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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I'm probably being pedantic, but the last time I looked you are not being charged per word on here, so why are so many threads of late being posted so sceptically that I have no bloody idea what it is the OP actually means?  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Meeting as a couple doesn't when only I have access to the account but when you come home to find another guy with her!"
Not nice, but least you know now.
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm probably being pedantic, but the last time I looked you are not being charged per word on here, so why are so many threads of late being posted so sceptically that I have no bloody idea what it is the OP actually means? "
That's all part of the fun, People making random comments  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meeting as a couple doesn't when only I have access to the account but when you come home to find another guy with her!"
So you can meet people on your own but she's not allowed to? That doesn't seem very fair! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So only you had access to the account? Which means its not really a couples profile, and if only you had access how did she find a man? This is more and more confusing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She didn't meet him on here people!!!! Why do people read between the lines???"
Because we're confused!
So you knew she was looking for fun?
She found 'fun' elsewhere & that's turned into more?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ah ok, so she wanted you to come on here and find a man to join you both for some extra fun? But instead while you were looking she sorted it out herself?
Now did she just want to have sex with him without your knowledge? Or were they waiting for you to get home?
Theirs one is not very nice and I feel sorry for you, the 2nd option is maybe just miss communication and you both need to sit down and decide what you both want out of this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"she wanted to join the site for "a bit of fun" turns out she meant an affair!!! Anyone else as naive???"
many couples who swing end up splitting up in the end |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There was never a mention of a man! She said I had to find a woman and she had a fantasy of us with her"
OP hit the reply & quote button so we know who you are replying too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There was never a mention of a man! She said I had to find a woman and she had a fantasy of us with her"
So did she join in with these women then because your veris sound like it was just you with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meeting as a couple doesn't when only I have access to the account but when you come home to find another guy with her!"
Is this a recent thing? Says you've had your single profile awhile.
Also, how come only you had access? Was she not interested in using the joint profile or something? |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"She didn't meet him on here people!!!! Why do people read between the lines???"
Erm, I'd hazard it's because your posts are lacking in information thereby making us work to understand what you're trying to convey.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm really confused. He was her fb, they were looking for a lady to join them, she was looking for fun and she found it? Hooray for her (I think, I'm not sure!) |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"There was never a mention of a man! She said I had to find a woman and she had a fantasy of us with her
So did she join in with these women then because your veris sound like it was just you with them."
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm really confused. He was her fb, they were looking for a lady to join them, she was looking for fun and she found it? Hooray for her (I think, I'm not sure!)"
But she's having an affair... possibly with a woman but not one from here.
Confused? You will be.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm really confused. He was her fb, they were looking for a lady to join them, she was looking for fun and she found it? Hooray for her (I think, I'm not sure!)
But she's having an affair... possibly with a woman but not one from here.
Confused? You will be.
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Nooo, the affair was with a man. He was searching for a woman but he didn't find one so she went and found a man instead. Or that's what I got from it! |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Erm... What? "
There's this man, see? He's got a single profile but it's for him and his wife, geddit? He's the only with access to the account. He finds the women for him and his wife (doing better than single men in general then). It's her idea but he handles everything. With me so far?
He comes home, she's having an affair, possibly with a woman, right? Now he wants to know why? as he doesn't know.
I think.
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I'm confused. She's not on here but you're looking for a woman to join you as a couple from a single male profile yet your veris only refer to you. If you're having solo meets despite stating you're only looking for someone to join you and your wife why be upset if she's doing the same thing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Erm... What?
There's this man, see? He's got a single profile but it's for him and his wife, geddit? He's the only with access to the account. He finds the women for him and his wife (doing better than single men in general then). It's her idea but he handles everything. With me so far?
He comes home, she's having an affair, possibly with a woman, right? Now he wants to know why? as he doesn't know.
I think.
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I thought he found her with a bloke...  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Erm... What?
There's this man, see? He's got a single profile but it's for him and his wife, geddit? He's the only with access to the account. He finds the women for him and his wife (doing better than single men in general then). It's her idea but he handles everything. With me so far?
He comes home, she's having an affair, possibly with a woman, right? Now he wants to know why? as he doesn't know.
I think.
I thought he found her with a bloke... "
Ah yes, "another guy". |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Erm... What?
There's this man, see? He's got a single profile but it's for him and his wife, geddit? He's the only with access to the account. He finds the women for him and his wife (doing better than single men in general then). It's her idea but he handles everything. With me so far?
He comes home, she's having an affair,
possibly with a woman, right? Now he wants to know why? as he doesn't know.
I think.
I thought he found her with a bloke... "
Spot on!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Erm... What?
There's this man, see? He's got a single profile but it's for him and his wife, geddit? He's the only with access to the account. He finds the women for him and his wife (doing better than single men in general then). It's her idea but he handles everything. With me so far?
He comes home, she's having an affair, possibly with a woman, right? Now he wants to know why? as he doesn't know.
I think.
I thought he found her with a bloke...
Ah yes, "another guy"."
Another guy? So she's got two on the go? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Erm... What?
There's this man, see? He's got a single profile but it's for him and his wife, geddit? He's the only with access to the account. He finds the women for him and his wife (doing better than single men in general then). It's her idea but he handles everything. With me so far?
He comes home, she's having an affair, possibly with a woman, right? Now he wants to know why? as he doesn't know.
I think.
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In next week's episode of Soap.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Erm... What?
There's this man, see? He's got a single profile but it's for him and his wife, geddit? He's the only with access to the account. He finds the women for him and his wife (doing better than single men in general then). It's her idea but he handles everything. With me so far?
He comes home, she's having an affair,
possibly with a woman, right? Now he wants to know why? as he doesn't know.
I think.
I thought he found her with a bloke...
Spot on!!!!!!"
Yay ~ what do I win for guessing?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She didn't meet him on here people!!!! Why do people read between the lines???"
because the previous statements very ambiguous ... not entirely sure where this thread was meant to go once you started it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Erm... What?
There's this man, see? He's got a single profile but it's for him and his wife, geddit? He's the only with access to the account. He finds the women for him and his wife (doing better than single men in general then). It's her idea but he handles everything. With me so far?
He comes home, she's having an affair,
possibly with a woman, right? Now he wants to know why? as he doesn't know.
I think.
I thought he found her with a bloke...
Spot on!!!!!!
Yay ~ what do I win for guessing?! "
If only I'd read from bottom up rather than top down I wouldn't have wasted 5 minutes of my life! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Erm... What?
There's this man, see? He's got a single profile but it's for him and his wife, geddit? He's the only with access to the account. He finds the women for him and his wife (doing better than single men in general then). It's her idea but he handles everything. With me so far?
He comes home, she's having an affair,
possibly with a woman, right? Now he wants to know why? as he doesn't know.
I think.
I thought he found her with a bloke...
Spot on!!!!!!
Yay ~ what do I win for guessing?! "
And psychology doctorate I should think.
This has to be one of the most confusing threads I've ever read, and all because the OP couldn't be bothered spelling out what he was seeking comments on!!
I've got a headache  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"she wanted to join the site for "a bit of fun" turns out she meant an affair!!! Anyone else as naive???
No."
No here too. We play together and stay together
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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Im sorry to hear that it hasn't worked out the way you thought it would OP.
I suggest you might need to take some time away from the site and spend some quality time communicating with your wife. Communication is absolutely vital to a healthy swinging relationship. Talk to her about how you feel, how you feel as though she has crossed a boundary. Explain why you had set that boundary, and why it was important to you.
I hope you two manage to short things out and get back on track, either with monogamy or non-monogamy. Its important to remember that swinging can improve a great relationship, rather than fix a broken one.
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow some of you lot are bloody harsh...poor bloke is broken cos he's caught his wife with another bloke and the piss is being drained from him at an alarming rate...chin up fella, hope you can sort things out with your missus. Like CC said above, talking to her might get you through it x good luck x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Erm... What?
There's this man, see? He's got a single profile but it's for him and his wife, geddit? He's the only with access to the account. He finds the women for him and his wife (doing better than single men in general then). It's her idea but he handles everything. With me so far?
He comes home, she's having an affair, possibly with a woman, right? Now he wants to know why? as he doesn't know.
I think.
In next week's episode of Soap...."
Oh hell on earth, I'd forgotten all about Soap. Pure comedy gold.
I wonder if it's available on dvd.... |
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"Erm... What?
There's this man, see? He's got a single profile but it's for him and his wife, geddit? He's the only with access to the account. He finds the women for him and his wife (doing better than single men in general then). It's her idea but he handles everything. With me so far?
He comes home, she's having an affair,
possibly with a woman, right? Now he wants to know why? as he doesn't know.
I think.
I thought he found her with a bloke...
Spot on!!!!!!
Yay ~ what do I win for guessing?!
And psychology doctorate I should think.
This has to be one of the most confusing threads I've ever read, and all because the OP couldn't be bothered spelling out what he was seeking comments on!!
I've got a headache "
Mine started a minute into the thread but curiosity has kept me reading...it's like an Agatha Christie novel with all the red herrings!  |
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