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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can anyone tell me as a Newbie what folk get by being a@*seholes on this site?
I wont do names nor pack drill but as a single fellar certain single woman seem to think they have a right to regaurd single fellars as pondlife.
I do appreciate that a large minority of single males are married/attached dreamers with little or no intention of meeting anyone.
These blokes deserve a certain amount of contempt but really should be pitied as social misfits.
That said if someone has gone to the effort of giving a well written and polite message NO reply is better than F@"K OFF.
Any input on this point would be gratfully taken on board
Mike xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I agree with you and I dont think everyone is this rude.
As a new starter I find as much sound morality with swingers as people who are less sexually liberated.
I'm a private person by nature so not many people other than swingers know I swing.
This said I find it highly amusing to hear certain misconceptions of swingers being being bandied about by people with an envy problem and probably erectile dysfuntion  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never sent such a message, but I've been tempted on many occasion! 
It's usually in response to "well crafted" messages. The writer usually feels he can smooze me into meeting him even if he's 5ft 3, married, can't accommodate, 24 year old from Kilmarnock: the polar opposite of what I'm looking for!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To the OP: It goes with the territory pal. The 'social ladder' of swinging tends to be:
Rocking horse shit: single bi ladies
Queens of the roost: single ladies
Courtesans: couples (those with a bifem are elevated above those without)
Court jesters: single men (considered cannon fodder by those above 'Courtesan' level)
You have no way of knowing how your well crafted message is going to be received, think of it as if you wrote it out on paper and mailed it only for it to arrive along with various leaflets for pizzas and a couple of 'to the homeowner' letters - you can guess where it's going to end up.
As for being told to fuck off, well, you gotta remember that most women are only approachable one week out of four as they're either On, Coming On or Coming Off... and never, under any circumstances, put your trust in something that bleeds for a week and doesn't fookin die.  |
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Actually the jester's status was often one of privilege within a royal household, and a lot held privileged positions.
So perhaps single blokes are more the stable boys, or, in the eys of some, more like the stuff you find on the floor of the stable(and I don't mean hay!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not right under any circumstances xx  "
Yes it is!!! Although I excercised amazing constraint not writing that to the charmer who offered his fat cock to a fat cow!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not right under any circumstances xx
Yes it is!!! Although I excercised amazing constraint not writing that to the charmer who offered his fat cock to a fat cow!!! "
Mmm something like that then maybe ya have a point lol xx  |
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Aw deedums! Spat your dummy out because you don't get replies? I doubt that you've actually had a 'f**k off' message, and if you have may I suggest that you deserved it? ie. repeatedly messaging after a 'no thanks', sending offensive mesages yourself? If it was a random 'f**k off' message that was unwarranted then I agree that you need to report and block, then grow up a bit? Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Aw deedums! Spat your dummy out because you don't get replies? I doubt that you've actually had a 'f**k off' message, and if you have may I suggest that you deserved it? ie. repeatedly messaging after a 'no thanks', sending offensive mesages yourself? If it was a random 'f**k off' message that was unwarranted then I agree that you need to report and block, then grow up a bit? Z"
Oooooh hark at Zoe!!!  You're very stern this morning!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately, mate, that's life. There are some blokes on here who make no effort (personaly, with their profiles or with their mails) and much like the occasional troublesome teen (or whatever group you care to pick on) they ruin it for the rest.
That having been said, there are also bitches and bastards in every social arena and, much like the most attractive woman or man in a club or at a work or in a party, if people are fussing around them all the time, it tends to go to their heads and they get to believe they are God's gift. Sometimes there is no getting around it.
Pick and chose a little carefully. I am not desperate for meets and only mail those people I actualy fancy meeting up with and can get too. If they are up for it, all good. If they are stuck up and give a load of verbal, well it's their loss, not mine, delete, block n move on............. |
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If you really did send a polite message then 'fuck off' is NOT an appropriate response.
A NO would have done or even just 'deleted'.
You will, however, find you are about to be picked apart by the Inquisition now though for daring to post such heresy when you are quite clearly only a mere single male.
Everyone expects the Spanish Inquisition....well, on here anyway.  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Can anyone tell me as a Newbie what folk get by being a@*seholes on this site?
I wont do names nor pack drill but as a single fellar certain single woman seem to think they have a right to regaurd single fellars as pondlife.
I do appreciate that a large minority of single males are married/attached dreamers with little or no intention of meeting anyone.
These blokes deserve a certain amount of contempt but really should be pitied as social misfits.
That said if someone has gone to the effort of giving a well written and polite message NO reply is better than F@"K OFF.
Any input on this point would be gratfully taken on board
Mike xx"
for post one people normally go with a hello... but wow!!!
welcome to the world of "way to make a first impression" WTF!!!!
Wow.. I am just seeing how many people you just ran over in the high filuting bus of yours!!!!!
single women who decided to reject you...
married singles.......
this says to me you have trouble taking rejection.... a no happens to all of us!!
you can either... dust yourself down and move on.... or you can rant and rave about something you are not going to change
others may be nice... I'm going to be honest.... "this" is as bad to me, as the people who sent you back the replies....
people can't win... they complain when they get back no reply, they complain when they get back a rejection....
it smells of "waaaaaaaah"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I dont spit out dummys I expect to be treated as an individual.
Someone saying thanks but no thanks is information enough to move on for most resonable people.
Manners cost nothing and no one will find me anthing other than well mannered. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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No I'm a new starter and feeling my way around.I only send messages to thos who say they want to meet single men.
Rejection is a part of life but ho you reject someone shows more about you than the person being rejected.
I have no sour grapes over rejection just the method.
Again manners cost nothing. |
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"No I'm a new starter and feeling my way around.I only send messages to thos who say they want to meet single men.
Rejection is a part of life but ho you reject someone shows more about you than the person being rejected.
I have no sour grapes over rejection just the method.
Again manners cost nothing."
I agree, manners cost nothing.
Ignore the Inquisition and good luck with finding what your looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well we have two thoughts on this. first off if the person you wrote the message to is after single males then wrong however we get loads of single males mailing us even though we clearly state we are not interested. so if they have not bothered to read our profile then why should we bother spending our time in replying. that said we would never tell somebody to f@*k off |
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