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It's always worth checking the pics! I know what you're saying and have seen many myself.
But in some cases it may be their long term partner and not playmates? |
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One of my first ever meets didn't want to use a condom but luckily I grew a pair of balls that night and insisted, I introduced him to here a couple of weeks back, his photos showed him still fucking about without a jacket on, sent him a polite but firm message, yeah it's not my place but if you want to be doing this play safe bro!! (He has since took the pics down) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's always worth checking the pics! I know what you're saying and have seen many myself.
But in some cases it may be their long term partner and not playmates? "
Exactly, a few of my pics used to show me and my ex (the only guy I ever go bareback with) but was tired of the messages I got asking) so took them down |
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"One of my first ever meets didn't want to use a condom but luckily I grew a pair of balls that night and insisted, I introduced him to here a couple of weeks back, his photos showed him still fucking about without a jacket on, sent him a polite but firm message, yeah it's not my place but if you want to be doing this play safe bro!! (He has since took the pics down)"
So now he's hiding that he does bb?
There ya go OP. Why believe any pics? |
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"One of my first ever meets didn't want to use a condom but luckily I grew a pair of balls that night and insisted, I introduced him to here a couple of weeks back, his photos showed him still fucking about without a jacket on, sent him a polite but firm message, yeah it's not my place but if you want to be doing this play safe bro!! (He has since took the pics down)
So now he's hiding that he does bb?
That's true, I'm hoping he understood my message and he does play safe, didn't think that through did I!!
There ya go OP. Why believe any pics?"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One of my first ever meets didn't want to use a condom but luckily I grew a pair of balls that night and insisted, I introduced him to here a couple of weeks back, his photos showed him still fucking about without a jacket on, sent him a polite but firm message, yeah it's not my place but if you want to be doing this play safe bro!! (He has since took the pics down)
So now he's hiding that he does bb?
That's true, I'm hoping he understood my message and he does play safe, didn't think that through did I!!
There ya go OP. Why believe any pics?"
Probably not. But that's why it's pointless believing the 'safe sex' tick. |
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"One of my first ever meets didn't want to use a condom but luckily I grew a pair of balls that night and insisted, I introduced him to here a couple of weeks back, his photos showed him still fucking about without a jacket on, sent him a polite but firm message, yeah it's not my place but if you want to be doing this play safe bro!! (He has since took the pics down)
So now he's hiding that he does bb?
There ya go OP. Why believe any pics?"
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"One of my first ever meets didn't want to use a condom but luckily I grew a pair of balls that night and insisted, I introduced him to here a couple of weeks back, his photos showed him still fucking about without a jacket on, sent him a polite but firm message, yeah it's not my place but if you want to be doing this play safe bro!! (He has since took the pics down)"
So anyone meeting him now has no idea.  |
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"I get really fed up of people saying they do something then clearly not doing it in any respect. Just flaming well tell the truth and we'll all know where we stand."
That seems to be the major stumbling block on this site I.e telling the truth.... |
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"One of my first ever meets didn't want to use a condom but luckily I grew a pair of balls that night and insisted, I introduced him to here a couple of weeks back, his photos showed him still fucking about without a jacket on, sent him a polite but firm message, yeah it's not my place but if you want to be doing this play safe bro!! (He has since took the pics down)
So now he's hiding that he does bb?
There ya go OP. Why believe any pics?"
I don't  .......I believe nothing on here |
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"I get really fed up of people saying they do something then clearly not doing it in any respect. Just flaming well tell the truth and we'll all know where we stand.
That seems to be the major stumbling block on this site I.e telling the truth...."
Yes it is I can see why though in many instances.
If somebody says they play bareback they are treated to lectures, told they will surely die and that nobody will meet them.
The outcome is that many people who actually do bareback conceal the fact making it impossible for everyone to make an informed decision about meeting them.
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On joining the site everyone makes a choice.
On making a profile, everyone makes a choice.
Contacting someone, everyone makes a choice.
Playing bare back, everyone makes a choice.
At the end of the day it is a decision like many others on here. It will come up for discussion time and time again.
The reason people hide it, is they get vilified if they have it as a preference.
Their choice, your choice, my choice.
As long as you do what is your choice, decision made! |
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I would like to say that I am not condoning anyone who wishes to play bb......each to their own, I have no right to judge and yes I fully understand why people lie about it on their profile but to insist (even in private messages) that you do play safe when obviously you don't, the question "really what is the point" still springs to mind.
Maybe I'm just to honest......don't know if that's a good thing or not??? |
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"But pictures clearly show otherwise.........really what's the point!"
I used to have a photo where I know there was a condom on... But the photo looks otherwise. Yet it was taken from a video And the video clearly shows it never comes off.
Some maybe with people they trust and others maybe "shock horror " fibbing. |
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"Unless you're going to bareback with them, does it make any difference ?
In a word.........yes
Why?"
Sorry I didn't read your post properly, personally it wouldn't make a difference to me as I don't play bb but when you have been chatting to someone for a bit and arrange a meet, thinking you will get on then they start sending pics which clearly shows unprotected sex....it changes things |
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"One of my first ever meets didn't want to use a condom but luckily I grew a pair of balls that night and insisted, I introduced him to here a couple of weeks back, his photos showed him still fucking about without a jacket on, sent him a polite but firm message, yeah it's not my place but if you want to be doing this play safe bro!! (He has since took the pics down)
So now he's hiding that he does bb?
There ya go OP. Why believe any pics?
I don't .......I believe nothing on here "
Same. I do know what you're saying though. Trust no-one. x |
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"I would like to say that I am not condoning anyone who wishes to play bb......each to their own, I have no right to judge and yes I fully understand why people lie about it on their profile but to insist (even in private messages) that you do play safe when obviously you don't, the question "really what is the point" still springs to mind.
Maybe I'm just to honest......don't know if that's a good thing or not???"
Is there such a thing as too honest? I said to a man we were going to meet that he appeared to not be using a condom in photos, his response was clearly untrue for various reasons so we didn't meet him.....end of. |
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"But pictures clearly show otherwise.........really what's the point!
I used to have a photo where I know there was a condom on... But the photo looks otherwise. Yet it was taken from a video And the video clearly shows it never comes off.
Some maybe with people they trust and others maybe "shock horror " fibbing. "
That's my illusions shattered.....I can't believe people on here would fib...what is the world coming to (faints with shock) |
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"One of my first ever meets didn't want to use a condom but luckily I grew a pair of balls that night and insisted, I introduced him to here a couple of weeks back, his photos showed him still fucking about without a jacket on, sent him a polite but firm message, yeah it's not my place but if you want to be doing this play safe bro!! (He has since took the pics down)
So now he's hiding that he does bb?
There ya go OP. Why believe any pics?
I don't .......I believe nothing on here
Same. I do know what you're saying though. Trust no-one. x"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But pictures clearly show otherwise.........really what's the point!
I used to have a photo where I know there was a condom on... But the photo looks otherwise. Yet it was taken from a video And the video clearly shows it never comes off.
Some maybe with people they trust and others maybe "shock horror " fibbing.
That's my illusions shattered.....I can't believe people on here would fib...what is the world coming to (faints with shock) "
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"I would like to say that I am not condoning anyone who wishes to play bb......each to their own, I have no right to judge and yes I fully understand why people lie about it on their profile but to insist (even in private messages) that you do play safe when obviously you don't, the question "really what is the point" still springs to mind.
Maybe I'm just to honest......don't know if that's a good thing or not???"
Naive maybe.
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"Unless you're going to bareback with them, does it make any difference ?
In a word.........yes
Why?
Sorry I didn't read your post properly, personally it wouldn't make a difference to me as I don't play bb but when you have been chatting to someone for a bit and arrange a meet, thinking you will get on then they start sending pics which clearly shows unprotected sex....it changes things"
If someone tells you that they have protected sex and clearly don't, for whatever reason, (and I've heard a few), then quite clearly they are trying to deceive you.
Then it becomes your decision, whether you want to meet. When it comes down to an actual meet and are asked to bb, then you have the choice to insist on protection or walk away.
This then becomes a time wasting scenario. Mentioned in a message it can be just an instant block. |
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Why would anyone assume that anyone has "safe sex" 100% of the time? Just because there is no photographic evidence doesn't mean it hasn't happened at some point..wake up people. We are having sex with virtual strangers. Assume the worst and protect yourself accordingly. I don't get why people become so worked up over a picture. If you don't like what you see don't meet them. |
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"But pictures clearly show otherwise.........really what's the point!
I used to have a photo where I know there was a condom on... But the photo looks otherwise. Yet it was taken from a video And the video clearly shows it never comes off.
Some maybe with people they trust and others maybe "shock horror " fibbing.
That's my illusions shattered.....I can't believe people on here would fib...what is the world coming to (faints with shock)
*wafts lady with a silk handkerchief and offers a slice of soothing carrot cake*"
Aww thank you |
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"I would like to say that I am not condoning anyone who wishes to play bb......each to their own, I have no right to judge and yes I fully understand why people lie about it on their profile but to insist (even in private messages) that you do play safe when obviously you don't, the question "really what is the point" still springs to mind.
Maybe I'm just to honest......don't know if that's a good thing or not???
Naive maybe.
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Certainly not naive |
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