thanks. .but the advice they wanted .I no about."
just the way off life....move on and find something else or would you rather meet up with some one in real life then they have second thoughts and decide to call it off? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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".why do lots of people
.on fab .judge you in these way .
.have just tryd to help a couple .on some advice . .sayin would give my number to them. .
.I no that I have message them before .and got no thanks. .but the advice they wanted .I no about."
That's not judging you, that's refusing to give a strange man off a swinger;s site their mobile.
Although the terminology you use does suggest that your intentions were not as honourable as you make out hence why you are annoyed at their reaction |
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"I would have pm'd them the advice but they did not specify what car advice they needed and as phoning them goes it would have been a lot lot easier to explain over the phone.
2.thought this was an adults site not a children's playground lol."
Well they pretty much know how you feel about them now. |
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"I would have pm'd them the advice but they did not specify what car advice they needed and as phoning them goes it would have been a lot lot easier to explain over the phone.
2.thought this was an adults site not a children's playground lol."
Well that contradicts your op doesn't it! You stated their car query was something you know about, now you're saying they weren't specific hence your reason for contacting them with your phone number.
They saw through your ruse and your miffed!
They're not interested in you! Get over yourself and move on!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you've read a lot of books you'll become quite good at making a fairly good decision based on its cover, yes some gems might slip through but most people can live with that."
But hardbacks are just plain covered with an embossed name.
They're the shilloette avatar profile of the book world  |
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