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Do dominant women exist?
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I know this is a swingers site, and possibly the wrong place to meet domme women, but do they exist on here? Or do genuinely dominant women even exist, full stop. I mean, most I "come" across seem to be prostitutes.
If not, where on the web are they to be found (free - not prostitutes).
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over a year ago
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"I know this is a swingers site, and possibly the wrong place to meet domme women, but do they exist on here? Or do genuinely dominant women even exist, full stop. I mean, most I "come" across seem to be prostitutes.
If not, where on the web are they to be found (free - not prostitutes).
Ta "
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"I know this is a swingers site, and possibly the wrong place to meet domme women, but do they exist on here? Or do genuinely dominant women even exist, full stop. I mean, most I "come" across seem to be prostitutes.
If not, where on the web are they to be found (free - not prostitutes).
Ta "
is anything ever free ask yourself and are not most women dominant I bow to the power that is woman  |
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"I know this is a swingers site, and possibly the wrong place to meet domme women, but do they exist on here? Or do genuinely dominant women even exist, full stop. I mean, most I "come" across seem to be prostitutes.
If not, where on the web are they to be found (free - not prostitutes).
Ta "
No, of course they don't. It is complete fantasy. A myth. Invented by Shades of Grey and others making a buck out of males.
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"I know this is a swingers site, and possibly the wrong place to meet domme women, but do they exist on here? Or do genuinely dominant women even exist, full stop. I mean, most I "come" across seem to be prostitutes.
If not, where on the web are they to be found (free - not prostitutes).
Ta "
yes they do exist but you have to do you're own homework and find them  |
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Don't know if I would call a prodomme a prostitute, different in my opinion but each to their own view,
Yes they are here but they don't shout it out, other sites are more leaned towards fetish play
Of course they exist, not easy to find but they are out there,
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I got sick of men saying they were sub then telling me what they wanted me to do to them. I hate having to explain it doesn't work like that. I'm not a proper Domme,I just like doing nasty things to men and I don't like hurting them. |
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I believe they do but my own search and those of friends tends to lead to professional dominatrix types.
On many occasions I have contacted a would be Domme, got chatting even performed tasks for them. Only for further involvement to require payment or "tribute" or joining a pay site to which the woman is presumably affiliated.
A sub female friend of mine sent me pics of a fantastic session she had with a Domme. When my friend asked if the Domme might be interested in seeing me the reply was "I charge men". |
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"What is your definition of dominant ? It's different for everyone. I get extremely bossy during 3sums especially and have been referred to as dominant but I'm not into orders and injuries.
Everyones got a different perspective on the term. "
Bossy, demanding and faking the lead is all I hope for |
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"What is your definition of dominant ? It's different for everyone. I get extremely bossy during 3sums especially and have been referred to as dominant but I'm not into orders and injuries.
Everyones got a different perspective on the term. "
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"What is your definition of dominant ? It's different for everyone. I get extremely bossy during 3sums especially and have been referred to as dominant but I'm not into orders and injuries.
Everyones got a different perspective on the term.
Bossy, demanding and faking the lead is all I hope for"
*TAKING the lead! |
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"I believe they do but my own search and those of friends tends to lead to professional dominatrix types.
On many occasions I have contacted a would be Domme, got chatting even performed tasks for them. Only for further involvement to require payment or "tribute" or joining a pay site to which the woman is presumably affiliated.
A sub female friend of mine sent me pics of a fantastic session she had with a Domme. When my friend asked if the Domme might be interested in seeing me the reply was "I charge men"."
Have never and will never tribute, doesn't fit with my idea of domination at all, but there are plenty of guys out there who like it, there are also plenty of guys who will pay a prodomme (havnt but would) so it is going to lead to this avenue when searching,
Tricky but suppose it would need to meet without mentioning it, gain trust and then drop the sub request,
Looking at it from their point of view is definitely key though |
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Yep, it's all subjective.
My fantasies revolve around a woman "faking the lead" as you say. Initiating sex. Treating me like the object/slut. Squeezing my cheeks (both sets). Pushing me against a wall, pushing my head down to make me lick and kiss their pussy. And a lot more besides. |
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Don't get me wrong. I am active a little in the fetish/BSDM scene and I consider a couple of pro Dommes as friends. But they are upfront about it, and do not entice men to them on the pretext of simply enjoying dominating men only to demand money to continue. An ethical pro Domme or sex worker will be upfront about selling services.
Personally I switch but a big part of me wishes to submit mentally and physically to a dominant woman. I did enjoy such a relationship around 7 years ago so genuine Dommes do exist |
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"Don't get me wrong. I am active a little in the fetish/BSDM scene and I consider a couple of pro Dommes as friends. But they are upfront about it, and do not entice men to them on the pretext of simply enjoying dominating men only to demand money to continue. An ethical pro Domme or sex worker will be upfront about selling services."
Totally agree, well said |
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Ah don't get me wrong, I've nothing whatsoever against women charging for services. It's just not for me.
I'm looking to meet a woman who can switch things up - within some sort of a relationship (a relationship based on mutual satisfaction, not money). |
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" Squeezing my cheeks (both sets). Pushing me against a wall, pushing my head down to make me lick and kiss their pussy. And a lot more besides."
Sounds like a normal Saturday night out on the piss  |
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For me, domination means submitting my will and submitting physically to a Dominant lady. Not "topping from the bottom" where a so-called sub says "I want to be spanked, I want to be whipped" etc.
Usually within a set of pre-defined limits (hard and soft, the latter can be stretched) domination and submission involve the dominant taking some level of control over the sub. It might involve spanking and whipping, if she so desires.
Certainly a big part of me gains emotional and sometimes sexual excitement by being made to suffer because it pleases a dominant lady. |
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"Yep, it's all subjective.
My fantasies revolve around a woman "faking the lead" as you say. Initiating sex. Treating me like the object/slut. Squeezing my cheeks (both sets). Pushing me against a wall, pushing my head down to make me lick and kiss their pussy. And a lot more besides."
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"What is your definition of dominant ? It's different for everyone. I get extremely bossy during 3sums especially and have been referred to as dominant but I'm not into orders and injuries.
Everyones got a different perspective on the term. "
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Yes, like most things it's subjective and different for different people. I've no desire to be labelled a "sub" per se (a fulfilling relationship for me would be switching roles), but am keen to meet dominant women to explore my more submissive needs and desires.
"Topping from the bottom" (I get that - reminds me of a Sopranos episode), and I'm just explaining what would turn me on. If the right woman took control, I would submit and no doubt love it. It's all very new to me, and previous relationships have been very vanilla with nice women, but women who were very submissive in nature.
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"Yes, like most things it's subjective and different for different people. I've no desire to be labelled a "sub" per se (a fulfilling relationship for me would be switching roles), but am keen to meet dominant women to explore my more submissive needs and desires.
"Topping from the bottom" (I get that - reminds me of a Sopranos episode), and I'm just explaining what would turn me on. If the right woman took control, I would submit and no doubt love it. It's all very new to me, and previous relationships have been very vanilla with nice women, but women who were very submissive in nature.
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There's no right or wrong way to do it, no matter what some people might tell you. It's just a case of finding someone into the same things. Easier said than done I know.
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