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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So theres a new girl in work, and im pretty sure that she used to be on fab, not long ago either...she looks like her but i cant be 100% as i was only talking to her for a short while, do i say something? Or do i keep my mouth shut and hope that she says something....thats of course if it is her! |
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My personal view is this...
If you want to drop into a conversation that you're a member of a swingers site, that's fine. If she was and wants to admit it, that's up to her. If she doesn't then assume you're wrong and never mentioned it again.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Keep your gob shut.
Business and pleasure should remain separate. 
I mixed business & pleasure for 14 years  did you with a good outcome ? X  "
Well I get on fine with my ex so yes!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, don't always agree with the do nothing response but on this occasion I do,
It has been said but it's so right, from her point of view she has just started a new job, she doesn't need the embarrassment if it goes wrong,
The post about mentioning the swingers site is spot on, but not for a good while until she has settled and give you a chance to gauge her potential reaction, she could be a manager runner,
Keep Mr tickle in his fabric castle, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Say to her "you look fab", then tap your nose and wink! "
And when she stops pissing her pants laughing and shouts out who the fuk is this geezer.... Austin fook'in Powers ? !!!!
You can hide behind the water cooler and blush like this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Send a round robin email to the office, or better still the company saying you are a swinger who has a profile on Fab. Include a few pics so they know you aren't bullshitting. Cock pics will be fine. If she replies saying "I am too" and sends everybody a fanny pic, job done! Literally  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Send a round robin email to the office, or better still the company saying you are a swinger who has a profile on Fab. Include a few pics so they know you aren't bullshitting. Cock pics will be fine. If she replies saying "I am too" and sends everybody a fanny pic, job done! Literally "
I'm going to do that tomorrow 
Wish me luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Send a round robin email to the office, or better still the company saying you are a swinger who has a profile on Fab. Include a few pics so they know you aren't bullshitting. Cock pics will be fine. If she replies saying "I am too" and sends everybody a fanny pic, job done! Literally
I'm going to do that tomorrow
Wish me luck "
Good luck. |
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"Keep your gob shut.
Business and pleasure should remain separate.
Unless you run a sex club?"
If I ran a sex club I wouldn't fuck my customers! Unprofessional is that! I'd have private parties for my friends! |
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"A guy tried to chat our daughter up once by asking if he'd seen her on Babestation, I won't repeat her response.
Don't even consider mentioning it."
Surely that's a compliment ? It's not easy being suave these days...  |
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"A guy tried to chat our daughter up once by asking if he'd seen her on Babestation, I won't repeat her response.
Don't even consider mentioning it.
Surely that's a compliment ? It's not easy being suave these days... "
Not really a compliment in her opinion no and she's her mother's daughter . |
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"So theres a new girl in work, and im pretty sure that she used to be on fab..."
That's:
"used to be on fab..."
As in left. Quit. Closed her account. Decided, for whatever reason, she no longer wanted to be on here.
What more needs to be said?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Send a round robin email to the office, or better still the company saying you are a swinger who has a profile on Fab. Include a few pics so they know you aren't bullshitting. Cock pics will be fine. If she replies saying "I am too" and sends everybody a fanny pic, job done! Literally "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op what has it got to do with you what sites she goes on.
Or do you feel that if it is her, and you mention it, that she will have sex with you.
If it was her, can't you understand how menacing it could feel to her that you have confronted her with it, especially as she's just starting a new job.
For gods sake just focus your swinging activities on here and mind your own business about work colleagues supposed activities.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Op what has it got to do with you what sites she goes on.
Or do you feel that if it is her, and you mention it, that she will have sex with you.
If it was her, can't you understand how menacing it could feel to her that you have confronted her with it, especially as she's just starting a new job.
For gods sake just focus your swinging activities on here and mind your own business about work colleagues supposed activities.
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"Op what has it got to do with you what sites she goes on.
Or do you feel that if it is her, and you mention it, that she will have sex with you.
If it was her, can't you understand how menacing it could feel to her that you have confronted her with it, especially as she's just starting a new job.
For gods sake just focus your swinging activities on here and mind your own business about work colleagues supposed activities.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really think it's wrong to confront anyone outside of this site, but we see many threads saying that swingers have been spotted in supermarkets, next door neighbours, work etc and should the person go up and say hi. some people think they have a right to sex just because they've recognised another person offline.
OP on a side note, your profile text seems at odds with this thread. It states you are very discreet and your fab life is kept separate - Hmmm!!! |
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"Op what has it got to do with you what sites she goes on.
Or do you feel that if it is her, and you mention it, that she will have sex with you.
If it was her, can't you understand how menacing it could feel to her that you have confronted her with it, especially as she's just starting a new job.
For gods sake just focus your swinging activities on here and mind your own business about work colleagues supposed activities.
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That's all very good iconic but what if she has nice tits? Kind of blew a hole in your argument haven't I. |
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By *ildt123Man
over a year ago
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No! Say nothing, leave well alone.
If it is her why embarrass the poor girl, and like Mr DDC said she has left, and didn't contact you before she did.
If it isn't her then you're looking at sexual harassment in the work place and probable dismissal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Op what has it got to do with you what sites she goes on.
Or do you feel that if it is her, and you mention it, that she will have sex with you.
If it was her, can't you understand how menacing it could feel to her that you have confronted her with it, especially as she's just starting a new job.
For gods sake just focus your swinging activities on here and mind your own business about work colleagues supposed activities.
That's all very good iconic but what if she has nice tits? Kind of blew a hole in your argument haven't I."
Lol well yeah, I've got no comeback for that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you are creepy for even wanting to approach her. This is her private life on here and you are trying to mix it with her work, like she even likes you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If someone walked up to me in Tesco's and said "Hey, you're Deepest Blue from Fab", I would bloody die a thousand deaths. I would want a big hole to open up in the floor, right by the cheese counter, so I could jump into it.
Particularly when I saw they had a cucumber in one hand and a jar of KY jelly in the other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone walked up to me in Tesco's and said "Hey, you're Deepest Blue from Fab", I would bloody die a thousand deaths."
I'd just high 5 them and get on with my life. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"If someone walked up to me in Tesco's and said "Hey, you're Deepest Blue from Fab", I would bloody die a thousand deaths.
I'd just high 5 them and get on with my life."
I'd say, No I'm not. He hasn't got boobies like this.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If someone walked up to me in Tesco's and said "Hey, you're Deepest Blue from Fab", I would bloody die a thousand deaths.
I'd just high 5 them and get on with my life.
I'd say, No I'm not. He hasn't got boobies like this.
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I see what you did there. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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Have you fucked her yet OP?
Haven't been paying too much attention to the thread so apologies if you've already come back to say "yay - went for it and she gave me a blowy in the loos!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Op what has it got to do with you what sites she goes on.
Or do you feel that if it is her, and you mention it, that she will have sex with you.
If it was her, can't you understand how menacing it could feel to her that you have confronted her with it, especially as she's just starting a new job.
For gods sake just focus your swinging activities on here and mind your own business about work colleagues supposed activities.
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Some people think that because your on fab your permanently on the look out for a shag
Oh she's on fab she's bound to not mind me mentioning it and of course she'll be interested, we're all after a shag after all
I'd be mortified if I started a new job and some guy came over and started asking me about my profile on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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say nothing - shes left fab you dont know why and she has a new job - think the worst shes had upheaval - apart from not mixing the two - leave well alone |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Try dropping "fab this" and "fab that" into the conversation - just in a normal way as in when you're talking to her say wow that sounds fab or you had a fab time - then see if she picks up on It  "
I like it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"do• ask if you recognise her from somewhere
dont• listen to the people who say stalker, sexual harrasment, pest, muppet or creepy.
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Sounds good too, doesnt mean im stalking im just curious, had so much abuse from this post i only asked a question good job i laugh it off, but cheers pal |
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A private life is called that for a reason .
It doesn't matter if you recognised her 100% work is work and private life is best kept that .
Respect other people's privacy as I'm sure you'd hope they would do the same for you. |
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Definitely don't say anything directly unless you get talking regular and even then only say something along the lines of 'I'm sure I recognise you for somewhere!' Never know she might volunteer some information even if it's something like where she drinks or which gym she goes to |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A private life is called that for a reason .
It doesn't matter if you recognised her 100% work is work and private life is best kept that .
Respect other people's privacy as I'm sure you'd hope they would do the same for you. "
Im not planning on blurting it all over the office. |
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"A private life is called that for a reason .
It doesn't matter if you recognised her 100% work is work and private life is best kept that .
Respect other people's privacy as I'm sure you'd hope they would do the same for you.
Im not planning on blurting it all over the office."
I think you should consider how this young woman might feel. |
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"do• ask if you recognise her from somewhere
dont• listen to the people who say stalker, sexual harrasment, pest, muppet or creepy.
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But if she denies it agree she "must just have one of those faces" and leave it there.
Also best to have this conversation in a social situation rather than a work one. So don't walk up to her whilst she's working, maybe ask whilst making coffee or at the water cooler or at lunch. And not when anyone else is around.
You can throw in that you've used the Internet for dating and to meet people.
Pushing it or making it more than a quiet but light topic could make it stalkery or creepy as could not leaving it if she clearly doesn't want to go there. |
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"A private life is called that for a reason .
It doesn't matter if you recognised her 100% work is work and private life is best kept that .
Respect other people's privacy as I'm sure you'd hope they would do the same for you.
Im not planning on blurting it all over the office."
how would you feel if you had caught an STI for which you were being treated and met one of the staff from the clinic in a public place and they discussed the details with you?
and yes medical staff have an ethics code etc but if you mention it to her at work, possibly even out of work she may still put a complaint in and you probably dont want that given the issue.. |
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As the new girl she may not appreciate you taking about fab to her
Discretion 
