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Rude users

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Don,t know why users have to be so rude sometimes, ok so I have a single profile, but if I ask nicely if people are interested in a meet with me and my fb a straight no thanks would do. No need to be rude and then block me so I cannot reply.

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By *hortieWoman over a year ago

Northampton

A Couple meeting should be under a couples profile. Even if you are not a couple normally. Nothing to stop you creating a seperate profile for that purpose. Then you can be verified properly....

I'd prolly be a bit terse if a single messaged me then asked 'if a friend could join in'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Asked upfront, did not message and later say could a friend join in.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As above you need a couples profile. It would be a delete from us too, hade people hiding behind profiles that arnt true

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By *hortieWoman over a year ago

Northampton

Splitting hairs

Still have a better chance setting up another profile.

even if you did meet with a +1 on your singles profile, the veri would be pointless, as meeting a couple on a single profile.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

When men pretend to be a couple they are criticised because people feel they've been misled. People might well feel the same way about being contacted from a single profile asking for a couples meet.

Rudeness however isn't acceptable although blocking is in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Even if you offering a meet with an fb up front and honestly. Do it from a couple profile.

If we got a message from you we'd be thinking we have a single woman messaging not a woman with strings attached. It'd be a delete here too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

My profile is true thanks, i am single, a fb is not a boyfriend or partner.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My profile is true thanks, i am single, a fb is not a boyfriend or partner. "

He is a partner if youre offering to have him along! What's so hard to understand about that?

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Don,t know why users have to be so rude sometimes, ok so I have a single profile, but if I ask nicely if people are interested in a meet with me and my fb a straight no thanks would do. No need to be rude and then block me so I cannot reply. "

But it is understandable to be honest! The internet is full of liars and false people/profiles and we all want to miss them, do you really think a single female profile with a male partner in tow is going to be appreciated?

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"My profile is true thanks, i am single, a fb is not a boyfriend or partner. "

You say you've got a boyfriend in it though.

You might be single but you have messaged asking to meet as a couple. People don't like that. However you seem reluctant to take our word for that despite first hand evidence that it's true.

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

is setting up another profile too very costly?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

State couple just in discription u no together but play together , and profile pic come across with attitude , be open honest and get good response people easily scared away on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Words fail us the amount of times we've been chatting to ladies and then suddenly they introduce that they in fact have a partner! As well as being deceitful it smacks of not wanting a couple profile as the amount of attention they get will reduce!

So if you play as couple have a couple profile no need for a single one at all x

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

The rudeness isn't warranted but the block is. I meet on my own buy I have a couples profile I use to meet with the BF. In some cases I've met people with him and then on my own and the other way round. That's once we all know each other; I would feel incredibly rude and like I was misleading someone if I messaged someone asking for a meet with the BF from my single profile. It can be a pain in the arse running two profiles but it's the only fair method.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It sais your single yes in your profile, why does it have to be discreet tho? Is it so someone don't have to find out? Bit confusing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

maybe they checked your verifies and werent interested in your bf(if he's a fabber), they might even think he has control of the profile..which can be offputting for some..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People get pissed off with all the lairs, chancers and the bullshitters on here.

So when you turn out to be something you are not, you get lumped into the same category.

Imagine you met someone on your own in a pub, talked to them all night, arranged to go to for a meal and then at the last minute he said "oh, by the way, can I bring my mate who I fuck now and again".

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By *ngeluk69Woman over a year ago

Near enough

Your profile clearly states you have a boyfriend TWICE and that you can meet with him or without. You are therefore a couple who might meet separately or together.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

another way of thinking about it is thats its essentially a blind date(unless you have pics or a profile to show)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Given a lot of women like to check out their meets before hand going

"Hey come meet me and an unverified, unpictured, unknown man don't worry you'll definitely be safe"

Seems a silly approach

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My profile is true thanks, i am single, a fb is not a boyfriend or partner. "

So why does your profile say

"I have a boyfriend and am NOT looking for a fuckbuddy"

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It's their choice who they meet, however nicely you ask.

Move on and accept they didn't want to meet you and whatever baggage you appear to be trying to convince them to meet.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

People use the block button as they see fit too. Yes, it's annoying that you can't reply but they don't want your reply however much you want to give it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you're messaging someone as you're interested in meeting them as one half of a couple, do it from a couple's profile otherwise it may appear that you're approaching them using a single female profile to get around message filters.

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

If someone else is with you when you meet - doesnt matter if he's your husband, bf, fb or the bin man - then you should have a couples profile.

Blocking is one of the tools that the site provides and people can use it in whatever way suits them best. It isnt rude.

If someone is abusive when they reply to messages then its always better to report them and let Admin deal with it rather than posting it in the forums.

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