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How seriously do you take swinging?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Meaning, is it just a bit of fun.
Is it just a hobby
Or a complete lifestyle and you live it.
For us while it's just a bit of fun and we certainly don't let it take over. We take it seriously enough due to the fact we are letting strangers enter our personal sexual life so to a degree you have to be serious but in the terms of safety and security and sexual health. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meaning, is it just a bit of fun.
Is it just a hobby
Or a complete lifestyle and you live it.
For us while it's just a bit of fun and we certainly don't let it take over. We take it seriously enough due to the fact we are letting strangers enter our personal sexual life so to a degree you have to be serious but in the terms of safety and security and sexual health. "
 just fun for me I like people chatting meeting and debating oh and sex but I don't have to have sex with everyone I meet to enjoy myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't class myself as a swinger, I'm not doing it as a couple or with couple.
I'm just here to find someone who can make my toes curl on a regular basis...
and having fun trying to find him x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well many wouldn't call me a swinger by the strict definition but in terms of being someone seeking no strings sex, just a rare but of fun a few times a year is all it is to me, a rare break from the norm.
I like the banter in here but see it more akin to other social media channels but actual meets are rare  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meaning, is it just a bit of fun.
Is it just a hobby
Or a complete lifestyle and you live it.
For us while it's just a bit of fun and we certainly don't let it take over. We take it seriously enough due to the fact we are letting strangers enter our personal sexual life so to a degree you have to be serious but in the terms of safety and security and sexual health. just fun for me I like people chatting meeting and debating oh and sex but I don't have to have sex with everyone I meet to enjoy myself "
yeah I'm still waiting on my horse food lol  |
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Dont take it seriously at all..just a liitle extra curriculum activity now and again..find it quite hard to find those where everyone is happy enough to want to get naked with to be honest. But thats fine as when we do....its a lot of fun! |
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Not a lifestyle.....not even a hobby because that suggests something regular....just the occasional bit of fun. If my circumstances were different, I'd do a lot more sex, go to clubs and such and be well away. |
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The forums are more addictive to me than actual meets. I can still go out "on the pull" and have loads of fun in doing so, but failure is fun anyway isn't it? At least you have a laugh in the process.
This site is just another tool in my box, but I wouldn't say it has taken over my life. As a 53 yr old bisexual smoker, my chances on here are limited anyway. I can always have a wank without worries |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We meet two or three times a week and are out for about four hours each night . So 8 to 12 hours a week . So could be a hobby I guess .
I come on the forums in spurts ... Sometimes an hour a day others not at all for weeks .
Time spent looking for meets / putting pics up .... Not much at all .
But we would say swinging is a lifestyle choice we have made , we wouldn't want to change it . We love this lifestyle or hobby or whatever you want to call it |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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It's something I pick up when I want to, sometimes with my OH - we both like the social side and have met many interesting, genuine people and made not too many but a few really good friends over the years, with whom we meet upo regularly and it often does not even involve sex but just good conversation and laughter and common interests.
If there were no swing scene from tomorrow I/ we really would miss that friendship aspect and some of the steamy stuff. That said it does not rule our lives, never has and I doubt it ever will. |
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