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By *onyneMan
over a year ago
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Being upfront is important so you know what is going on, but I guess some people [reasonably] hold some stuff back until they get to know someone. Sometimes that is fair enough...I don't suppose telling everyone everything straight away is what happens in many walks of life...has to be within reason though...I don't mean finding out that the photo is from 25 years ago or the couple is really a single man or whatever...
Some information and sharing has to come from trust and people working out they can share stuff safely. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Being upfront is important so you know what is going on, but I guess some people [reasonably] hold some stuff back until they get to know someone. Sometimes that is fair enough...I don't suppose telling everyone everything straight away is what happens in many walks of life...has to be within reason though...I don't mean finding out that the photo is from 25 years ago or the couple is really a single man or whatever...
Some information and sharing has to come from trust and people working out they can share stuff safely."
Some great responses. Thanks folks. Keep 'em cumming, as they say  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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See I'm complete honest here, what you see is what you get, ask me anything and I shall tell.
The problem I have with swinging regularly, I spend a lot of time with my ex (various reasons) and when guys want to FaceTime and stuff but I can't, I tell them the truth and they get the right hump with me!!! Jog on, I have stuff going on away from here, I'm not gonna lie to anyone about why I can't talk etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always honest here... Nothing to lie about anyway!
As long as others can live with their half- or non-truths, I don't have a problem with them. There's usually a reason, and I'm not likely to be in a position where I require an explanation.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely honesty is the best policy, especially if you are looking to meet people. Being anything less will always end up biting you in the ass... on saying that maybe that's why some are less than others!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Jeez if you lot were to be believed, it's a site full of mother Theresa's. ...I've never encountered such an honest bunch. ....Unless you aren't being strictly honest, you devils  |
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"Jeez if you lot were to be believed, it's a site full of mother Theresa's. ...I've never encountered such an honest bunch. ....Unless you aren't being strictly honest, you devils "
Just call me st bladey |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jeez if you lot were to be believed, it's a site full of mother Theresa's. ...I've never encountered such an honest bunch. ....Unless you aren't being strictly honest, you devils "
I'm being honest when I say you have a cracking arse |
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"Jeez if you lot were to be believed, it's a site full of mother Theresa's. ...I've never encountered such an honest bunch. ....Unless you aren't being strictly honest, you devils
I'm being honest when I say you have a cracking arse"
It true he is being honest. But the rest is pretty fucking good to  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honesty is the best policy, most of the time.
I suffer from ME/CFS so don't/can't feel like playing all the time or always at the drop of a hat.
Clare has some Bi interest and 'has my blessing' (if that is the right way of putting it) to play alone with anyone she would want to. By putting that on our profile all we would get is single blokes and couples looking for an extra female, which isn't what we want as we both want this to be a shared part of our lives.
So yeah, lie or mislead a little bit, guilty as charged. |
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over a year ago
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"Jeez if you lot were to be believed, it's a site full of mother Theresa's. ...I've never encountered such an honest bunch. ....Unless you aren't being strictly honest, you devils "
Hahaha  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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I think intent is the issue.
My name isn't Lickety but the intent isn't to lie about my name but to protect my identity.
I always prefer the truth, it doesn't have to be delivered with callous relish but it is much better than a polite lie that then leads to hurt.
I won't side track on omissions but I believe that what a lot of people mean when they say someone wasn't honest is that they omitted to tell them something material.
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