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If you could go back to any day?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The day my gran died i knew ahe wasnt ok despite all the nurses telling me she was fine. She died 20 minutes later and id always promised i wouldnt let her be alone.
Same with my dad travelling 50 miles everynight after work to spend an hour there and he died the first time i had a night off.
Id just wish i could of held their hands... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The day my grandad has his stroke, or the hours before, so I could see him as he was one last time or could have got him help quicker and still have him here today x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Week last Friday was pretty good. I'd have that day again. No major event date I can think of that I'd want to relive.
 You like coffee huh? "
Yes I like a good tasty coffee  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it's hard, my life overcame a huge stumbling block and recovered, the recovered bit would be betrayed if I was to go back, but I would love to.
so sod it I will pop back to last week and win all the lotteries |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Last time I saw my dad. He croakily said goodbye as I reached the hospital door. I couldn't turn round cos he'd see my tears, but I wish I'd run back to his bedside & given him the biggest hug & told him how much I loved him....xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Last time I saw my dad. He croakily said goodbye as I reached the hospital door. I couldn't turn round cos he'd see my tears, but I wish I'd run back to his bedside & given him the biggest hug & told him how much I loved him....xx"
Have no words. Choked tbh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women are weird.
Several have said about going back to childbirth, I remember in detail when both my children got born, there was blood shirt screaming and pain induced threats.
first day home
first step day
first just about everything a child does day big YES giving birth... nope I will pass on that one  |
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For me it would have to be either the day I got shot in the eye with an air pistol.
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The day my granddad died, I know I was a teenager at the time. He used to scare the shit out of me most of the time, as he was a very imposing man, but I still regret not saying goodbye to him, not even attending the funeral as I was in school at the time. |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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I would say time before my grandfather had his stroke...as I would have a lot of questions to ask him about his family and what he knew and didn't know........
Whilst I now know a lot I always wonder why he didn't tell mum or nan about his grandparents
I would also say the day Mufc won the treble for some reason at the time I didn't celebrate as I should maybe as it was a level time......I would go back and celebrate for days  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are many things that I would go back and change but by doing those changes I probably wouldn't have met Paul so although my life had many down points in the past it would have a impact on who I am now.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An evening in November 1976 (don't recall the exact date) but it was the first time I saw this girl across a crowded dance floor, corny I know but true. I said to myself "I'm going to marry that girl". I did and we are still married with two fantastic daughters and a beautiful granddaughter. I'm a lucky man! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Xmas eve 2003 ,sat in a hospital room watching my Mam dying(Mark),5:30 on xmas day we left to get freshened up and to see the kids open their presents, got the call to say she passed away 30 mins after we left the hospital , so i'd like to go back to then , not leave and be there holding her hand when she died |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The day my gran died i knew ahe wasnt ok despite all the nurses telling me she was fine. She died 20 minutes later and id always promised i wouldnt let her be alone.
Same with my dad travelling 50 miles everynight after work to spend an hour there and he died the first time i had a night off.
Id just wish i could of held their hands..."
My sister and I sat with my Mum for hours and in the few moments we left the room she died.
I have heard it so many times that people have died when their loved ones leave the room and I now believe they choose to go when you are not there...they need the release and don't want to you to see it.
On a lighter note .....Many years on I now joke that it was dearly loved Mum having the last word as she always liked to  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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To all the people who's relatives died just after they left, maybe that's how your relatives wanted it so you wouldn't have to watch them die.
I spoke to a nurse once who said even though people were ill and dying, the amount of times that they fought for certain dates to pass before letting go it couldn't just be coincidence so she thought the same about people dying just after relatives had left.
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Anything just to have had another 24 hours with her!
R.I.P Mum love and miss you loads 