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By *wingflingscot OP   Man  over a year ago

Falkirk

A word for the day ....

Don't worry if you have to look it up .... I did too lol

Thinking about the word however, if you feel that it applies to you, in what context do you use it?

Are you turned on by brainy people or is it a simpler message of seduce the brain and the body will follow?

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's a relatively new word. Another one will replace it in due course.

I've decided I'm "bi-seXual" with the emphasis on the x.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It just means you don'tmeet blondes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm Bi-sexual with an emphasis on cock...

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By *lik and PaulCouple  over a year ago

cahoots

I looked it up as I didn't know the word but I would say yes I am.....the physical form is far less relevant to me.

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By *rtemisiaWoman  over a year ago

Norwich

I find intelligence very alluring. Still not sure I would've shagged Dr Johnson.

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By *osieWoman  over a year ago

Wembley

Dr Spencer Reid of Criminal Minds. What wouldn't I do for him if he were real

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I too looked it up and I really agree with this!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's one of those words that should you try and use it, you sound like the toddler who's learned a new word

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By *rtemisiaWoman  over a year ago

Norwich


"It just means you don'tmeet blondes "

How very dare you!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'd rather have an intelligent conversation with a geeky girl than mindlessly fuck a Victoria's Secret model.

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By *dwalu2Couple  over a year ago

Bristol

I think that most people who are more than a little kinky are sapiosexual to some extent. All the exciting delights of kink stem from the imagination, so they go hand in hand really.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'd rather have an intelligent conversation with a geeky girl than mindlessly fuck a Victoria's Secret model."

Fairly sure at least some of them are capable of being intelligent too, but I otherwise agree with the male version of this scenario

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think that most people who are more than a little kinky are sapiosexual to some extent. All the exciting delights of kink stem from the imagination, so they go hand in hand really."

I think there a a great deal of truth in this.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Dr Spencer Reid of Criminal Minds. What wouldn't I do for him if he were real "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think that most people who are more than a little kinky are sapiosexual to some extent. All the exciting delights of kink stem from the imagination, so they go hand in hand really.

I think there a a great deal of truth in this."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Honestly, i have a fantasy in my head that intelligent guys are sexy, but then they start talking about nerdy stuff and i just switch off and get bored.

I prefer guys to look intelligent and not be stupid, but i don't think i'm a sapiosexual, just fantasize about it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'd rather have an intelligent conversation with a geeky girl than mindlessly fuck a Victoria's Secret model.

Fairly sure at least some of them are capable of being intelligent too, but I otherwise agree with the male version of this scenario "

You are, if course, correct. I was being somewhat stereotypical. I should have said I don't find women who are as dumb as soup attractive.

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'd rather have an intelligent conversation with a geeky girl than mindlessly fuck a Victoria's Secret model.

Fairly sure at least some of them are capable of being intelligent too, but I otherwise agree with the male version of this scenario

You are, if course, correct. I was being somewhat stereotypical. I should have said I don't find women who are as dumb as soup attractive."

Soup attractive? Hot n wet? Or lumpy?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I find it difficult to speak when in the throes of passion and communicate through a cacophony of grunts and groans. Intelligent conversation couldn't be further from my mind.

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By *alandNitaCouple  over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I'd rather have an intelligent conversation with a geeky girl than mindlessly fuck a Victoria's Secret model."

What about an intelligent conversation with a geeky girl WHILST enjoying a mindless fuck with the Victoria's Secrets' model?

Cal

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I find it difficult to speak when in the throes of passion and communicate through a cacophony of grunts and groans. Intelligent conversation couldn't be further from my mind. "

Be like me: have intelligent drool.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I find it difficult to speak when in the throes of passion and communicate through a cacophony of grunts and groans. Intelligent conversation couldn't be further from my mind.

Be like me: have intelligent drool. "

Nah I have dumb drool but sapiosexual spunk

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By *ordonBennettMan  over a year ago

dover


"I'd rather have an intelligent conversation with a geeky girl than mindlessly fuck a Victoria's Secret model.

Fairly sure at least some of them are capable of being intelligent too, but I otherwise agree with the male version of this scenario

You are, if course, correct. I was being somewhat stereotypical. I should have said I don't find women who are as dumb as soup attractive.

"

I've recently eaten some highly intelligent soup

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'd rather have an intelligent conversation with a geeky girl than mindlessly fuck a Victoria's Secret model.

Fairly sure at least some of them are capable of being intelligent too, but I otherwise agree with the male version of this scenario

You are, if course, correct. I was being somewhat stereotypical. I should have said I don't find women who are as dumb as soup attractive.

I've recently eaten some highly intelligent soup "

I had some alphabetti spaghetti once and my brother got me to spell 'fuck' so I did and then he told my mother and I got told off

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By *dwalu2Couple  over a year ago

Bristol


"I'd rather have an intelligent conversation with a geeky girl than mindlessly fuck a Victoria's Secret model.

Fairly sure at least some of them are capable of being intelligent too, but I otherwise agree with the male version of this scenario

You are, if course, correct. I was being somewhat stereotypical. I should have said I don't find women who are as dumb as soup attractive.

I've recently eaten some highly intelligent soup I had some alphabetti spaghetti once and my brother got me to spell 'fuck' so I did and then he told my mother and I got told off "

Never mind. When you go round for your tea again next week spell 'I LUV U MUM' and all will be well again.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

I like to be able to hold a conversation with someone who's on the same level as me intellectually and who isn't afraid to have a bit of a verbal spar. I don't like talking to a man who agrees with me just because he wants sex or finds me attractive. I don't know if that makes me sapiosexual but I do know the word makes me think of monkeys for some reason.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I like to be able to hold a conversation with someone who's on the same level as me intellectually and who isn't afraid to have a bit of a verbal spar. I don't like talking to a man who agrees with me just because he wants sex or finds me attractive. I don't know if that makes me sapiosexual but I do know the word makes me think of monkeys for some reason. "

Could that be because of homo sapiens ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'd rather have an intelligent conversation with a geeky girl than mindlessly fuck a Victoria's Secret model.

What about an intelligent conversation with a geeky girl WHILST enjoying a mindless fuck with the Victoria's Secrets' model?

Cal"

If there are a lot of Victoria's Secrets models going spare, can I have one please?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I find intelligence a huge turn on. In fact so much so I developed a crush on one of my old bosses despite his hush puppy shoes and awful ties.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"I like to be able to hold a conversation with someone who's on the same level as me intellectually and who isn't afraid to have a bit of a verbal spar. I don't like talking to a man who agrees with me just because he wants sex or finds me attractive. I don't know if that makes me sapiosexual but I do know the word makes me think of monkeys for some reason.

Could that be because of homo sapiens ? "

Maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'd rather have an intelligent conversation with a geeky girl than mindlessly fuck a Victoria's Secret model.

What about an intelligent conversation with a geeky girl WHILST enjoying a mindless fuck with the Victoria's Secrets' model?

Cal"

How about a geeky and intelligent Victoria's Secret model...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'd rather have an intelligent conversation with a geeky girl than mindlessly fuck a Victoria's Secret model.

What about an intelligent conversation with a geeky girl WHILST enjoying a mindless fuck with the Victoria's Secrets' model?

Cal

If there are a lot of Victoria's Secrets models going spare, can I have one please? "

If you get one, I'm happy to help...

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By *uietlyBohemianCouple  over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Surface beauty is lovely, but for all of perhaps one meet. Beyond that there has to be something more - at least that's how it is for us! We do like to find a connection beyond just the physical.

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By *irtyGirlWoman  over a year ago

Edinburgh

My brain is my biggest sexual organ so yes... I like that label.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't know about sapiosexual.

I tried being metrosexual in Paris once.

They chucked me out And I missed my train

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By *olgateMan  over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I didn't need to look it up and I've always known I was.

C...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I didn't need to look it up either

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I find intelligence very alluring. Still not sure I would've shagged Dr Johnson."

What about Dr. Scholl?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'd rather have an intelligent conversation with a geeky girl than mindlessly fuck a Victoria's Secret model.

What about an intelligent conversation with a geeky girl WHILST enjoying a mindless fuck with the Victoria's Secrets' model?

Cal

If there are a lot of Victoria's Secrets models going spare, can I have one please?

If you get one, I'm happy to help... "

Oh I was just going to use them as man-bait

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'd rather have an intelligent conversation with a geeky girl than mindlessly fuck a Victoria's Secret model.

What about an intelligent conversation with a geeky girl WHILST enjoying a mindless fuck with the Victoria's Secrets' model?

Cal

If there are a lot of Victoria's Secrets models going spare, can I have one please?

If you get one, I'm happy to help... "

And who said chivalry was dead.

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By *ack LondonMan  over a year ago

London

Then there's the pansexual thing....

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Then there's the pansexual thing...."
sex in the kitchen....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm not turned on by intelligence,it's not always indicative of sexual prowess or ability to seduce.

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By *omeotherguyMan  over a year ago

Derbyshire


"I'm not turned on by intelligence,it's not always indicative of sexual prowess or ability to seduce. "

I like intelligence that is coupled with the ability to use it sensually. The brain is by far the most powerful sexual organ.

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By *igeiaWoman  over a year ago

Bristol


"A word for the day ....

Don't worry if you have to look it up .... I did too lol

Thinking about the word however, if you feel that it applies to you, in what context do you use it?

Are you turned on by brainy people or is it a simpler message of seduce the brain and the body will follow?"

I like fucking people I am on the same wavelength with personality wise, which may or may not mean we have similar intellects. I do have an issue with the term sapiosexual though since some of the people I think are beautifully intelligent in all the ways I find attractive don't see themselves as clever. I also think that anyone wanting me because of any perceived intelligence I may or may not have is focusing on merely one aspect of who I am as a person and I don't like being someone's fetish.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Couldn't be in a relationship with someone who didn't have intelligence but they don't have to be smart to have sex with them. Doesn't mean we meet people who can't have a conversation with who have no imagination to try different things.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I like fucking people I am on the same wavelength with personality wise, which may or may not mean we have similar intellects."

I kind of agree with this, especially if it's just for sex. For anything more than that however I prefer women who are smarter than me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It just means you don'tmeet blondes "

Cheeky bugger....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I am so attracted to eloquence and class

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It just means you don'tmeet blondes

Cheeky bugger.... "

How bloody rude lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've found almost without exception that anyone who uses the term sapiosexual to describe themselves is incapable of holding any real intelligent conversation but will bore you for hours about what people on blogs have wrote about Marxism and how they're all so totally true!!!

I tend to avoid people who mention it now tbh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think that most people who are more than a little kinky are sapiosexual to some extent. All the exciting delights of kink stem from the imagination, so they go hand in hand really.

I think there a a great deal of truth in this."

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By *omeotherguyMan  over a year ago

Derbyshire


"I think that most people who are more than a little kinky are sapiosexual to some extent. All the exciting delights of kink stem from the imagination, so they go hand in hand really.

I think there a a great deal of truth in this.

"

I think that it is as much an emotional intelligence. Sorry to split hairs. I think some people might not understand their kink, nor be able to explain it, but some have an openness to it and to explore it because their nature is to explore.

I kind of think that that nature to explore though, will result in a level of intelligence from experience.

That in itself is very sexy.

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By *ohnaronMan  over a year ago

london

Sapiosexual - a fucking Phd

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It just means you don'tmeet blondes

Cheeky bugger....

How bloody rude lol "

I have boots envy, they're fabulous & pink!!

(Okay hijacked intelligent thread I know!)

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