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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Someone said to me that she thinks women choose their first husbands as a bull: good reproductive potential, family men, good genes, breadwinners etc. However, the second husbands are picked for passion.
I think she has a point, what do you think? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I never want kids and I have my own job. My first, and only to-date, husband was chosen for love and passion....and a whole host of other reasons that have nothing to do with family potential, reproduction, or breadwinning. 
-Courtney |
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"I never want kids and I have my own job. My first, and only to-date, husband was chosen for love and passion....and a whole host of other reasons that have nothing to do with family potential, reproduction, or breadwinning.
-Courtney"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I never want kids and I have my own job. My first, and only to-date, husband was chosen for love and passion....and a whole host of other reasons that have nothing to do with family potential, reproduction, or breadwinning.
-Courtney
"Only to-date" "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm not sure, asking for evidence of reproductive potential before marriage must have come along since I got married. Unless you can now deduce sperm counts just by looking at someone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not sure, asking for evidence of reproductive potential before marriage must have come along since I got married. Unless you can now deduce sperm counts just by looking at someone. "
Potent sperm has a much more full bodied taste apparently... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One husband was enough....ex now....will not be doing anything silly again."
I married steel 17 years ago because he was a damn good fuck and haven't looked back since . I know a few will jump on this as we are swinging but why have one when you can have many more
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm not sure, asking for evidence of reproductive potential before marriage must have come along since I got married. Unless you can now deduce sperm counts just by looking at someone.
Potent sperm has a much more full bodied taste apparently... "
Good health is a often considered (by evolutionary biologists) as an indicator of good reproductive potential.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think my ex-wife chose me because she thought she could control every aspect of my life and have complete freedom to belittle me in public."
sounds just like my ex wife,
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"I chose mine because he has everything. I only intend to have the one husband. "
I chose my wife because she was good at mixing concrete, and she put up with my humour. I couldn't afford a second!
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I saw a guy in a local MacDonald a few weeks ago now was shocked how much he looked like Ian Huntley I attully nearly went up to him n asked if anyone else had thought this n it left me wondering what it would be like if you looked like a famous killer. Would it be detrimental to your life..... |
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"I saw a guy in a local MacDonald a few weeks ago now was shocked how much he looked like Ian Huntley I attully nearly went up to him n asked if anyone else had thought this n it left me wondering what it would be like if you looked like a famous killer. Would it be detrimental to your life....."
Was that husband no1 or husband no 2? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I saw a guy in a local MacDonald a few weeks ago now was shocked how much he looked like Ian Huntley I attully nearly went up to him n asked if anyone else had thought this n it left me wondering what it would be like if you looked like a famous killer. Would it be detrimental to your life.....
Was that husband no1 or husband no 2? "
Hahaha nither I'm husbandless n staying that way! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Women choose husbands who have money.
The first one so she can snaffle his. The second so he won't try to snaffle hers."
Is that where I went wrong? 
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone said to me that she thinks women choose their first husbands as a bull: good reproductive potential, family men, good genes, breadwinners etc. However, the second husbands are picked for passion.
I think she has a point, what do you think?"
I don't know if as Ginger was in a long term relationship before we met if this counts because when we do tie the knot will be her first husband and would never call myself a bull |
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"I think my ex-wife chose me because she thought she could control every aspect of my life and have complete freedom to belittle me in public. sounds just like my ex wife,"
and mine plus she could spend all my wages +10% now 4 years later i end the month with a little left over |
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"I think my ex-wife chose me because she thought she could control every aspect of my life and have complete freedom to belittle me in public. sounds just like my ex wife,
and mine plus she could spend all my wages +10% now 4 years later i end the month with a little left over"
Why didn't you just marry women who had their own careers then? I wouldn't have ever married anyone who would be freeloading off me. |
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"I think my ex-wife chose me because she thought she could control every aspect of my life and have complete freedom to belittle me in public. sounds just like my ex wife,
and mine plus she could spend all my wages +10% now 4 years later i end the month with a little left over
Why didn't you just marry women who had their own careers then? I wouldn't have ever married anyone who would be freeloading off me. "
On,y had one and was widowed 18 years ago and no one has ever got even close since , so there's no chance of husband no2.... Not even sure I'd even live with anyone again |
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"I chose mine because he has everything. I only intend to have the one husband.
I chose my wife because she was good at mixing concrete, and she put up with my humour. I couldn't afford a second!
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Ithink you mean 'prepared to' rather than 'good at' regarding the concrete mixer. I was very pleased to get it after mixing by hand.
Surely we marry someone because we love them, have shared interests, and want similar things from life.
Just me? 
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