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over a year ago
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Definitely.
When i'm not a bitch i get needy types trying to drain me.
When i am a bitch i get funnier people attracted to me, and they aren't funny in a nasty way they just have a lighter outlook on life. |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
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"That the way we carry ourselves off determine the type of person/people we attract...no forms of friendships and partnerships? 
Cheeky you're going to have to say that again I don't understand  "
Ok the way we act as people our personalities and how we portray ourselves outwardly does this play a part in the type of people we attract |
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Yes. I come across as a very strong independent woman.
When I am flippant I attract people who don't see the deeper side and generally don't want to, which is a bit of a mistake because thats what I am actually looking for!
I think its a defense reaction that I default to, and I have to work hard to be the better more open person that I can be.
(Phew, exhausted now!!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That the way we carry ourselves off determine the type of person/people we attract...no forms of friendships and partnerships? "
Stupid question.
Course it does.
Otherwise I'd be up to my eyelids in fanny batter by now.  |
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Apparently most people do not reveal their true selves until 6 - 9 month into a relationship. They are 'them' but project a better version of themself mainly. |
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"Yes. I come across as a very strong independent woman.
When I am flippant I attract people who don't see the deeper side and generally don't want to, which is a bit of a mistake because thats what I am actually looking for!
I think its a defense reaction that I default to, and I have to work hard to be the better more open person that I can be.
(Phew, exhausted now!!)"
This to a tee. I very much come across as the joker but in reality I'm much deeper and that's what I look for in others |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes. I come across as a very strong independent woman.
When I am flippant I attract people who don't see the deeper side and generally don't want to, which is a bit of a mistake because thats what I am actually looking for!
I think its a defense reaction that I default to, and I have to work hard to be the better more open person that I can be.
(Phew, exhausted now!!)"
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
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"That the way we carry ourselves off determine the type of person/people we attract...no forms of friendships and partnerships?
Stupid question.
Course it does.
Otherwise I'd be up to my eyelids in fanny batter by now. "
I thought it was quite a good question...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Apparently most people do not reveal their true selves until 6 - 9 month into a relationship. They are 'them' but project a better version of themself mainly.
Some slip after a few dates  "
Idk, wish i could tell.
It's probably why we insist on honesty though, so we don't invest in something we have no real interest in. |
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"That the way we carry ourselves off determine the type of person/people we attract...no forms of friendships and partnerships?
Stupid question.
Course it does.
Otherwise I'd be up to my eyelids in fanny batter by now.
I thought it was quite a good question... "
Sorry ignore me, I only posted for the comedy value. |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
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"That the way we carry ourselves off determine the type of person/people we attract...no forms of friendships and partnerships?
Stupid question.
Course it does.
Otherwise I'd be up to my eyelids in fanny batter by now.
I thought it was quite a good question...
Sorry ignore me, I only posted for the comedy value. "
It's ok lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think personality is like a magnetic field. We only attract those that the field we are emitting attracts. If we only show part of ourselves we only attract or repel those that see those parts. |
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"That the way we carry ourselves off determine the type of person/people we attract...no forms of friendships and partnerships?
Cheeky you're going to have to say that again I don't understand
Ok the way we act as people our personalities and how we portray ourselves outwardly does this play a part in the type of people we attract "
Thank you, I'm being a bit daft today .
Yes it does although initial attraction must surely be based on looks in most cases.
I am trying to cultivate a personality that attracts multi-millionaires at the moment  |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"That the way we carry ourselves off determine the type of person/people we attract...no forms of friendships and partnerships?
Cheeky you're going to have to say that again I don't understand
Ok the way we act as people our personalities and how we portray ourselves outwardly does this play a part in the type of people we attract
Thank you, I'm being a bit daft today .
Yes it does although initial attraction must surely be based on looks in most cases.
I am trying to cultivate a personality that attracts multi-millionaires at the moment "
Can you write a book once you have figured that out |
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"That the way we carry ourselves off determine the type of person/people we attract...no forms of friendships and partnerships?
Cheeky you're going to have to say that again I don't understand
Ok the way we act as people our personalities and how we portray ourselves outwardly does this play a part in the type of people we attract
Thank you, I'm being a bit daft today .
Yes it does although initial attraction must surely be based on looks in most cases.
I am trying to cultivate a personality that attracts multi-millionaires at the moment
Can you write a book once you have figured that out "
If I can be bothered, I fully intend to be rolling about on fifty pound notes so might not have time. Send me a begging letter and I'll see what I can do |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think personality is like a magnetic field. We only attract those that the field we are emitting attracts. If we only show part of ourselves we only attract or repel those that see those parts. "
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"That the way we carry ourselves off determine the type of person/people we attract...no forms of friendships and partnerships?
Cheeky you're going to have to say that again I don't understand
Ok the way we act as people our personalities and how we portray ourselves outwardly does this play a part in the type of people we attract "
what type of people have you attracted ? X |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"That the way we carry ourselves off determine the type of person/people we attract...no forms of friendships and partnerships?
Cheeky you're going to have to say that again I don't understand
Ok the way we act as people our personalities and how we portray ourselves outwardly does this play a part in the type of people we attract what type of people have you attracted ? X "
In the past cunts but then I have been a proper cunt in the past....learnt some harsh life lessons and built myself from the bottom half. I attract nice people |
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"That the way we carry ourselves off determine the type of person/people we attract...no forms of friendships and partnerships?
Cheeky you're going to have to say that again I don't understand
Ok the way we act as people our personalities and how we portray ourselves outwardly does this play a part in the type of people we attract what type of people have you attracted ? X
In the past cunts but then I have been a proper cunt in the past....learnt some harsh life lessons and built myself from the bottom half. I attract nice people "
And I thought you liked me  |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I don't go places to attract men for any relationships. Not counting men on here I attract all kinds of men online. Doesn't every woman though? "
Yeah I guess but for example a friend does the same job I do but attracts professional guys...I don't I attract the builder types...I do think there are those that don't attract Horrible people if that makes sense. |
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"I don't go places to attract men for any relationships. Not counting men on here I attract all kinds of men online. Doesn't every woman though?
Yeah I guess but for example a friend does the same job I do but attracts professional guys...I don't I attract the builder types...I do think there are those that don't attract Horrible people if that makes sense. "
But why do some attract horrible people? |
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