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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Does someone calling you a lovely young lady or guy put you off from meeting them? Do you find it abit cringy as they don't know you? Or is it just me?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If someone called me a lovely young lady I'd get a little upset, yes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn't like it.

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Anyone that calls me "young" must be a gilf

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By *mallteaserWoman over a year ago

Central

It doesn't bother me xx

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By *helbeeCouple over a year ago

Nuneaton

Dont bother me. Id rather be called lovely young lady than a nasty comment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does someone calling you a lovely young lady or guy put you off from meeting them? Do you find it abit cringy as they don't know you? Or is it just me? "

Follow your gut feeling. It would make me cringe. Depending on other things it might put me off, yes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It makes me cringe......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd tell themselves today go to specsavers if someone said that to me

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

Flagrante

"Dont bother me. Id rather be called lovely young lady than a nasty comment

We certainly get a lot worse

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Makes me feel about 12 years old and like I've just helped an elderly man cross the road so yep would put me off (miss)

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

Nobody has ever called me a lovely young lady, on here or in real life. I would find it very weird if they did.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd tell themselves today go to specsavers if someone said that to me

But you do look lovely, and you're younger than me !!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not really but not a huge fan of those saying. Constantly saying "good girl " absolutely would put me off.

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By *aveandkate35Couple over a year ago

telford

"Does someone calling you a lovely young lady or guy put you off from meeting them? Do you find it abit cringy as they don't know you? Or is it just me? "

With your profile id say what the bloody hell you wanted me to!!

In answer, yes sometimes some of the mails we get are very creepy. I picture a guy hunched over a laptop rubbing his thighs...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It makes me laugh tbh. i told one of my friends that last night after he said it. Its always sounded like something you say to a teenager.

Being close to 30 with two kids and a mortgage i dont identify with it x

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Does someone calling you a lovely young lady or guy put you off from meeting them? Do you find it abit cringy as they don't know you? Or is it just me? "

Do you mean like:

https://youtu.be/C2hgAsi8Ae4

(Ooh, you saucy devil, at my age....etc,etc)

Mr ddc

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By *rtemisiaWoman over a year ago

Norwich

I don't like people I don't know calling me love, darling, sweetheart etc. I'm not militant or brave enough to correct them though.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm not young so would be slightly puzzled but not annoyed or upset.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nobody has ever called me a lovely young lady, on here or in real life. I would find it very weird if they did."

Me either!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't like people I don't know calling me love, darling, sweetheart etc. I'm not militant or brave enough to correct them though.

I think that's it. No one I know does it so why should someone I don't know do it? Thing is I did tell him it makes me cringe

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'd tell themselves today go to specsavers if someone said that to me

But you do look lovely, and you're younger than me !! "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No,doesn't bother me at all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Makes me feel about 12 years old and like I've just helped an elderly man cross the road so yep would put me off (miss)

Xx"

That's exactly it for me, it seems like the kind of thing a doddery elderly man would say. And I'm not into pensioners.

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