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Why do women "have to shave"?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I need a rant.

I was just talking to a guy on a dating site, been speaking to him for a few weeks and was thinking he seemed like quite a nice guy. He just told me that his worst dating experience was when after a lovely evening he went back to a girl's house, got into the bedroom and she "had a hairy fanny" so he made excuses and left.

Now, obviously this guy is a bellend. But WHY is it so horrendous for women to have body hair?! If this was a one off I'd still be horrified, but so many guys make remarks like this. I'm sorry, I don't like it totally bald! It looks weird to me! I *want* to say "it's my body & if you don't like it, fuck off" but it's just the done thing & I actually feel like I'm in the wrong for not wanting to shave it all off! I feel like if I meet a new guy I need to make excuses for not being freshly waxed, when the reality is I just don't fucking want to!

Even when the topic comes up on here it tends to be slightly older people who say they like a bit of hair and younger ones say whap it all off.

I LIKE MINE FUZZY!

Rant over

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It doesn't bother me once there is attraction an chemistry

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I need a rant.

Even when the topic comes up on here it tends to be slightly older people who say they like a bit of hair and younger ones say whap it all off.

I LIKE MINE FUZZY!

Rant over

Throw away your razors,I don't mind a bit of fuzz at all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dont mind hairy,but most women do it for hygiene purposes,and I have been moaned at in the past for suggesting to let the bush grow

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By *eonardoLoveMan over a year ago

London

"I need a rant.

Even when the topic comes up on here it tends to be slightly older people who say they like a bit of hair and younger ones say whap it all off.

I LIKE MINE FUZZY!

Rant over

Almost 80% of young girls like completely shaved men (chest, legs, arms, face). We are even

Additionally to give oral sex to a girl it is pretty uncomfortable if you have hair

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Almost 80% of young girls like completely shaved men (chest, legs, arms, face). We are even

Additionally to give oral sex to a girl it is pretty uncomfortable if you have hair

I have no idea where you've got those statistics from but I can tell you absolutely NONE of my friends would ever want a guy to have all his body hair shaved off!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like to be waxed fully and I know hubby prefers it , also o like him to be shaved below . It's a great feeling I / we think anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I dont mind hairy,but most women do it for hygiene purposes,and I have been moaned at in the past for suggesting to let the bush grow

When actually removing the hair is LESS hygienic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I need a rant.

Even when the topic comes up on here it tends to be slightly older people who say they like a bit of hair and younger ones say whap it all off.

I LIKE MINE FUZZY!

Rant over

Almost 80% of young girls like completely shaved men (chest, legs, arms, face). We are even

Additionally to give oral sex to a girl it is pretty uncomfortable if you have hair

I have never met a girl who liked a guy with shaved arms and legs. Chest/groin yeah but legs no.

For me I like a trimmed/shaved fanny Purley because I don't like hair in my teeth.

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

As long as you don't find David Bellamy "Rummaging through the undergrowth" down there, hair is good for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love your body with hair or no hair only you decide buff or bush. If a man or woman were to be as imature to say such a thing should not be given the privilege to enter the lady garden. We are all different which offers more types of beautiful fruit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I dont mind hairy,but most women do it for hygiene purposes,and I have been moaned at in the past for suggesting to let the bush grow

When actually removing the hair is LESS hygienic

I'd question the methodology behind whatever found that tbh.

Mainly because I'd be surprised if there was much if any difference and washing habits etc would completely nullify any intrinsic benifit of either.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know its already been said by a few people but i love a bush think its vile when you slip your had down her knickers and feel stubble

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I need a rant.

Even when the topic comes up on here it tends to be slightly older people who say they like a bit of hair and younger ones say whap it all off.

I LIKE MINE FUZZY!

Rant over

finding the same though not with just the younger people ..wr met socially few weeks ago and was told very early on that if unshaved on either myself or randys part then it wouldnt go further..im so fed up shaving and waxing just to get an angry red rash that bloody hurts!! i do the basics mow but if anybody doesnt like it the dont have to come in!!x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer to have trimmed so does my partner as he says i look like a young girl shaved and i can see that lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You are free to go with your choices and everyone else is free to go with their choices

Maybe have it written on your profile that you don't shave then it won't be a suprise to them

Personally i am always shaved (no one would find stubble on my foo

) and i wouldn't meet anyone who wasn't shaved as that is my choice

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By *aucy tiggerWoman over a year ago

Back where I belong

"I need a rant.

Even when the topic comes up on here it tends to be slightly older people who say they like a bit of hair and younger ones say whap it all off.

I LIKE MINE FUZZY!

Rant over

I'm hairy, well neatly trimmed and never had any complaints x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree with the point you're making. While I I personally prefer to be waxed I have problems with horrible ingrowing hairs and it can cause problems so I don't have it done often and shaving sometimes gives me a rash.

When the question is asked on here you feel like you're almost apologising for having a bit of fuzz. It's not a massive deal to me to have a bit of hair so why does it make me feel that I need to explain myself !

Men shaving all over is plain wrong. Big hair genitals - no. Hairy chest - yum.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Nothing wrong with au naturelle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Before I was introduced to swinging it never really occurred to me to totally shave.

Admittedly this wasn't a topic discussed at lunchtimes with fem colleagues, but from seeing women in changing rooms at the pool or gym, I guess most women I noticed were just nicely trimmed.

I remember actually apologising once to the nurse during a smear test, that I'd had a 'radical' shave; when I'd felt horny the weekend before and whipped it all off.

Back then it looked perverted, like I was trying to mimic being a little girl again!!!

Now with swinging, oral just feels so good being smooth. And it seems most people are shaved when you perve in clubs,it's just the swinger social norm I guess!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do shave but that's my choice. I prefer it that way. I don't feel under any pressure to do it really.

I think for a lot of younger guys it's become the expectation due to porn. It's possibly also why a lot of women do it.

I'm with you though OP it's your body and your choice and they should count themselves lucky to even get that far.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Disclaimer: I do keep everything trimmed super short, and I'm so fair that it's basically invisible anyway. Just before anyone thinks I'm smuggling one of the Jackson 5 in my pants

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By *ason.Man over a year ago

west yorkshire

"Love your body with hair or no hair only you decide buff or bush. If a man or woman were to be as imature to say such a thing should not be given the privilege to enter the lady garden. We are all different which offers more types of beautiful fruit."

Could not of put it better myself ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So he's a bellend just because he prefers a lady that shaves

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally I like to see what I'm eating...lol...;)

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By *andsonjohnMan over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

Your right its a young persons thing mainly they have been influence by modern porn no doubt where all the pussies are shaven to look like pubescent school girls .

That sentence above sums up my thoughts on it if a women chooses to wax herself totally that's her choice but if I had a say in such matters i'd prefer the nice tidy trimmed look so she looks like a woman not a young girl down there .

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By *teveanddebsCouple over a year ago

Norwich

So he's a bellend because he has a preference?

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By *lawless doveWoman over a year ago

bothwell

No one should feel compelled to do what they are uncomfortable with and should feel the need for being who they are or what they like. Personally I prefer to be nearly trimmed and if guys don't like that then that's their choice. Personally I don't want to look like a prepubescent young girl

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We love hairiness...we even rarely shave our pits. Take a look.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"So he's a bellend just because he prefers a lady that shaves

That is is so obviously not why I said that. Take your desire to be offended elsewhere please

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"So he's a bellend because he has a preference?"

No! He's a bellend because that was his "worst dating experience" even though by his own admission he'd had a lovely night with the girl. What a very immature attitude, beat the poor lass was wondering what she did wrong when everything was going well then all of a sudden he went cold on her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

*bet

If he'd "beat the poor lass" he'd have bigger problems.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Almost 80% of young girls like completely shaved men (chest, legs, arms, face). We are even

Additionally to give oral sex to a girl it is pretty uncomfortable if you have hair

I have no idea where you've got those statistics from but I can tell you absolutely NONE of my friends would ever want a guy to have all his body hair shaved off! "

Well he did say young girls,maybe you're not a good girl!

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By *eonardoLoveMan over a year ago

London

"Almost 80% of young girls like completely shaved men (chest, legs, arms, face). We are even

Additionally to give oral sex to a girl it is pretty uncomfortable if you have hair

I have no idea where you've got those statistics from but I can tell you absolutely NONE of my friends would ever want a guy to have all his body hair shaved off! "

Reason why I did not do the Laser. Shaving takes time and it is not healty for the skin. Hence doing it only on request. In this case we should organise a "hairy" meeting with you and your friends

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My foo is always shaved but it looks nothing like a young girls foo !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Women do not have to shave infact no one as to its simply a preference. I myself don't like hairy so I shave and I prefer men who do too.We are a mixed bag each to thier own.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had quite a few men ask me not to shave,they like a lot of hair. And I've recently been sent abuse and called a hairy piggy because I turned someone down. I was fed up with being expected to shave bare for a man when he doesn't give oral. It's not more hygienic to shave it just feels nicer for some people. I now only shave when I feel like it or when you feel it's a request and not a demand.

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By *eonardoLoveMan over a year ago

London

"No one should feel compelled to do what they are uncomfortable with and should feel the need for being who they are or what they like. Personally I prefer to be nearly trimmed and if guys don't like that then that's their choice. Personally I don't want to look like a prepubescent young girl "

Also trimmed is perfect

Jackson 5 is too extreme for me instead XDXD

Just to clarify, before I was meaning fully shaved, apart the pube. I leave it trimmed because it is healthier

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've had quite a few men ask me not to shave,they like a lot of hair. And I've recently been sent abuse and called a hairy piggy because I turned someone down. I was fed up with being expected to shave bare for a man when he doesn't give oral. It's not more hygienic to shave it just feels nicer for some people. I now only shave when I feel like it or when you feel it's a request and not a demand. "

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By *eonardoLoveMan over a year ago

London

Anyway the best oral to a girl is with her perfectly shaved down there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Although i shave i dont like people stating strong preferences for what i do with my body.

Im epic they should be honoured im even considering them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyway the best oral to a girl is with her perfectly shaved down there

The question is,do you give the best oral?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Although i shave i dont like people stating strong preferences for what i do with my body.

Im epic they should be honoured im even considering them

EXACTLY! If I liked to shave half of it and paint the other half with glitter it'd still be a privilege

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I first joined fab I was natural in the bikini area .Alot liked the pics and more were put off by it .I had some nasty messages off some .All blocked now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Although i shave i dont like people stating strong preferences for what i do with my body.

Im epic they should be honoured im even considering them

EXACTLY! If I liked to shave half of it and paint the other half with glitter it'd still be a privilege

*Virtual high five* now about that glitter...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like to wonder when it happened. You know, all this lady shaving, not THAT many years ago NOBODY shaved their foo and now if they don't its 'disgusting'... I am agreeing with op point completely, he was immature AND I've been on dates and not shaved in the hope I wouldn't take my Knicks off (as its from an actual dating site) but have done and nothing was said. I have to admit mine goes through cycles of what I'm doing or what I can be arsed with. If there is hair there it's kept neat though.

Asked for men, I prefer my men with ALL their natural body hair

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

"... But WHY is it so horrendous for women to have body hair?"

It isn't. Simples.

And if a man insists a woman should keep her body the way he demands, then I'd say she dodged a bullet. If he can be so controlling so early in a potential relationship, just imagine how bad it could be once he got up a bit of steam!

You'd think we'd've moved on from the days of Effie Gray

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I told a prospective meet that I don't shave, he said 'That's ok, I'll shave you tomorrow'.

It made me feel hella weird. I told him that no, actually you won't. The state of my body is non negotiable.

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

I've not met a man yet who gives a shit about whether I'm hairy or not.

I genuinely don't care about body hair. Fuzzy/not fuzzy... it makes no odds. I'm unlikely to stick a pair of fuzzy nads in my mouth but only cause I can't be arsed picking pubes out my teeth.

If that's his worst date he should think himself lucky. Someone turned up on a date with me wearing a pair of Crocs!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"When I told a prospective meet that I don't shave, he said 'That's ok, I'll shave you tomorrow'.

It made me feel hella weird. I told him that no, actually you won't. The state of my body is non negotiable."

That's very weird! You'd have to have a lot of faith in him having a steady hand as well if you were into it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"... But WHY is it so horrendous for women to have body hair?

It isn't. Simples.

You'd think we'd've moved on from the days of Effie Gray

Mr ddc"

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By *ipswingCouple over a year ago

portrush

ahh mother nature knows best .....

let it grow

let it show ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Someone turned up on a date with me wearing a pair of Crocs!

Oh my god were you alright?! That's just perverse.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone turned up on a date with me wearing a pair of Crocs!

Despicable

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry but would be a deal breaker here

love licking pussy but not hairy ones. Just the same as if giving and receiving Oral is a must on any meet or it's just not happening.

My preference and if it means no meet then so be it

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By *arry247Couple over a year ago

Wakefield

"I need a rant.

The girl very possibly had a lucky escape as the man obviously does not understand about hygiene.

Body hair has a purpose and the purpose of pubic hair is protection.

However apart from that it has been proven that shaving or waking the pubic region before a meet leaves the person open to a range of STIs that are transmitted via fluids such as Chlamydia and Gonorrhea and poses a significant increased risk of contracting STIs that are transmitted via skin-to-skin contact such as HPV and Herpes.

The reason for this is when a person shaves or waxes, etc. the microscopic wounds that are formed provide an entry point for bacteria, parasites, and viruses.

This combined with the warm moist environment of the genitals, it becomes the perfect place for pathogen growth.

Safer sex includes not shaving the pubic area

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't understand why some feel pressurised into shaving or apologising for not being shaved. I sometimes completely shave sometimes just trim. However the mood takes ME. It's never been an issue with any of the guys I've met. ...It normally doesn't even come up in conversation. I guess the type of person for whom it would be an issue has long been ed out of the selection process by the time we get round to discussing public hair.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally I find a very thin landing strip very sexy but surely it's much easier for members of either sex to show their full loving appreciation of their playmate when they have a hair-free erogenous zone?

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By *imply_SensualMan over a year ago

warrington

"Someone turned up on a date with me wearing a pair of Crocs!

Off topic a bit, but I wonder if the person who designed Crics realised they had invented the most effective form of contraception

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People have been fucking for millenia without the need to look pre-pubescently bare.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That's very weird! You'd have to have a lot of faith in him having a steady hand as well if you were into it

Exactly! And I'd never say 'Oh it's ok that you have a beard, I'll shave it off for you'. Just weird.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Someone turned up on a date with me wearing a pair of Crocs!

Off topic a bit, but I wonder if the person who designed Crics realised they had invented the most effective form of contraception

Absolute nonsense. Last time I wanked in one, the cum splurted out the holes in the end.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So....an intelligent, attractive, articulate and sexy girl, (ok, making assumptions) is a worse date ever because she has pubic hair?

The guy is too shallow to even form a puddle.

There was a post earlier in the week on this subject and as I said then (green arrow) I personally do not mind whether someone is natural, trimmed or fully shaven. It is just a fashion choice for the majority of people which has now become the 'norm'. It also has nothing to do with cleanliness etc. Just an urban myth, expect in the minority of cases, lice perhaps.

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Personally I find a very thin landing strip very sexy but surely it's much easier for members of either sex to show their full loving appreciation of their playmate when they have a hair-free erogenous zone? "

I don't really understand what you mean?

Show my appreciation for my playmate?

Can't you cum if you have pubes?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't really understand what you mean?

Show my appreciation for my playmate?

Can't you cum if you have pubes?!

Loving? I don't do anything on here for love.

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

I don't really understand what you mean?

Show my appreciation for my playmate?

Can't you cum if you have pubes?!

Loving? I don't do anything on here for love. "

I post shite on the forums cause I go through phases of loving them.

That's about as far as it goes.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Almost 80% of young girls like completely shaved men (chest, legs, arms, face). We are even

Additionally to give oral sex to a girl it is pretty uncomfortable if you have hair

I have no idea where you've got those statistics from but I can tell you absolutely NONE of my friends would ever want a guy to have all his body hair shaved off! "

I certainly wouldn't want a man who shaved off all his body hair. Saying that I did date a guy with alopecia totalise: he didn't have any body hair.

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

Flagrante

I don't "have to" shave I choose to....as does Paul...it's just our preference.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Disclaimer: I do keep everything trimmed super short, and I'm so fair that it's basically invisible anyway. Just before anyone thinks I'm smuggling one of the Jackson 5 in my pants

So you're not keen on pubic hair either then.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've taken to 'pre-warning' my meets that I don't fully shave (I'm neatly trimmed) because of the various forum posters who state that it's a deal breaker. Nobody has ever backed out of a meet because of it. Actually, they've all loved it so I should stop even mentioning it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't "have to" shave I choose to....as does Paul...it's just our preference."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I find it ironic when a man who can plait his bum crack hair stipulates that he doesn't meet women who don't shave. I wouldn't ask or tell any man to change his appearance or body hair for me.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Almost 80% of young girls like completely shaved men (chest, legs, arms, face). We are even

Additionally to give oral sex to a girl it is pretty uncomfortable if you have hair

I have no idea where you've got those statistics from but I can tell you absolutely NONE of my friends would ever want a guy to have all his body hair shaved off! "

I suspect, like 73% of all statistics, they were made up

I did find a study that said 49% of men and 82% of women had shaved their pubes in the previous month, but they had only asked university students.

I suspect you'd get a different answer down your local old-folks home

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By *edsBonkingMan over a year ago

Near MK

As long as it's clean, doesn't really matter to me, but prefer a well maintained tidy garden or shaved.

Oh and has to be nice and wet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I dont mind hairy,but most women do it for hygiene purposes,and I have been moaned at in the past for suggesting to let the bush grow

When actually removing the hair is LESS hygienic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've decided to trim instead of shave - shaving is high maintenance and I'm bored of getting myself in awkward positions whilst trying not to slice off my labia!

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By *uzzy NavelWoman over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

"I need a rant.

Even when the topic comes up on here it tends to be slightly older people who say they like a bit of hair and younger ones say whap it all off.

I LIKE MINE FUZZY!

Should I change my profile name??

Rant over

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone turned up on a date with me wearing a pair of Crocs!

Off topic a bit, but I wonder if the person who designed Crics realised they had invented the most effective form of contraception

I turned up to meet a guy once just for a quick hello coz he was in the area with my dog and a bag of dog poo. He had messaged and said he was in the area so I said we'll I'm just taking the dog out so okay. Oh and I had wellies on too. He didn't wanna take it to an actual date. I'm glad it's not just dog poo and wellies that put folk off but I must admit I love crocs also lol I'm such a fashionista

And you should pick up your dog's poo!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" I was fed up with being expected to shave bare for a man when he doesn't give oral. "
I was more shocked at the meets you had where the man won't go down on ya destiny!!!! That's reason enough not to meet them in my book!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" I was fed up with being expected to shave bare for a man when he doesn't give oral. I was more shocked at the meets you had where the man won't go down on ya destiny!!!! That's reason enough not to meet them in my book!!!!

agreed!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There have been an awful lot of men who profess to loving oral but conveniently forget when the time comes. It's no big thing as I'm not that fond of it,but when a man won't because of an excuse that he keeps it for a gf,or he thinks he may catch a disease but expects to stick his cock in my mouth at every opportunity,that's when I feel annoyed. A man who never does it ever I will give special dispensation to,not everyone likes everything

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've decided to trim instead of shave - shaving is high maintenance and I'm bored of getting myself in awkward positions whilst trying not to slice off my labia!

agreed

i actually.did that and it stings like a !!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Almost 80% of young girls like completely shaved men (chest, legs, arms, face). We are even

Additionally to give oral sex to a girl it is pretty uncomfortable if you have hair

I have no idea where you've got those statistics from but I can tell you absolutely NONE of my friends would ever want a guy to have all his body hair shaved off!

I suspect, like 73% of all statistics, they were made up

I did find a study that said 49% of men and 82% of women had shaved their pubes in the previous month, but they had only asked university students.

I suspect you'd get a different answer down your local old-folks home

i.work in one of those lol and one lady often pulls at hers and says.i.need a trim got any siscors!!

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

I suspect you'd get a different answer down your local old-folks home

i.work in one of those lol and one lady often pulls at hers and says.i.need a trim got any siscors!!"

She's just flirting with you

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By *LCCCouple over a year ago

Cambridge

I hate it when one person tries to tell another what they can or cant do with their bodies.

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By *tep121Man over a year ago

manchester

I quite like a furry beaver....

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By *eisenberg2Man over a year ago

Rochester

Well its a preference thing. Some people find it attractive some dont. But its your body and if whatever guy you're seeing doesnt like it. Thats up to u to decide what u want to do. I prefer waxed as someone previously mentioned its better during oral sex. The smoothness also adds to the attraction but thats just my preference but i dnt think its that much of a big deal that I'd actually walk out on a lady because of.

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By *ussiesCouple over a year ago

gwent

Well we're natural, have been longer than before joining this site, we get abuse off loads on here, but hey ho that's how we are,

At clubs, you'd be surprised how many people say to us, wow your brave haha, then we get, Ho I wish I didn't have to shave, I only do it to please my partner/other people,

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

The guy didn't like hairy fannies, it turned him off there is a 101 threads on here by women who won't meet certain guys because of something about their body.

No woman has to do anything its her body and if she's only doing something to please others and not herself then more fool her.

However, if someone didn't like something that would be a deal breaker its common sense to put it on your profile or discuss it beforehand so there are no nasty surprises

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't mind hair as long as it's not too bushy. It's just my preference.

Having said that, I wouldn't have bailed if I was getting frisky with someone and she had a hairy bush.

That's just bloody rude and inconsiderate.

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By *andb69Couple over a year ago

leeds

"So he's a bellend just because he prefers a lady that shaves

It does seem extreme to call him a bell end! It's a preference and we all have them. How many women declare their dislike of men with beards? It certainly doesn't make them idiots. Virtually every man would have a beard if they didn't shave, but most women "expect them to shave.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

I find it a bit tragic as I think porn has been a major influence on this pressure for people to shave. People may not feel that they're influenced by others but the likelihood is that where a large group of people adopt a behavioural 'norm' - and I think that going hairless has somewhat become this - that they are influenced by others. Even if we feel that we are acting alone and not under influence, the probability is that we are.

Our skin isn't really meant to be hairless, which is why we have them. Hair removal isn't particularly healthy as it can leave us open to irritation and infections, including sexually transmitted infections - viruses, bacterial and fungal. It is just less healthy for us. Keeping ourselves clean isn't too difficult in the modern world, it just needs some cleanser and water.

Arranging appointments for waxing etc can be a hassle and so the 'meet now' option can be out of bounds, if partners aren't that well matched, in terms of their skin expectations. OK, some of the immediacy that people can expect, such as meeting within half an hour, when you're perhaps in your scruffs and want to shower etc, prevents the type of preparation that many would like. It's almost as if we're all subliminally expected to be ready for a porn shoot, dressed hot and ready, skin prepped etc.

Maybe we should return to a more natural style of living, where sex happened freely and people weren't under such pressures to be so keenly preened? It's a pain going through rashes, irritation and opening yourself to potential infections, not to mention the costs of being ever-ready.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nobody likes a mouth full of pubic hair after oral. Men or women.

Plus it sweets n smells less, when it's not wildly overgrown.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i shave everyday everywhere except my head and i have done for as long as i can remember - but thats a for me thing - not a oh you lot like it smooth so i will - but saying that if im going to suck or lick a body part i prefer hair free or very well trimmed minimum and if people dont want to i just wont go there - and if people dont like smooth they wont come here - no law just personal differences - so whatever we like and if others dont like - no problem

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By *ratty_DamselWoman over a year ago

Greater London

"I need a rant.

Even when the topic comes up on here it tends to be slightly older people who say they like a bit of hair and younger ones say whap it all off.

I LIKE MINE FUZZY!

Rant over

I do prefer adults to look like adults too. The pre-pubescent look is def not for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nobody likes a mouth full of pubic hair after oral. Men or women.

Plus it sweets n smells less, when it's not wildly overgrown."

Mine doesn't sweat more when I'm hairy and I bathe frequently so it doesn't smell. The odd pube doesn't bother me,I end up eating my own hair when I give oral.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer a meet to relax and be themselves, I'd hate to think they feel obliged to go through a load of hassle, just relax and have fun, it's these petty things that cause problems for people. In the words of Nirvana - Come as you are, in both respects.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Almost 80% of young girls like completely shaved men (chest, legs, arms, face). We are even

Additionally to give oral sex to a girl it is pretty uncomfortable if you have hair

I have no idea where you've got those statistics from but I can tell you absolutely NONE of my friends would ever want a guy to have all his body hair shaved off! "

Agree with you pretty lady. That guys comment is pretty bewildering. Knows facts first hunny. Always helps when stating your case! As for me I like guys trimmed not shaven. I shave down below because I personally like feeling smooth silky skin on myself. NOT because a man asks or expects me to be smooth.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So he's a bellend just because he prefers a lady that shaves

I adore a guy with a beard! Always a preference of mine. Love the tickles! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Almost 80% of young girls like completely shaved men (chest, legs, arms, face). We are even

Additionally to give oral sex to a girl it is pretty uncomfortable if you have hair

I have no idea where you've got those statistics from but I can tell you absolutely NONE of my friends would ever want a guy to have all his body hair shaved off! "

Really ? Really ? Because I have body hair and feel pressured to do so and it really hurts when it comes back.A hairy back though that is bad !! Reminds me of the basketball scene in Along Came Polly with Ben Stiller.....yuk !! Most girls had hair on their beaver in the 90's so I often wonder what brought about the change ? A landing strip looks really really hot ! But if it's a retro box where the hair goes from the muff right round to the tea towel holder well that's just fooking gross.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm sorry, I don't like it totally bald! It looks weird to me! I *want* to say "it's my body & if you don't like it, fuck off" but it's just the done thing & I actually feel like I'm in the wrong for not wanting to shave it all off!

Totally agree with you. Neatly trimmed is best, natural is great - shaved, means bristles and that can be unpleasant, totally smooth a bit odd to me. Never been turned off by any of them to be fair but PUBES RULE!

And can add to the teasing, sensual experience of arousal.....

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By *radleyandRavenCouple over a year ago

Herts

We don't "have to". I certainly don't and have never had any complaints.

If you met this guy and he did a runner at the first sight of fuzz, just think of it as a lucky escape. We don't have to change ourselves for anyone.

- Amy. x

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By *radleyandRavenCouple over a year ago

Herts

"Nobody likes a mouth full of pubic hair after oral. Men or women.

Plus it sweets n smells less, when it's not wildly overgrown."

Is that your personal experience? As I find there is absolutely no change in sweat or smell levels, and that's with bathing just as regularly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nobody likes a mouth full of pubic hair after oral. Men or women.

Plus it sweets n smells less, when it's not wildly overgrown.

Mine doesn't sweat more when I'm hairy and I bathe frequently so it doesn't smell. The odd pube doesn't bother me,I end up eating my own hair when I give oral. "

i dont ell when i havent shaved!!!mainly coz i know what a shower is!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nobody likes a mouth full of pubic hair after oral. Men or women.

Plus it sweets n smells less, when it's not wildly overgrown.

Is that your personal experience? As I find there is absolutely no change in sweat or smell levels, and that's with bathing just as regularly."

I think he's just trying to wind you up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer a meet to relax and be themselves, I'd hate to think they feel obliged to go through a load of hassle, just relax and have fun, it's these petty things that cause problems for people. In the words of Nirvana - Come as you are, in both respects.

Aaahhh Nirvana yessss. Why do I turn everything back to music.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I need a rant.

Even when the topic comes up on here it tends to be slightly older people who say they like a bit of hair and younger ones say whap it all off.

I LIKE MINE FUZZY!

Rant over

If you like it fuzzy keep it fuzzy. It's your body.

Personally I can't abide pubic hair so I would just 'fuck off'.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Aaahhh Nirvana yessss. Why do I turn everything back to music."

I do that.

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By *ildt123Man over a year ago

Huddersfield

It's yours to do with as you please, everyone has a preference , I'm not that picky to insist just because I prefer one look to another. And I'd never be so rude as to get to the seeing it in the flesh and leaving!

If it's clean it's fine

Personally I find completely bald a little less womanly and a bit too pre-pubescent but that's just personal opinion. A little fuzz is good

OP do as you please it's yours and yours alone xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Disclaimer: I do keep everything trimmed super short, and I'm so fair that it's basically invisible anyway. Just before anyone thinks I'm smuggling one of the Jackson 5 in my pants

So you're not keen on pubic hair either then. "

What? No, my preference has zero to do with the amount of pubic hair I can physically grow. Imagine it did though, what a world.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Makes no difference to me, barring jealous that there might be more than on my head!

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

When actually removing the hair is LESS hygienic

Yep, this is fact.

Natural but maintained looks and feels MUCH more alluring.

Hair IS sexy AND erotic. It HAS to have hair, in my opinion.

This obsession of shaving everything off, is becoming really, really tiresome

Starting to put me off altogether, to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've shaved for many years and prefer it

Personally

I rarely meet a man that is natural, when I do, I don't mind at all it's there choice, I cope with the furballs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like my women to shave cos I work in safety and I think its dangerous to use a petrol driven bushcutter near a fanny

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No one has to do anything to please someone else. Do it because it pleases you but not vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't know why people have problems with hair my other half keeps hers shaved by choice but not for me I don't mind either way I play with a lady because she has a nice personality nice face and body . Pussy is part of the lady not the be all end all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People have been fucking for millenia without the need to look pre-pubescently bare."

I don't look like that even though i shave. I look like an adult fem who has shaved her foo. Mine looks nothing like a childs !

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

"People have been fucking for millenia without the need to look pre-pubescently bare.

I don't look like that even though i shave. I look like an adult fem who has shaved her foo. Mine looks nothing like a childs !"

This is my issue. They don't look 'quite right' to me. It's like they are adult and fully formed/matured in one sense... yet, they're pre-pubescent 'looking' in another, because they're bald and have no pubic hair.

Hmm... doesn't sit right with me, I'm afraid.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

"Well we're natural, have been longer than before joining this site, we get abuse off loads on here, but hey ho that's how we are,

At clubs, you'd be surprised how many people say to us, wow your brave haha, then we get, Ho I wish I didn't have to shave, I only do it to please my partner/other people,

They should host a 'Panty Hamster Club Night' - a whiskers and bushes only evening, catering for the hirsute crowd.

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Have to agree with the OP that his reaction was decidedly juvenile.

I have never felt pressured to conform to the perceived norm.

I very rarely shave totally, it's usually because I messed up and have no choice

The fact I have pubic hair is very clear from some of my photos so it shouldn't be a shock and I've never had anyone baulk. ( is that spelt right?)

For me I want those I meet to be comfortable with whatever hair they choose to have. Though I must confess to a preference for totally natural on a man. I find it masculine and sexy

Nita

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thing is, on here I would totally mention it & if someone didn't want to meet me based on that then that's fine, but it's not really the same in the vanilla dating world. I'm gonna need to find a way to casually mention it to every prospective date!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thing is, on here I would totally mention it & if someone didn't want to meet me based on that then that's fine, but it's not really the same in the vanilla dating world. I'm gonna need to find a way to casually mention it to every prospective date! "

Why? If you said you were X and he said he preferred Y would you change to please him?

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Then I would suggest that you're perpetuating the "have to shave" mentality.

On here shaved is seen as the norm, wrongly in my opinion and it has been suggested to me that I forewarn meets that I have pubic hair. I won't be doing that because I don't want to contribute to the culture that says hair is bad and abnormal.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nobody "has" to shave, it's like all choices, some people will have an issue with it - it boils down to how much you let the opinions of others influence you.

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By *andb69Couple over a year ago

leeds

"I need a rant.

Even when the topic comes up on here it tends to be slightly older people who say they like a bit of hair and younger ones say whap it all off.

I LIKE MINE FUZZY!

Rant over

I do prefer adults to look like adults too. The pre-pubescent look is def not for me. "

I don't know who you've been looking at but on my planet a grown woman's shaved cunt doesn't look anything like a prepubescent's!

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Someone turned up on a date with me wearing a pair of Crocs!

Off topic a bit, but I wonder if the person who designed Crics realised they had invented the most effective form of contraception

What! We have matching crocs and this has had no effect whatsoever on our sex life.

Oh and I like a bit of body hair on a man and I trim rather than shave, no complaints received so far.

Mrs DDC

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By *eonardoLoveMan over a year ago

London

"Anyway the best oral to a girl is with her perfectly shaved down there

The question is,do you give the best oral?

You are asking a cooker, if he can cook

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By *eonardoLoveMan over a year ago

London

"Agree with you pretty lady. That guys comment is pretty bewildering. Knows facts first hunny. Always helps when stating your case! As for me I like guys trimmed not shaven. I shave down below because I personally like feeling smooth silky skin on myself. NOT because a man asks or expects me to be smooth.

I know "facts", I stated them. Young girls 16-25 do like fully shaved body and trimmed pube. It is a fact. Men have hair, but nowadays women prefer more feminine men. Another fact...

I am the opposite, but I adapt to my partner(s). I like to change: hairy body or shaved body.

Another thing: you are english so maybe you are not aware of ot, but on summer resorts a lot of men are fully shaved, because the society requires it...final fact "hunny"

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By *eonardoLoveMan over a year ago

London

Anyway if you like hairy body it is perfect. Shaving is a big waste of time!?!?

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Then I would suggest that you're perpetuating the "have to shave" mentality.

I get your argument but I just see it as saving time... and any more people running away from me screaming.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer mine trimmed......my foo foo...my choice. Like it or lump it?!

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Maybe we should all not shave or trim anywhere for 'Movember'

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Maybe we should all not shave or trim anywhere for 'Movember'

Let's not forget "Blonde" Caz did Fanuary.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Then I would suggest that you're perpetuating the "have to shave" mentality.

I get your argument but I just see it as saving time... and any more people running away from me screaming.

Yea I see your point also

. We're not meeting at the moment anyway so it doesn't apply

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Why? If you said you were X and he said he preferred Y would you change to please him?"

Well, no. Good point!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Then I would suggest that you're perpetuating the "have to shave" mentality.

I hadn't thought about it like that. You're totally right though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know "facts", I stated them. Young girls 16-25 do like fully shaved body and trimmed pube. It is a fact. Men have hair, but nowadays women prefer more feminine men. Another fact...

I am the opposite, but I adapt to my partner(s). I like to change: hairy body or shaved body.

Another thing: you are english so maybe you are not aware of ot, but on summer resorts a lot of men are fully shaved, because the society requires it...final fact "hunny"

Are those facts taken from a magazine poll?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I need a rant.

Even when the topic comes up on here it tends to be slightly older people who say they like a bit of hair and younger ones say whap it all off.

I LIKE MINE FUZZY!

Rant over

"
doesn't bother me I love a surprise x

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Maybe we should all not shave or trim anywhere for 'Movember'

Let's not forget "Blonde" Caz did Fanuary.

Ooooh!

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

well we all have likes and dislikes

seems to be the thing atm to have no pubes ..i actually like being smooth as i feel more fem .dont like loads of pubes on a guy or girl but i dont mind a bit of lady hair on the miffy

dont like big thick bushes tho

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

KEEP CALM

BLAME PORN

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone has their own preferences but I prefer to shave as I think it's more hygienic

And I'm told those little visitors from the seaside won't bother you either

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By *eonardoLoveMan over a year ago

London

"Are those facts taken from a magazine poll? "

Validated by personal experience

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Everyone has their own preferences but I prefer to shave as I think it's more hygienic

And I'm told those little visitors from the seaside won't bother you either

Careful with the little cuts. Those dangers make the little seaside visitors seem almost welcome.

It's your preference but the number of threads and posts on threads on here perpetuating an idea that it is more hygienic to shave and wax always ignore the dangers of shaving and waxing.

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"Everyone has their own preferences but I prefer to shave as I think it's more hygienic

And I'm told those little visitors from the seaside won't bother you either

Nope sorry shaving doesn't prevent crab lice they prefer the humidity of the area which is actually increased by shaving everything off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everyone has their own preferences but I prefer to shave as I think it's more hygienic

And I'm told those little visitors from the seaside won't bother you either

Nope sorry shaving doesn't prevent crab lice they prefer the humidity of the area which is actually increased by shaving everything off "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everyone has their own preferences but I prefer to shave as I think it's more hygienic

And I'm told those little visitors from the seaside won't bother you either

Nope sorry shaving doesn't prevent crab lice they prefer the humidity of the area which is actually increased by shaving everything off "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always thought they only liked hair? Obviously I was wrong

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know "facts", I stated them. Young girls 16-25 do like fully shaved body and trimmed pube. It is a fact. Men have hair, but nowadays women prefer more feminine men. Another fact...

I am the opposite, but I adapt to my partner(s). I like to change: hairy body or shaved body.

Another thing: you are english so maybe you are not aware of ot, but on summer resorts a lot of men are fully shaved, because the society requires it...final fact "hunny"

Oh im so jealous if the next girl that gets to meet this 'delight' ... Hes just an oracle of knowledge and apparently oral skills

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Everyone has their own preferences but I prefer to shave as I think it's more hygienic

And I'm told those little visitors from the seaside won't bother you either

Careful with the little cuts. Those dangers make the little seaside visitors seem almost welcome.

It's your preference but the number of threads and posts on threads on here perpetuating an idea that it is more hygienic to shave and wax always ignore the dangers of shaving and waxing."

And I have yet to see anyone saying why it's more hygienic. Surely if you maintain basic hygiene neither is more hygienic than the other unless unbeknownst to me shaved skin is somehow Teflon coated.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

Shaving pubic hair removes the 'cushion' against friction, leaves microscopic open wounds and increases your risk of infections and STI's, in particular herpes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I always thought they only liked hair? Obviously I was wrong

They burrow into the hair shaft under your skin

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i've never had a guy comment on either me having public hair or the lack of it.

It's me that puts pressure on myself to be hair free & smooth.

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"I always thought they only liked hair? Obviously I was wrong

They burrow into the hair shaft under your skin

They do and once shaved off the hair shaft is left exposed completely

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

"i've never had a guy comment on either me having public hair or the lack of it.

It's me that puts pressure on myself to be hair free & smooth."

Majority of blokes are just thankful to get pussy. They wouldn't mention if it resembled the Florida Everglades or a bald cupcake!

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By *ensual temptressWoman over a year ago

Southampton

"Disclaimer: I do keep everything trimmed super short, and I'm so fair that it's basically invisible anyway. Just before anyone thinks I'm smuggling one of the Jackson 5 in my pants

I blame it all on the boogie

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Were do you get your statistics from?sounds like your opinion?must addmit I did have a look at ur profile to see how old you was?perhaps its us who's getting on a bit and losing touch with how younger peops think nowa days lol,and wanted to say if you find it un comfortable going down on a Natural hairy pussy then I think you might be doing it wrong ha ha?why is it uncomfortable any way?please tell?iv never heard any thing like it before!try giving oral to a plucked chicken it might not be as un comfortable,bring bk the hairs we say

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Were do you get your statistics from?sounds like your opinion?must addmit I did have a look at ur profile to see how old you was?perhaps its us who's getting on a bit and losing touch with how younger peops think nowa days lol,and wanted to say if you find it un comfortable going down on a Natural hairy pussy then I think you might be doing it wrong ha ha?why is it uncomfortable any way?please tell?iv never heard any thing like it before!try giving oral to a plucked chicken it might not be as un comfortable,bring bk the hairs we say"

having looked at some tastefull 70s porn theres not even a bikini line!!!

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By *rtemisiaWoman over a year ago

Norwich

"I prefer to have trimmed so does my partner as he says i look like a young girl shaved and i can see that lol xx"

That's a little bit creepy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I haven't gone down on a hairy pussy yet. But speaking about being on the receiving end, oral does feel wetter and generally nicer smooth. And if you have your labia sucked it probably isn't quite the same for a guy if he gets fur in his mouth!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I LIKE MINE FUZZY!

Throw away your razors,I don't mind a bit of fuzz at all

Personally, there's fuzzy and there's a 'but of fuzz' but if I leave mine to it's own devices, omg, it's very hairy. Hubby doesn't mind but the word 'deforestation' comes to mind. Lol

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By *litheroevoyeurMan over a year ago

Clitheroe

"I like to wonder when it happened. You know, all this lady shaving, not THAT many years ago NOBODY shaved their foo."

I've been married over 40 years and my wife has been smooth for most of that time.

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By *ordsandstuffMan over a year ago

Highbury

"I prefer to have trimmed so does my partner as he says i look like a young girl shaved and i can see that lol xx

That's a little bit creepy.

Agreed... I am surprised no one has pointed out that the expectations as to the amount of time that women spend on body maintenance are rather larger than the expectations on chaps!

Btw I am so not absolutely saying this is right!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer to have trimmed so does my partner as he says i look like a young girl shaved and i can see that lol xx

That's a little bit creepy.

More than a little bit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So he's a bellend because he has a preference?

... So what rather than make his excuses he should have gone through with fucking her. even though he didn't want to? ... This would have saved her feelings being hurt? ... People have preferences . That's his .

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

"I need a rant.

Even when the topic comes up on here it tends to be slightly older people who say they like a bit of hair and younger ones say whap it all off.

I LIKE MINE FUZZY!

Rant over

I do prefer adults to look like adults too. The pre-pubescent look is def not for me.

I don't know who you've been looking at but on my planet a grown woman's shaved cunt doesn't look anything like a prepubescent's! "

Only, that's not strictly true, is it? A prepubescent's is completely hairless, the same as a shaven one.

Ok, yes they are adult and fully formed/matured in one sense... yet, with the bald appearance they're pre-pubescent and childlike looking in another, and thus the lines become blurred....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I need a rant.

Even when the topic comes up on here it tends to be slightly older people who say they like a bit of hair and younger ones say whap it all off.

I LIKE MINE FUZZY!

Rant over

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leave it as you like it. There arelots of guys that like the natural bush.. I do...! Young guys have been brought up with porn wwhere all the girls are smooth...sadly. I grew up on mayfair...men only...and plenty natural girls... I like bushy and smooth. ..and natural is just as nice...!

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By *andb69Couple over a year ago

leeds

"I need a rant.

Even when the topic comes up on here it tends to be slightly older people who say they like a bit of hair and younger ones say whap it all off.

I LIKE MINE FUZZY!

Rant over

I do prefer adults to look like adults too. The pre-pubescent look is def not for me.

I don't know who you've been looking at but on my planet a grown woman's shaved cunt doesn't look anything like a prepubescent's!

Only, that's not strictly true, is it? A prepubescent's is completely hairless, the same as a shaven one.

Ok, yes they are adult and fully formed/matured in one sense... yet, with the bald appearance they're pre-pubescent and childlike looking in another, and thus the lines become blurred....

Ok - so a man who shaves looks like a prepubescent boy because his face is smooth and hairless. Hadn't thought of that before.

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"So he's a bellend because he has a preference?

I don't think she's saying him having preferences is the problem it's the fact his preferences are pretty shallow fuzzy fanny or not it doesn't change who she is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So he's a bellend because he has a preference?

I don't think she's saying him having preferences is the problem it's the fact his preferences are pretty shallow fuzzy fanny or not it doesn't change who she is "

Sorry that makes no sense. Being tall doesn't change who you are but that a preference people make, blonde, brunette . Same person. What physical preference is not shallow?? Or is It he is shallow but she has standards?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"So he's a bellend because he has a preference?

I don't think she's saying him having preferences is the problem it's the fact his preferences are pretty shallow fuzzy fanny or not it doesn't change who she is

As I've already said, it's nothing to do with his preference. It's the fact that this is his "worst date ever" even though it was a lovely evening up until this point, and he told me this story with complete venom for the poor girl and her choices.

Everyone is entitled to their own preferences, I don't think anyone is entitled to make other people feel bad about theirs.

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"So he's a bellend because he has a preference?

I don't think she's saying him having preferences is the problem it's the fact his preferences are pretty shallow fuzzy fanny or not it doesn't change who she is

Fair enough how about this;

He could have expressed his preferences in a way that didn't make him sound like a shallow prick, shes had a lucky escape if after a lovely evening he enjoyed he could write her of over something that most would find insignificant, he obviously found it significant which made him look a bit of a pedantic ass

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