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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this an exercise in futility?
Do what you want.
Noboby meets on here anyaway,they just spread forum love and hate."
Speak for yourself!
I meet and spread erm....  |
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"Is this an exercise in futility?"
Ignore grumpy he's having a strop.
Some people will meet married men and some won't. IMHO as long as you state it on your profile so people can make an informed choice then that's up to them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Grumpy........ffs
Don't ignore me,I'm the only one to take on the forum mafia and still be talking.
Had the nod my cards are marked though 
Anyway,crack on and ignore the forum.Really would be my advice(all joking apart) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ibaur,
Go with your heart is the honest answer.All forums(not just this one will give you good and Carp advice)
So you're far better to make you own call.
Live by the sword,die by the sword  |
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"Ibaur,
Go with your heart is the honest answer.All forums(not just this one will give you good and Carp advice)
So you're far better to make you own call.
Live by the sword,die by the sword "
That advice sounds a bit fishy to me  |
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By *sla69Woman
over a year ago
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"Ibaur,
Go with your heart is the honest answer.All forums(not just this one will give you good and Carp advice)
So you're far better to make you own call.
Live by the sword,die by the sword "
Whats Carp advice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ibaur,
Go with your heart is the honest answer.All forums(not just this one will give you good and Carp advice)
So you're far better to make you own call.
Live by the sword,die by the sword
Whats Carp advice "
It involves willy worms |
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"Ibaur,
Go with your heart is the honest answer.All forums(not just this one will give you good and Carp advice)
So you're far better to make you own call.
Live by the sword,die by the sword
That advice sounds a bit fishy to me "
Making a rod for his own back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ibaur,
Go with your heart is the honest answer.All forums(not just this one will give you good and Carp advice)
So you're far better to make you own call.
Live by the sword,die by the sword
Whats Carp advice
It involves willy worms "
or wriggly even ffs autocarrot or was it my mind |
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By *sla69Woman
over a year ago
coventry/Leicestershire border |
"Ibaur,
Go with your heart is the honest answer.All forums(not just this one will give you good and Carp advice)
So you're far better to make you own call.
Live by the sword,die by the sword
Whats Carp advice
It involves willy worms "
Are they not little things |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ibaur,
Go with your heart is the honest answer.All forums(not just this one will give you good and Carp advice)
So you're far better to make you own call.
Live by the sword,die by the sword
Whats Carp advice
It involves willy worms
Are they not little things "
Some are some aren't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's cryptic for crap.
See what I mean about don't ask them for advice ?
They are Rubbish  "
You clearly didn't get oot of the right side of the bed this morning did you |
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we are an FB couple and clearly state this on profile,and we meet married guys, the key issue is we declare it at the outset and it's on profile and expect the same. Same as lying about age, if you use this site you really have no reason to fib about anything IMO |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As yet I've not deliberately had a solo 'meet' with a married lady, but I totally respect others choice to do that. As long as you're upfront, it may even be a bonus to some if you're married. |
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"Lots are. Their choice and no one's place to judge them for it "
Wouldn't need to if they just cracked on with it instead of boring the tits off us with threads seeking validation/whining about lack of meets/questioning why swingers "moralise" by not sharing in their duplicity! etc etc ad nauseum!  |
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"Lots are. Their choice and no one's place to judge them for it
Wouldn't need to if they just cracked on with it instead of boring the tits off us with threads seeking validation/whining about lack of meets/questioning why swingers "moralise" by not sharing in their duplicity! etc etc ad nauseum! "
ha ha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this an exercise in futility?
Ignore grumpy he's having a strop.
Some people will meet married men and some won't. IMHO as long as you state it on your profile so people can make an informed choice then that's up to them. "
Hey why's your profile hidden
Thread needs more bum tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we are an FB couple and clearly state this on profile,and we meet married guys, the key issue is we declare it at the outset and it's on profile and expect the same. Same as lying about age, if you use this site you really have no reason to fib about anything IMO"
EXACTLY how we feel |
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If married men are on here, that's fine but not if they're not honest about it. I once met someone who claimed on his profile to be single, we met for a drink and he said he was divorced. A week later confesses he's still married!
A colossal waste of time...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If married men are on here, that's fine but not if they're not honest about it. I once met someone who claimed on his profile to be single, we met for a drink and he said he was divorced. A week later confesses he's still married!
A colossal waste of time... "
Why? |
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"Is this an exercise in futility?"
It's difficult for many men on here alone because numbers are against them to start with. Being married will affect your success but there are any other factors too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" jbauer75
So basically it's like what I said.
Nobody meets here.
They are more like an Amish family and don't take well to Outsiders
Feck them though "
We meet, weve had 3 meets this week. But we have never had a meet through the forum so you may have a point if thats what you mean. If you mean nobody on the site meets fullstop then I guess they just dont meet you? But your right about forum bullies. Lots of them on here weve blocked many people due to forum interaction and took a long break from the forums before due to bullying posters. Its a shame blocking them doesnt block them on the forums too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like that you're up front about being in a relationship. You give people the chance to decide if they want to meet someone who isn't single and on here without the partner's knowledge. That can cause problems and add strings that they don't want. |
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"we are an FB couple and clearly state this on profile,and we meet married guys, the key issue is we declare it at the outset and it's on profile and expect the same. Same as lying about age, if you use this site you really have no reason to fib about anything IMO
EXACTLY how we feel "
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"If married men are on here, that's fine but not if they're not honest about it. I once met someone who claimed on his profile to be single, we met for a drink and he said he was divorced. A week later confesses he's still married!
Had this happen to me ... because we had exchanged numbers ... had his Wife call me yelling and cursing ....
If I had been a nasty person I could of told her about fab ....but I didn't ... I took it on the chin ... his profile disappeared that day ..... but now I notice ... hes back !!!!!!!!
Note to oneself ...... avoid
A colossal waste of time... "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So basically it's like what I said.
Nobody meets here.
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Maybe profiles say this to throw people off the scent, to allow them to browse, chat and play without being sent 200 fancy a fuck messages a day? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ibaur,
Go with your heart is the honest answer.All forums(not just this one will give you good and Carp advice)
So you're far better to make you own call.
Live by the sword,die by the sword
Whats Carp advice
It involves willy worms or wriggly even ffs autocarrot or was it my mind"
That autocarrot is such a mother forklift! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So basically it's like what I said.
Nobody meets here.
Maybe profiles say this to throw people off the scent, to allow them to browse, chat and play without being sent 200 fancy a fuck messages a day? "
Would be pointless seeing as 99% of people dont bother reading profiles before messaging lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So basically it's like what I said.
Nobody meets here.
Maybe profiles say this to throw people off the scent, to allow them to browse, chat and play without being sent 200 fancy a fuck messages a day?
Would be pointless seeing as 99% of people dont bother reading profiles before messaging lol"
Depends on the whether it's reading the profile or trawling through the paragraphs of demands as you find on some.
I know plenty of male and female profiles which are either short and to the point, or amusing/engaging which are good to read.
But if 99% of profiles aren't worth reading, 99% of profiles won't be read! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So basically it's like what I said.
Nobody meets here.
Maybe profiles say this to throw people off the scent, to allow them to browse, chat and play without being sent 200 fancy a fuck messages a day?
Would be pointless seeing as 99% of people dont bother reading profiles before messaging lol
Depends on the whether it's reading the profile or trawling through the paragraphs of demands as you find on some.
I know plenty of male and female profiles which are either short and to the point, or amusing/engaging which are good to read.
But if 99% of profiles aren't worth reading, 99% of profiles won't be read! "
You could put 3 lines.
No black guys
No bi guys
No anal
And a bi black guy would ask if he can fuck your arse!! Nothing against black or bi guys thats just a pure example. Quality of profiles has nothing to do with it how can it when the people messaging clearly have NOT read it so wouldnt know if it was quality or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The reality is that married men on here who are cheating will have the odd stacked against them. There are some sweeping generalisations here but single men are more comfortable with public social meets. Single men are often available for short notice meets. Single men are available more often with far more flexibility. Single men don't clock watch and have to be back home after last orders Singlemen won't worry about scratches or bite marks or smelling of your perfume. Single men can more often accommodate and if not are less inclined to be worried about having a transaction on their bank statement for travelodge. I could probably think of many more examples and that's before you consider the morals of meeting married men and the chance of an angry spouse appearing on your doorstep or just how annoying so many whinging cheats on here actually are
People think that it's a moral decision and often it is but equally meeting genuinely single males is always going to be easier |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Is this an exercise in futility?"
it will be to some as they will waste time trying to convince others who have chosen not to meet them. Rather spend the time and effort concentrating on the people who declare they will.
it is that easy.
good luck
repeat; for bi guys, asian guys, black guys, actually, all single guys.......... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm married and have clearly stated in my profile and what I'm looking for. I think if your open and honest from the start you don't waste anyone's time or your own
Rest is down to the individual or couple to decide if they want to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" jbauer75
So basically it's like what I said.
Nobody meets here.
They are more like an Amish family and don't take well to Outsiders
Feck them though "
Was sat in a bar with 50+ people from here only the other week.... |
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