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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been known to ditch someone after I've seen piles of dirty washing in the background.
Granted so people go through messy relationship splits but so they have totally lose their standards just dos they live on their own.
Guys have told me there are women like this too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Will make sure our house looks like a show home before any future pics are taken, lest we be judged as unclean  "
Get that grass cut in your Avatar too, its way too long  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Will make sure our house looks like a show home before any future pics are taken, lest we be judged as unclean
Are all your offending pics in 'private' because I see none on public display?"
Not at all, I was merely attempting to make a point that not all people with an untidy background are smelly, unhygienic two headed troglodytes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Will make sure our house looks like a show home before any future pics are taken, lest we be judged as unclean "
Yes, mock, because why on earth would someone wish to make a good impression? Why would someone want to make a picture look nicer? And why would anyone trying to look for sex partners care if their hygiene standards were questioned?
All completely unnecessary  |
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"Will make sure our house looks like a show home before any future pics are taken, lest we be judged as unclean
Are all your offending pics in 'private' because I see none on public display?
Not at all, I was merely attempting to make a point that not all people with an untidy background are smelly, unhygienic two headed troglodytes. "
See Thing Two's statement |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Will make sure our house looks like a show home before any future pics are taken, lest we be judged as unclean
Yes, mock, because why on earth would someone wish to make a good impression? Why would someone want to make a picture look nicer? And why would anyone trying to look for sex partners care if their hygiene standards were questioned?
All completely unnecessary "
I don't think it is mocking people. Just because someone might have a messy background on photos it's no reason to pre judge, I'm sure you wouldn't like people to judge you as pushy because you have a single guy profile? (Not saying you are) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Man and woman are having some fun,things are hotting up,one says,let's take some photos,the other says,let's tidy up first.
Moment gone.passion dwindles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Will make sure our house looks like a show home before any future pics are taken, lest we be judged as unclean
Yes, mock, because why on earth would someone wish to make a good impression? Why would someone want to make a picture look nicer? And why would anyone trying to look for sex partners care if their hygiene standards were questioned?
All completely unnecessary
I don't think it is mocking people. Just because someone might have a messy background on photos it's no reason to pre judge, I'm sure you wouldn't like people to judge you as pushy because you have a single guy profile? (Not saying you are)"
Again, so you don't think it's worth making an effort to make yourself and your pics look better, more appealing? You don't think it's worth making little changes to put yourself in a better light?
But if you think I'm wrong and you genuinely think they weren't mocking or being facetious, let me address their serious and genuine three-headed troglodyte concerns: to my knowledge an untidy house in a photo wouldn't give the impression that the person in the photos had three heads (having three heads would be the primary giveaway here). And as for them being a prehistoric cave dweller; the fact that it's an untidy *house* shows this not to be a valid concern.
Certain messages and posts may sometimes suggest a prehistoric understanding of language and grammar, so I would look at that in thr first instance when trying to alleviate concerns regarding a person being a troglodyte with one or more heads. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It doesnt take long to make sure its tidy. And why the pics with the cock over the toilet? "
Strongly suspect they take their pictures in the toilet as they're married and the Mrs doesn't know! |
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By *ildt123Man
over a year ago
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I get the point and agree, but, it's a bit of a leap to suggest that a bit of house clutter or laundry implies someone is unhygienic as someone above said.
It does imply a lack of care and thought tho  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Will make sure our house looks like a show home before any future pics are taken, lest we be judged as unclean Get that grass cut in your Avatar too, its way too long
I suppose you want me to change the water in our lake as well? "
When you've finished I have a bush that needs trimming...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Will make sure our house looks like a show home before any future pics are taken, lest we be judged as unclean Get that grass cut in your Avatar too, its way too long
I suppose you want me to change the water in our lake as well?
When you've finished I have a bush that needs trimming...... "
I'm no good at topiary, I usually just lop it off and shape  |
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"Why do people take photos when there places look like a tip surely you can tidy up first"
Some people are totally unaware. I recall a couple starting a thread complaining about their lack of meets as no one replied to their messages.
It was pointed out to them that sitting in an environment that Stig of the dump would envy with the remnants of their dinner on dirty plates on their lap was not an enticing image!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"says a lot about them we think
It's probably because they assume that it's only men perving over the photos... and everyone knows that a man won't see anything but the naked bodies..
Cal"
Can't agree with you Cal MESS would be the first thing I would notice and would turn me off completely Sorry to disagree but I would have no interest in a profile or pics surrounded by mess ugg |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree with a mess in the background of photos. Not a good look an it puts me of meeting them tbh "
Job done then! Not you personally just a general comment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it depends on what you call mess. Example me and other half have just moved in together so boxes everywhere.
A few discarded clothes might not be mess but someone trying on clothes. I understand it the place looks like a contender for how clean is your house or in the case of toilet had a floater in it.
Sometime I feel that there is far to much judging a book by its cover going on with this site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It doesnt take long to make sure its tidy. And why the pics with the cock over the toilet?
Strongly suspect they take their pictures in the toilet as they're married and the Mrs doesn't know! "
I have a couple of pics in my bathroom. I'm married, just lock the door, same with bedroom, door is locked |
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