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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As you say you're not looking for anything serious you are probably best off not meeting them again and try to forget them"
it was posted on behalf of a friend of mine and just wanted her to see the response
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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These things happen, if you get to know some one well and see them often.
Sex and even just being with some one is a very intimate thing. It can be quite natural for bonds to develop |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought I was getting the feels for one of my regular meets, we had so much in common and it wasn't just about sex, we would spend hours together watching crappy you tube videos, etc but I decided to walk away, it's not what I needed. Haven't looked back since. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"As you say you're not looking for anything serious you are probably best off not meeting them again and try to forget themit was posted on behalf of a friend of mine and just wanted her to see the response"
lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Given you're other thread about cheating partners getting angry when their wife cheats in revenge.
I'll go out on a limb
Lady's partner has cheated on her
You have met her and had the revenge sex
He's found our and is hurt and angry
You've developed feelings for the lady
But she's going back to him because she's seen how much her cheating hurt him and is thinking of going back with him for a second try at the marriage.
You are upset about this and looking for support/justification for your feelings? |
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"Given you're other thread about cheating partners getting angry when their wife cheats in revenge.
I'll go out on a limb
Lady's partner has cheated on her
You have met her and had the revenge sex
He's found our and is hurt and angry
You've developed feelings for the lady
But she's going back to him because she's seen how much her cheating hurt him and is thinking of going back with him for a second try at the marriage.
You are upset about this and looking for support/justification for your feelings?"
Oh such tangled webs we weave....
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"If it's reciprocated, then all good but if it's one sided then walk away before you get hurt."
"Love is a many-splendored thing, It's the April rose that only grows in the early spring", but roses have really nasty thorns, so you have to watch yourself.
Or rather 'your friend' does
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If your both single, then say something, if its not mutual you would of lost them anyway.
Are you mixing love and lust?
Are you the sort of person that falls in love on a whim?
Are you the sort of person that confuses having a good friendship and good sex with love.
Don't confuse getting on really well with someone and love |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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3 options depending on the situation. Say nothing and continue as is, sever contact and walk away or fess up and deal with the outfall. Can't possibly advise specifically as I don't know the individual circumstances. |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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"You can fall in love on here  "
Yes of course you can and can also be infatuated.
However you should remember this is a swinger’s site and your love may not be reciprocated and also that the other person may be attached or in a relationship which does not include you.
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"Given you're other thread about cheating partners getting angry when their wife cheats in revenge.
I'll go out on a limb
Lady's partner has cheated on her
You have met her and had the revenge sex
He's found our and is hurt and angry
You've developed feelings for the lady
But she's going back to him because she's seen how much her cheating hurt him and is thinking of going back with him for a second try at the marriage.
You are upset about this and looking for support/justification for your feelings?"
Having just read his replies on the other thread, I think that's a good call Thx.
In which case leave them be OP. It sounds less like love and more like jealousy.
Revenge sex is more likely to be about hurting the one you love, than wanting to find someone new.
Besides, the idea that there are swingles like you who would be happy to break up marriages isn't what this is all about.
Leave her alone, let them sort out their problems, then if it doesn't work out she will find you if she needs you.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Given you're other thread about cheating partners getting angry when their wife cheats in revenge.
I'll go out on a limb
Lady's partner has cheated on her
You have met her and had the revenge sex
He's found our and is hurt and angry
You've developed feelings for the lady
But she's going back to him because she's seen how much her cheating hurt him and is thinking of going back with him for a second try at the marriage.
You are upset about this and looking for support/justification for your feelings?
Oh such tangled webs we weave....
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In my vast experience of a complicated life of mess, can you have a relationship based on the back of an affair? There wouldn't be any trust on either part, please anyone tell me if I'm wrong? |
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Oh and Mr DDC roses don't have thorns you old cynic "
Ooh, but they do in the early days, when you're young, innocent, and apt to go blundering through the briars willy-nilly. Especially when you've been kept apart from girls for the whole of puberty!
At least until you're lucky enough to find one of those thornless varieties
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Given you're other thread about cheating partners getting angry when their wife cheats in revenge.
I'll go out on a limb
Lady's partner has cheated on her
You have met her and had the revenge sex
He's found our and is hurt and angry
You've developed feelings for the lady
But she's going back to him because she's seen how much her cheating hurt him and is thinking of going back with him for a second try at the marriage.
You are upset about this and looking for support/justification for your feelings?
Oh such tangled webs we weave....
In my vast experience of a complicated life of mess, can you have a relationship based on the back of an affair? There wouldn't be any trust on either part, please anyone tell me if I'm wrong?"
Yes, you can. I did. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Given you're other thread about cheating partners getting angry when their wife cheats in revenge.
I'll go out on a limb
Lady's partner has cheated on her
You have met her and had the revenge sex
He's found our and is hurt and angry
You've developed feelings for the lady
But she's going back to him because she's seen how much her cheating hurt him and is thinking of going back with him for a second try at the marriage.
You are upset about this and looking for support/justification for your feelings?
Oh such tangled webs we weave....
In my vast experience of a complicated life of mess, can you have a relationship based on the back of an affair? There wouldn't be any trust on either part, please anyone tell me if I'm wrong?
Yes, you can. I did. "
Did it work out? |
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