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Aww really was the chemistry just instant?  "
Yes. I know it sounds cheesey and im the least cheesey person I know but I heard his name before I met him and I knew he would mean something important to me. The poor man, im still clutching on to his ankles while he tries to shake me off 35 years later  |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
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"One
Aww really was the chemistry just instant?
Yes. I know it sounds cheesey and im the least cheesey person I know but I heard his name before I met him and I knew he would mean something important to me. The poor man, im still clutching on to his ankles while he tries to shake me off 35 years later "
You know what that is really lovely |
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"One
Aww really was the chemistry just instant?
Yes. I know it sounds cheesey and im the least cheesey person I know but I heard his name before I met him and I knew he would mean something important to me. The poor man, im still clutching on to his ankles while he tries to shake me off 35 years later "
Awww... you two are super cute!  |
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"One
Aww really was the chemistry just instant?
Yes. I know it sounds cheesey and im the least cheesey person I know but I heard his name before I met him and I knew he would mean something important to me. The poor man, im still clutching on to his ankles while he tries to shake me off 35 years later
You know what that is really lovely "
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"One
Aww really was the chemistry just instant?
Yes. I know it sounds cheesey and im the least cheesey person I know but I heard his name before I met him and I knew he would mean something important to me. The poor man, im still clutching on to his ankles while he tries to shake me off 35 years later
Awww... you two are super cute! "
nobody ever said that about us before |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"One
Aww really was the chemistry just instant?
Yes. I know it sounds cheesey and im the least cheesey person I know but I heard his name before I met him and I knew he would mean something important to me. The poor man, im still clutching on to his ankles while he tries to shake me off 35 years later
Awww... you two are super cute!
nobody ever said that about us before "
It doesn't sound cheesy either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There wasn't a point for us, we met, we fucked (2nd night) I didn't want a relationship. We were classic friends with benefits but it just got to the point where we were living in each other's pockets and couldn't stop thinking about each other. I think it was about 2-3 months in when Paul took me out for the day, we were having a coffee by a open fire on a ski slope viewing area when he told me he loved me.
So I think what I'm trying to say is we never had any expectations it just kind of happened x |
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"One
Aww really was the chemistry just instant?
Yes. I know it sounds cheesey and im the least cheesey person I know but I heard his name before I met him and I knew he would mean something important to me. The poor man, im still clutching on to his ankles while he tries to shake me off 35 years later
Awww... you two are super cute!
nobody ever said that about us before
It doesn't sound cheesy either "
Oh, thank you. |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"There wasn't a point for us, we met, we fucked (2nd night) I didn't want a relationship. We were classic friends with benefits but it just got to the point where we were living in each other's pockets and couldn't stop thinking about each other. I think it was about 2-3 months in when Paul took me out for the day, we were having a coffee by a open fire on a ski slope viewing area when he told me he loved me.
So I think what I'm trying to say is we never had any expectations it just kind of happened x"
Yeah I totally get that |
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"One
Aww really was the chemistry just instant?
Yes. I know it sounds cheesey and im the least cheesey person I know but I heard his name before I met him and I knew he would mean something important to me. The poor man, im still clutching on to his ankles while he tries to shake me off 35 years later
Awww... you two are super cute!
nobody ever said that about us before "
Well I think it's lovely. You're really lucky.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I honestly don't think I can answer this. I was pretty inexperienced when I met Marc, and I was also pretty set against marriage at the time.
So I don't know how long it took til I knew, would be my answer. 
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"One
Aww really was the chemistry just instant?
Yes. I know it sounds cheesey and im the least cheesey person I know but I heard his name before I met him and I knew he would mean something important to me. The poor man, im still clutching on to his ankles while he tries to shake me off 35 years later
Awww... you two are super cute!
nobody ever said that about us before
Well I think it's lovely. You're really lucky. "
Thanks. We are lucky I agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We never dated. We went out to the same places with all our mates for years, then we moved in together had kids and got married......I'm quite glad I've never had to endure a date. I'm sure I'd be a wreck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We never dated. We went out to the same places with all our mates for years, then we moved in together had kids and got married......I'm quite glad I've never had to endure a date. I'm sure I'd be a wreck"
Dating (courting) in the 70s and 80s seemed a lot simpler than today. There seemed less game playing, less lists of criteria, considerably more innocence and I always loved it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did you have when you first started dating your partner, spouse, ex before you thought that it would turn into something longer term?
Just curious "
Don't know... Don't think there was a point where this became a thought or expectation. But 23 years later... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And if you go by my sons record they met and had had a baby in 43 weeks  "
Haha that sounds like my friend and her FB they had a baby at 34 weeks of there relationship (they worked together so knew each other)
The baby was born prem at 32 weeks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We never dated. We went out to the same places with all our mates for years, then we moved in together had kids and got married......I'm quite glad I've never had to endure a date. I'm sure I'd be a wreck"
Forgot to add we got engaged within 3 months......married 13 years later |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I met my ex in a nightclub both aged 17, I saw him out every Saturday night for about 3 weeks on the trot then started going back to house parties where he was. One time when everyone was asleep we were listening to a cd in one of the bedrooms, I was on my period otherwise I would have slept with him there and then! I spent the night stroking his willy and rolling it between the palms of my hands like you would if you were making a plasticine snake! Later we drove to his house in his shitty red nova SR and I stayed there for a week without his parents even knowing because they worked a lot, shagged all day and night, showered there ate there wore his pants cos I had no clothes then I came home for all my clothes one day and lived there with him in his parents house till we were 26 years old!
Think when you know you just know! No games just wanting to be with each other, I think you can tell pretty early on if you want to be with someone or not but as you get older you'll meet people with previous baggage or damage from past relationships, can make people wary of wanting to get into relationships again.
Finding a boyfriend is proving to be a difficult task, fucking hate being single. |
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The only dates I went on were off POF and I knew none of them would last.
My two long term relationships started as friends, then a d*unken fuck, then another a week later, then after a few weeks decided it was a relationship 
I would love to be taken on a proper 1st date! |
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By *acLe0dMan
over a year ago
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"The only dates I went on were off POF and I knew none of them would last.
I would love to be taken on a proper 1st date!"
Ok I have to ask what do you deinfe as a proper first date?
Dinner and Movie
Coffee and a walk in a park/beach
etc... |
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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago
Limerick |
Met my ex across a road I was having a ciggy he was on the door of the hotel opposite. 3 weeks later out in Ennis and spent the night chatting to him. He found me on Facebook. After that. Didn't work out but it would've been a nice story to tell the grandkids |
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"The only dates I went on were off POF and I knew none of them would last.
I would love to be taken on a proper 1st date!
Ok I have to ask what do you deinfe as a proper first date?
Dinner and Movie
Coffee and a walk in a park/beach
etc..."
Something like that |
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By *acLe0dMan
over a year ago
Preston |
"The only dates I went on were off POF and I knew none of them would last.
I would love to be taken on a proper 1st date!
Ok I have to ask what do you deinfe as a proper first date?
Dinner and Movie
Coffee and a walk in a park/beach
etc...
Something like that "
So that's dates 1 & 2 sorted. |
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"Every weekend for 5 months "
Yeah something like that. We spoke for an hour every night and I saw him every weekend until we married after a year, and we never had a single disagreement about anything in that time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Knew hubby 9 months before actually got together, saw him half a dozen times during those 9 months just to say hi how are you, we got together and a week later he asked me to marry him which I did 6 months later, 23 years next month |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Did you have when you first started dating your partner, spouse, ex before you thought that it would turn into something longer term?
Just curious "
o knew when I met her on holiday |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just knew she was for me before we'd even meet. It's Early doors, but there's not many people I'd give my lifestyle up for so easily. "
Awwww someone you met here ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab meet 1: laughed all night (2 years ago next month).
Fab meet 2: day time fuck
(Already besotted despite trying very hard not to be).
By the first proper date a couple of weeks later when I watched him walk (late) into a bar of a London hotel and my tummy turned into a thousand butterflies I knew with every fibre of my being that I couldn't ever be without this man in my life.
V xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Did you have when you first started dating your partner, spouse, ex before you thought that it would turn into something longer term?
Just curious "
Two. |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
Aww some lovely stories
Sea witch your time will come when you least look for it and least expect it I know everyone says it but I believe that to be true. If you look too hard you will meet those who feed on your desperation and spit you out x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I saw my husband every day,we were young and lived a couple of hundred yards apart. Spent a lot of time together and had a baby before deciding to get married. |
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"Did you have when you first started dating your partner, spouse, ex before you thought that it would turn into something longer term?
Just curious "
Not long. About 3 months. After 2 years we got married. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I honestly can't remember. I met my ex husband at University & I wasn't attracted to him at all at first. He just grew on me but unfortunately there was never butterflies in the stomach with him. We just got on well. We should really have just stayed as friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I knew he was "the one" the first time I saw him. Fancy him more now than I did 10 years ago. I thank my lucky stars for him every day. Soppy maybe but true all the same. I'm a very lucky lady.
Mrs x |
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"I met my ex in a nightclub both aged 17, I saw him out every Saturday night for about 3 weeks on the trot then started going back to house parties where he was. One time when everyone was asleep we were listening to a cd in one of the bedrooms, I was on my period otherwise I would have slept with him there and then! I spent the night stroking his willy and rolling it between the palms of my hands like you would if you were making a plasticine snake! Later we drove to his house in his shitty red nova SR and I stayed there for a week without his parents even knowing because they worked a lot, shagged all day and night, showered there ate there wore his pants cos I had no clothes then I came home for all my clothes one day and lived there with him in his parents house till we were 26 years old!
Think when you know you just know! No games just wanting to be with each other, I think you can tell pretty early on if you want to be with someone or not but as you get older you'll meet people with previous baggage or damage from past relationships, can make people wary of wanting to get into relationships again.
Finding a boyfriend is proving to be a difficult task, fucking hate being single. "
Sorry your previous Relationship broke down.. |
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with some of the exes I knew straight away it would be long term seeing them
A couple have been short term before ive moved on
the ex was a blind date all we had seen of each other was just a face pic and each of us had a convo with our friends asking questions about the other person
she came with baggage and damage from past relationships and a history
she was the one I choose finally to settle down with and had another child
was left with the baggage when she went and best years of my life  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Admittedly I knew my ex from school but didn't get together until we left and didn't date in school, we met again at the end of May 1999 and married in early September 1999, so not long at all!!!
Always remember the day he told me he loved me, standing in the queue to get into Star Wars phantom menace, we had only been together around a month x |
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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago
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I didn't spend a night away from him after our 3rd date. I spent every night at his. I officially moved in after 2 months. We got engaged after 4 months and married just before our 9 month anniversary. |
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Met in a dance club and came back for a smoke. Took her back to get clean clothes 3 days later (we hadn't been wearing many lol) to find she'd been reported missing to the old bill. Xmas eve the same year our lil man arrived and 10 years together last January. When you know..You know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Literally about half an hour into our first date 
Mrs
maybe for you love, im still waiting for that feeling 
mr"
*rolls eyes* Aye right, you chased me Mr, don't you forget it
Mrs |
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Can't remember the last time I had a date, never mind anything developing from it.
My last boyfriend and I met at a geek weekend, then a few weeks later spent a fortnight together so not really the same thing, lol |
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