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By *sm OP Couple
over a year ago
Liskeard |
Hey guys n girls
Ok . I know this guy, first met him on line . Not here, but a similar site..
Anyway ... He's tall, so good looking, flirts fantastically has an amazing accent, But!, he talks a load of bollocks. When ever we have met up I've tried to direct his conversations away from trains and the army.. Lol . Especially when I see our companions eyes glaze over ..
I tell myself I won't be anything but a friend , then we are texting, and messaging, he's so caring and flirty and ,,, ahhhhh
If I could have him gagged when we meet I would lol .
What should I do.?
Serious and light hearted answered excepted thank you
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Every time he starts talking about something boring you start talking about the same boring subjects.
This worked with my sister she sends 100s of photos every time she goes somewhere, so I started doing the same, oddly hers have stopped now  |
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It's either nerves or he's so self absorbed that he thinks you're all as interested in him as he is in himself.
I know people like this and if after enough meetings for nerves to no longer be an issue the problem continues I cut contact to a minimum because in my experience it never changes if it's down to self absorption. |
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over a year ago
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"Hey guys n girls
Ok . I know this guy, first met him on line . Not here, but a similar site..
Anyway ... He's tall, so good looking, flirts fantastically has an amazing accent, But!, he talks a load of bollocks. When ever we have met up I've tried to direct his conversations away from trains and the army.. Lol . Especially when I see our companions eyes glaze over ..
I tell myself I won't be anything but a friend , then we are texting, and messaging, he's so caring and flirty and ,,, ahhhhh
If I could have him gagged when we meet I would lol .
What should I do.?
Serious and light hearted answered excepted thank you
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I thought you liked it when I spoke about trains! |
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over a year ago
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Obsessive people tend to find someone else pretty quickly. They're always on the lookout for new people to become obsessed with them. Not your fault, it's a problem they have with not being able to be intimate but needing attention despite that. This is why he can't read your friends and how bored they are, he doesn't care what anyone but himself is feeling.
Keep an eye out for him being manipulative and getting annoyed when not being able to be the centre of attention, and get rid if he does this. |
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"Keep saying "that's lovely but do you fancy me?"
Oh I know he fancies me lol . He told a mutual friend ( so like school )  "
Yes, quite!  at some point he will look confused and say 'yes, of course, why do you ask?' And then you can say 'because you keep talking about trains'. |
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By *sm OP Couple
over a year ago
Liskeard |
"Hey guys n girls
Ok . I know this guy, first met him on line . Not here, but a similar site..
Anyway ... He's tall, so good looking, flirts fantastically has an amazing accent, But!, he talks a load of bollocks. When ever we have met up I've tried to direct his conversations away from trains and the army.. Lol . Especially when I see our companions eyes glaze over ..
I tell myself I won't be anything but a friend , then we are texting, and messaging, he's so caring and flirty and ,,, ahhhhh
If I could have him gagged when we meet I would lol .
What should I do.?
Serious and light hearted answered excepted thank you
I thought you liked it when I spoke about trains! "
I'm sorry did you say something ? I was looking at your pictures  |
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"Hey guys n girls
Ok . I know this guy, first met him on line . Not here, but a similar site..
Anyway ... He's tall, so good looking, flirts fantastically has an amazing accent, But!, he talks a load of bollocks. When ever we have met up I've tried to direct his conversations away from trains and the army.. Lol . Especially when I see our companions eyes glaze over ..
I tell myself I won't be anything but a friend , then we are texting, and messaging, he's so caring and flirty and ,,, ahhhhh
If I could have him gagged when we meet I would lol .
What should I do.?
Serious and light hearted answered excepted thank you
I thought you liked it when I spoke about trains!
I'm sorry did you say something ? I was looking at your pictures "
Be my guest!
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By *sm OP Couple
over a year ago
Liskeard |
"It's either nerves or he's so self absorbed that he thinks you're all as interested in him as he is in himself.
I know people like this and if after enough meetings for nerves to no longer be an issue the problem continues I cut contact to a minimum because in my experience it never changes if it's down to self absorption."
Umm yes , nerves make sense, he comes over as very confident in his messages , but as we all know messages can be rewritten |
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