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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i know its not thursday;) its friday, but i couldnt resist a little social gathering this week..

as some of you know, ive lost my voice this week, it got me thinking of how many people bottle it, then wanting to ask a question, write a message, or basically, wanting to say hi to someone..

so this weeks friendly online thread, in honour of losing my voice, is all about that,

daring to think,

daring to speak and

daring to act...

lets see what we all dare to do today,or discuss what we dont... keeping it fun, flirty and good natured xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I was asked something yesterday as a dare and enjoyed it a lot actually.....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I was asked something yesterday as a dare and enjoyed it a lot actually.....

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hey swinging....welcome..do you get dared often? do you enjoy the challenge?x

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today "

hi witchy,,yeah thinking is dangerous, couldnt agree more, tell me though would you have done it, if you hadnt thought about it?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today "

Me too!

-Courtney

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today

Me too!

-Courtney"

are you an over thinker courtney?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I was asked something yesterday as a dare and enjoyed it a lot actually.....

hey swinging....welcome..do you get dared often? do you enjoy the challenge?x"

I haven't been dated often

Do I enjoy the challenge..... I'd say LOVE the challenge haha

Feel free to bring it on lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today

Me too!

-Courtney

are you an over thinker courtney?"

Yes, yes I am. And I drag others down with me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Afternoon Suzy - sorry you've lost your voice - PB hugs for you!

Hmm - I'm possibly daring to go back to something I left over a year ago. Will it be better, more fulfilling... Dunno, this is my dare!

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I was asked something yesterday as a dare and enjoyed it a lot actually.....

hey swinging....welcome..do you get dared often? do you enjoy the challenge?x

I haven't been dated often

Do I enjoy the challenge..... I'd say LOVE the challenge haha

Feel free to bring it on lol xx"

how does challenge excite you?..and you never know, thread magic is about and waiting to be felt xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today

hi witchy,,yeah thinking is dangerous, couldnt agree more, tell me though would you have done it, if you hadnt thought about it?"

I thought about answering your question then realised I should be resting from thinking, then rrealised I was thinking about resting from thinking, the en realised I was thinking about thinking about resting from thinking, then thought fuck it and pressed.....

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today

Me too!

-Courtney

are you an over thinker courtney?

Yes, yes I am. And I drag others down with me "

what would happen if you went 'fuck it' to every thought for a whole day?xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today

hi witchy,,yeah thinking is dangerous, couldnt agree more, tell me though would you have done it, if you hadnt thought about it?

I thought about answering your question then realised I should be resting from thinking, then rrealised I was thinking about resting from thinking, the en realised I was thinking about thinking about resting from thinking, then thought fuck it and pressed....."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I was asked something yesterday as a dare and enjoyed it a lot actually.....

hey swinging....welcome..do you get dared often? do you enjoy the challenge?x

I haven't been dated often

Do I enjoy the challenge..... I'd say LOVE the challenge haha

Feel free to bring it on lol xx

how does challenge excite you?..and you never know, thread magic is about and waiting to be felt xx"

I love the idea of how other people's minds work.... Things that enter their mind which excites them and may turn them on to a degree to.

I'll always be honest if it's out of my comfort zone I'll say

Let's see what thread magic crops up in my inbox then xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Your post made me think of truth or dare for some reason ;0)

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Afternoon Suzy - sorry you've lost your voice - PB hugs for you!

Hmm - I'm possibly daring to go back to something I left over a year ago. Will it be better, more fulfilling... Dunno, this is my dare!"

ooohthe going back/ going forward challenge..interesting..do you feel you got everything you could from it last time?..

some run towards things and some run back..which is this for you..and big hugs back Mr PB..mmmmmm nice xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier."

Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude

You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it

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By *r TriomanMan  over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"I was asked something yesterday as a dare and enjoyed it a lot actually.....

hey swinging....welcome..do you get dared often? do you enjoy the challenge?x"

I hate being dared because I just have to it - it has got me into trouble at times.

As for bottling it on fab; I very rarely do this - if I do, it's normally about revealing my marital status as it can sometimes provoke a lot of negative comments (even though it is in my profile).

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today

Me too!

-Courtney

are you an over thinker courtney?

Yes, yes I am. And I drag others down with me

what would happen if you went 'fuck it' to every thought for a whole day?xx"

We'll find out cuz that's what I'm doing today

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I find looking like you are thinking is very useful...people leave you alone. I dont go as far as actually knowing anything..then you get asked tricky questions

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today

hi witchy,,yeah thinking is dangerous, couldnt agree more, tell me though would you have done it, if you hadnt thought about it?

I thought about answering your question then realised I should be resting from thinking, then rrealised I was thinking about resting from thinking, the en realised I was thinking about thinking about resting from thinking, then thought fuck it and pressed.....

Post message "

so write something else...write some poetry, a line of anything..that springs from your psyche...might be quite interesting to see your flow mr witchy xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier.

Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude

You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it "

I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act.

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier."

hello lovely nell.. well im trusting that you express yourself here today, thanks for being here.. let your fingers do the talking..big hugs to you and your impending freedom of expression..xx much love..just do it! xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I find looking like you are thinking is very useful...people leave you alone. I dont go as far as actually knowing anything..then you get asked tricky questions "

If I'm deep in thought I get told "cheer up! It might never happen!" I need to practice a new thinking face.....

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I was asked something yesterday as a dare and enjoyed it a lot actually.....

hey swinging....welcome..do you get dared often? do you enjoy the challenge?x

I haven't been dated often

Do I enjoy the challenge..... I'd say LOVE the challenge haha

Feel free to bring it on lol xx

how does challenge excite you?..and you never know, thread magic is about and waiting to be felt xx

I love the idea of how other people's minds work.... Things that enter their mind which excites them and may turn them on to a degree to.

I'll always be honest if it's out of my comfort zone I'll say

Let's see what thread magic crops up in my inbox then xx"

what do you think about people who say they dont think about things..and do you like being out of your comfort zone? what happens if you get taken there? x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"i know its not thursday;) its friday, but i couldnt resist a little social gathering this week..

as some of you know, ive lost my voice this week, it got me thinking of how many people bottle it, then wanting to ask a question, write a message, or basically, wanting to say hi to someone..

so this weeks friendly online thread, in honour of losing my voice, is all about that,

daring to think,

daring to speak and

daring to act...

lets see what we all dare to do today,or discuss what we dont... keeping it fun, flirty and good natured xx"

Your regular little cilla aren't you?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier.

Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude

You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it

I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act."

That's understandable I think it's key to know a little about someone in an ideal world but never be afraid to speak your mind.....

What's the worst that can happen.... Someone doesn't like it oh well their loss.

I used to be terrible wouldn't say boo to a goose whilst I am not in anyway shape or form rude or nasty I'm flirtatious cheeky and will show it xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today

hi witchy,,yeah thinking is dangerous, couldnt agree more, tell me though would you have done it, if you hadnt thought about it?

I thought about answering your question then realised I should be resting from thinking, then rrealised I was thinking about resting from thinking, the en realised I was thinking about thinking about resting from thinking, then thought fuck it and pressed.....

Post message

so write something else...write some poetry, a line of anything..that springs from your psyche...might be quite interesting to see your flow mr witchy xx"

I wrote some alternative lyrics to a song on the cheapest item of clothing you've bought, earlier

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Your post made me think of truth or dare for some reason ;0) "

good afternoon miss barker

oooh interesting thought...does that excite you...you can ask, people dont haveto answer..if thats your thing this afternoon, go for it xx how fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I was asked something yesterday as a dare and enjoyed it a lot actually.....

hey swinging....welcome..do you get dared often? do you enjoy the challenge?x

I haven't been dated often

Do I enjoy the challenge..... I'd say LOVE the challenge haha

Feel free to bring it on lol xx

how does challenge excite you?..and you never know, thread magic is about and waiting to be felt xx

I love the idea of how other people's minds work.... Things that enter their mind which excites them and may turn them on to a degree to.

I'll always be honest if it's out of my comfort zone I'll say

Let's see what thread magic crops up in my inbox then xx

what do you think about people who say they dont think about things..and do you like being out of your comfort zone? what happens if you get taken there? x"

As yet no one has dared me something to take me that at out of my comfort zone so I don't know to be fair OP....

As for those who say they don't think that's completely their choice I will always have a little think as to how it might effect me if it goes wrong due to work etc

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier.

Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude

You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it "

awesome x what made you come to that conclusion? xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Your post made me think of truth or dare for some reason ;0)

good afternoon miss barker

oooh interesting thought...does that excite you...you can ask, people dont haveto answer..if thats your thing this afternoon, go for it xx how fun xx"

Big fan of naughty and flirtatious truth or dare games indeed

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier.

Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude

You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it

awesome x what made you come to that conclusion? xx"

Sitting behind emails in FAB as a single guy when I first joined was quite a daunting thing....

Decided to go to a club and actually speak to people simply as that if you want something in life as for it if they say no what have you lost.....

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I was asked something yesterday as a dare and enjoyed it a lot actually.....

hey swinging....welcome..do you get dared often? do you enjoy the challenge?x

I hate being dared because I just have to it - it has got me into trouble at times.

As for bottling it on fab; I very rarely do this - if I do, it's normally about revealing my marital status as it can sometimes provoke a lot of negative comments (even though it is in my profile)."

hey flirt man.. hehe do you see it as a competition thing then? ahh the joys of past experience colouring the procedure into the unknown...other people influencing action..interesting xx

they make you, they stop you.....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Your post made me think of truth or dare for some reason ;0)

good afternoon miss barker

oooh interesting thought...does that excite you...you can ask, people dont haveto answer..if thats your thing this afternoon, go for it xx how fun xx"

Afternoon Suzy ....it does indeed excite me , light relief after a Challenging few months ahead is very much required !

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today

Me too!

-Courtney

are you an over thinker courtney?

Yes, yes I am. And I drag others down with me

what would happen if you went 'fuck it' to every thought for a whole day?xx

We'll find out cuz that's what I'm doing today "

most excellent challenge..i hope you flow with us this afternoon..xx

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I find looking like you are thinking is very useful...people leave you alone. I dont go as far as actually knowing anything..then you get asked tricky questions "

the trickster..fabulous.. and then you get sucked in?..is that how you see it? xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier.

Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude

You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it

I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act.

That's understandable I think it's key to know a little about someone in an ideal world but never be afraid to speak your mind.....

What's the worst that can happen.... Someone doesn't like it oh well their loss.

I used to be terrible wouldn't say boo to a goose whilst I am not in anyway shape or form rude or nasty I'm flirtatious cheeky and will show it xx"

I'm much the same now but it's been a very long and difficult journey. Being on fab has helped enormously.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I nearly always say yes to a dare

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Your post made me think of truth or dare for some reason ;0)

good afternoon miss barker

oooh interesting thought...does that excite you...you can ask, people dont haveto answer..if thats your thing this afternoon, go for it xx how fun xx

Afternoon Suzy ....it does indeed excite me , light relief after a Challenging few months ahead is very much required ! "

Good attitude..... Feel free to ask away if you think I'm your cup of tea so to speak x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I nearly always say yes to a dare "

I'll keep that in mind when I'm in and around Reading lol xx

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By *dinMan  over a year ago

Birmingham


"i know its not thursday;) its friday, but i couldnt resist a little social gathering this week..

as some of you know, ive lost my voice this week, it got me thinking of how many people bottle it, then wanting to ask a question, write a message, or basically, wanting to say hi to someone..

so this weeks friendly online thread, in honour of losing my voice, is all about that,

daring to think,

daring to speak and

daring to act...

lets see what we all dare to do today,or discuss what we dont... keeping it fun, flirty and good natured xx"

being thought provoking as usual I see xxx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today

hi witchy,,yeah thinking is dangerous, couldnt agree more, tell me though would you have done it, if you hadnt thought about it?

I thought about answering your question then realised I should be resting from thinking, then rrealised I was thinking about resting from thinking, the en realised I was thinking about thinking about resting from thinking, then thought fuck it and pressed.....

Post message

so write something else...write some poetry, a line of anything..that springs from your psyche...might be quite interesting to see your flow mr witchy xx"

Poetry?

Humid seal of soft affections,

Tenderest pledge of future bliss,

Dearest tie of young connections,

Love's first snowdrop, virgin kiss!

Speaking silence, dumb confession,

Passion's birth, and infant's play,

Dove-like fondness, chaste concession,

Glowing dawn of future day!

Sorrowing joy, Adieu's last action,

(Lingering lips must now disjoin),

What words can ever speak affection

So thrilling and sincere as thine!

One of my favourites...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I nearly always say yes to a dare "

I dare you to take a trip up to Leeds!

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier.

Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude

You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it

I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act."

yes..but valuing yourself as an individual just as you are, we all have quirks about us, that's what makes us individuals, and ultimately lovable don't you think? x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier.

Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude

You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it

I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act.

yes..but valuing yourself as an individual just as you are, we all have quirks about us, that's what makes us individuals, and ultimately lovable don't you think? x"

Spot on xx

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"i know its not thursday;) its friday, but i couldnt resist a little social gathering this week..

as some of you know, ive lost my voice this week, it got me thinking of how many people bottle it, then wanting to ask a question, write a message, or basically, wanting to say hi to someone..

so this weeks friendly online thread, in honour of losing my voice, is all about that,

daring to think,

daring to speak and

daring to act...

lets see what we all dare to do today,or discuss what we dont... keeping it fun, flirty and good natured xx

Your regular little cilla aren't you?"

hey liddy. i wouldnt know, i have very little self reflection.. i get the urge i act..i find life fun that way,and amazing and beautiful and magical... not taking on board conformity or expectations of what others might think of me.. that challenge i have successfully completed in life..thank goodness xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier.

Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude

You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it

I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act.

yes..but valuing yourself as an individual just as you are, we all have quirks about us, that's what makes us individuals, and ultimately lovable don't you think? x

Spot on xx"

Definitely. I do value myself. It's not lack of self-esteem that has been my hurdle in learning how to interract with confidence.

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier.

Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude

You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it

I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act.

That's understandable I think it's key to know a little about someone in an ideal world but never be afraid to speak your mind.....

What's the worst that can happen.... Someone doesn't like it oh well their loss.

I used to be terrible wouldn't say boo to a goose whilst I am not in anyway shape or form rude or nasty I'm flirtatious cheeky and will show it xx"

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today

hi witchy,,yeah thinking is dangerous, couldnt agree more, tell me though would you have done it, if you hadnt thought about it?

I thought about answering your question then realised I should be resting from thinking, then rrealised I was thinking about resting from thinking, the en realised I was thinking about thinking about resting from thinking, then thought fuck it and pressed.....

Post message

so write something else...write some poetry, a line of anything..that springs from your psyche...might be quite interesting to see your flow mr witchy xx

I wrote some alternative lyrics to a song on the cheapest item of clothing you've bought, earlier "

mmmm getting creative..is that what a dare is? mr witchy..i must go peek later xx

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I was asked something yesterday as a dare and enjoyed it a lot actually.....

hey swinging....welcome..do you get dared often? do you enjoy the challenge?x

I haven't been dated often

Do I enjoy the challenge..... I'd say LOVE the challenge haha

Feel free to bring it on lol xx

how does challenge excite you?..and you never know, thread magic is about and waiting to be felt xx

I love the idea of how other people's minds work.... Things that enter their mind which excites them and may turn them on to a degree to.

I'll always be honest if it's out of my comfort zone I'll say

Let's see what thread magic crops up in my inbox then xx

what do you think about people who say they dont think about things..and do you like being out of your comfort zone? what happens if you get taken there? x

As yet no one has dared me something to take me that at out of my comfort zone so I don't know to be fair OP....

As for those who say they don't think that's completely their choice I will always have a little think as to how it might effect me if it goes wrong due to work etc "

you have rules?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier.

Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude

You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it

I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act.

yes..but valuing yourself as an individual just as you are, we all have quirks about us, that's what makes us individuals, and ultimately lovable don't you think? x

Spot on xx

Definitely. I do value myself. It's not lack of self-esteem that has been my hurdle in learning how to interract with confidence."

You have to learn about others and their body language and quickly if unsure approach with caution lol

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Your post made me think of truth or dare for some reason ;0)

good afternoon miss barker

oooh interesting thought...does that excite you...you can ask, people dont haveto answer..if thats your thing this afternoon, go for it xx how fun xx

Big fan of naughty and flirtatious truth or dare games indeed "

me too...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Your post made me think of truth or dare for some reason ;0)

good afternoon miss barker

oooh interesting thought...does that excite you...you can ask, people dont haveto answer..if thats your thing this afternoon, go for it xx how fun xx

Big fan of naughty and flirtatious truth or dare games indeed

me too..."

Well all you have to do is ask LOL I'm game xx

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier.

Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude

You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it

awesome x what made you come to that conclusion? xx

Sitting behind emails in FAB as a single guy when I first joined was quite a daunting thing....

Decided to go to a club and actually speak to people simply as that if you want something in life as for it if they say no what have you lost..... "

yes i didnt join here first i went to a club first and heard about this place while i was there..that was my challenge..launching myself onto the scene as a single...took some processing...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier.

Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude

You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it

I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act.

yes..but valuing yourself as an individual just as you are, we all have quirks about us, that's what makes us individuals, and ultimately lovable don't you think? x

Spot on xx

Definitely. I do value myself. It's not lack of self-esteem that has been my hurdle in learning how to interract with confidence."

I think a lot of people on here (initially at least) put up an internal ranking system with everyone else..there is the classic he/she is out of my league. It is a weird sensation when you finally break through that reserve and go...actually, fuck it. I am going to message XYZ. I like them, what do I have to lose?

I was in a really bad place a year ago, but being active on the forums has helped me be the person I always was but never showed to anyone. Its an odd sensation for me to realise that people actually like me and some ladies who I would never have dared speak to a year ago are interested in me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today

hi witchy,,yeah thinking is dangerous, couldnt agree more, tell me though would you have done it, if you hadnt thought about it?

I thought about answering your question then realised I should be resting from thinking, then rrealised I was thinking about resting from thinking, the en realised I was thinking about thinking about resting from thinking, then thought fuck it and pressed.....

Post message

so write something else...write some poetry, a line of anything..that springs from your psyche...might be quite interesting to see your flow mr witchy xx

Poetry?

Humid seal of soft affections,

Tenderest pledge of future bliss,

Dearest tie of young connections,

Love's first snowdrop, virgin kiss!

Speaking silence, dumb confession,

Passion's birth, and infant's play,

Dove-like fondness, chaste concession,

Glowing dawn of future day!

Sorrowing joy, Adieu's last action,

(Lingering lips must now disjoin),

What words can ever speak affection

So thrilling and sincere as thine!

One of my favourites...

"

The Parting Kiss - Beautiful

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Your post made me think of truth or dare for some reason ;0)

good afternoon miss barker

oooh interesting thought...does that excite you...you can ask, people dont haveto answer..if thats your thing this afternoon, go for it xx how fun xx

Afternoon Suzy ....it does indeed excite me , light relief after a Challenging few months ahead is very much required ! "

then please , feel free..all about freedom here xx enjoy the opportunity..x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier.

Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude

You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it

I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act.

yes..but valuing yourself as an individual just as you are, we all have quirks about us, that's what makes us individuals, and ultimately lovable don't you think? x

Spot on xx

Definitely. I do value myself. It's not lack of self-esteem that has been my hurdle in learning how to interract with confidence.

I think a lot of people on here (initially at least) put up an internal ranking system with everyone else..there is the classic he/she is out of my league. It is a weird sensation when you finally break through that reserve and go...actually, fuck it. I am going to message XYZ. I like them, what do I have to lose?

I was in a really bad place a year ago, but being active on the forums has helped me be the person I always was but never showed to anyone. Its an odd sensation for me to realise that people actually like me and some ladies who I would never have dared speak to a year ago are interested in me."

I still look at women and think they are well out of my league too but you never actually know so will still send a message if it gets deleted move on. I was the same a few years back it took me to a bad place as it felt like harsh rejection but hey I've had a lot of good times on here so enjoy it

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier.

Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude

You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it

I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act.

That's understandable I think it's key to know a little about someone in an ideal world but never be afraid to speak your mind.....

What's the worst that can happen.... Someone doesn't like it oh well their loss.

I used to be terrible wouldn't say boo to a goose whilst I am not in anyway shape or form rude or nasty I'm flirtatious cheeky and will show it xx

I'm much the same now but it's been a very long and difficult journey. Being on fab has helped enormously."

love you Nell xxx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier.

Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude

You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it

I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act.

yes..but valuing yourself as an individual just as you are, we all have quirks about us, that's what makes us individuals, and ultimately lovable don't you think? x

Spot on xx

Definitely. I do value myself. It's not lack of self-esteem that has been my hurdle in learning how to interract with confidence.

I think a lot of people on here (initially at least) put up an internal ranking system with everyone else..there is the classic he/she is out of my league. It is a weird sensation when you finally break through that reserve and go...actually, fuck it. I am going to message XYZ. I like them, what do I have to lose?

I was in a really bad place a year ago, but being active on the forums has helped me be the person I always was but never showed to anyone. Its an odd sensation for me to realise that people actually like me and some ladies who I would never have dared speak to a year ago are interested in me."

I absolutely understand that, but I didn't rank people on looks and popularity but on intellect. I got over that pretty quickly and started messaging. It's worked out very nicely!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Afternoon Suzy - sorry you've lost your voice - PB hugs for you!

Hmm - I'm possibly daring to go back to something I left over a year ago. Will it be better, more fulfilling... Dunno, this is my dare!

ooohthe going back/ going forward challenge..interesting..do you feel you got everything you could from it last time?..

some run towards things and some run back..which is this for you..and big hugs back Mr PB..mmmmmm nice xx "

I didn't last time, that's why if I do go back it needs to be completely different - that's the challenge - It would have to be going back to run forward if you know what I mean?

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I nearly always say yes to a dare "

hi miss Innocent...what does it do, for you?..good to see you..nice of you to join us xx

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"i know its not thursday;) its friday, but i couldnt resist a little social gathering this week..

as some of you know, ive lost my voice this week, it got me thinking of how many people bottle it, then wanting to ask a question, write a message, or basically, wanting to say hi to someone..

so this weeks friendly online thread, in honour of losing my voice, is all about that,

daring to think,

daring to speak and

daring to act...

lets see what we all dare to do today,or discuss what we dont... keeping it fun, flirty and good natured xx

being thought provoking as usual I see xxx"

hehe well at least you dont see it as just being 'provoking'...hehe good to see you honey..do you like being provoked? x

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today

hi witchy,,yeah thinking is dangerous, couldnt agree more, tell me though would you have done it, if you hadnt thought about it?

I thought about answering your question then realised I should be resting from thinking, then rrealised I was thinking about resting from thinking, the en realised I was thinking about thinking about resting from thinking, then thought fuck it and pressed.....

Post message

so write something else...write some poetry, a line of anything..that springs from your psyche...might be quite interesting to see your flow mr witchy xx

Poetry?

Humid seal of soft affections,

Tenderest pledge of future bliss,

Dearest tie of young connections,

Love's first snowdrop, virgin kiss!

Speaking silence, dumb confession,

Passion's birth, and infant's play,

Dove-like fondness, chaste concession,

Glowing dawn of future day!

Sorrowing joy, Adieu's last action,

(Lingering lips must now disjoin),

What words can ever speak affection

So thrilling and sincere as thine!

One of my favourites...

"

oooh you still havent found, what your looking for? (im listening to U2, and it seemed apt) xx

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By *r TriomanMan  over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"I was asked something yesterday as a dare and enjoyed it a lot actually.....

hey swinging....welcome..do you get dared often? do you enjoy the challenge?x

I hate being dared because I just have to it - it has got me into trouble at times.

As for bottling it on fab; I very rarely do this - if I do, it's normally about revealing my marital status as it can sometimes provoke a lot of negative comments (even though it is in my profile).

hey flirt man.. hehe do you see it as a competition thing then? ahh the joys of past experience colouring the procedure into the unknown...other people influencing action..interesting xx

they make you, they stop you....."

I used to be a very good road runner and cross country skier so I'm ultra competitive - so a dare becomes a completion especially if others are given the same dare too; even if it goes against my nature - fortunately it doesn't happen very often these days

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier.

Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude

You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it

I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act.

yes..but valuing yourself as an individual just as you are, we all have quirks about us, that's what makes us individuals, and ultimately lovable don't you think? x

Spot on xx

Definitely. I do value myself. It's not lack of self-esteem that has been my hurdle in learning how to interract with confidence."

being honest i feel thats a life long thing .....a life lesson if you will..one long term dare..like loving...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today

hi witchy,,yeah thinking is dangerous, couldnt agree more, tell me though would you have done it, if you hadnt thought about it?

I thought about answering your question then realised I should be resting from thinking, then rrealised I was thinking about resting from thinking, the en realised I was thinking about thinking about resting from thinking, then thought fuck it and pressed.....

Post message

so write something else...write some poetry, a line of anything..that springs from your psyche...might be quite interesting to see your flow mr witchy xx

Poetry?

Humid seal of soft affections,

Tenderest pledge of future bliss,

Dearest tie of young connections,

Love's first snowdrop, virgin kiss!

Speaking silence, dumb confession,

Passion's birth, and infant's play,

Dove-like fondness, chaste concession,

Glowing dawn of future day!

Sorrowing joy, Adieu's last action,

(Lingering lips must now disjoin),

What words can ever speak affection

So thrilling and sincere as thine!

One of my favourites...

"

Robbie Burns

The Autumn leaves begin to fall, as my thoughts return to you

Remembering the summer of our love, lying glistening in the dew

Of tears shed throughout the night as I lay awake in bed,

Praying your love would return once more like when decided to be wed.

Time lies heavy on me now, tired from restless sleep

Wondering how I lost that love, that once was fathoms deep.

The pain it pierces my heart anew as I remember your glowing face,

Dimmed by years of thoughtlessness while immersed in the rat race.

Find time for love and keep it fresh, with kiss and soft caress.

Hold each other tenderly, never settle for anything less.

Don't take each other foregranted nor wish for greener grass

Because if you do, I'm telling you, life will bite you on the ass

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Your post made me think of truth or dare for some reason ;0)

good afternoon miss barker

oooh interesting thought...does that excite you...you can ask, people dont haveto answer..if thats your thing this afternoon, go for it xx how fun xx

Big fan of naughty and flirtatious truth or dare games indeed

me too...

Well all you have to do is ask LOL I'm game xx"

are you ever willing to fall in love again?

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier.

Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude

You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it

I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act.

yes..but valuing yourself as an individual just as you are, we all have quirks about us, that's what makes us individuals, and ultimately lovable don't you think? x

Spot on xx

Definitely. I do value myself. It's not lack of self-esteem that has been my hurdle in learning how to interract with confidence.

I think a lot of people on here (initially at least) put up an internal ranking system with everyone else..there is the classic he/she is out of my league. It is a weird sensation when you finally break through that reserve and go...actually, fuck it. I am going to message XYZ. I like them, what do I have to lose?

I was in a really bad place a year ago, but being active on the forums has helped me be the person I always was but never showed to anyone. Its an odd sensation for me to realise that people actually like me and some ladies who I would never have dared speak to a year ago are interested in me."

amazing journey... ive had the same over the last 6 months and its continuing...being on my own for 5 years and being a hermit..its been a huge challenge to accept any attention at all..

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By *dinMan  over a year ago

Birmingham


"i know its not thursday;) its friday, but i couldnt resist a little social gathering this week..

as some of you know, ive lost my voice this week, it got me thinking of how many people bottle it, then wanting to ask a question, write a message, or basically, wanting to say hi to someone..

so this weeks friendly online thread, in honour of losing my voice, is all about that,

daring to think,

daring to speak and

daring to act...

lets see what we all dare to do today,or discuss what we dont... keeping it fun, flirty and good natured xx

being thought provoking as usual I see xxx

hehe well at least you dont see it as just being 'provoking'...hehe good to see you honey..do you like being provoked? x "

is that provoked or poked? I don't mind either to be honest lol

and always enjoy a bit of truth or dare if that's not hijacking your conversation with miss barker

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier.

Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude

You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it

I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act.

yes..but valuing yourself as an individual just as you are, we all have quirks about us, that's what makes us individuals, and ultimately lovable don't you think? x

Spot on xx

Definitely. I do value myself. It's not lack of self-esteem that has been my hurdle in learning how to interract with confidence.

I think a lot of people on here (initially at least) put up an internal ranking system with everyone else..there is the classic he/she is out of my league. It is a weird sensation when you finally break through that reserve and go...actually, fuck it. I am going to message XYZ. I like them, what do I have to lose?

I was in a really bad place a year ago, but being active on the forums has helped me be the person I always was but never showed to anyone. Its an odd sensation for me to realise that people actually like me and some ladies who I would never have dared speak to a year ago are interested in me.

I still look at women and think they are well out of my league too but you never actually know so will still send a message if it gets deleted move on. I was the same a few years back it took me to a bad place as it felt like harsh rejection but hey I've had a lot of good times on here so enjoy it "

do we learn to be more open or more closed?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier.

Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude

You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it

I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act.

That's understandable I think it's key to know a little about someone in an ideal world but never be afraid to speak your mind.....

What's the worst that can happen.... Someone doesn't like it oh well their loss.

I used to be terrible wouldn't say boo to a goose whilst I am not in anyway shape or form rude or nasty I'm flirtatious cheeky and will show it xx

I'm much the same now but it's been a very long and difficult journey. Being on fab has helped enormously.

love you Nell xxx "

Love you too Suzy, for facilitating these discussions.xxx

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Afternoon Suzy - sorry you've lost your voice - PB hugs for you!

Hmm - I'm possibly daring to go back to something I left over a year ago. Will it be better, more fulfilling... Dunno, this is my dare!

ooohthe going back/ going forward challenge..interesting..do you feel you got everything you could from it last time?..

some run towards things and some run back..which is this for you..and big hugs back Mr PB..mmmmmm nice xx

I didn't last time, that's why if I do go back it needs to be completely different - that's the challenge - It would have to be going back to run forward if you know what I mean? "

i totally get you.. never seek the same experience twice as it never happens, rather build towards a new one, to learn and experience more things that you like, or things you would enjoy the challenge of....there is the seen and the unseen and unknown in all things xx

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I was asked something yesterday as a dare and enjoyed it a lot actually.....

hey swinging....welcome..do you get dared often? do you enjoy the challenge?x

I hate being dared because I just have to it - it has got me into trouble at times.

As for bottling it on fab; I very rarely do this - if I do, it's normally about revealing my marital status as it can sometimes provoke a lot of negative comments (even though it is in my profile).

hey flirt man.. hehe do you see it as a competition thing then? ahh the joys of past experience colouring the procedure into the unknown...other people influencing action..interesting xx

they make you, they stop you.....

I used to be a very good road runner and cross country skier so I'm ultra competitive - so a dare becomes a completion especially if others are given the same dare too; even if it goes against my nature - fortunately it doesn't happen very often these days "

what it your 'nature' ? can you define it? x

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today

hi witchy,,yeah thinking is dangerous, couldnt agree more, tell me though would you have done it, if you hadnt thought about it?

I thought about answering your question then realised I should be resting from thinking, then rrealised I was thinking about resting from thinking, the en realised I was thinking about thinking about resting from thinking, then thought fuck it and pressed.....

Post message

so write something else...write some poetry, a line of anything..that springs from your psyche...might be quite interesting to see your flow mr witchy xx

Poetry?

Humid seal of soft affections,

Tenderest pledge of future bliss,

Dearest tie of young connections,

Love's first snowdrop, virgin kiss!

Speaking silence, dumb confession,

Passion's birth, and infant's play,

Dove-like fondness, chaste concession,

Glowing dawn of future day!

Sorrowing joy, Adieu's last action,

(Lingering lips must now disjoin),

What words can ever speak affection

So thrilling and sincere as thine!

One of my favourites...

Robbie Burns

The Autumn leaves begin to fall, as my thoughts return to you

Remembering the summer of our love, lying glistening in the dew

Of tears shed throughout the night as I lay awake in bed,

Praying your love would return once more like when decided to be wed.

Time lies heavy on me now, tired from restless sleep

Wondering how I lost that love, that once was fathoms deep.

The pain it pierces my heart anew as I remember your glowing face,

Dimmed by years of thoughtlessness while immersed in the rat race.

Find time for love and keep it fresh, with kiss and soft caress.

Hold each other tenderly, never settle for anything less.

Don't take each other foregranted nor wish for greener grass

Because if you do, I'm telling you, life will bite you on the ass

"

very nice...would you allow your deep to be consumed by a woman's ocean once more?

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"i know its not thursday;) its friday, but i couldnt resist a little social gathering this week..

as some of you know, ive lost my voice this week, it got me thinking of how many people bottle it, then wanting to ask a question, write a message, or basically, wanting to say hi to someone..

so this weeks friendly online thread, in honour of losing my voice, is all about that,

daring to think,

daring to speak and

daring to act...

lets see what we all dare to do today,or discuss what we dont... keeping it fun, flirty and good natured xx

being thought provoking as usual I see xxx

hehe well at least you dont see it as just being 'provoking'...hehe good to see you honey..do you like being provoked? x

is that provoked or poked? I don't mind either to be honest lol

and always enjoy a bit of truth or dare if that's not hijacking your conversation with miss barker "

most definately its not interupting anything..go with the flow...what would you like to know?..

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier.

Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude

You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it

I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act.

That's understandable I think it's key to know a little about someone in an ideal world but never be afraid to speak your mind.....

What's the worst that can happen.... Someone doesn't like it oh well their loss.

I used to be terrible wouldn't say boo to a goose whilst I am not in anyway shape or form rude or nasty I'm flirtatious cheeky and will show it xx

I'm much the same now but it's been a very long and difficult journey. Being on fab has helped enormously.

love you Nell xxx

Love you too Suzy, for facilitating these discussions.xxx"

i felt it today i acted, with neither expectation or intent..just to hold space invite and wonder...xx

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

some of my poetry xx

Step out of your suit, Lay yourself bare,

It time for your knowing, To be shared everywhere

No inside or out, Reflection remains,

Of those who are sleeping, Peaceful in games.

It’s ok to be. Its ok to dream,

Unknown becomes knowing, Knowing is seen.

No time for hiding, Behind doubt or fear,

They are trappings of colour, No need for them here,

You were born enough, It was all in the seed,

Part of creation, The fulfilment of ‘need’,

You are a ‘being’, It’s a matter of time,

Before purpose calls you, This time to align.

For freedom to choose, Dark or the light,

We thread to our future, We have a right.

I play Ludo, The rules have changed,

No snakes and ladders No enemy, no friend,

I sing from my conscious, I act from the ‘seen’

I breathe life to a vision, My right to a dream.

You spew your vibrations, Not meant, to be mean,

I hold the space clear, For truth to be seen.

I take all the colours, and turn them to white

So energy you give me, I turn to the fight.

And what’s so important, I hear you say,

Not me I reply, It’s just my way.

But why do you try, to break down my walls?

Because I was asked to, I heard your call.

Resist me or fight me, Its part of the game,

Times are changing, Those patterns the same,

As back in the day, The old ones who fought,

over women and food, they did what they ought.

For energy scarce, A sign of the times,

All attack and protection, No respite for rhymes.

But with intention, ask ‘now’, for it clear,

The energy flows to you, Its always here.

No walls and no limits, The freedom to choose,

It’s that, that I stand for, All win and no lose.

For vibrations integrating, Like it or no,

Your down here to embody, To assist with the flow.

Trust in your essence, Speak from the same,

You’re in a big picture, A role of a flame.

For without you, humanity, Just wouldn’t recall,

How to fight from this box, For existence for all.

So brave up your warrior, and fight the good fight,

Own all your spectrum, the dark and the light.

Not ‘cos you can, as a personal play,

To attack and to battle, Not the ‘now’ way.

For playground antics are easy to beat,

But your wasting your time, In pretending to sleep.

I know what you’re here for, You know why you’ve come,

To witness the changes , and dance with the drum.

I’m not for affiliation, It’s not what you say,

I’m walking my path, Whatever humans play.

This lifetime was harnessed, Spirit formed the ‘eye’

To see consciousness continues, Long after bodies die.

~S. 2013

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I nearly always say yes to a dare

I dare you to take a trip up to Leeds!

"

I would love to!!

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I nearly always say yes to a dare

I dare you to take a trip up to Leeds!

I would love to!!"

i wish you could all come to my birthday party, or the November social at jaydees.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier.

Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude

You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it

I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act.

yes..but valuing yourself as an individual just as you are, we all have quirks about us, that's what makes us individuals, and ultimately lovable don't you think? x

Spot on xx

Definitely. I do value myself. It's not lack of self-esteem that has been my hurdle in learning how to interract with confidence.

I think a lot of people on here (initially at least) put up an internal ranking system with everyone else..there is the classic he/she is out of my league. It is a weird sensation when you finally break through that reserve and go...actually, fuck it. I am going to message XYZ. I like them, what do I have to lose?

I was in a really bad place a year ago, but being active on the forums has helped me be the person I always was but never showed to anyone. Its an odd sensation for me to realise that people actually like me and some ladies who I would never have dared speak to a year ago are interested in me."

You're one of the nicest people on here xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today

hi witchy,,yeah thinking is dangerous, couldnt agree more, tell me though would you have done it, if you hadnt thought about it?

I thought about answering your question then realised I should be resting from thinking, then rrealised I was thinking about resting from thinking, the en realised I was thinking about thinking about resting from thinking, then thought fuck it and pressed.....

Post message

so write something else...write some poetry, a line of anything..that springs from your psyche...might be quite interesting to see your flow mr witchy xx

Poetry?

Humid seal of soft affections,

Tenderest pledge of future bliss,

Dearest tie of young connections,

Love's first snowdrop, virgin kiss!

Speaking silence, dumb confession,

Passion's birth, and infant's play,

Dove-like fondness, chaste concession,

Glowing dawn of future day!

Sorrowing joy, Adieu's last action,

(Lingering lips must now disjoin),

What words can ever speak affection

So thrilling and sincere as thine!

One of my favourites...

Robbie Burns

The Autumn leaves begin to fall, as my thoughts return to you

Remembering the summer of our love, lying glistening in the dew

Of tears shed throughout the night as I lay awake in bed,

Praying your love would return once more like when decided to be wed.

Time lies heavy on me now, tired from restless sleep

Wondering how I lost that love, that once was fathoms deep.

The pain it pierces my heart anew as I remember your glowing face,

Dimmed by years of thoughtlessness while immersed in the rat race.

Find time for love and keep it fresh, with kiss and soft caress.

Hold each other tenderly, never settle for anything less.

Don't take each other foregranted nor wish for greener grass

Because if you do, I'm telling you, life will bite you on the ass

very nice...would you allow your deep to be consumed by a woman's ocean once more?"

What makes you think it isn't?

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today

hi witchy,,yeah thinking is dangerous, couldnt agree more, tell me though would you have done it, if you hadnt thought about it?

I thought about answering your question then realised I should be resting from thinking, then rrealised I was thinking about resting from thinking, the en realised I was thinking about thinking about resting from thinking, then thought fuck it and pressed.....

Post message

so write something else...write some poetry, a line of anything..that springs from your psyche...might be quite interesting to see your flow mr witchy xx

Poetry?

Humid seal of soft affections,

Tenderest pledge of future bliss,

Dearest tie of young connections,

Love's first snowdrop, virgin kiss!

Speaking silence, dumb confession,

Passion's birth, and infant's play,

Dove-like fondness, chaste concession,

Glowing dawn of future day!

Sorrowing joy, Adieu's last action,

(Lingering lips must now disjoin),

What words can ever speak affection

So thrilling and sincere as thine!

One of my favourites...

Robbie Burns

The Autumn leaves begin to fall, as my thoughts return to you

Remembering the summer of our love, lying glistening in the dew

Of tears shed throughout the night as I lay awake in bed,

Praying your love would return once more like when decided to be wed.

Time lies heavy on me now, tired from restless sleep

Wondering how I lost that love, that once was fathoms deep.

The pain it pierces my heart anew as I remember your glowing face,

Dimmed by years of thoughtlessness while immersed in the rat race.

Find time for love and keep it fresh, with kiss and soft caress.

Hold each other tenderly, never settle for anything less.

Don't take each other foregranted nor wish for greener grass

Because if you do, I'm telling you, life will bite you on the ass

very nice...would you allow your deep to be consumed by a woman's ocean once more?

What makes you think it isn't?"

i didn't think at all..i just asked the question from the 'flavour' of the poem ....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Beautiful Poem Suzy xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Beautiful Poem Suzy xx"

Seconded

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today

hi witchy,,yeah thinking is dangerous, couldnt agree more, tell me though would you have done it, if you hadnt thought about it?

I thought about answering your question then realised I should be resting from thinking, then rrealised I was thinking about resting from thinking, the en realised I was thinking about thinking about resting from thinking, then thought fuck it and pressed.....

Post message

so write something else...write some poetry, a line of anything..that springs from your psyche...might be quite interesting to see your flow mr witchy xx

Poetry?

Humid seal of soft affections,

Tenderest pledge of future bliss,

Dearest tie of young connections,

Love's first snowdrop, virgin kiss!

Speaking silence, dumb confession,

Passion's birth, and infant's play,

Dove-like fondness, chaste concession,

Glowing dawn of future day!

Sorrowing joy, Adieu's last action,

(Lingering lips must now disjoin),

What words can ever speak affection

So thrilling and sincere as thine!

One of my favourites...

Robbie Burns

The Autumn leaves begin to fall, as my thoughts return to you

Remembering the summer of our love, lying glistening in the dew

Of tears shed throughout the night as I lay awake in bed,

Praying your love would return once more like when decided to be wed.

Time lies heavy on me now, tired from restless sleep

Wondering how I lost that love, that once was fathoms deep.

The pain it pierces my heart anew as I remember your glowing face,

Dimmed by years of thoughtlessness while immersed in the rat race.

Find time for love and keep it fresh, with kiss and soft caress.

Hold each other tenderly, never settle for anything less.

Don't take each other foregranted nor wish for greener grass

Because if you do, I'm telling you, life will bite you on the ass

very nice...would you allow your deep to be consumed by a woman's ocean once more?

What makes you think it isn't?

i didn't think at all..i just asked the question from the 'flavour' of the poem ...."

Informed by experience but neither allegorical or autobiographical.... Just a stream of consciousness brain fart

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Beautiful Poem Suzy xx"

thankyou xx

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Beautiful Poem Suzy xx

Seconded "

thankyou xx

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today

hi witchy,,yeah thinking is dangerous, couldnt agree more, tell me though would you have done it, if you hadnt thought about it?

I thought about answering your question then realised I should be resting from thinking, then rrealised I was thinking about resting from thinking, the en realised I was thinking about thinking about resting from thinking, then thought fuck it and pressed.....

Post message

so write something else...write some poetry, a line of anything..that springs from your psyche...might be quite interesting to see your flow mr witchy xx

Poetry?

Humid seal of soft affections,

Tenderest pledge of future bliss,

Dearest tie of young connections,

Love's first snowdrop, virgin kiss!

Speaking silence, dumb confession,

Passion's birth, and infant's play,

Dove-like fondness, chaste concession,

Glowing dawn of future day!

Sorrowing joy, Adieu's last action,

(Lingering lips must now disjoin),

What words can ever speak affection

So thrilling and sincere as thine!

One of my favourites...

Robbie Burns

The Autumn leaves begin to fall, as my thoughts return to you

Remembering the summer of our love, lying glistening in the dew

Of tears shed throughout the night as I lay awake in bed,

Praying your love would return once more like when decided to be wed.

Time lies heavy on me now, tired from restless sleep

Wondering how I lost that love, that once was fathoms deep.

The pain it pierces my heart anew as I remember your glowing face,

Dimmed by years of thoughtlessness while immersed in the rat race.

Find time for love and keep it fresh, with kiss and soft caress.

Hold each other tenderly, never settle for anything less.

Don't take each other foregranted nor wish for greener grass

Because if you do, I'm telling you, life will bite you on the ass

very nice...would you allow your deep to be consumed by a woman's ocean once more?

What makes you think it isn't?

i didn't think at all..i just asked the question from the 'flavour' of the poem ....

Informed by experience but neither allegorical or autobiographical.... Just a stream of consciousness brain fart "

i dont feel consciousness.is a brain fart..do you? is the brain and the mind different? x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

All my poems are brain farts

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"All my poems are brain farts "

do you mind anyone thinking differently about them?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All my poems are brain farts

do you mind anyone thinking differently about them?"

not at all.

I get a build up of linguistic gas and out pops a brain fart. You are welcome to call them what you like.

I don't take any of what I post particularly seriously.....you may have noticed

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"All my poems are brain farts

do you mind anyone thinking differently about them? not at all.

I get a build up of linguistic gas and out pops a brain fart. You are welcome to call them what you like.

I don't take any of what I post particularly seriously.....you may have noticed "

in the spirit of truth or dare..

is that a ruse?

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By *aucy tiggerWoman  over a year ago

Back where I belong


"i know its not thursday;) its friday, but i couldnt resist a little social gathering this week..

as some of you know, ive lost my voice this week, it got me thinking of how many people bottle it, then wanting to ask a question, write a message, or basically, wanting to say hi to someone..

so this weeks friendly online thread, in honour of losing my voice, is all about that,

daring to think,

daring to speak and

daring to act...

lets see what we all dare to do today,or discuss what we dont... keeping it fun, flirty and good natured xx"

We have nicked named today - freaky Friday. And I do wish you hadn't used the word dare, as I find it difficult to refuse one ??

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By *aucy tiggerWoman  over a year ago

Back where I belong


"i know its not thursday;) its friday, but i couldnt resist a little social gathering this week..

as some of you know, ive lost my voice this week, it got me thinking of how many people bottle it, then wanting to ask a question, write a message, or basically, wanting to say hi to someone..

so this weeks friendly online thread, in honour of losing my voice, is all about that,

daring to think,

daring to speak and

daring to act...

lets see what we all dare to do today,or discuss what we dont... keeping it fun, flirty and good natured xx"

We have nicked named today - freaky Friday. And I do wish you hadn't used the word dare, as I find it difficult to refuse one ??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All my poems are brain farts

do you mind anyone thinking differently about them? not at all.

I get a build up of linguistic gas and out pops a brain fart. You are welcome to call them what you like.

I don't take any of what I post particularly seriously.....you may have noticed

in the spirit of truth or dare..

is that a ruse?"

I am not a fool all of the time I just like to play the Fool

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I nearly always say yes to a dare

I dare you to take a trip up to Leeds!

I would love to!!

i wish you could all come to my birthday party, or the November social at jaydees."

I'd love to come to your birthday party lol

Used to live a lot closer to you than I do now too haha

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"All my poems are brain farts

do you mind anyone thinking differently about them? not at all.

I get a build up of linguistic gas and out pops a brain fart. You are welcome to call them what you like.

I don't take any of what I post particularly seriously.....you may have noticed

in the spirit of truth or dare..

is that a ruse?

I am not a fool all of the time I just like to play the Fool "

why?

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I nearly always say yes to a dare

I dare you to take a trip up to Leeds!

I would love to!!

i wish you could all come to my birthday party, or the November social at jaydees.

I'd love to come to your birthday party lol

Used to live a lot closer to you than I do now too haha "

both are being held at jaydees.. threads for both are in the event forum and are mentioned on the webite.. if you can make it, you would be very welcome xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I nearly always say yes to a dare

I dare you to take a trip up to Leeds!

I would love to!!

i wish you could all come to my birthday party, or the November social at jaydees.

I'd love to come to your birthday party lol

Used to live a lot closer to you than I do now too haha

both are being held at jaydees.. threads for both are in the event forum and are mentioned on the webite.. if you can make it, you would be very welcome xx"

I'll check the date and see what my plans are xx

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"i know its not thursday;) its friday, but i couldnt resist a little social gathering this week..

as some of you know, ive lost my voice this week, it got me thinking of how many people bottle it, then wanting to ask a question, write a message, or basically, wanting to say hi to someone..

so this weeks friendly online thread, in honour of losing my voice, is all about that,

daring to think,

daring to speak and

daring to act...

lets see what we all dare to do today,or discuss what we dont... keeping it fun, flirty and good natured xx

We have nicked named today - freaky Friday. And I do wish you hadn't used the word dare, as I find it difficult to refuse one ?? "

hi handbage, good to see you xx

really? ok so as a dare, i dare you to tell us, what youd like us to dare you, to do..;) xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier.

Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude

You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it

I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act.

yes..but valuing yourself as an individual just as you are, we all have quirks about us, that's what makes us individuals, and ultimately lovable don't you think? x

Spot on xx

Definitely. I do value myself. It's not lack of self-esteem that has been my hurdle in learning how to interract with confidence.

I think a lot of people on here (initially at least) put up an internal ranking system with everyone else..there is the classic he/she is out of my league. It is a weird sensation when you finally break through that reserve and go...actually, fuck it. I am going to message XYZ. I like them, what do I have to lose?

I was in a really bad place a year ago, but being active on the forums has helped me be the person I always was but never showed to anyone. Its an odd sensation for me to realise that people actually like me and some ladies who I would never have dared speak to a year ago are interested in me.

I absolutely understand that, but I didn't rank people on looks and popularity but on intellect. I got over that pretty quickly and started messaging. It's worked out very nicely! "

Yes, if in doubt go for the lowest common denominator and talk about funny shaped cocks haha...

Glad it is working out for you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All my poems are brain farts

do you mind anyone thinking differently about them? not at all.

I get a build up of linguistic gas and out pops a brain fart. You are welcome to call them what you like.

I don't take any of what I post particularly seriously.....you may have noticed

in the spirit of truth or dare..

is that a ruse?

I am not a fool all of the time I just like to play the Fool

why?"

I find it amusing. It provides an escape from the more serious things I need to accomplish in life. I think laughter is one of life's great healers. It's also a form of self-protection.

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"All my poems are brain farts

do you mind anyone thinking differently about them? not at all.

I get a build up of linguistic gas and out pops a brain fart. You are welcome to call them what you like.

I don't take any of what I post particularly seriously.....you may have noticed

in the spirit of truth or dare..

is that a ruse?

I am not a fool all of the time I just like to play the Fool

why?

I find it amusing. It provides an escape from the more serious things I need to accomplish in life. I think laughter is one of life's great healers. It's also a form of self-protection."

yes. thank you.. i love you for sharing that x it works, especially if others dont want to seem pushy you know xx

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I nearly always say yes to a dare

I dare you to take a trip up to Leeds!

I would love to!!

i wish you could all come to my birthday party, or the November social at jaydees.

I'd love to come to your birthday party lol

Used to live a lot closer to you than I do now too haha

both are being held at jaydees.. threads for both are in the event forum and are mentioned on the webite.. if you can make it, you would be very welcome xx

I'll check the date and see what my plans are xx"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I nearly always say yes to a dare

I dare you to take a trip up to Leeds!

I would love to!!

i wish you could all come to my birthday party, or the November social at jaydees.

I'd love to come to your birthday party lol

Used to live a lot closer to you than I do now too haha

both are being held at jaydees.. threads for both are in the event forum and are mentioned on the webite.. if you can make it, you would be very welcome xx

I'll check the date and see what my plans are xx

"

Will need to check for a hotel too lol bit of a trek for me lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All my poems are brain farts

do you mind anyone thinking differently about them? not at all.

I get a build up of linguistic gas and out pops a brain fart. You are welcome to call them what you like.

I don't take any of what I post particularly seriously.....you may have noticed

in the spirit of truth or dare..

is that a ruse?

I am not a fool all of the time I just like to play the Fool

why?

I find it amusing. It provides an escape from the more serious things I need to accomplish in life. I think laughter is one of life's great healers. It's also a form of self-protection.

yes. thank you.. i love you for sharing that x it works, especially if others dont want to seem pushy you know xx"

Don't know whether I understand what you're saying. Are you suggesting playing the fool works if you don't wish to appear pushy or something else?

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I nearly always say yes to a dare

I dare you to take a trip up to Leeds!

I would love to!!

i wish you could all come to my birthday party, or the November social at jaydees.

I'd love to come to your birthday party lol

Used to live a lot closer to you than I do now too haha

both are being held at jaydees.. threads for both are in the event forum and are mentioned on the webite.. if you can make it, you would be very welcome xx

I'll check the date and see what my plans are xx

Will need to check for a hotel too lol bit of a trek for me lol "

see the clubs profile name on the event thread.. they may have a room still free at the venue for £20 a night..or they may let you camp there for nothing if you told them your circumstances..they do , do that.

for your information i will be there both the friday and saturday night that weekend..although the party is on saturday.any issues come find me on the forums or post on the event thread xx

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"All my poems are brain farts

do you mind anyone thinking differently about them? not at all.

I get a build up of linguistic gas and out pops a brain fart. You are welcome to call them what you like.

I don't take any of what I post particularly seriously.....you may have noticed

in the spirit of truth or dare..

is that a ruse?

I am not a fool all of the time I just like to play the Fool

why?

I find it amusing. It provides an escape from the more serious things I need to accomplish in life. I think laughter is one of life's great healers. It's also a form of self-protection.

yes. thank you.. i love you for sharing that x it works, especially if others dont want to seem pushy you know xx

Don't know whether I understand what you're saying. Are you suggesting playing the fool works if you don't wish to appear pushy or something else?"

no im suggesting that playing the fool when others want to touch underneath that, can lead them to back off, when they dont want to be pushy with you x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I nearly always say yes to a dare

I dare you to take a trip up to Leeds!

I would love to!!

i wish you could all come to my birthday party, or the November social at jaydees."

Had a meeting at work and have lost track of the thread!

Where is Jaydees? I know I could look but I won't so better to ask

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I nearly always say yes to a dare

I dare you to take a trip up to Leeds!

I would love to!!

i wish you could all come to my birthday party, or the November social at jaydees.

I'd love to come to your birthday party lol

Used to live a lot closer to you than I do now too haha

both are being held at jaydees.. threads for both are in the event forum and are mentioned on the webite.. if you can make it, you would be very welcome xx

I'll check the date and see what my plans are xx

Will need to check for a hotel too lol bit of a trek for me lol

see the clubs profile name on the event thread.. they may have a room still free at the venue for £20 a night..or they may let you camp there for nothing if you told them your circumstances..they do , do that.

for your information i will be there both the friday and saturday night that weekend..although the party is on saturday.any issues come find me on the forums or post on the event thread xx"

Your an angel thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Wow! This is all a bit deep!

Have a good Friday everyone x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Wow! This is all a bit deep!

Have a good Friday everyone x"

Lol lets lighten it up then people.....

I still think that some lovely people should see how daring I'll be haha

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I nearly always say yes to a dare

I dare you to take a trip up to Leeds!

I would love to!!

i wish you could all come to my birthday party, or the November social at jaydees.

Had a meeting at work and have lost track of the thread!

Where is Jaydees? I know I could look but I won't so better to ask

-Courtney"

nr st neots courtney xx a little way from bedford..just off of A1 for folkk coming from the north or down from A14 from east or west xx

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I nearly always say yes to a dare

I dare you to take a trip up to Leeds!

I would love to!!

i wish you could all come to my birthday party, or the November social at jaydees.

I'd love to come to your birthday party lol

Used to live a lot closer to you than I do now too haha

both are being held at jaydees.. threads for both are in the event forum and are mentioned on the webite.. if you can make it, you would be very welcome xx

I'll check the date and see what my plans are xx

Will need to check for a hotel too lol bit of a trek for me lol

see the clubs profile name on the event thread.. they may have a room still free at the venue for £20 a night..or they may let you camp there for nothing if you told them your circumstances..they do , do that.

for your information i will be there both the friday and saturday night that weekend..although the party is on saturday.any issues come find me on the forums or post on the event thread xx

Your an angel thank you xx"

you are welcome x

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Wow! This is all a bit deep!

Have a good Friday everyone x"

interesting it diverted that way.. some engage and some dont wish to, such is the choice this friday it seems.. xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I nearly always say yes to a dare

I dare you to take a trip up to Leeds!

I would love to!!

i wish you could all come to my birthday party, or the November social at jaydees.

Had a meeting at work and have lost track of the thread!

Where is Jaydees? I know I could look but I won't so better to ask

-Courtney

nr st neots courtney xx a little way from bedford..just off of A1 for folkk coming from the north or down from A14 from east or west xx"

Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"All my poems are brain farts

do you mind anyone thinking differently about them? not at all.

I get a build up of linguistic gas and out pops a brain fart. You are welcome to call them what you like.

I don't take any of what I post particularly seriously.....you may have noticed

in the spirit of truth or dare..

is that a ruse?

I am not a fool all of the time I just like to play the Fool

why?

I find it amusing. It provides an escape from the more serious things I need to accomplish in life. I think laughter is one of life's great healers. It's also a form of self-protection.

yes. thank you.. i love you for sharing that x it works, especially if others dont want to seem pushy you know xx

Don't know whether I understand what you're saying. Are you suggesting playing the fool works if you don't wish to appear pushy or something else?

no im suggesting that playing the fool when others want to touch underneath that, can lead them to back off, when they dont want to be pushy with you x"

i would play the fool less if I was.interested in meeting people on here. I am not looking to attract that kind of interest to be honest, So I guess as a repellant it works well.

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"All my poems are brain farts

do you mind anyone thinking differently about them? not at all.

I get a build up of linguistic gas and out pops a brain fart. You are welcome to call them what you like.

I don't take any of what I post particularly seriously.....you may have noticed

in the spirit of truth or dare..

is that a ruse?

I am not a fool all of the time I just like to play the Fool

why?

I find it amusing. It provides an escape from the more serious things I need to accomplish in life. I think laughter is one of life's great healers. It's also a form of self-protection.

yes. thank you.. i love you for sharing that x it works, especially if others dont want to seem pushy you know xx

Don't know whether I understand what you're saying. Are you suggesting playing the fool works if you don't wish to appear pushy or something else?

no im suggesting that playing the fool when others want to touch underneath that, can lead them to back off, when they dont want to be pushy with you x

i would play the fool less if I was.interested in meeting people on here. I am not looking to attract that kind of interest to be honest, So I guess as a repellant it works well."

yes it does xx good method of choice of self protection xx

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I nearly always say yes to a dare

I dare you to take a trip up to Leeds!

I would love to!!

i wish you could all come to my birthday party, or the November social at jaydees.

Had a meeting at work and have lost track of the thread!

Where is Jaydees? I know I could look but I won't so better to ask

-Courtney

nr st neots courtney xx a little way from bedford..just off of A1 for folkk coming from the north or down from A14 from east or west xx

Thanks!"

youre welcome sweet xx

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By *oddyWoman  over a year ago

between havant and chichester

Pops in with some flowers n choccy for suzy xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I dared to tell the fit lad at work that if he would drop his drawers I'd not be on my fone so much he went bless him I've renamed him butt plug too names stuck now hahaha

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Pops in with some flowers n choccy for suzy xx"

thank you honey.. thats really sweet of you..i appreciate you and your input, did you know that xx

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I dared to tell the fit lad at work that if he would drop his drawers I'd not be on my fone so much he went bless him I've renamed him butt plug too names stuck now hahaha "

hahaha i snorted my tea over my keyboard...haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"i know its not thursday;) its friday, but i couldnt resist a little social gathering this week..

as some of you know, ive lost my voice this week, it got me thinking of how many people bottle it, then wanting to ask a question, write a message, or basically, wanting to say hi to someone..

so this weeks friendly online thread, in honour of losing my voice, is all about that,

daring to think,

daring to speak and

daring to act...

lets see what we all dare to do today,or discuss what we dont... keeping it fun, flirty and good natured xx"

I'm daring to do something for the first time later this evening.

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By *uzy444 OP   Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"i know its not thursday;) its friday, but i couldnt resist a little social gathering this week..

as some of you know, ive lost my voice this week, it got me thinking of how many people bottle it, then wanting to ask a question, write a message, or basically, wanting to say hi to someone..

so this weeks friendly online thread, in honour of losing my voice, is all about that,

daring to think,

daring to speak and

daring to act...

lets see what we all dare to do today,or discuss what we dont... keeping it fun, flirty and good natured xx

I'm daring to do something for the first time later this evening."

then i truly hope you enjoy it xxx

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