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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondered why people feel the need to state, they're not racist when they are white only ?. You don't see people asking for BBC stating it. "Just saying"
Also why won't fab put a colour filter, it would save us all some time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondered why people feel the need to state, they're not racist when they are white only ?. You don't see people asking for BBC stating it. "Just saying"
Also why won't fab put a colour filter, it would save us all some time."
The reason they do it to protect themselves from the i`m offended brigade who seem to think anytime you mention a negative _iew of anything non right you should be hung drawn and quatered. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondered why people feel the need to state, they're not racist when they are white only ?. You don't see people asking for BBC stating it. "Just saying"
Also why won't fab put a colour filter, it would save us all some time.
The reason they do it to protect themselves from the i`m offended brigade who seem to think anytime you mention a negative _iew of anything non right you should be hung drawn and quatered."
I prefer tar and feathering, but to each his own 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get called racist because I don't meet black men  "
hey their are negative people everywhere ,the mentioning of skin pigment in itself could be deemed to be racist I personally treat all people as equal until they show me they are different ,you are gorgeous in any man's language xx  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm a firm believer of each to their own and not I'm not offended by others personal choices. Just a observation and as I see it a lot I'm suprised the website operators haven't put a search or block feature. It would just make it a lot easier |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yh but it's one way I can look for a certain ethnicity, doesn't give you the opition to look someone who wants a certain race. Unless I'm using it wrong
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yh but it's one way I can look for a certain ethnicity, doesn't give you the opition to look someone who wants a certain race. Unless I'm using it wrong
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Hey Jay you sent this to my inbox by accident i think but ive replied back to you there anyway.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondered why people feel the need to state, they're not racist when they are white only ?. You don't see people asking for BBC stating it. "Just saying"
Also why won't fab put a colour filter, it would save us all some time."
Maybe they just want people to know that they have nothing against any person or race in particular, just don't feel attracted to them sexually.
I wouldn't put "no fat or thick chicks please" on my profile but there we go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people don't take rejection very well and so if they can attack people's preferences then they will.
The attack of labelling someone a 'racist' is a particularly hurtful one and tricky one (for some) to defend.
Some therefore try to 'pre-defend' the accusation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never felt the need to defend my preference and have only been called a racist once. I think the way you word your preference depends on the reaction you get from others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never felt the need to defend my preference and have only been called a racist once. I think the way you word your preference depends on the reaction you get from others. "
I meant the reaction you get from others depends on the way you word your preference  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel I can't be open about my preferences because of how people can react.
I'm mixed. I don't care that that's not to some people's taste. At all. It's a preference. That's it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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eachtotheir own, but I agree , if we all stated what we really wanted on this site, then the sale of flack jackets would triple as there's a lot of people that think they're appealing to all and take rejection very badly.
FYI I haven't had sex with a white guy in over 5 years .. But if I put that on my profile then I'd be called a BBC lover , and take my word for it, it's not all about the tackle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"eachtotheir own, but I agree , if we all stated what we really wanted on this site, then the sale of flack jackets would triple as there's a lot of people that think they're appealing to all and take rejection very badly.
FYI I haven't had sex with a white guy in over 5 years .. But if I put that on my profile then I'd be called a BBC lover , and take my word for it, it's not all about the tackle "
That hasn't been my experience at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Preference, attraction, desire can all be taken as racist by the rejected. No matter how hard we try not to offend in many situations, it's all down to an individual's interpretation.  |
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By *errygTV/TS
over a year ago
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i find asians in the past dont like no for a answer and keep pestering, so thats why its on my profile, also on the racist issue a friend of mine still lives in a area that is now majority asian and to his knowledge no other race moves into that area |
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Perhaps it maybe to much work for admin to add the option "Will meet XYZ or will not meet XYZ"
So it would return results more in favour of what both parties are looking for?
Then if you are turned down you will know it's not meant to be
But one thing is clear this debate will run and run |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"eachtotheir own, but I agree , if we all stated what we really wanted on this site, then the sale of flack jackets would triple as there's a lot of people that think they're appealing to all and take rejection very badly.
FYI I haven't had sex with a white guy in over 5 years .. But if I put that on my profile then I'd be called a BBC lover , and take my word for it, it's not all about the tackle "
a man's a man irrespective of colour we all have different personalities some you gel with some you don't the colour of your skin doesn't affect that and I find it ludicrous to suggest it ,sorry but I do  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"also on the racist issue a friend of mine still lives in a area that is now majority asian and to his knowledge no other race moves into that area"
What's that got to do with the discussion? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never felt the need to defend my preference and have only been called a racist once. I think the way you word your preference depends on the reaction you get from others. "
 I think this is very true.
And it also has to be said that some people's forum post's regularly contradict their claim not to be racist on their profile. Preferences are undeniably used by some on here to justify their prejudices
That said, people should just focus on preferences that include rather than exclude them |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Just wondered why people feel the need to state, they're not racist when they are white only ?. You don't see people asking for BBC stating it. "Just saying"
Also why won't fab put a colour filter, it would save us all some time."
a) you do actually see it.......
b) there is a colour filter in place.... it is up to people to decide if they want to use it or not.... i decide not to! |
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By *errygTV/TS
over a year ago
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"also on the racist issue a friend of mine still lives in a area that is now majority asian and to his knowledge no other race moves into that area
What's that got to do with the discussion? "
well it is about race issues, also if you go to curry mile ive noted the asian business just seem to employ asian that is their preferance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"also on the racist issue a friend of mine still lives in a area that is now majority asian and to his knowledge no other race moves into that area
What's that got to do with the discussion? well it is about race issues, also if you go to curry mile ive noted the asian business just seem to employ asian that is their preferance "
But what is that to do with this thread? |
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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Just wondered why people feel the need to state, they're not racist when they are white only ?. You don't see people asking for BBC stating it. "Just saying"
Also why won't fab put a colour filter, it would save us all some time."
Would not putting a colour filter up in itself be deemed slightly racist?
Though it would be fun asking to meet a purple or pink bloke |
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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Just wondered why people feel the need to state, they're not racist when they are white only ?. You don't see people asking for BBC stating it. "Just saying"
Also why won't fab put a colour filter, it would save us all some time.
a) you do actually see it.......
b) there is a colour filter in place.... it is up to people to decide if they want to use it or not.... i decide not to! "
Hi Fabio,
Where's the filter situated, I must have missed it . x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondered why people feel the need to state, they're not racist when they are white only ?. You don't see people asking for BBC stating it. "Just saying"
Also why won't fab put a colour filter, it would save us all some time."
Actually I have seen profiles stating BBC only followed by "I'm not racist" Each to their own I say. Equally, then Fab should have a filter for body type because if you state you prefer slim women that won’t go down well on here. Check a post Slim Lady and you will see what I mean.
At the end of the day if somebody feels the need to comment on somebody's preference it just illustrates their own insecurity.
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"I think it's because you can't be guilt of racism towards white people. I'm not 100% sure though."
Of course you can. Racism is the treating of any race less favourably than others it's just as a predominantly white country we don't see much racism against white people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's because you can't be guilt of racism towards white people. I'm not 100% sure though.
Of course you can. Racism is the treating of any race less favourably than others it's just as a predominantly white country we don't see much racism against white people. "
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Just wondered why people feel the need to state, they're not racist when they are white only ?. You don't see people asking for BBC stating it. "Just saying"
Also why won't fab put a colour filter, it would save us all some time.
a) you do actually see it.......
b) there is a colour filter in place.... it is up to people to decide if they want to use it or not.... i decide not to!
Hi Fabio,
Where's the filter situated, I must have missed it . x "
in advanced search... its near the bottom where you can search by ethnicity.....
but if people like me decide not to fill it in... we won't appear... |
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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Just wondered why people feel the need to state, they're not racist when they are white only ?. You don't see people asking for BBC stating it. "Just saying"
Also why won't fab put a colour filter, it would save us all some time.
a) you do actually see it.......
b) there is a colour filter in place.... it is up to people to decide if they want to use it or not.... i decide not to!
Hi Fabio,
Where's the filter situated, I must have missed it . x
in advanced search... its near the bottom where you can search by ethnicity.....
but if people like me decide not to fill it in... we won't appear..."
Thank you, at last I can block you |
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