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By *rs Tooty OP Woman
over a year ago
Ayrshire |
spent an hour on the phone with my ex husband who was physically and mentally abusive. True to form he made me feel like shit.
It's left me feeling pissed off and unworthy.
Any advice?
Other than to whack him in the face with a frying pan?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"spent an hour on the phone with my ex husband who was physically and mentally abusive. True to form he made me feel like shit.
It's left me feeling pissed off and unworthy.
Any advice?
Other than to whack him in the face with a frying pan? "
can I ask why you spent an hour on the phone ? An hour is a long time to talk to someone you don't like x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I split up with someone abusive not long back. This blog makes me feel better and help me understand my feelings, it might help you?
https://psychopathyawareness.wordpress.com/ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If he makes you feel so bad don't talk to the man.An hour on the phone to someone who is abusive seems rather along time.If you have to communicate with him short N sweet and then put the phone down so he doesn't get the chance to make you feel like you do. |
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By *rs Tooty OP Woman
over a year ago
Ayrshire |
I stayed on the phone trying to get him to understand that having not had our daughter for an overnight once in 15 years to expect her to stay at his new girlfriend of 4 weeks is unacceptable.
Trying to have a civilised chat about why he should know her best friends name or subjects at school.
Explaining that owing £18,00 csa to his daughter is unacceptable.
All the usual stuff when a dad walks away from their kid.
Everything was my fault. The fact that it rains.. My fault. The fact alcohol gives him a hangover.. My fault.
He seems totally oblivious to anything being his fault. Despite doing all I can including forfeiting relations for my kids.. According to him.. I'm a shit parent.
So extra large frying pan, bottle of vodka and a search for a womble suit is on the cards.
He is ladies and gentlemen a first class w*nker!! |
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By *rs Tooty OP Woman
over a year ago
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Thank you angel, I shall have a look at that!
"I split up with someone abusive not long back. This blog makes me feel better and help me understand my feelings, it might help you?
https://psychopathyawareness.wordpress.com/"
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