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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So when you received a message, what do you usually do?
Read the message first then check the profile out
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Check the profile first then answer/ignore the msg if the profile has/hasn't caught your attention ? |
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"So when you received a message, what do you usually do?
Read the message first then check the profile out
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Check the profile first then answer/ignore the msg if the profile has/hasn't caught your attention ? "
Generally look at the profile first, but we'll always reply to messages... even if it's a "no thanks".
Cal |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Look at prof first if public pics , if not public pics and no pic attached don't even bother opening message
Prob why I have 724 unread messages "
But still took time to answer mine  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Read the message, go to profile, look at pics (if any), read the text (if any), go back to message - send a no thanks message or continue the conversation.
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So when you received a message, what do you usually do?
Read the message first then check the profile out
or
Check the profile first then answer/ignore the msg if the profile has/hasn't caught your attention ? "
Depends how polite it is  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Look at prof first if public pics , if not public pics and no pic attached don't even bother opening message
Prob why I have 724 unread messages
But still took time to answer mine "
Certainly did  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Read message, if it piques interest, check profile, if that piques interest reply positively.
One or two word messages go straight to B1N right away regardless of who sent it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Read the message and reply...simple"
 ^ this! I guess it would be different if I was a lady and inundated but the unread message icon lights up infrequently enough to make it easy to reply to anyone that's been good enough to message  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Read the message, respond, sometimes there's nothing to be said and sometimes there's awesome banter. About 2-5 days later I think hmmm I wonder what you look like.....then I ask for a face pic. |
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Look at the profile first, then if I think any of the pics are suss I google search them.
Then I send them a message with a link to some of the porn/gay websites I have found 'their' pic on.......then I get blocked 
But seriously
check profile for distance, interests, age etc - If they are in Scotland for instance I will reply with a sorry you are 400 miles away.
But if I like the profile I will open the message and depending what they wrote I will either:
chat until they start trying to get me to talk dirty.
Thanks but no thanks.
Ignore.
Or tell them they are an idiot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get a lot less cock pics, or a face pic with a cock pic, so if there's pics attached i look at the messages first.
If no pics i go to the profile.
If i can tell it's a crap message then i don't even do either of these things and ignore it. Like a dirty story or just xxx, hey, wuu2, etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Check profile first and see if height and body type are good. If not i delete message without opening. If they are i check pics. If there's no public face pic and the message doesn't have pics attached i delete without opening. If there are face pics i check the text of the profile. If it's bad i delete the message without opening. If all are good i open the message. |
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By *km45Man
over a year ago
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Struggling here what is receiving a message . Lol. As they are so rare usually read the message as it's probably a reply and I've already seen their profile.
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Seriously though, I read the message, then the profile and respond accordingly 