I love to go down on a woman..... I get a lot of pleasure from watching a woman enjoy herself....
If I was looking to up my game in this area what advice would you give or common mistake should I avoid? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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In my experience everyone is different, what works for one lady won't necessarily work for another so it's important to play it by ear and be prepared to be flexible / dynamic and change your approach until you find out what exactly works for them!
Some like it hard and fast, others slow and sensual (most like a bit of everything) so communication and reading signals is key! |
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Start slow and soft take you time building up to firm and strong, don't go straight in for the obvious spot work the whole area.
Good oral involves fingers as well as tongue.
When she's closer sucking on her clit soft and rapid whilst using your tongue on it, again building up can have amazing results.
Don't pound away with your fingers and hands if you are not getting the right responses adapt to the response until you find what suits that woman.
When you take a breath tell her how fucking amazing she is... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be sure that she is into receiving it as much as you enjoy giving it .
There are lots of women who are happier to give rather than take , my wife included . A few minutes is fine , but when guys want to pleasure her for more than that long she gets bored . |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
I love these posts advertising how much someone like to go down on a lady; I'm just waiting for one to take it to the next level.
Not only do they love to go down, can breathe through their ears, but that they also love candles and will cook a meal whilst doing it.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ask her to sit on your face, love it when guys do that.
But not in a first message haha, like when you're with her.
You can sit on my face any day
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Not in a first message i said!!
Honestly, you gotta build up to that point where i wanna sit on your face. That point for me is when you're lied down naked, in person... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always use fingers at the same time!
God, I know so little about this - I need some serious retraining and more practice!"
Be like a cat with its cream as opposed to a thirsty great dane |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ask her to sit on your face, love it when guys do that.
But not in a first message haha, like when you're with her.
You can sit on my face any day
Not in a first message i said!!
Honestly, you gotta build up to that point where i wanna sit on your face. That point for me is when you're lied down naked, in person... "
Na That would be a foregone conclusion by then I reckon,
I'd whisper it to you when we met in the pub beforehand.
Get your juices flowing.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ask her to sit on your face, love it when guys do that.
But not in a first message haha, like when you're with her.
You can sit on my face any day
Not in a first message i said!!
Honestly, you gotta build up to that point where i wanna sit on your face. That point for me is when you're lied down naked, in person...
Na That would be a foregone conclusion by then I reckon,
I'd whisper it to you when we met in the pub beforehand.
Get your juices flowing.
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Hmm, dunno of that works or puts me off tbh. Suppose i'd have to do it irl to know for sure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ask her to sit on your face, love it when guys do that.
But not in a first message haha, like when you're with her.
You can sit on my face any day
Not in a first message i said!!
Honestly, you gotta build up to that point where i wanna sit on your face. That point for me is when you're lied down naked, in person...
Na That would be a foregone conclusion by then I reckon,
I'd whisper it to you when we met in the pub beforehand.
Get your juices flowing.
Hmm, dunno of that works or puts me off tbh. Suppose i'd have to do it irl to know for sure. "
Its ok, It's irrelevant anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ask her to sit on your face, love it when guys do that.
But not in a first message haha, like when you're with her.
You can sit on my face any day
Not in a first message i said!!
Honestly, you gotta build up to that point where i wanna sit on your face. That point for me is when you're lied down naked, in person...
Na That would be a foregone conclusion by then I reckon,
I'd whisper it to you when we met in the pub beforehand.
Get your juices flowing.
Hmm, dunno of that works or puts me off tbh. Suppose i'd have to do it irl to know for sure.
Its ok, It's irrelevant anyway. "
True. Oh well it seems i am a fantasist haha. |
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By *smCouple
over a year ago
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Tongue exercises? I've met men who say they love it and can go on for hours. When in reality they mean 20 minutes or so..
Be happy to be held there with my leg/thighs .
See if you can invest in a sex stool, makes it easier on the ladies knees.
Be prepared for gushing, last guy complained he couldn't breath.. . For fucks sack |
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"OP, I'd you haven't already invest in a glass dildo to use while youre down there. In my experience this is an explosive combination... "
Absolutely! I recently got one and it's my favourite toy ever! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tongue exercises? I've met men who say they love it and can go on for hours. When in reality they mean 20 minutes or so..
Be happy to be held there with my leg/thighs .
See if you can invest in a sex stool, makes it easier on the ladies knees.
Be prepared for gushing, last guy complained he couldn't breath.. . For fucks sack "
Fuck me love you don't want much.
I'd be bored shitless going down on a woman for an hour straight.
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"I love to go down on a woman..... I get a lot of pleasure from watching a woman enjoy herself....
If I was looking to up my game in this area what advice would you give or common mistake should I avoid? "
Don't stop, till I tell you to please ?? |
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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago
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Advice?
Check for hygiene and odour first.
Tip?
A bit of fucking, a bit of licking, a bit of fucking, a bit of licking, a few minutes of serious fingering than back to fucking and licking. Apparently it's the chinese way or so the old joke goes.
Mistake?
Forgetting the first part then hurling over the object of desire.
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"In my experience everyone is different, what works for one lady won't necessarily work for another so it's important to play it by ear and be prepared to be flexible / dynamic and change your approach until you find out what exactly works for them!
Some like it hard and fast, others slow and sensual (most like a bit of everything) so communication and reading signals is key! "
The only thing I would add to this is to use your tongue and lips not your ear.
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