"I wouldn't go to a party I had to pay for.
You're such a single woman!  "
I think it's weird. I'm happy to pay my way going to a club etc. but these commercial parties are just run by some wanker exploiting people to make some cash. They have no business dictating who can/cannot go based on race.
If I go to house parties I'd never turn up empty handed (cause that's how I was brought up) and any socials that need a contribution to venue or food then I'm more than happy to pay.
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I like all types of guys so it wouldn't bother me if any particular type was excluded. I don't seek sex with a certain type of guy at any time, i'm actually offended if people use me as some kind of fetish as well.
Some people don't find asians attractive, no big deal. Same as i don't expect everyone to fancy me, i can still find people who do though. |
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"I wouldn't go to a party I had to pay for.
You're such a single woman!
I think it's weird. I'm happy to pay my way going to a club etc. but these commercial parties are just run by some wanker exploiting people to make some cash. They have no business dictating who can/cannot go based on race.
If I go to house parties I'd never turn up empty handed (cause that's how I was brought up) and any socials that need a contribution to venue or food then I'm more than happy to pay.
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I agree with you, really. We've only been to one house party. They did have a fee for entry, but they provided some food and drinks (non alcoholic). But we much prefer clubs anyway. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
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I'd not go:
1, tarring any group of people with one brush is naff to the extreme and I've found the percentage of peeps who are of Asian heritage and are lovely to be just the same as anyone else.
2, I think paying for a party is also naff, unless it is just a reasonable aid to expenses
3, I think things should be inclusive, not exclusive.
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It wouldn't bother me. People can invite whoever they like. I'm not welcome at Killing Kittens type parties but I'm not offended.
I meet people I'm attracted to. It would be rude of me to say other people should invite people they aren't attracted to. |
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"It wouldn't bother me. People can invite whoever they like. I'm not welcome at Killing Kittens type parties but I'm not offended.
I meet people I'm attracted to. It would be rude of me to say other people should invite people they aren't attracted to. "
killing kittens??  |
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"It wouldn't bother me. People can invite whoever they like. I'm not welcome at Killing Kittens type parties but I'm not offended.
I meet people I'm attracted to. It would be rude of me to say other people should invite people they aren't attracted to. "
Is that a euphemism? 
I think if you're having a private party you should invite whomever you choose.
But for a commercial event to specify an exclusion is not only rude but most likely against the law.
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"It wouldn't bother me. People can invite whoever they like. I'm not welcome at Killing Kittens type parties but I'm not offended.
I meet people I'm attracted to. It would be rude of me to say other people should invite people they aren't attracted to. "
Why did they call it that? I keep imaging they're crushing little kitties.  |
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Depends on who is hosting the party, as if it's a business, they might find it illegal.
But, for private parties, who the host invites is up to them and guests can choose if the guest list/types attracts them. We are all definitely allowed to decide who we wish to associate/play with, as the numerous 'no asians or x category desired' threads illustrate.
If a party is hosted by someone privately my preference is for contributions to be there to cover costs, or include taking your contribution of food and wine, unless accommodation has been paid for, as an additional fee by the host. For licensed sex venues, such as clubs, they already have their business overheads and obviously will charge some/all, depending on admission policies.
Otherwise, parties that are organised may do exclusions behind the scenes and you'll never potentially know who was excluded, whether deemed unattractive physically or whatever the criteria were. |
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"It wouldn't bother me. People can invite whoever they like. I'm not welcome at Killing Kittens type parties but I'm not offended.
I meet people I'm attracted to. It would be rude of me to say other people should invite people they aren't attracted to.
Why did they call it that? I keep imaging they're crushing little kitties. "
I have no idea if I've used the correct name now. I may have made it up. 
Is it Kissing Kittens? Kooking Kitchens? I'm hopeless. |
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"It wouldn't bother me. People can invite whoever they like. I'm not welcome at Killing Kittens type parties but I'm not offended.
I meet people I'm attracted to. It would be rude of me to say other people should invite people they aren't attracted to.
Why did they call it that? I keep imaging they're crushing little kitties.
I have no idea if I've used the correct name now. I may have made it up.
Is it Kissing Kittens? Kooking Kitchens? I'm hopeless. "
It is killing kitens, i googled it. £100 a month for sex, if you want VIP sex. No actual harming of kittens from what i could see.
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"How I feel about parties that you pay for specifying no Asians
Thoughts?"
I'm pretty confident that it is illegal for a commercial enterprise to exclude people based on their ethnicity, colour, or religion. |
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Sexual elite?! Haha... is that where the perfect people go then?
Killing kittens is a term for girly wanking? How ridiculous... where did that even stem from?"
I can't even join, too fucking old  not sure I will be losing much sleep for being excluded |
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"Not sure how I feel about parties that you pay for specifying no Asians
Thoughts?"
Only you can decide which parties you want to go to, and the sort of people you are likely to meet.
There are many 'paying' events/parties in the vanilla world that I'm not welcome to as a man, I just concentrate on the others.
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