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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Looking for some advise.
Bit of a shy girl in the 'real world' and I really fancy a no strings fuck with a guy in work, which I think he would be up for. (Don't need advice on not going with people from work thanks). How can I subtlety convey this to him?
Advice appreciated thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looking for some advise.
Bit of a shy girl in the 'real world' and I really fancy a no strings fuck with a guy in work, which I think he would be up for. (Don't need advice on not going with people from work thanks). How can I subtlety convey this to him?
Advice appreciated thanks "
sit on photocopier with your skirt up ,works every time x  |
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As a guy maybe if you asked him what he was up to at the weekend and if it's something fun say something like I'd love to go there but not on my own and see if he takes the hint and invites you as I'm sure he would failing that give he little teasers at work little flashes of your upper thigh act like the weak girl and get him to lift things for you and touch his arms and say how big they are |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looking for some advise.
Bit of a shy girl in the 'real world' and I really fancy a no strings fuck with a guy in work, which I think he would be up for. (Don't need advice on not going with people from work thanks). How can I subtlety convey this to him?
Advice appreciated thanks "
Ask him if he wants a shag? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I fancied a guy from work (jes since got a new job) and guess what.. he messaged me on here.. we met up and had some great fun we even had a couples profile on here lol we are now just friends with benefits. Have a look about he could be on here lol |
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By *tloversCouple
over a year ago
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Brush up against him when you pass him...brush tits against him when you don't need to passing him in corridor
I also think the deep sigh then he says 'what's up' and you said 'just having one of those days when I really need a hug '...wait for offer..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I also think the deep sigh then he says 'what's up' and you said 'just having one of those days when I really need a hug '...wait for offer..
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That's a great one, Clare just said she fell for that one this morning/or the guy just genuinely needed a hug.... |
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By *icky999Man
over a year ago
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"Brush up against him when you pass him...brush tits against him when you don't need to passing him in corridor
I also think the deep sigh then he says 'what's up' and you said 'just having one of those days when I really need a hug '...wait for offer..
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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You may not want the advice but I'm giving it anyway. Leave the sex out of the workplace.
Of course sex happens with colleagues but just be clear that you don't harass him or act in any sexually offensive way. Some men can and do find being sexually objectified at work just as distasteful as some women.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Brush up against him when you pass him...brush tits against him when you don't need to passing him in corridor
I also think the deep sigh then he says 'what's up' and you said 'just having one of those days when I really need a hug '...wait for offer..
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And sexual harassment case... |
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"Looking for some advise.
Bit of a shy girl in the 'real world' and I really fancy a no strings fuck with a guy in work, which I think he would be up for.
(Don't need advice on not going with people from work thanks)"
Which is a shame, since that's the only advice I'd have.
I have known two people who worked together get married, but I have known far more where it ended with at least one of them having to give up a hard-won job.
If you do decide to do anything, please don't do subtle, just ask him out.
But you'd really be better leaving it as a fantasy.
Mr ddc |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was dared to tell the guy I fancied at work that I wouldn't mind shagging him.
It was at a Christmas party so us both being a bit d*unk helped 
We ended up in a relationship for 14 years |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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Well you may not care for it but my advice will be the same I gave that chap who mentioned he fancied a lass he worked with last week: Don't mix work and sex. There are loads of other people out there you can play with and if it goes wrong, you've got to live with everyone hearing about it sooner or later.
If you REALLY want to make a play for him, just ask him if he's got a profile on fabswingers, as you're sure you saw him on here... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Times must have changed, I had loads of encounters with people I worked with, or met through work.
Clare worked at the same company that I did but at later time, we first met on a friday evening 'pint after work' when I went along with an ex-work friend.
I think the internet has actually complicated things as you used to just click with people or not. I'm all for technology and am a bit of a geek really but not sure it has helped with relationships or in a lot of other ways. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was dared to tell the guy I fancied at work that I wouldn't mind shagging him.
It was at a Christmas party so us both being a bit d*unk helped
We ended up in a relationship for 14 years "
PCA doesn't count though pitstop x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was dared to tell the guy I fancied at work that I wouldn't mind shagging him.
It was at a Christmas party so us both being a bit d*unk helped
We ended up in a relationship for 14 years PCA doesn't count though pitstop x "
No idea what that means  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looking for some advise.
Bit of a shy girl in the 'real world' and I really fancy a no strings fuck with a guy in work, which I think he would be up for. (Don't need advice on not going with people from work thanks). How can I subtlety convey this to him?
Advice appreciated thanks "
Just flirt lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looking for some advise.
Bit of a shy girl in the 'real world' and I really fancy a no strings fuck with a guy in work, which I think he would be up for. (Don't need advice on not going with people from work thanks). How can I subtlety convey this to him?
Advice appreciated thanks "
Take him in the disabled toilet and kindly show him your spunk bucket  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a guy maybe if you asked him what he was up to at the weekend and if it's something fun say something like I'd love to go there but not on my own and see if he takes the hint and invites you as I'm sure he would failing that give he little teasers at work little flashes of your upper thigh act like the weak girl and get him to lift things for you and touch his arms and say how big they are "
A victory for women everywhere  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looking for some advise.
Bit of a shy girl in the 'real world' and I really fancy a no strings fuck with a guy in work, which I think he would be up for. (Don't need advice on not going with people from work thanks). How can I subtlety convey this to him?
Advice appreciated thanks "
"Hey you fancy going for a drink this weekend"
Done |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Brush up against him when you pass him...brush tits against him when you don't need to passing him in corridor
I also think the deep sigh then he says 'what's up' and you said 'just having one of those days when I really need a hug '...wait for offer..
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So your first suggestion is sexual assult/harassment classy.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a girl at work once was chatting to her in the break room dunno what about but out of the blue she said your accent really turns me on
Needless to say spent the next few weeks shagging for england |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Times must have changed, I had loads of encounters with people I worked with, or met through work.
Clare worked at the same company that I did but at later time, we first met on a friday evening 'pint after work' when I went along with an ex-work friend.
I think the internet has actually complicated things as you used to just click with people or not. I'm all for technology and am a bit of a geek really but not sure it has helped with relationships or in a lot of other ways."
I agree with this. Loads of relationships start through meeting at work. There are 3 couples at my work at the moment. I know of others who have just shagged on a night out. There is no animosity between any of them. Why? Because they are adults & act like adults. |
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"Brush up against him when you pass him...brush tits against him when you don't need to passing him in corridor
I also think the deep sigh then he says 'what's up' and you said 'just having one of those days when I really need a hug '...wait for offer..
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I know this is probably tongue in cheek, but I wouldn't. Had to attend a disciplinary hearing for a woman who did that to a male colleague. She was sacked.
I think sometimes assume because they're attracted to someone the feeling is mutual and act on it.
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"You may not want the advice but I'm giving it anyway. Leave the sex out of the workplace.
Of course sex happens with colleagues but just be clear that you don't harass him or act in any sexually offensive way. Some men can and do find being sexually objectified at work just as distasteful as some women.
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My workload testifies to that! |
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"Times must have changed, I had loads of encounters with people I worked with, or met through work.
Clare worked at the same company that I did but at later time, we first met on a friday evening 'pint after work' when I went along with an ex-work friend.
I think the internet has actually complicated things as you used to just click with people or not. I'm all for technology and am a bit of a geek really but not sure it has helped with relationships or in a lot of other ways.
I agree with this. Loads of relationships start through meeting at work. There are 3 couples at my work at the moment. I know of others who have just shagged on a night out. There is no animosity between any of them. Why? Because they are adults & act like adults. "
In my workplace there are about six couples who met and married at work. There are also a few more in relationships and have children. There's also a couple who met, married, divorced who still work together: no problems.
The ones that ended badly would make a horror movie. As for some of the cases of love gone wrong in the workplace we represent...lordy, lordy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well you may not care for it but my advice will be the same I gave that chap who mentioned he fancied a lass he worked with last week: Don't mix work and sex. There are loads of other people out there you can play with and if it goes wrong, you've got to live with everyone hearing about it sooner or later.
If you REALLY want to make a play for him, just ask him if he's got a profile on fabswingers, as you're sure you saw him on here..."
Seriously? And then if he is not on fab swingers which he probably isn't. .. he then knows she is?! Hmmm not a good risk me thinks! Depending on her job she could be fired simply for being on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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To the OP, just done hat you did before you discovered swinging to let him know you are interested. Flirt but don't be hands on in any way in the work place. Ask him out to dinner ... he will know then and will respond accordingly. That way at least you will know. Don't think like a swinger or fab person or whatever you wanna call yourself in here when you are in work. It will end badly unless it does so happen that he is in this lifestyle too. I know many swingers are in my work and they know I am but none of us mention it. That's the discretion part kicking in. |
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