Usually I just say I'm not attracted to them.
Or if their profile has put me off then I'll tell them. The problem then is you end up practically rewriting a profile for someone......
Hmmmmmm, maybe I'm too nice lol   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, I don't hate it.
It's a natural human reaction to a rejection - not just on here, but in many areas and walks of life.
If it bothers you that much, just block them. |
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"I always say 'you're too far away' even if they're in Hove. "
Me too! That's one of my stock replies. Not telling you my others. They can't be offended because it's not personal. 
I always reply to first messages. No need to reply to any subsequent "why" messages. |
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"Don't you just hate being asked this when you've politely declined someone?  "
well its quite a polite retort but having said that you have to get back to having your ego massaged by the " beautiful people" |
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"Maybe something they can't change like 'you're too tall' or 'you're too short' would be a politer way of declining.
"we're all the same lying down"
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Pet hate. We're not! And even if we were, I'd still meet you vertically before we got horizontal. |
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"As I'm unrecognisable glammed up, I'm always tempted to reply with: I work with you/live near you/know your family and so on....  "
That would end it for me 
-Courtney |
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"Maybe something they can't change like 'you're too tall' or 'you're too short' would be a politer way of declining.
"we're all the same lying down"
Pet hate. We're not! And even if we were, I'd still meet you vertically before we got horizontal. "
I know, just meant you can say anything as to why you don't wanna meet and someone will make excuses as to why you should meet them.
wanna make a topic about it but going to sleep in a minute. |
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"Maybe something they can't change like 'you're too tall' or 'you're too short' would be a politer way of declining.
"we're all the same lying down"
Pet hate. We're not! And even if we were, I'd still meet you vertically before we got horizontal.
I know, just meant you can say anything as to why you don't wanna meet and someone will make excuses as to why you should meet them.
wanna make a topic about it but going to sleep in a minute."
I know - was agreeing with you |
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By *km45Man
over a year ago
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"Don't you just hate being asked this when you've politely declined someone? "
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If I was to get a reply which very very rarely happens saying not interested etc I would never dream of asking why. I would understand that I'm not their type. Why ask that stupid question |
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"Maybe something they can't change like 'you're too tall' or 'you're too short' would be a politer way of declining.
"we're all the same lying down"
Pet hate. We're not! And even if we were, I'd still meet you vertically before we got horizontal.
I know, just meant you can say anything as to why you don't wanna meet and someone will make excuses as to why you should meet them.
wanna make a topic about it but going to sleep in a minute.
I know - was agreeing with you "
I'm so tired, been up since 3am...ok, i get you now lol. Might as well have made that topic too. |
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"Don't you just hate being asked this when you've politely declined someone? "
I don't mind too much. If people ask why, I'll happily tell them as nicely as possible. Of the handful of couples who have asked, none have ever been rude.. I suspect that single guys may be a different story though.
Cal |
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I had a strange reaction from someone just after I'd joined FAB, made me glad I said I wasn't interested, soon met someone nice to cancel out the bad experience though. |
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"I always say 'you're too far away' even if they're in Hove. "
I can come to you!
And when you say you don't accommodate they say I'll get a hotel and more often than not you don't hear from them again |
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We had this question not long a go on another site and it went like this
Can I ask why ?
Because you say you are VWE and Alice does not play with VWE guys (it does mention this in our profile )
I'm not that big
It says on your profile you are 9 inches
Well have not really measured myself so might be about 8
Still way to big sorry
Ok have just measured myself and I'm just under 6
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"We had this question not long a go on another site and it went like this
Can I ask why ?
Because you say you are VWE and Alice does not play with VWE guys (it does mention this in our profile )
I'm not that big
It says on your profile you are 9 inches
Well have not really measured myself so might be about 8
Still way to big sorry
Ok have just measured myself and I'm just under 6
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By *km45Man
over a year ago
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"We had this question not long a go on another site and it went like this
Can I ask why ?
Because you say you are VWE and Alice does not play with VWE guys (it does mention this in our profile )
I'm not that big
It says on your profile you are 9 inches
Well have not really measured myself so might be about 8
Still way to big sorry
Ok have just measured myself and I'm just under 6
Chuckling to myself "
Yes and I bet in the end he probably was under 6 inches |
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Since I've started saying 'thanks but I'm not meeting at the moment but have fun x' I haven't had anyone say anything rude or nasty.
I'm totally using that line if I start meeting again and I'm not interested. |
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"Maybe something they can't change like 'you're too tall' or 'you're too short' would be a politer way of declining.
"we're all the same lying down"
Pet hate. We're not! And even if we were, I'd still meet you vertically before we got horizontal.
I know, just meant you can say anything as to why you don't wanna meet and someone will make excuses as to why you should meet them.
wanna make a topic about it but going to sleep in a minute.
I know - was agreeing with you
I'm so tired, been up since 3am...ok, i get you now lol. Might as well have made that topic too."
Do it tomorrow anyway  |
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"Usually I just say I'm not attracted to them.
Or if their profile has put me off then I'll tell them. The problem then is you end up practically rewriting a profile for someone......
Hmmmmmm, maybe I'm too nice lol "
Ditto  |
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By *rtemisia OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Don't you just hate being asked this when you've politely declined someone? .
If I was to get a reply which very very rarely happens saying not interested etc I would never dream of asking why. I would understand that I'm not their type. Why ask that stupid question"
Precisely. It's like oh mate, are you actually gonna make me say I don't fancy you...? |
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