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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are so fuckable but . . . . Do we need to be thinner to be lovable???
Feeling a bit insecure and curious as to what you sexy fabbers think
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Not in the slightest! There's no need to feel insecure. I prefer women with curves. I've never dates a woman less than a 12/14 and there's been bigger ones too! There's just more of you to love and fuck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I can say the same with us 6pack guys as most women are not into it, they prefer an average body lol.
Liar  "
lol clicked the wrong button, ur right |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have to love yourself before anyone else can and confidence is a very sexy thing x"
So true! I've noticed a difference since I became more confident in myself. |
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By *rc83Man
over a year ago
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"As long as your happy with yourself then it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks of you  "
This for sure. If you have the confidence in yourself who cares what everyone else thinks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Up to a point size is not an issue. It is the person and their hygiene that matters. All you bigger girls should take solace in 2 things, 1, older skinny women can look awful, especially smokers, as it wrecks their skin 2 women rule on this site and will attract hundreds of messages to choose from ( granted there is a lot of dross)
So take heart, you will find your prince amongst the frogs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are so fuckable but . . . . Do we need to be thinner to be lovable???
Feeling a bit insecure and curious as to what you sexy fabbers think
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difficult to say can only see your breasts and they look lovable x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a big girl, and l am who l am. If someone don't like me because of my size then they have lost out, l will change for me when it suits me, remember true beauty comes from within not from the size of a person! |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"yeah, I might fuck them.
I won't date or marry them.
I AM OUTRAGED!!!!! "
for goodness sake....
Yes, okay I will go on a date with one.
The cinema, the late show during the winter months and I will walk 5 steps in front to check for loose carpeting, I would have to think they might trip.
hopefully, I have made a quick recovery before mass blocking  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tell myself I need to be thinner, and try to lose weight, not easy, especially since hitting 40.
But other half loves me as I am and just wants me to be happy. So you don't need to be thinner, there's someone out there for everyone, just the way we are |
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"Are so fuckable but . . . . Do we need to be thinner to be lovable???
Feeling a bit insecure and curious as to what you sexy fabbers think
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you shouldn't have to be insecure or think you need to be thinner to be "love able" just be yourself...
bigger/curvier women have their qualities too you know like anything else |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well as I have come to find out in the past year, if I was thinner I would have more chance getting a relationship round here but because I'm big, I haven't a chance, no man has ever chatted me up while I've been out, even if one did fine me attractive they would never admit it, if I was thinner pretty sure I would have had some luck by now.
That be said on here, I've fucked two very very hot guys (in my opinion) and neither left me a veri, I can only assume the above still applies while swinging, if I was thinner, would they have left me a veri?
I must admit I've been on a bit of a downer about this recently, I talk to a few guys on here and they say to me when I've been out 'did you pull' and I reply 'I never do' they will always come back with well I would, who wants a twig? But faced with two options one thinner more attractive and me; who would you go for, I know which one I would and that's an awful thing to say about myself really!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yeah, I might fuck them.
I won't date or marry them.
I AM OUTRAGED!!!!!
for goodness sake....
Yes, okay I will go on a date with one.
The cinema, the late show during the winter months and I will walk 5 steps in front to check for loose carpeting, I would have to think they might trip.
hopefully, I have made a quick recovery before mass blocking "
Ooooh backtracking...
No need to worry about loose carpet. I bounce. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been fat and have lost 8 stone.
As a fat girl my marriage was strong, lots of sex, lots of fun, very loved.
Since I've lost weight I've had sex with my husband a handful of times in 2 years.
So for me the 2 don't correlate at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If someone is attracted to you the love comes after thats when your beliefs values and personalities fit together nothing to do with the intial looks that attracted you.
I think you can fall in love with someone your not initially attracted to aswell as long as they dont repulse you you will see past it.
There needs to be an attraction though whether intial or developed for the physical side to be maintained. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been fat and have lost 8 stone.
As a fat girl my marriage was strong, lots of sex, lots of fun, very loved.
Since I've lost weight I've had sex with my husband a handful of times in 2 years.
So for me the 2 don't correlate at all."
yes but that's maybe not about your weight maybe more to do with other things x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been fat and have lost 8 stone.
As a fat girl my marriage was strong, lots of sex, lots of fun, very loved.
Since I've lost weight I've had sex with my husband a handful of times in 2 years.
So for me the 2 don't correlate at all.yes but that's maybe not about your weight maybe more to do with other things x "
You're right, it's definitely about other things too. I was just trying to say to the OP that fat doesn't always = unloved and slim doesn't = wanted I guess. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been fat and have lost 8 stone.
As a fat girl my marriage was strong, lots of sex, lots of fun, very loved.
Since I've lost weight I've had sex with my husband a handful of times in 2 years.
So for me the 2 don't correlate at all."
Have you changed other than physically tho ?
I can speak from personal experience, in that when I lost a lot of weight my attitude did change : and not necessarily for the better.
That in itself can be a passion killer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been fat and have lost 8 stone.
As a fat girl my marriage was strong, lots of sex, lots of fun, very loved.
Since I've lost weight I've had sex with my husband a handful of times in 2 years.
So for me the 2 don't correlate at all.
Have you changed other than physically tho ?
I can speak from personal experience, in that when I lost a lot of weight my attitude did change : and not necessarily for the better.
That in itself can be a passion killer."
I don't think I've changed at all, but that's not really a question for me to answer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been fat and have lost 8 stone.
As a fat girl my marriage was strong, lots of sex, lots of fun, very loved.
Since I've lost weight I've had sex with my husband a handful of times in 2 years.
So for me the 2 don't correlate at all.
Have you changed other than physically tho ?
I can speak from personal experience, in that when I lost a lot of weight my attitude did change : and not necessarily for the better.
That in itself can be a passion killer.
I don't think I've changed at all, but that's not really a question for me to answer. "
maybe you were more relaxed laid back when you were bigger could that be it does your motor run at full pelt now just a guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been fat and have lost 8 stone.
As a fat girl my marriage was strong, lots of sex, lots of fun, very loved.
Since I've lost weight I've had sex with my husband a handful of times in 2 years.
So for me the 2 don't correlate at all.
Have you changed other than physically tho ?
I can speak from personal experience, in that when I lost a lot of weight my attitude did change : and not necessarily for the better.
That in itself can be a passion killer.
I don't think I've changed at all, but that's not really a question for me to answer. maybe you were more relaxed laid back when you were bigger could that be it does your motor run at full pelt now just a guess "
Nah, still a lazy mare  |
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By *km45Man
over a year ago
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"Are so fuckable but . . . . Do we need to be thinner to be lovable???
Feeling a bit insecure and curious as to what you sexy fabbers think
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Please don't feel insecure. Big girls are totally lovable. All my exs have been large and I have lots of happy memories. So don't worry go out and have fun. There is someone out there for all off us. That's what I believe even after every knock I take.
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"Are so fuckable but . . . . Do we need to be thinner to be lovable???
Feeling a bit insecure and curious as to what you sexy fabbers think
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I would say no we are all different shapes and sizes its part of what makes us us. You shouldnt feel you need to be thinner to be loved as your lovable the way you are now. Ive changed over the years from over 20st to just under 12st but only because i wanted to and not because i felt unloved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I can say the same with us 6pack guys as most women are not into it, they prefer an average body lol"
You live in a dream world.
Yeah you have an "athletic" body but not bodybuilding muscled ripped body you think you have.women who don't like bodybuilders will not look at you in the same way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yeah, I might fuck them.
I won't date or marry them.
But would they even want to fuck you
I couldn't give less of a fuck "
Well if feel like that shut up |
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Happy and confident wins the day no matter what size, confidence doesn't have a size, but if your insecure just because of your size try and do something about it.
I've always been confident but now it's a wonder I don't burst.
Have I changed since I lost weight, to fucking right I haven't !lost over 11 stone to still be the same person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Since i joined the swinging world i have found that despite my large flaby body i am actually fuckable ... even though my previous (late) husband told me otherwise ! I now have a new younger sexy hubby who loves me as i am and finds me very fuckable and life is good |
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"Are so fuckable but . . . . Do we need to be thinner to be lovable???
Feeling a bit insecure and curious as to what you sexy fabbers think
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Always been big. My husband fell in love with me at first sight: he's 6ft fit as fuck. I met my 6ft 1 Jason Statham lookalike on here.
I'm 55, still fat and he loves me. Love comes in all shapes and sizes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Happy and confident wins the day no matter what size, confidence doesn't have a size, but if your insecure just because of your size try and do something about it.
I've always been confident but now it's a wonder I don't burst.
Have I changed since I lost weight, to fucking right I haven't !lost over 11 stone to still be the same person"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Give me a woman with curves I love a fuller figure my past few exes have been size 20 + and it was not their size that split us up its being controlling that has  |
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You wouldn't date or marry anyone! 