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By *rtemisia OP Woman
over a year ago
Norwich |
Who shows up, who doesn't come in five minutes flat, who doesn't lose his nerve along with his hardon, who isn't lost in a fantasy about being in my bed but has no chance of handling the reality. Send me a MAN! A proper one. Grrrhhhhh!!!
Ahh, that's better. Rant over.
How do you handle the frustration of no shows boys and girls??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Block and delete and start the search again I'd imagine. I've been fortunate enough that ive never encountered this phenomena yet. Don't understand why people do it personally. I get the cold feet aspect but at least they should have the courtesy to say they're nervous and want to cancel surely? |
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By *rtemisia OP Woman
over a year ago
Norwich |
"Block and delete and start the search again I'd imagine. I've been fortunate enough that ive never encountered this phenomena yet. Don't understand why people do it personally. I get the cold feet aspect but at least they should have the courtesy to say they're nervous and want to cancel surely? "
There seems to be a pattern of immense enthusiasm beforehand - possibly accompanied by wanking themselves silly at the thought of a meet - and then they disappear off the radar. That plus five minute wonders are driving me bananas. I need a good, long session!!! Hmmm, bananas - there's a thought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Block and delete and start the search again I'd imagine. I've been fortunate enough that ive never encountered this phenomena yet. Don't understand why people do it personally. I get the cold feet aspect but at least they should have the courtesy to say they're nervous and want to cancel surely?
There seems to be a pattern of immense enthusiasm beforehand - possibly accompanied by wanking themselves silly at the thought of a meet - and then they disappear off the radar. That plus five minute wonders are driving me bananas. I need a good, long session!!! Hmmm, bananas - there's a thought. "
Could be your choices as well ?? x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Block and delete and start the search again I'd imagine. I've been fortunate enough that ive never encountered this phenomena yet. Don't understand why people do it personally. I get the cold feet aspect but at least they should have the courtesy to say they're nervous and want to cancel surely?
There seems to be a pattern of immense enthusiasm beforehand - possibly accompanied by wanking themselves silly at the thought of a meet - and then they disappear off the radar. That plus five minute wonders are driving me bananas. I need a good, long session!!! Hmmm, bananas - there's a thought. "
Blocking newbies would help as it stops the wanking profiles from bothering you and just using you for wank chat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who shows up, who doesn't come in five minutes flat, who doesn't lose his nerve along with his hardon, who isn't lost in a fantasy about being in my bed but has no chance of handling the reality. Send me a MAN! A proper one. Grrrhhhhh!!!
Ahh, that's better. Rant over.
How do you handle the frustration of no shows boys and girls?? "
it's happened so many times you almost enter into it now knowing they will cancel two no shows last week one hotel booked ,it doesn't affect me as much as it did when I first joined I even got blocked by a woman who I know likes me but two days later she unblocked me as though nothing had happened ,nought strange as folk x  |
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There are lots of reasons why people cancel. I use the Goldfinger adage/ once is happenstance, twice is coincidence, three times is enemy action. I changed my plans last night to get a meet I'd previously cancelled on. |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"Is it just me? I've never wanked at the prospect of the meet, would rather save it for the lucky lady "
Insurance wank a few hours before has the added benefit of preventing the 5 minute wonder situation.
So I'm told. |
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"Is it just me? I've never wanked at the prospect of the meet, would rather save it for the lucky lady
Insurance wank a few hours before has the added benefit of preventing the 5 minute wonder situation.
So I'm told. "
Last two meets I've had I've not done anything for 5 or more days leading up to it. I get close to cumming at times but you just back off a second or put the tongue / fingers back to use before getting back to fucking. Sod having a wank prior, I want the orgasm to be as intense and messy as possible  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who shows up, who doesn't come in five minutes flat, who doesn't lose his nerve along with his hardon, who isn't lost in a fantasy about being in my bed but has no chance of handling the reality. Send me a MAN! A proper one. Grrrhhhhh!!!
Ahh, that's better. Rant over.
How do you handle the frustration of no shows boys and girls?? "
 ARTEMISIA, can't get there in 5 mins Newcastle to Norwich takes a lot longer sorry lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who shows up, who doesn't come in five minutes flat, who doesn't lose his nerve along with his hardon, who isn't lost in a fantasy about being in my bed but has no chance of handling the reality. Send me a MAN! A proper one. Grrrhhhhh!!!
Ahh, that's better. Rant over.
How do you handle the frustration of no shows boys and girls?? "
Totally understand your frustrations, but that will teach me for wanting young guys. One even told me he loved the fantasy but couldn't handle the reality, didn't realise I was that scary!! lol Seriously considering meeting a more mature man who can handle me I hope your situation changes for the better my lovely x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who shows up, who doesn't come in five minutes flat, who doesn't lose his nerve along with his hardon, who isn't lost in a fantasy about being in my bed but has no chance of handling the reality. Send me a MAN! A proper one. Grrrhhhhh!!!
Ahh, that's better. Rant over.
How do you handle the frustration of no shows boys and girls?? "
Have a wank  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who shows up, who doesn't come in five minutes flat, who doesn't lose his nerve along with his hardon, who isn't lost in a fantasy about being in my bed but has no chance of handling the reality. Send me a MAN! A proper one. Grrrhhhhh!!!
Ahh, that's better. Rant over.
How do you handle the frustration of no shows boys and girls?? "
It never had any no shows. Had one or 2 cancel last minute. I forget them and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You need patience lol
No, people need to bloody man up & turn up to meet or say they don't want to. That's all. No bloody patience needed."
Lol loved this! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who shows up, who doesn't come in five minutes flat, who doesn't lose his nerve along with his hardon, who isn't lost in a fantasy about being in my bed but has no chance of handling the reality. Send me a MAN! A proper one. Grrrhhhhh!!!
Ahh, that's better. Rant over.
How do you handle the frustration of no shows boys and girls??
Totally understand your frustrations, but that will teach me for wanting young guys. One even told me he loved the fantasy but couldn't handle the reality, didn't realise I was that scary!! lol Seriously considering meeting a more mature man who can handle me I hope your situation changes for the better my lovely x"
Ooh going to disagree with you there. At least younger guys can maintain an erection.
My experience has shown it's older guys getting stage fright more easily  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never had a no-show or any problems with time wasters. I'm very picky and my selection criteria is pretty strict.
It probably means I've missed out on a few meets but I prefer quality over quantity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never had a no show. I've had a couple of men come quickly and then played on. I try to make nervous men feel at ease and put no pressure on them to perform. I'm very patient and everything usually goes well. Men aren't all the same,they have to be treated as individuals,not robotic pieces of meat for my pleasure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Who shows up, who doesn't come in five minutes flat, who doesn't lose his nerve along with his hardon, who isn't lost in a fantasy about being in my bed but has no chance of handling the reality. Send me a MAN! A proper one. Grrrhhhhh!!!
Ahh, that's better. Rant over.
How do you handle the frustration of no shows boys and girls??
Totally understand your frustrations, but that will teach me for wanting young guys. One even told me he loved the fantasy but couldn't handle the reality, didn't realise I was that scary!! lol Seriously considering meeting a more mature man who can handle me I hope your situation changes for the better my lovely x
Ooh going to disagree with you there. At least younger guys can maintain an erection.
My experience has shown it's older guys getting stage fright more easily "
Totally agree on the erection of a young guy, and the stamina but it's the cold feet of the youngsters who don't show that is frustrating! Grrrr |
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By *rtemisia OP Woman
over a year ago
Norwich |
"Is it just me? I've never wanked at the prospect of the meet, would rather save it for the lucky lady
Insurance wank a few hours before has the added benefit of preventing the 5 minute wonder situation.
So I'm told.
Last two meets I've had I've not done anything for 5 or more days leading up to it. I get close to cumming at times but you just back off a second or put the tongue / fingers back to use before getting back to fucking. Sod having a wank prior, I want the orgasm to be as intense and messy as possible "
You see, that's how it's done!!!  |
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By *rtemisia OP Woman
over a year ago
Norwich |
"Who shows up, who doesn't come in five minutes flat, who doesn't lose his nerve along with his hardon, who isn't lost in a fantasy about being in my bed but has no chance of handling the reality. Send me a MAN! A proper one. Grrrhhhhh!!!
Ahh, that's better. Rant over.
How do you handle the frustration of no shows boys and girls??
Totally understand your frustrations, but that will teach me for wanting young guys. One even told me he loved the fantasy but couldn't handle the reality, didn't realise I was that scary!! lol Seriously considering meeting a more mature man who can handle me I hope your situation changes for the better my lovely x"
Thankyou nice lady. No shows are an occupational hazard I know. I usually have a backup plan but I have been quite restrained of late (for me), so I allowed myself to look forward to it. I never mind people cancelling, of course. It's the ones who are uber effusive beforehand, but fail to show without contact, and don't apologise or explain. They just vanish. Makes me think I must've dreamt them up. May as bloody well've done! |
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By *rtemisia OP Woman
over a year ago
Norwich |
"I've never had a no show. I've had a couple of men come quickly and then played on. I try to make nervous men feel at ease and put no pressure on them to perform. I'm very patient and everything usually goes well. Men aren't all the same,they have to be treated as individuals,not robotic pieces of meat for my pleasure. "
Coming quickly and playing on I can do. Coming quickly and pulling trousers back on at lightening speed I can do without. Erections I can coax, but fight or flight response I cannot de-evolve. The dead I can raise. The keyboard swinger and the eternal fantasist are entirely beyond my reach. |
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