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Womans market.....Young man's game ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok so reading through the forums this week it's clear that single men are having limited success making that breakthrough with the ladies. So my question is this "is it a case of it being a woman's market and a young mans game ?" |
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It is a case of women being in the majority therefore being more in demand, yes. Young men however have a tough time and if they come into the forum asking for advice will be treated quite unkindly sometimes. I know of a gent in his mid sixties who is more successful than most on here but in the main I would say mid thirties to mid forties seems the optimum age for a man.
I have no empirical evidence though, just casual observation  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we filter out as early as possible the men we do or dont wantbto meet..too needy too clingy and too demanding are first to go but we have met a fair few single men of various ages x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is a case of women being in the majority therefore being more in demand, yes. Young men however have a tough time and if they come into the forum asking for advice will be treated quite unkindly sometimes. I know of a gent in his mid sixties who is more successful than most on here but in the main I would say mid thirties to mid forties seems the optimum age for a man.
I have no empirical evidence though, just casual observation "
i agree and think its coz a lot of younger guys havent learnt that.patience is a virtue and the same question worded differently will get you further.x |
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"It is a case of women being in the majority therefore being more in demand, yes. Young men however have a tough time and if they come into the forum asking for advice will be treated quite unkindly sometimes. I know of a gent in his mid sixties who is more successful than most on here but in the main I would say mid thirties to mid forties seems the optimum age for a man.
I have no empirical evidence though, just casual observation
i agree and think its coz a lot of younger guys havent learnt that.patience is a virtue and the same question worded differently will get you further.x"
I think it's partly that and partly a dick swinging contest by some of the older men. Youth isn't a crime or of it is its one we all committed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is a case of women being in the majority therefore being more in demand, yes. Young men however have a tough time and if they come into the forum asking for advice will be treated quite unkindly sometimes. I know of a gent in his mid sixties who is more successful than most on here but in the main I would say mid thirties to mid forties seems the optimum age for a man.
I have no empirical evidence though, just casual observation
i agree and think its coz a lot of younger guys havent learnt that.patience is a virtue and the same question worded differently will get you further.x"
I did an experiment and changed my age range to men aged 40-50. I got many more messages than when it was 25-35. The language was different but the intent behind the words was the same. Age doesn't always equate to maturity,patience or experience. |
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"Ok so reading through the forums this week it's clear that single men are having limited success making that breakthrough with the ladies. So my question is this "is it a case of it being a woman's market and a young mans game ?""
It's probably also worth bearing in mind the fact that what you see in the forums isn't necessarily representative of what is happening on the site in general.
"Empty vessels make most noise" n all that.
Mr ddc
(Though I'm now picturing Swiss Tony rather than Archie ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok so reading through the forums this week it's clear that single men are having limited success making that breakthrough with the ladies. So my question is this "is it a case of it being a woman's market and a young mans game ?"
It's probably also worth bearing in mind the fact that what you see in the forums isn't necessarily representative of what is happening on the site in general.
"Empty vessels make most noise" n all that.
Mr ddc
(Though I'm now picturing Swiss Tony rather than Archie )"
My English teacher used that phrase |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok so reading through the forums this week it's clear that single men are having limited success making that breakthrough with the ladies. So my question is this "is it a case of it being a woman's market and a young mans game ?""
hey take it for what it is ,men out number women ,supply and demand is a common factor in the western world ,if you don't sell yourself well then no-one will buy you ,put some personality into what you do not everyone will like it but those that do will love it  |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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Age is just a number
A interesting experiment would be to have no age on profiles or pictures to guide or influence opinions .
then just let the conversation be the only guide then do a survey asking how old do you think the person you spoke to was my guess is it would be very hard to guess the age as long as no text talk was used .
Age is often used as a gage to asses maturity levels but age is not always the best guide to such things after all some people mature faster than others mostly due to life experiences . |
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By *opinovMan
over a year ago
Point Nemo, Cumbria |
"It is a case of women being in the majority therefore being more in demand, yes. Young men however have a tough time and if they come into the forum asking for advice will be treated quite unkindly sometimes. I know of a gent in his mid sixties who is more successful than most on here but in the main I would say mid thirties to mid forties seems the optimum age for a man.
I have no empirical evidence though, just casual observation "
Surely women are in greater demand because they are in the minority - it seems to me that single men are somewhat analogous to plankton around here. |
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"Ok so reading through the forums this week it's clear that single men are having limited success making that breakthrough with the ladies. So my question is this "is it a case of it being a woman's market and a young mans game ?""
. Your success on fab will depend on how much effort you put into your profile and how your market yourself.
Whilst competition is intense the profiles of single men with less than five lines and just cock picture can be dismissed as members with no intention of meeting . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What age is considered young? Are we talking about under 30s? "
Yeah I'd say. Still looking young in the face,they all like the gym these days. Overall Geordie shore look.Kids these days eh  |
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"It is a case of women being in the majority therefore being more in demand, yes. Young men however have a tough time and if they come into the forum asking for advice will be treated quite unkindly sometimes. I know of a gent in his mid sixties who is more successful than most on here but in the main I would say mid thirties to mid forties seems the optimum age for a man.
I have no empirical evidence though, just casual observation
Surely women are in greater demand because they are in the minority - it seems to me that single men are somewhat analogous to plankton around here."
Yes I meant to say minority....doh! Silly me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ok so reading through the forums this week it's clear that single men are having limited success making that breakthrough with the ladies. So my question is this "is it a case of it being a woman's market and a young mans game ?"hey take it for what it is ,men out number women ,supply and demand is a common factor in the western world ,if you don't sell yourself well then no-one will buy you ,put some personality into what you do not everyone will like it but those that do will love it "
Fair points fella you're not wrong.It's a brutal world though i'll give you that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree it's a womans market on here, not sure about young guys game.
There's an excess of men on here, so if you are looking for men you're more likely to have more choice in who you meet, and guaranteed more success in meeting.
Men can easily mess it up for themselves on here because they're replaceable and some don't know it. Some guys even think once they've got that first meet, or that first chat, they're guaranteed sex whenever they want it, doesn't happen that way though.
So even you manage to make contact and have some success it guarantees nothing.
If that makes me sound up myself i'm not bothered, i'm not here to be made to feel like some unpaid service. I'm here for me and this site (pretty much any site really) gives me advantages that i'm well aware of and use them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is a case of women being in the majority therefore being more in demand, yes. Young men however have a tough time and if they come into the forum asking for advice will be treated quite unkindly sometimes. I know of a gent in his mid sixties who is more successful than most on here but in the main I would say mid thirties to mid forties seems the optimum age for a man.
I have no empirical evidence though, just casual observation
Surely women are in greater demand because they are in the minority - it seems to me that single men are somewhat analogous to plankton around here."
I think the term is "Amoebas on fleas on dogs". |
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"Ok so reading through the forums this week it's clear that single men are having limited success making that breakthrough with the ladies. So my question is this "is it a case of it being a woman's market and a young mans game ?""
It's a womans market for sure, but it's not about age. I actually relate to the comment about plankton - my latest picture has gotten so much response I really do feel as though I am swimming in a sea of headless torsos at times!! The mail system on this site makes it SO difficult to keep track of conversations when there are several on the go...
So, most of the time you'll need a half decent profile, several good pics, and the ability to sustain an engaging conversation. The latter is really the key, and a lot of young men are extremely BAD at doing that, they are the instashag generation, and most women on here like a more personal touch.  |
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By *opinovMan
over a year ago
Point Nemo, Cumbria |
"It is a case of women being in the majority therefore being more in demand, yes. Young men however have a tough time and if they come into the forum asking for advice will be treated quite unkindly sometimes. I know of a gent in his mid sixties who is more successful than most on here but in the main I would say mid thirties to mid forties seems the optimum age for a man.
I have no empirical evidence though, just casual observation
Surely women are in greater demand because they are in the minority - it seems to me that single men are somewhat analogous to plankton around here.
I think the term is "Amoebas on fleas on dogs"."
Thanks - I feel a bit better about myself now. |
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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago
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Swathes of idiotic guys who think they're owed a fuck, or waste people's time, ruin it for everyone.
It's often young men who exhibit this behaviour, so I'd so say men in their thirties are likely to have the most "success" on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swathes of idiotic guys who think they're owed a fuck, or waste people's time, ruin it for everyone.
It's often young men who exhibit this behaviour, so I'd so say men in their thirties are likely to have the most "success" on here."
I've personally found older guys (40s, 50) to be rude and entitled. Younger guys can just be shit at asking and come off as immature. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Swathes of idiotic guys who think they're owed a fuck, or waste people's time, ruin it for everyone.
It's often young men who exhibit this behaviour, so I'd so say men in their thirties are likely to have the most "success" on here.
I've personally found older guys (40s, 50) to be rude and entitled. Younger guys can just be shit at asking and come off as immature."
The rudest man I encountered from here was a little younger than me. It's not often someone is rude but they have all been over 35. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is a case of women being in the majority therefore being more in demand, yes. Young men however have a tough time and if they come into the forum asking for advice will be treated quite unkindly sometimes. I know of a gent in his mid sixties who is more successful than most on here but in the main I would say mid thirties to mid forties seems the optimum age for a man.
I have no empirical evidence though, just casual observation
Surely women are in greater demand because they are in the minority - it seems to me that single men are somewhat analogous to plankton around here.
I think the term is "Amoebas on fleas on dogs".
Thanks - I feel a bit better about myself now."
You're welcome |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Swathes of idiotic guys who think they're owed a fuck, or waste people's time, ruin it for everyone.
It's often young men who exhibit this behaviour, so I'd so say men in their thirties are likely to have the most "success" on here.
I've personally found older guys (40s, 50) to be rude and entitled. Younger guys can just be shit at asking and come off as immature.
The rudest man I encountered from here was a little younger than me. It's not often someone is rude but they have all been over 35. "
I got it quite a lot so brought my filters down.
On another site i use i noticed it's mainly older guys again treating me like a piece of meat, there's no filters on there. I have got some friends on there who are older though and are nice, respectful. But again the younger guys are immature. |
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Surely women are in greater demand because they are in the minority - it seems to me that single men are somewhat analogous to plankton around here."
Meaning that the women are whales?
Probably not far off the truth! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Age is just a number
A interesting experiment would be to have no age on profiles or pictures to guide or influence opinions .
then just let the conversation be the only guide then do a survey asking how old do you think the person you spoke to was my guess is it would be very hard to guess the age as long as no text talk was used .
Age is often used as a gage to asses maturity levels but age is not always the best guide to such things after all some people mature faster than others mostly due to life experiences ."
I tend to agree with this. When I first started out the internet was in its infancy. It was all done via the post box with an occasional phone number thrown in. Any photos were of the grainy instamatic type, if sent at all. The internet has given people the opportunity to make more informed decisions based on instant messaging and photos. Without perhaps getting to know a person, a decision can be made.
As we're talking about men, (again) age shouldn't come into it. You get those that think with their cock at any age! With age should come experience, but obviously not always. Youth can be impetuous, but according to some of the comments so can those that should know better! It's just down to personal choice as to who matches your criteria. And yes, women get to have a lot more of that personal choice, because they are outnumbered by the ever hopeful male. Of any age. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a woman's market, there are more single guys than woman so the woman is usually spoilt for choice.
Woman want a man with experience, not a young boy who she needs to mother. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some older people tend to thing because they're older this equals more experience and maturity. Not always the case.
I love young guys as I'm young and I know plenty of other people that do to. More for me if others don't want them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Masses of plebs are destroying things for the minority of genuine "
I agree, there are a lot of "plebs" (or fucktards as I like to call them!) on here but there are anywhere in life. These people and their behaviour has no bearing whatsoever on the success or otherwise of genuine users, in fact, I'd say they make the genuine well mannered guys stand out more. |
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By *dinMan
over a year ago
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"Masses of plebs are destroying things for the minority of genuine
I agree, there are a lot of "plebs" (or fucktards as I like to call them!) on here but there are anywhere in life. These people and their behaviour has no bearing whatsoever on the success or otherwise of genuine users, in fact, I'd say they make the genuine well mannered guys stand out more. "
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