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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi just wondering if there's some sort of rule of what happens after you meet someone for sex? Do you continue to talk to each other regularly or just when you want to next meet up?
New to swinging xx  |
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"Hi just wondering if there's some sort of rule of what happens after you meet someone for sex? Do you continue to talk to each other regularly or just when you want to next meet up?
New to swinging xx "
Some do, some don't, some never talk again, some get married.
I guess you do what feels right for you.
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"Hi just wondering if there's some sort of rule of what happens after you meet someone for sex? Do you continue to talk to each other regularly or just when you want to next meet up?
New to swinging xx "
You make up your own rules. 
Do what suits you and the people you meet.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's up to you how sociable you want to be, just make it clear from the beginning. Some of my meets just want 'wham bam thank you mam'
whilst others like to hangout, coffee drinks etc...
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"Hi just wondering if there's some sort of rule of what happens after you meet someone for sex? Do you continue to talk to each other regularly or just when you want to next meet up?
New to swinging xx "
Decide between you and the person/people you meet but be aware the some will say what they think you want to hear. Don't take any of it seriously. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most of my regulars chat to me in between meets, i enjoy their meets best tbh.
Some only speak to me when they want sex, if they leave it months in between speaking and/or sex i tend to have gone off them and found someone else to replace them with anyway. |
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"Most of my regulars chat to me in between meets, i enjoy their meets best tbh.
Some only speak to me when they want sex, if they leave it months in between speaking and/or sex i tend to have gone off them and found someone else to replace them with anyway."
Yup, I really don't understand why most men don't get this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think contact is important before and after meets. Sometimes not always sometime does pass without contact but that is never intentional just life getting in the way. Yeah I understand this is NSA fun but that should not exclude friendships. I discuss all sorts of things with my friends and I enjoy the banter we have too. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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usually it gets odd when messages get exchanged straight after a meet. Yes you have the regular ' good job ' , wicked meet ' , ' lets do it again ', but it can quickly develop into what are you doing this weekend, what are you up to and I just had a mind drama - kind of thing. Unless you are after that kind of relationship.. it is best just to keep it to a "let me know if you fancy it again sometime" message. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the heads up guys and gals xx new to this swinging thing so still finding my feet and working things out. Yep some do speak to you afterwards and some give you the good job or fab bj line and then don't want to talk till they want to meet next time. I guess I was hoping it'd be more of a social thing as well as sex. Maybe just not where I'm from lol x |
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