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over a year ago
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"Chris Isaak - Wicked Game
www.youtube.com/watch?v=KBx1Q3DEyDY"
How do you do that so fast?!?
OP, I don't know what happened, but I'm sure everything will be fine in the end. It usually is. Just stay strong 
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sorry OP, got sidetracked.
There's no answer tbh.
A broken heart hurts like hell but it will mend in time.
Give into it and don't be afraid to have a good ole cry, get in contact with friends & arrange a few nights out, keep your mind off it being busy.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why does it hurt?  "
Ive been brokenhearted too and it bloody hurts like hell.
Personally, I think its because even though we pretend we dont feel emotion or have feelings towards people, they develop and creep up on us without us knowing, because we are so caught up in the first few weeks of the "relationship", I use inverted commas as relationships here, if its here you are referring to, dont like emotions or feelings.
I hope you dont stay broken hearted too long. |
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"I suppose that's the best thing about never being in love, you can't get hurt  "
But surely it's better to have loved and lost and all that jazz?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry OP, got sidetracked.
There's no answer tbh.
A broken heart hurts like hell but it will mend in time.
Give into it and don't be afraid to have a good ole cry, get in contact with friends & arrange a few nights out, keep your mind off it being busy.
Great advice x
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By *aeBabe OP Woman
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Was going to pm you seawitch, but I can't x
Breaking up is painful. When you feel it's about to happen you just get this deep hollow pit feeling in your stomach and your limbs tingle and go cold...
I'm so confused and hurt. I did the best I could... I guess it was not enough...  |
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"Was going to pm you seawitch, but I can't x
Breaking up is painful. When you feel it's about to happen you just get this deep hollow pit feeling in your stomach and your limbs tingle and go cold...
I'm so confused and hurt. I did the best I could... I guess it was not enough... "
It will hurt but you will be stronger for the experience. Did you get a social meet. Must be some good listeners out there x |
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Enjoy it... life becomes more vivid... you feel more alive... like you're about to burst... wallow in beautiful music... let the tears flow and go with it... its completely authentically real.
Don't be in too much of a rush to get back to the dull drudgery of a life without character. The 13th century poet tried his best to live his whole life in a state of heart break... and his elergies to God are some of the most beautiful poems ever written. Here is one for you...
"Love is the One who masters all things;
I am mastered totally by Love.
By my passion of love for Love
I have ground sweet as sugar.
O furious Wind, I am only a straw before you;
How could I know where I will be blown next?
Whoever claims to have made a pact with Destiny
Reveals himself a liar and a fool;
What is any of us but a straw in a storm?
How could anyone make a pact with a hurricane?
God is working everywhere his massive Resurrection;
How can we pretend to act on our own?
In the hand of Love I am like a cat in a sack;
Sometimes Love hoists me into the air,
Sometimes Love flings me into the air,
Love swings me round and round His head;
I have no peace, in this world or any other.
The lovers of God have fallen in a furious river;
They have surrendered themselves to Love's commands.
Like mill wheels they turn, day and night, day and night,
Constantly turning and turning, and crying out." |
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"I suppose that's the best thing about never being in love, you can't get hurt
I think it hurts to never be in love!!  "
I've never been in love can't say it's ever hurt me, can't miss what you've never had I guess |
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"Was going to pm you seawitch, but I can't x
Breaking up is painful. When you feel it's about to happen you just get this deep hollow pit feeling in your stomach and your limbs tingle and go cold...
I'm so confused and hurt. I did the best I could... I guess it was not enough... "
Course it's painful, you're rattling round with a set of habits meant for two people, shits gonna remind you of that person, you'll question everything about yourself and if you did anything wrong or if it could've been prevented, you'll have denial that it's actually ending you'll have hope that it will be ok, might make yourself look like a dick head by doing crazy things if it wasn't you that initiated the split (can still hurt if you're the dumper but I've had no experience of that, only the dumpee and I think we get the worst of it!)
It's a massive cliche but time does eventually heal. |
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Not sure why it hurts to lose someone. We miss them that's all, we was looking for ward to something else and it didn't happen.
Just split with someone myself and was really hurting until i looked at the situation differently and saw it for what it was. Now i can see the positives from not being with him. Has taken me less than 3 weeks to get over him, bit when i feel sad i focus again on the positives and the truth and feel stronger.
Usually it just takes time if it was something worth losing. |
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"I suppose that's the best thing about never being in love, you can't get hurt
I think it hurts to never be in love!!
I've never been in love can't say it's ever hurt me, can't miss what you've never had I guess "
If you have never been in love then you have never truly lived
Friends tell me it's spring
My windows show the same
Without you here the seasons pass me by
I know you were not new
It looked like May in June
All the same I miss you
Today has been okay
Today has been okay
Preacher lost his son
He's known by all in town
He found him with another son of God
Feeding on the prey
Nevermind what God says
But love it lost its cause
And I thought today had been okay
Today has been okay
Today has been okay
Wind has burned your skin
The lovely air so thin
The salty water's underneath your feet
No one's gone in vain
Here is where you'll stay
This life has been insane, but
Today has been okay
Today has been okay
Today has been okay
Today has been okay |
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