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Fakes and time wasters

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hey guys and dolls

Is there a place to out the fakes and time wasters. Kind getting f offer about it puts us real peps in a minority. There must be a place we can out them.

Thanks

Jay

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Gator king is a total fake. Arranged to meet me but didnt turn up. Totally untrue of course but it's my word against yours.

No you can't name and shame it's against site rules. Everyone has different definitions of time wasters on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Haha I get you point lol but something must be done to out the wrong ens

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By *umslut jannineTV/TS over a year ago

nottingham

It's just something you have to do yourself if someone wastes your time block them and move on

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

What is your definition of a fake and timewaster?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

A person who is not the person in the profile = fake

Time waster a real or fake person who let's you believe that something will happen or led to something wit no intention of it happening = time wasters

I get people persona can be different , more confident , more cock, ect buy won't accept them being a different person

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By *at69driveMan over a year ago

Hertford

"Hey guys and dolls

Is there a place to out the fakes and time wasters. Kind getting f offer about it puts us real peps in a minority. There must be a place we can out them.

Thanks

Jay

Jay"
. Why would anyone worry about fakes and time waster?.

On fab you have to market yourself by having a well written detailed profile. .

Instinct should help you elimate fakes .

I assume that any profile of less than fifteen lines is a fake . If someone cannot be bothered writing a profile just ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I get that the point is surly they should be named and shamed so others shouldn't fall prey

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What you consider time wasting i.e they don't meet you after 2 messages others might just see it as normal ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Not at all we are all allowed to go at whatever pass we need my definition was the last post.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not at all we are all allowed to go at whatever pass we need my definition was the last post. "
not a clue what that meant

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By *umslut jannineTV/TS over a year ago

nottingham

"I get that the point is surly they should be named and shamed so others shouldn't fall prey "

So you could come on here and call anyone a timewaster just because they do not want to meet you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

You inquired as to what a time waster was as I'm what someone who won't met after 2 messages I spile replied. Bo not at all every one moves at their own pass and I defined time waster in my previous post. Hope that's made it crystal ( as in clear )

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Only if they led me to believe that was their intention

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You inquired as to what a time waster was as I'm what someone who won't met after 2 messages I spile replied. Bo not at all every one moves at their own pass and I defined time waster in my previous post. Hope that's made it crystal ( as in clear ) "
no it hasn't it makes no sense or I'm reading it wrong

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A person who is not the person in the profile = fake

Time waster a real or fake person who let's you believe that something will happen or led to something wit no intention of it happening = time wasters

I get people persona can be different , more confident , more cock, ect buy won't accept them being a different person

Fakes : report to admin (if you have evidence) and block

Time wasters : all you can do is block and move on - and hopefully develop a spider sense so that you can spot them early...

Barring that, how would you propose a 'name & shame' working that wouldn't be open to malicious abuse (eg me naming and shaming you?)

Unfortunately until a resilient and abuse-proof system of naming and shaming can be devised I don't think it will ever happen but I do agree the fakes and time wasters ruin it for everyone trying to get the most from the site

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not at all we are all allowed to go at whatever pass we need my definition was the last post. "

click on the quote button to reply to somone's comment

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By *umslut jannineTV/TS over a year ago

nottingham

Real fakes are quite easy to spot

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No you are not making it clear however I did get one bit just about, you expect people to meet after 2 messages otherwise they are fake/timewaster?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A person who is not the person in the profile = fake

Time waster a real or fake person who let's you believe that something will happen or led to something wit no intention of it happening = time wasters

I get people persona can be different , more confident , more cock, ect buy won't accept them being a different person

Fakes : report to admin (if you have evidence) and block

Time wasters : all you can do is block and move on - and hopefully develop a spider sense so that you can spot them early...

Barring that, how would you propose a 'name & shame' working that wouldn't be open to malicious abuse (eg me naming and shaming you?)

My point blocking is easy but doesn't act as a detergent and ruins the site

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By *umslut jannineTV/TS over a year ago

nottingham

"A person who is not the person in the profile = fake

Time waster a real or fake person who let's you believe that something will happen or led to something wit no intention of it happening = time wasters

I get people persona can be different , more confident , more cock, ect buy won't accept them being a different person

Fakes : report to admin (if you have evidence) and block

Time wasters : all you can do is block and move on - and hopefully develop a spider sense so that you can spot them early...

Barring that, how would you propose a 'name & shame' working that wouldn't be open to malicious abuse (eg me naming and shaming you?)

My point blocking is easy but doesn't act as a detergent and ruins the site"

Why do you want a detergent

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Haha I get you point lol but something must be done to out the wrong ens "

I've been on this site seven years. Not encountered a fake/no show/time waster yet, whilst some people come across them everyday: why is that?!!

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

Clear as mud.

Do you ever read what you write before posting?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A person who is not the person in the profile = fake

Time waster a real or fake person who let's you believe that something will happen or led to something wit no intention of it happening = time wasters

I get people persona can be different , more confident , more cock, ect buy won't accept them being a different person

Fakes : report to admin (if you have evidence) and block

Time wasters : all you can do is block and move on - and hopefully develop a spider sense so that you can spot them early...

Barring that, how would you propose a 'name & shame' working that wouldn't be open to malicious abuse (eg me naming and shaming you?)

My point blocking is easy but doesn't act as a detergent and ruins the site

Why do you want a detergent

Perhaps he wants to wash their dirty mouths

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

No you are not making it clear

however I did get one bit just

about, you expect people to meet

after 2 messages otherwise they

are fake/timewaster?"

No I ment that each goes at their own pace. Yet if one led you to believe a met will happen yet it clearly won't that's a time waster

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By *umslut jannineTV/TS over a year ago

nottingham

No you are not making it clear

however I did get one bit just

about, you expect people to meet

after 2 messages otherwise they

are fake/timewaster?

No I ment that each goes at their own pace. Yet if one led you to believe a met will happen yet it clearly won't that's a time waster"

You have no verifications and have only been on here 4 months

How do we know your not the time waster

Shall I name and shame you

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

No you are not making it clear

however I did get one bit just

about, you expect people to meet

after 2 messages otherwise they

are fake/timewaster?

No I ment that each goes at their own pace. Yet if one led you to believe a met will happen yet it clearly won't that's a time waster"

Perhaps after trying to decipher your messages they just give up and change their minds....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Clear as mud.

Do you ever read what you write

before posting?"

Clearly not often

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

No you are not making it clear

however I did get one bit just

about, you expect people to meet

after 2 messages otherwise they

are fake/timewaster?

No I ment that each goes at their own pace. Yet if one led you to believe a met will happen yet it clearly won't that's a time waster"

Your definition!

If I exchange messages then it dries up I assume they're no longer interested/had a better offer etc...c'est la vie. I don't call it timewasting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

No you are not making it clear

Possible it's 7 o'clock in the morning and clearly the auto text ain't on point

however I did get one bit just

about, you expect people to meet

after 2 messages otherwise they

are fake/timewaster?

No I ment that each goes at their own pace. Yet if one led you to believe a met will happen yet it clearly won't that's a time waster

Perhaps after trying to decipher your messages they just give up and change their minds...."

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

No you are not making it clear

however I did get one bit just

about, you expect people to meet

after 2 messages otherwise they

are fake/timewaster?

No I ment that each goes at their own pace. Yet if one led you to believe a met will happen yet it clearly won't that's a time waster

Perhaps after trying to decipher your messages they just give up and change their minds...."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It wasn't just me who couldn't understand his messages then ? I thought I was missing something or having a severe blonde moment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A person who is not the person in the profile = fake

Time waster a real or fake person who let's you believe that something will happen or led to something wit no intention of it happening = time wasters

I get people persona can be different , more confident , more cock, ect buy won't accept them being a different person

Well what you mean is that you were chatting to some one and at some point they changed their mind about meeting you .

My advice is after you have made arrangement to meet don't go online to chat .

Also generally women change their mind it's not their fault they are mental

Just because they say they will meet you or even chat you you does not guarantee they will turn up . Just as in vanilla dating

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

To clarify no I don't expect to meet after 2 messages. Unless that was the intention of the messages. A time waster will lead you to believe something will happen that doesn't come to fruition. I personally feel fake profiles, and some are very convicting, even verified are ruining the site and if ya wanna play them games there should be a place to name and shame such people.

Please excuse the horrendous typing and dam auto correct in previous comments. It's been along night / day xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A person who is not the person in the profile = fake

Time waster a real or fake person who let's you believe that something will happen or led to something wit no intention of it happening = time wasters

I get people persona can be different , more confident , more cock, ect buy won't accept them being a different person

Well what you mean is that you were chatting to some one and at some point they changed their mind about meeting you .

My advice is after you have made arrangement to meet don't go online to chat .

Also generally women change their mind it's not their fault they are mental

Just because they say they will meet you or even chat you you does not guarantee they will turn up .

Just as in vanilla dating "

Not quite lol but fair point about the fickleness of people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But what are saying it could be open to abuse just because you don't get your own way, there is no fair way of doing it!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We've been on here a cpl yrs yet we've never had a meet or even swung YET and i say Yet cos we defo want to but with 6 kids to think off work schools fam commitments and a close nit family around us TIME and money is the big factor plus couple who we meet as an when it happens we must have a rappor with them to start there has to be some sort of attraction for all four members us n them as we're very nervous but extremely excited about it we talk n chat to many have a good few people that the rappor has been built but as of yet haven't been able to get every thing covered babysitters etc and everything be covered home1st so on day/night that suits both parties we can meet!! so in your eyes are we time wasters or honest openminded and willing (a HOW couple) Or have i just wasted my time explaining... Simply its just Horses for courses and the swings n roundabouts Of life.Wam bam not for and defo not for us. Friends with bennifits!!

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple over a year ago

Edinburgh.

It's pretty annoying. We have a guy on we set up a kik chat with who now clearly is not going to involve the woman pictured in his profile. Bella sent a picture that made it obvious we are for real. It's a bit of a waste. Still trying to set up some Edinburgh fun next weekend.

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By *helbeeCouple over a year ago

Nuneaton

Yes there are time wasters an fakes , you have to them out an why worry about time wasters an fakes tbh..an spend time worrying an wingeing about them..yes granted there a few on here

I too have had my share of time wasters an fakes i dont let it bother me

an i dont waste my time on them..i move on..an usually before you get to the meet me stage they find an excuse not to meet..i had one guy yesterday let me down coming out with an excuse "family emergency " which is always the case granted he phoned me in the morn as ww were supposed to meet at the eve..but i explained to him that u let me down u dont get a 2nd chance with _helbee..as i could tell he was backing out

so ive moved on from that time waster an didnt let it ruin my day

i then decided last night to do a photoshoot an take new sexy photos so my eve wasnt wasted. ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My definition of a timewaster;

someone who writes unintelligible posts......

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

My definition of a timewaster;

someone who writes unintelligible

posts......"

Fair point that's been corrected

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To clarify no I don't expect to meet after 2 messages. Unless that was the intention of the messages. A time waster will lead you to believe something will happen that doesn't come to fruition. I personally feel fake profiles, and some are very convicting, even verified are ruining the site and if ya wanna play them games there should be a place to name and shame such people.

Please excuse the horrendous typing and dam auto correct in previous comments. It's been along night / day xx"

Trust your gut when mailing people. People can change their minds about meeting sometimes.

Welcome to the forum.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Yes there are time wasters an fakes , you have to them out an why worry about time wasters an fakes tbh..an spend time worrying an wingeing about them..yes granted there a few on here

I too have had my share of time wasters an fakes i dont let it bother me

so ive moved on from that time waster an didnt let it ruin my day

i then decided last night to do a photoshoot an take new sexy photos so my eve wasnt wasted. ..

We all have different definitions of timewasting: your example I wouldn't define as such. If you'd been sat, all dolled up waiting for him and he didn't turn up: yeah, timewaster. Cancelling an evening meet in the morning, decent fella in my book.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My definition of a timewaster;

someone who writes unintelligible

posts......

Fair point that's been corrected

Well here's a thing, there are two very different writing styles in your posts, one that is impossible to read, one that's well written, it's almost like the replies are being made by two people.

I don't think they are, one was rushed and poorly edited.

But that might make people believe your profile is a fake.

You see, there's no 100% foolproof method, it's a gut instinct.

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By *hampagne4usMan over a year ago

Teddington

"We've been on here a cpl yrs yet we've never had a meet or even swung YET and i say Yet cos we defo want to but with 6 kids to think off work schools fam commitments and a close nit family around us TIME and money is the big factor plus couple who we meet as an when it happens we must have a rappor with them to start there has to be some sort of attraction for all four members us n them as we're very nervous but extremely excited about it we talk n chat to many have a good few people that the rappor has been built but as of yet haven't been able to get every thing covered babysitters etc and everything be covered home1st so on day/night that suits both parties we can meet!! so in your eyes are we time wasters or honest openminded and willing (a HOW couple) Or have i just wasted my time explaining... Simply its just Horses for courses and the swings n roundabouts Of life.Wam bam not for and defo not for us. Friends with bennifits!! "

There are many factors and likewise we were on here for a year before we stepped over the line and started having fun. We have moved at my lady's pace and started with single guys, have recently moved onto a club visit and are looking at having our first fun with a couple. Our verifications stand for how we are but in moving at our own place some people didn't like the fact we didn't just jump into bed at first message stage.

We have cancelled meets because sometimes things change - one of us might not feel comfortable etc and we have had meets cancelled on us. It happens and you move on.

We look for people who have read our profile (one line "how are you" messages give it away), write more than one sentence and have verifications usually. It is about building rapport and everyone feeling comfortable and usually time wasters and fakes are quickly ed out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To me a time waster is either someone who doesn't turn up to a meet or someone who isn't who or what they claim on their profile, so a guy using a couples profile, or a man using a woman's profile.

Sometimes messages fizzle out, people change their mind and lose interest or decide they simply don't want to meet after messaging for however long.

Nothing you can do other than suck it up and move on.

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

"To me a time waster is either someone who doesn't turn up to a meet or someone who isn't who or what they claim on their profile, so a guy using a couples profile, or a man using a woman's profile.

Sometimes messages fizzle out, people change their mind and lose interest or decide they simply don't want to meet after messaging for however long.

Nothing you can do other than suck it up and move on. "

From earlier posts I guess the OP is really talking about online conversations where the interest fizzles out, which isn't really timewasting at all...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hopefully you will develop a 6th sense when it comes to spotting timewasters early on. Sadly some people like the chat and attention but never intend to meet; possibly because they aren't the person the profile suggests. I'm a fairly intelligent person (hence the ability to decipher your little errors in your posts),and don't allow people to waste too much of my time. You can block newbies and unverified people so any fakes or people who join for a quick wank chat and leave can't mail you. Don't get caught up in sexually explicit chats and don't swap naked pics. Anyone seriously interested in meeting you and not looking for a cheap thrill won't mind.

Welcome to the forums

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think guy instinct is always good. I had a no show who kept pushing for our social meet to be more than that, saying we should meet earlier so we had longer to do more if we fancied eachother etc even though I was insistent it was a social.

I just had that feeling but I set off to meet him and he checked I had arrived before saying he wasn't coming due to work, but had a bj been on the cards he would have told work to fuck off.

Reported and blocked but I know really I should have listened to my gut feeling and called it off before setting off.

You live and learn

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To me a time waster is either someone who doesn't turn up to a meet or someone who isn't who or what they claim on their profile, so a guy using a couples profile, or a man using a woman's profile.

Sometimes messages fizzle out, people change their mind and lose interest or decide they simply don't want to meet after messaging for however long.

Nothing you can do other than suck it up and move on.

From earlier posts I guess the OP is really talking about online conversations where the interest fizzles out, which isn't really timewasting at all..."

It is if the person has led you to believe they want to meet to keep you talking.

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By *unloversCouple over a year ago

rotherham

This site is full,of timewasters and fakes but you just move on with your life and not moan about it in forums as people will just take the piss and to be honest no one really cares

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have cancelled meets because sometimes things change - one of us might not feel comfortable etc and we have had meets cancelled on us. It happens and you move on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To me a time waster is either someone who doesn't turn up to a meet or someone who isn't who or what they claim on their profile, so a guy using a couples profile, or a man using a woman's profile.

Sometimes messages fizzle out, people change their mind and lose interest or decide they simply don't want to meet after messaging for however long.

Nothing you can do other than suck it up and move on. "
no pun intended ay ! Haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A timewaster is someone who says they will turn up for a meet , and doesn't show .

If they give a valid reason before the arranged time , fair enough . We all have lives outside fab and things happen which may cause us to have to cancel .

If they just don't show up however , they ate timewasters and we block them . We also make sure all our contacts on here know about it . This way it saves others getting their time wasted by the idiots that truly spoil the site .

It's a common thing that we have found over the years on fab that timewasters do get their just desserts . People talk , names get mentioned , and when more than one says they are timewasters , it's not long before they leave the site . Often after many status updates saying the site is a waste of time as they can't get a meet !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not sure if you are looking for a response to this , but here goes .

I said before that a timewaster is someone who just doesn't show up at an arranged meet .

You guys aren't timewasters as it doesn't seem to be the case with your, as in over 2 years you haven't arranged a meet .

You have given your reasons for not having had a meet , and that's fair enough .

If we spent time trying to arrange a meet with you and it didn't happen , we would only have ourselves to blame . Therefore we wouldn't bother in the first place .

You say Rome wasn't built in a day , and that's true . But to have been on fab ( as a couple ) for over two years without a meet is hardly a productive use of time is it ?

You don't have to justify it , people use fab as they wish , but one does have to question whether you really are just wasting your own time on here .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This site gives you all the tools you need as in filtering out non verified users etc and you have your gut instinct. It works very well for me, only been let down twice in 5 years. People chatting about meeting then not going through with it are not time wasters, you'd probably be on here chatting to others anyway. As others have said, your time is only truly wasted if you arrange a meet, sort child care, take time getting ready, travelling to the venue etc only for them to no show with a poor last minute excuse or no contact at all. If this happens to you a lot then change the way you select potential meets or stick to meeting in clubs.

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By *ilmiss75Woman over a year ago

Thornton

"A person who is not the person in the profile = fake

Time waster a real or fake person who let's you believe that something will happen or led to something wit no intention of it happening = time wasters

I get people persona can be different , more confident , more cock, ect buy won't accept them being a different person

God help if they just don't fancy the person once they meet them!!

Everyone has a right to change there mind. Maybe a little less expectation won't lead to disappointment in future!

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

"To me a time waster is either someone who doesn't turn up to a meet or someone who isn't who or what they claim on their profile, so a guy using a couples profile, or a man using a woman's profile.

Sometimes messages fizzle out, people change their mind and lose interest or decide they simply don't want to meet after messaging for however long.

Nothing you can do other than suck it up and move on.

From earlier posts I guess the OP is really talking about online conversations where the interest fizzles out, which isn't really timewasting at all...

It is if the person has led you to believe they want to meet to keep you talking. "

Why would anyone do that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Any site like this will always be open to fakes and time wasters. It goes with the turf. Just block and move on. The good experiences far outweigh the bad

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

There are two places to direct yourself, if you suspect a fake etc - the first is admin and the second is your head.

Nobody is for everyone here. The better the initial chat, the easier it is for yourself and others to determine that someone is or is not for them. A long chat may seem like a waste of time but maybe it's actually saving a lot of time and effort, further downstream, getting out to a meet that wouldn't have worked well.

You always need to be in learning mode on fab - in fact, in life. Learn about yourself, your actions and to learn about others. Maybe the chat that came to nothing was just about poorer communication that, if different, could have resulted in a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is the OP d*unk?! I'm genuinely struggling to understand the point of this thread!

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By *rs DCouple over a year ago

far

"You inquired as to what a time waster was as I'm what someone who won't met after 2 messages I spile replied. Bo not at all every one moves at their own pass and I defined time waster in my previous post. Hope that's made it crystal ( as in clear ) "
pissed up or typos or predictive text on.god knows cuz i cant understand it can anyone els,???

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

"A person who is not the person in the profile = fake

Time waster a real or fake person who let's you believe that something will happen or led to something wit no intention of it happening = time wasters

So what if the person just changed their mind? Would they be classed as timewasters too?

We have always made a deal that either party can walk away from any arrangement without needing to give a reason....that includes right up to meeting or even half way through a meet.....people surely can change their minds without people thinking they are timewasters.

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"A person who is not the person in the profile = fake

Time waster a real or fake person who let's you believe that something will happen or led to something wit no intention of it happening = time wasters

So what if the person just changed their mind? Would they be classed as timewasters too?

This! You should always feel able to stop at any point for whatever reason without consequence.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

Ok a couple of points...the man explained why his posts were not clear so can we drop that and his profile is not up for critique so please don't do it

Welcome to the forum OP

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman over a year ago

Portsmouth

"A person who is not the person in the profile = fake

Time waster a real or fake person who let's you believe that something will happen or led to something wit no intention of it happening = time wasters

So what if the person just changed their mind? Would they be classed as timewasters too?

This! You should always feel able to stop at any point for whatever reason without consequence. "

agree

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A person who is not the person in the profile = fake

Time waster a real or fake person who let's you believe that something will happen or led to something wit no intention of it happening = time wasters

So what if the person just changed their mind? Would they be classed as timewasters too?

To a degree I agree . But if they don't let you know they have changed their mind , and you have made all necessary arrangements , they are .

And not just time but money too as babysitters don't come cheap !

We agree that any party can walk away at any time , but surely if they just don't show up that epitomises a timewaster in anyone's book ?

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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"A person who is not the person in the profile = fake

Time waster a real or fake person who let's you believe that something will happen or led to something wit no intention of it happening = time wasters

So what if the person just changed their mind? Would they be classed as timewasters too?

To a degree I agree . But if they don't let you know they have changed their mind , and you have made all necessary arrangements , they are .

And not just time but money too as babysitters don't come cheap !

We agree that any party can walk away at any time , but surely if they just don't show up that epitomises a timewaster in anyone's book ?"

I didn't mention people who don't turn up without letting you know. I was answering what the OP thought was a timewaster.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They could look through window see you and do a runner , and just let you. Think they did not turn up .

It's quiet simple just because you make a meet doesn't mean anything g. If your stupid enough to drive across the country to meet someone your taking the chance they won't turn up .

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I get that the point is surly they should be named and shamed so others shouldn't fall prey "
I think the person who posted second in your thread answered that question. The only common denominator, if you're getting targeted by 'fakes' and 'time wasters', is you. It's up to you to work out ways to stop them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

keep evidence if you can and report it all to admin - then block and forget it and move on

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No you are not making it clear

however I did get one bit just

about, you expect people to meet

after 2 messages otherwise they

are fake/timewaster?

No I ment that each goes at their own pace. Yet if one led you to believe a met will happen yet it clearly won't that's a time waster"

OP, it means at some point in their conversation with you, they changed their mind. Only if you had a time and location to meet and then they didn't turn up and you didn't believe their excuse - then that is the time to be pissed off. Do what I do - arrange to meet for coffee at a certain time - if they don't contact you to say they are gonna be late, and they don't turn up you can have a relaxed coffee and then do something else. You've missed out on nothing but gained a coffee. Cool, eh?

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By *laclkguyMan over a year ago

Pontefract

I've just been chatting with a dreamer claiming to be setting up a GB group around Selby

sent me a friend invite and began telling me about a GB party then when I logged back on an 2 hours later the party list was full

but he knew of a couple near by but wanted a dick photo

(bells ringing)

when I said that I wanted a photo of them

he said that their in the drivers seat

I said no deal

now I'm no longer on the friends list

this dick is doing a lot work just to get cock shots lol

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Just had one. I've now taken to asking couples if they are actually real or fake so funny the ones who just admit it with that straight to the point question.

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