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When responding to threads do you only interact with those who agree with you, who you find attractive or who you hope to meet?
I admit that there are one or two I won't interact with because we rub each other up the wrong way (and I'm sure the feelongs mutal)but apart from that I enjoy the general chat and banter. |
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"Absolutely anyone. Only a few interact back though but that's hardly surprising  "
Awww... 
I'll talk to anyone. I struggle with one or two but better to avoid than interact... my life is too short to get my knickers twisted over bigots. |
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"Absolutely anyone. Only a few interact back though but that's hardly surprising
Awww...
I'll talk to anyone. I struggle with one or two but better to avoid than interact... my life is too short to get my knickers twisted over bigots. "
Ahhhh one of the few |
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"No, I'll join in with something interesting or fun....I won't always agree and I might just take the piss a bit, but I never take anything too seriously...life's too short.  "
I'm a bit like that too but I don't think my brand of tomfoolery is to many people's taste |
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I have no intentional posting pattern ..... I contribute where and when the fancy takes me..... I don't seek approval for my input....
Defending my opinions or attacking those of other posters is not my primary motive for being here......
I simply enjoy environments where enthusiastic thought-exchange takes place with or without my contribution... |
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"I have no intentional posting pattern ..... I contribute where and when the fancy takes me..... I don't seek approval for my input....
Defending my opinions or attacking those of other posters is not my primary motive for being here......
I simply enjoy environments where enthusiastic thought-exchange takes place with or without my contribution... "
You even suggested I tucked my junk into a pair of junderpants  |
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Typically anyone - it's usually the topic of the post that interest me yet. Of course, I'll probably be a bit flirtatious in my messages to women or couples, but it's just a comment & I don't discriminate.
However, I think I'm sometimes a chronic thread-killer. Sometimes cover all the points and leave nothing for anyone else to say D: |
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"I have no intentional posting pattern ..... I contribute where and when the fancy takes me..... I don't seek approval for my input....
Defending my opinions or attacking those of other posters is not my primary motive for being here......
I simply enjoy environments where enthusiastic thought-exchange takes place with or without my contribution...
You even suggested I tucked my junk into a pair of junderpants "
And did you?....... go-on own-up.....how many pairs have you bought,,,? |
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"negativity and politics i avoid, other than that im a friendly soul  "
I try and do this. There are people I think are dicks, and on occasion I will offer them a little rope just so I can confirm that they are still dicks
But mostly it's just chit chat with no agenda or intention |
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"I have no intentional posting pattern ..... I contribute where and when the fancy takes me..... I don't seek approval for my input....
Defending my opinions or attacking those of other posters is not my primary motive for being here......
I simply enjoy environments where enthusiastic thought-exchange takes place with or without my contribution...
You even suggested I tucked my junk into a pair of junderpants
And did you?....... go-on own-up.....how many pairs have you bought,,,? "
A wardrobe full |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have no intentional posting pattern ..... I contribute where and when the fancy takes me..... I don't seek approval for my input....
Same here  "
Oi get your own material copy-cat,,,.. |
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"The last time I got caught up in a disagreement I ended up on the naughty step & didn't like it so I avoid now!!!"
Never been on the naughty step although I have a few who won't talk to me anymore ..... And who could blame them? |
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"I have no intentional posting pattern ..... I contribute where and when the fancy takes me..... I don't seek approval for my input....
Defending my opinions or attacking those of other posters is not my primary motive for being here......
I simply enjoy environments where enthusiastic thought-exchange takes place with or without my contribution...
You even suggested I tucked my junk into a pair of junderpants
And did you?....... go-on own-up.....how many pairs have you bought,,,?
A wardrobe full "
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I'll interact with anybody if there's something I feel like commenting on. Only things I do ignore completely are compliments because they go through me, find them cringey. |
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"Typically anyone - it's usually the topic of the post that interest me yet. Of course, I'll probably be a bit flirtatious in my messages to women or couples, but it's just a comment & I don't discriminate.
However, I think I'm sometimes a chronic thread-killer. Sometimes cover all the points and leave nothing for anyone else to say D:"
Hehe I only maim threads....I once had 7 out of my last 15 come to an abrupt halt |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"negativity and politics i avoid, other than that im a friendly soul
I try and do this. There are people I think are dicks, and on occasion I will offer them a little rope just so I can confirm that they are still dicks
But mostly it's just chit chat with no agenda or intention"
i just dont think people are anything but being themselves..sometimes i host the nocturnal thread so of course thats the intention for everyone to have a good time while they are awake for whatever reason. ill be helpful if the person seems as if they are asking for genuine help..but some of the banter on here is priceless x |
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"When responding to threads do you only interact with those who agree with you, who you find attractive or who you hope to meet?
I admit that there are one or two I won't interact with because we rub each other up the wrong way (and I'm sure the feelongs mutal)but apart from that I enjoy the general chat and banter."
Nah, I ignore everyone and assume I know everything |
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"When responding to threads do you only interact with those who agree with you, who you find attractive or who you hope to meet?
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None of the above. I comment on posts I agree or disagree with, depending on the subject. I agree with people on some subjects and disagree on others. I don't use the forums for meets so I just comment on the text, not aimed at the person that posted it. |
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I've been doing these forums for nigh on 6 years. I started off trying to pull. Agreeing with any attractive woman to win their favour.
Over the years and the repetitive nature of most posts I simply speak my mind, and have a little laugh in the process.
Everyone's entitled to their opinion. I wouldn't judge someone for not agreeing with me, or my beliefs. Some people do but each to their own. |
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"When responding to threads do you only interact with those who agree with you, who you find attractive or who you hope to meet?
I admit that there are one or two I won't interact with because we rub each other up the wrong way (and I'm sure the feelongs mutal)but apart from that I enjoy the general chat and banter.
Nah, I ignore everyone and assume I know everything "
This is possibly the best way to be |
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I tend to respond to the post not the poster. I just post on whatever catches my eye.
Certain posters have ignored me and answered everyone else on the thread before but I'm not arsed tbh. I just go along in my own little world.
Mrs x |
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"I tend to respond to the post not the poster. I just post on whatever catches my eye.
Certain posters have ignored me and answered everyone else on the thread before but I'm not arsed tbh. I just go along in my own little world.
Mrs x"
I've appreciated your comments! |
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All who've posted here, those that haven't too , would you consider yourselves to be forum regulars as in most people who are on here regularly will know who you are and recognise you from your posts? |
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The problem with this medium is that, as much as t'internet is a powerful too for bringing people together it also creates barriers.
I believe the medium:-
* creates group think
* promotes hysteria
* gives undue weight to all 'opinions'
Just a thought. |
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"The problem with this medium is that, as much as t'internet is a powerful too for bringing people together it also creates barriers.
I believe the medium:-
* creates group think
* promotes hysteria
* gives undue weight to all 'opinions'
Just a thought. "
I would agree with that thought. Although I try to steer away from group think I'm partial to a spot of hysteria now and again.
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I interact with anyone. I like chatting with people on the forums. I definitely don't use it to find meets. Although I have had socials with people I met here and love the discussions.
I do, however, prefer to interact with people here that make me laugh.
-Courtney |
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"The problem with this medium is that, as much as t'internet is a powerful too for bringing people together it also creates barriers.
I believe the medium:-
* creates group think
* promotes hysteria
* gives undue weight to all 'opinions'
Just a thought.
I would agree with that thought. Although I try to steer away from group think I'm partial to a spot of hysteria now and again.
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I'm thinking of that silly woman who put some crass comment on her FaceBook page about some tragedy, which was then shared by a horrified friend and went viral while she was on a plane to South Africa.
While she was in the air her life was destroyed - her job was rescinded, her friends and family shunned her - and she was completely unaware until the plane touched down and her phone started ringing.
It was one stupid comment.
And her life was destroyed.
This is the face of the digital revolution. Tread carefully. |
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"I interact with anyone. I like chatting with people on the forums. I definitely don't use it to find meets. Although I have had socials with people I met here and love the discussions.
I do, however, prefer to interact with people here that make me laugh.
-Courtney"
Have you showered yet |
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"When responding to threads do you only interact with those who agree with you, who you find attractive or who you hope to meet?
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None of the above. I comment on posts I agree or disagree with, depending on the subject. I agree with people on some subjects and disagree on others. I don't use the forums for meets so I just comment on the text, not aimed at the person that posted it. "
same here. |
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"I interact with anyone. I like chatting with people on the forums. I definitely don't use it to find meets. Although I have had socials with people I met here and love the discussions.
I do, however, prefer to interact with people here that make me laugh.
-Courtney
Have you showered yet "
Shhh! I'm waiting for that bloke to go to Dubai |
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"The problem with this medium is that, as much as t'internet is a powerful too for bringing people together it also creates barriers.
I believe the medium:-
* creates group think
* promotes hysteria
* gives undue weight to all 'opinions'
Just a thought.
I would agree with that thought. Although I try to steer away from group think I'm partial to a spot of hysteria now and again.
I'm thinking of that silly woman who put some crass comment on her FaceBook page about some tragedy, which was then shared by a horrified friend and went viral while she was on a plane to South Africa.
While she was in the air her life was destroyed - her job was rescinded, her friends and family shunned her - and she was completely unaware until the plane touched down and her phone started ringing.
It was one stupid comment.
And her life was destroyed.
This is the face of the digital revolution. Tread carefully. "
The risks are so worrying, anyone can take any pic apply any message and post it. The facebook users won't waste anytime clarifying or even reading any article, the caption is all the information required for the activity to start, as you say it can destroy so much from a minimal or even falsely accused action
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"The problem with this medium is that, as much as t'internet is a powerful too for bringing people together it also creates barriers.
I believe the medium:-
* creates group think
* promotes hysteria
* gives undue weight to all 'opinions'
Just a thought.
I would agree with that thought. Although I try to steer away from group think I'm partial to a spot of hysteria now and again.
I'm thinking of that silly woman who put some crass comment on her FaceBook page about some tragedy, which was then shared by a horrified friend and went viral while she was on a plane to South Africa.
While she was in the air her life was destroyed - her job was rescinded, her friends and family shunned her - and she was completely unaware until the plane touched down and her phone started ringing.
It was one stupid comment.
And her life was destroyed.
This is the face of the digital revolution. Tread carefully. "
Yes agreed. My comments about hysteria were, well....hysterical . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I interact with anyone. I like chatting with people on the forums. I definitely don't use it to find meets. Although I have had socials with people I met here and love the discussions.
I do, however, prefer to interact with people here that make me laugh.
-Courtney
Have you showered yet
Shhh! I'm waiting for that bloke to go to Dubai "
Someone else is offering a free holiday in another thread...get in there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I tend to respond to the post not the poster. I just post on whatever catches my eye.
Certain posters have ignored me and answered everyone else on the thread before but I'm not arsed tbh. I just go along in my own little world.
Mrs x
I've appreciated your comments!"
Diolch yn fawr cariad. I would offer you a compliment but I know it goes through you so I won't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All who've posted here, those that haven't too , would you consider yourselves to be forum regulars as in most people who are on here regularly will know who you are and recognise you from your posts?"
I guess most would recognise me, most also pass me by...not sure they would recognise me from my posts as that changes depending on my mood.....i can be most unforgiving and intolerant when I'm in a bad mood yet quite jokey when I'm in a good mood.....i have a feeling that no one either notices nor cares as it's an internet forum....so I shall continue about my merry way |
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"All who've posted here, those that haven't too , would you consider yourselves to be forum regulars as in most people who are on here regularly will know who you are and recognise you from your posts?"
I think I'm a regular even though I'm a bit irregular. |
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I like to see a full range of opinions and will respond to any. I tend to study the opinions of people I like or admire more than other random ones, but any thought provoking posts are great to ponder upon.
Probably more inclined to respond to reasoned posts rather than shouty rants or exclamations though. |
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If I find someone interesting or funny I will probably interact with them.There are several regulars I am quite happy to ignore.I'm not on the site to fall out with anyone so I don't comment on lots of threads. |
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"All who've posted here, those that haven't too , would you consider yourselves to be forum regulars as in most people who are on here regularly will know who you are and recognise you from your posts?"
Definitely more frequent, assume could he recognised, Expect a slight "god what's he on about now" may leave some peoples mind when my name shows as most recent poster, haha |
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"The problem with this medium is that, as much as t'internet is a powerful too for bringing people together it also creates barriers.
I believe the medium:-
* creates group think
* promotes hysteria
* gives undue weight to all 'opinions'
Just a thought.
I would agree with that thought. Although I try to steer away from group think I'm partial to a spot of hysteria now and again.
I'm thinking of that silly woman who put some crass comment on her FaceBook page about some tragedy, which was then shared by a horrified friend and went viral while she was on a plane to South Africa.
While she was in the air her life was destroyed - her job was rescinded, her friends and family shunned her - and she was completely unaware until the plane touched down and her phone started ringing.
It was one stupid comment.
And her life was destroyed.
This is the face of the digital revolution. Tread carefully.
Yes agreed. My comments about hysteria were, well....hysterical . "
Also I have direct experience of this on Twitter. I was naive enough to disagree with a minor celebrity, I eventually just blocked them and their followers because the abuse I received from this person's fans was staggering. I would have been less shocked if I'd disagreed aggressively or rudely but even then the storm of outrage was as you say, hysterical. |
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I probably go the other way and gloss over posts that are agreeing with me and respond to those which disagree. Generally because I think they're wrong, so want to dig deeper to get them to explain further (or I'm just being argumentative). |
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"Depends on the topic really! Some you want to post to but you know it's just not worth the grief you'll get for forming your opinion!
Sad but true.
G"
Why should you be silent? We have freedom of speech in this country so use that right. Considering about 1% of the whole population of fab use the forum, I certainly won't lose any sleep if a few forum users don't like me because of my opinions. In fact sometimes people who have agreed with me have then got to know those people and it has led to meets. |
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"I probably go the other way and gloss over posts that are agreeing with me and respond to those which disagree. Generally because I think they're wrong, so want to dig deeper to get them to explain further (or I'm just being argumentative)."
You're just being argumentative  |
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I interact with anyone the ones who disgree with me especially i like to learn other peoples _iews and have mine changed its far more interesting that way.
If people disagree but arent rude i wouldnt think of them negatively. Its only when they get personal that it would bother me but to be fair i would give a shit for about...10 seconds |
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"When responding to threads do you only interact with those who agree with you, who you find attractive or who you hope to meet?
I admit that there are one or two I won't interact with because we rub each other up the wrong way (and I'm sure the feelongs mutal)but apart from that I enjoy the general chat and banter."
I'll respond whenever really, someone noted the other day that I'd only replied to men on a thread I started - which I hadn't noticed but it's true, a lot of people only reply to the ladies or people they fancy. |
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"Depends on the topic really! Some you want to post to but you know it's just not worth the grief you'll get for forming your opinion!
Sad but true.
G
Why should you be silent? We have freedom of speech in this country so use that right. Considering about 1% of the whole population of fab use the forum, I certainly won't lose any sleep if a few forum users don't like me because of my opinions. In fact sometimes people who have agreed with me have then got to know those people and it has led to meets. "
Just not worth the grief and backlash sometimes! That's my opinion
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"I tend to respond to the post not the poster. I just post on whatever catches my eye.
Certain posters have ignored me and answered everyone else on the thread before but I'm not arsed tbh. I just go along in my own little world.
Mrs x"
Most people ignore me |
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"I probably go the other way and gloss over posts that are agreeing with me and respond to those which disagree. Generally because I think they're wrong, so want to dig deeper to get them to explain further (or I'm just being argumentative).
You're just being argumentative "
No I'm not |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I tend to respond to the post not the poster. I just post on whatever catches my eye.
Certain posters have ignored me and answered everyone else on the thread before but I'm not arsed tbh. I just go along in my own little world.
Mrs x
Most people ignore me "
I only clicked the other day who you were, I did wonder where you other profile went |
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"No, I'll join in with something interesting or fun....I won't always agree and I might just take the piss a bit, but I never take anything too seriously...life's too short. "
I agree with you there |
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"I tend to respond to the post not the poster. I just post on whatever catches my eye.
Certain posters have ignored me and answered everyone else on the thread before but I'm not arsed tbh. I just go along in my own little world.
Mrs x
Most people ignore me
I only clicked the other day who you were, I did wonder where you other profile went "
I wish I knew!!
Some posts I start to write and then I think again. Occasionally the subject is too massive and serious and I think nah... I won't bother then delete whatever I've written before posting. |
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"No, I'll join in with something interesting or fun....I won't always agree and I might just take the piss a bit, but I never take anything too seriously...life's too short.
I agree with you there "
Me too - I don't pay any regard to who's posted the thread; just a laugh, isn't it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Truthfully I don't think about it too much although sometimes I have to shrug,  and walk away (finger- walking anyway!)
There are a few that I steer clear of too, yes. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"When responding to threads do you only interact with those who agree with you, who you find attractive or who you hope to meet?
I admit that there are one or two I won't interact with because we rub each other up the wrong way (and I'm sure the feelongs mutal)but apart from that I enjoy the general chat and banter."
No, I'll respond to any comment that catches my eye, whether that's in interest, humour, disbelief etc.
Sometimes I'll agree with certain posters and on other topics, I won't.
If I revisit a thread and see that someone has quoted me, I'll usually reply if its directed at me.
Yes there are some posters who tend to stand out more to me than others. Some for positive reasons and some that simply rub me up the wrong way. I'd imagine that's the case for most people.
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I endeavour to answer the same to male, female and couples & that is usually the thing I think about the most.
and being consistent with the answers.
I don't meet from the forums so there is no-one that I will answer in a different way based on that. I don't avoid posters but there are threads that are opened more from certain people that don't interest me, they are not bad people just the subjects they like are of zero interest to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When responding to threads do you only interact with those who agree with you, who you find attractive or who you hope to meet?
I admit that there are one or two I won't interact with because we rub each other up the wrong way (and I'm sure the feelongs mutal)but apart from that I enjoy the general chat and banter."
It's the thread that draws me in, not the person.
I contribute because I want to, not for an ulterior motive.
If it's a thread I feel I can contribute to, I'm in, advice, support, humour or a good debate.
There's a few subjects close to my heart that I'm passionate about so I'll probably share my tuppenceworth.
Mostly enjoy the banter and fun.
Must admit to hitting the block button within the forums a couple of times, I know it's happened to me as well.
I've not lost sleep yet....
Spend more time in the lounge than any other.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When responding to threads do you only interact with those who agree with you, who you find attractive or who you hope to meet?
I admit that there are one or two I won't interact with because we rub each other up the wrong way (and I'm sure the feelongs mutal)but apart from that I enjoy the general chat and banter."
good question... well I do interact with anybody as long as the topic attracts my attention, even if I don't like them lol |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"All who've posted here, those that haven't too , would you consider yourselves to be forum regulars as in most people who are on here regularly will know who you are and recognise you from your posts?"
I wouldn't say I'm a regular as such as I go through stages of posting for a bit and then not at all for weeks/months on end.
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"All who've posted here, those that haven't too , would you consider yourselves to be forum regulars as in most people who are on here regularly will know who you are and recognise you from your posts?"
I'm a regular every so often I think but I appear and don't know lots of people and lots of the people I did know are gone. I stay a couple of months then I go back to reality and don't login for another few months and the pattern continues. I don't actually care how other people see me. I just turn up, attempt to be kind and decent and then leave when it bores me. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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I used to respond to everyone. Now if I know someone has blocked me I don't comment or respond to avoid being accused of trying to communicate with them. Of course I am blocked by some that I don't know about.
Otherwise it tends to be avoiding some comments rather than particular people.
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"All who've posted here, those that haven't too , would you consider yourselves to be forum regulars as in most people who are on here regularly will know who you are and recognise you from your posts?"
Yes, I'm a regular. Too regular at times.
I also like to play 'spot the returning regular' when people leave and come back with a new name, new avatar but the same writing style and opinions.
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over a year ago
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"All who've posted here, those that haven't too , would you consider yourselves to be forum regulars as in most people who are on here regularly will know who you are and recognise you from your posts?"
I've only been participating in the forums for a short while compared to lots of the members, although I contribute regularly.
I suspect lots of people see me contributing and run for the hills, I've murdered more threads than I care to count. |
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"All who've posted here, those that haven't too , would you consider yourselves to be forum regulars as in most people who are on here regularly will know who you are and recognise you from your posts?
I've only been participating in the forums for a short while compared to lots of the members, although I contribute regularly.
I suspect lots of people see me contributing and run for the hills, I've murdered more threads than I care to count. "
You too eh? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll talk to almost anyone as I know I'm unlikely to meet them in person. I mainly use the forums for the banter, not necessarily to meet someone. "
I don't use the forum to get meets but it has got me them. Have had little luck messaging directly. |
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over a year ago
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"I interact according to the thread, I can agree with someone's opinion even if I don't like it on other threads and vise versa, each thread is different.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When responding to threads do you only interact with those who agree with you, who you find attractive or who you hope to meet?
I admit that there are one or two I won't interact with because we rub each other up the wrong way (and I'm sure the feelongs mutal)but apart from that I enjoy the general chat and banter."
I'll reply to anyone with boobs. Lol.
No really, I look for good banter when I occasionally enter the forums |
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"I interact according to the thread, I can agree with someone's opinion even if I don't like it on other threads and vise versa, each thread is different.
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Here's an opinion "Steve has a huge cock". Discuss.  |
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"I interact according to the thread, I can agree with someone's opinion even if I don't like it on other threads and vise versa, each thread is different.
Here's an opinion "Steve has a huge cock". Discuss. "
I am unable to discuss this topic in fear of incriminating myself, all I will say is, ha ha fucking ha |
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"I interact according to the thread, I can agree with someone's opinion even if I don't like it on other threads and vise versa, each thread is different.
Here's an opinion "Steve has a huge cock". Discuss. I am unable to discuss this topic in fear of incriminating myself, all I will say is, ha ha fucking ha
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la la la *fingers in ears* |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"I interact according to the thread, I can agree with someone's opinion even if I don't like it on other threads and vise versa, each thread is different.
Here's an opinion "Steve is a huge cock". Discuss. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When responding to threads do you only interact with those who agree with you, who you find attractive or who you hope to meet?
I admit that there are one or two I won't interact with because we rub each other up the wrong way (and I'm sure the feelongs mutal)but apart from that I enjoy the general chat and banter."
It's much more fun responding to a nice,chatty thread like this, whether or not anyone responds |
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"I interact according to the thread, I can agree with someone's opinion even if I don't like it on other threads and vise versa, each thread is different.
Here's an opinion "Steve is a huge cock". Discuss.
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ha ha ha no need for discussion the answer is yes |
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Let's try that again from my profile rather than his!
I mostly just read and don't respond as I feel there isn't a lot of interraction between posters anyway. I used to feel I was ignored, as others has said they feel, but then I paid more attention and noticed most people just say their own bit and don't interact with others like they would in a real conversation. The realisation was good and bad, I'm not particularly ignored but it's sad there isn't more conversation going on.
To answer the second question no I don't feel I'm a regular face on the forum, even though I sign in most days and have a wee read. I'd be surprised if I was remembered. |
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over a year ago
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I tend respond to the post as opposed to the poster. I've learnt the hard way not to get into a disagreement when feeling emotional & walking away is the best option.
I don't tend to post on political threads or ones that I feel I'm not an intellectual match for.
Would say I am a fairly regular poster albeit in the background.
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over a year ago
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Depends on my mood.
If I am feeling a bit grouchy, it's better I don't respond to some threads
If I am full of the joys, then any thread or contributor is fair game |
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"When responding to threads do you only interact with those who agree with you, who you find attractive or who you hope to meet?
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If anything I'm more likely to post if I disagree with something. It matters not whether or not I find someone attractive, more whether I feel I have something to add.
My main problem is coming back to threads and finding them either full, or disappeared!
Mr ddc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All who've posted here, those that haven't too , would you consider yourselves to be forum regulars as in most people who are on here regularly will know who you are and recognise you from your posts?
I've only been participating in the forums for a short while compared to lots of the members, although I contribute regularly.
I suspect lots of people see me contributing and run for the hills, I've murdered more threads than I care to count.
You too eh? "
Yup.
I even murder my own.
Yours is clearly doomed now.
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"When responding to threads do you only interact with those who agree with you, who you find attractive or who you hope to meet?
I admit that there are one or two I won't interact with because we rub each other up the wrong way (and I'm sure the feelongs mutal)but apart from that I enjoy the general chat and banter.
It's much more fun responding to a nice,chatty thread like this, whether or not anyone responds "
It is isn't it. I've been pleasantly surprised at how many responses there have been too. |
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"I suppose I'm a forum regular. Not so much recently though.
You're a forum irregular Steve. "
I do find writing stuff easy and a pleasant pastime with the added bonus of possible sex through doing so, but I can't spend all my spare time on here, addictive as it is. I'll be bowing out gracefully. |
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"Let's try that again from my profile rather than his!
I mostly just read and don't respond as I feel there isn't a lot of interraction between posters anyway. I used to feel I was ignored, as others has said they feel, but then I paid more attention and noticed most people just say their own bit and don't interact with others like they would in a real conversation. The realisation was good and bad, I'm not particularly ignored but it's sad there isn't more conversation going on.
To answer the second question no I don't feel I'm a regular face on the forum, even though I sign in most days and have a wee read. I'd be surprised if I was remembered. "
It would be nice to see more of you, I enjoy a good chat too especially with none of the competitive element that sometimes appears. |
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"I suppose I'm a forum regular. Not so much recently though.
You're a forum irregular Steve.
I do find writing stuff easy and a pleasant pastime with the added bonus of possible sex through doing so, but I can't spend all my spare time on here, addictive as it is. I'll be bowing out gracefully. "
Don't go! We like your irregular regularity |
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"I suppose I'm a forum regular. Not so much recently though.
You're a forum irregular Steve.
I do find writing stuff easy and a pleasant pastime with the added bonus of possible sex through doing so, but I can't spend all my spare time on here, addictive as it is. I'll be bowing out gracefully. "
Oh please stay. Love your comments in the forums. Never nasty, they make me smile. |
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over a year ago
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"When responding to threads do you only interact with those who agree with you, who you find attractive or who you hope to meet?
I admit that there are one or two I won't interact with because we rub each other up the wrong way (and I'm sure the feelongs mutal)but apart from that I enjoy the general chat and banter."
I like to interact with everyone but their are a couple of people in threads who are not my cup of tea but I just avoid going in threads they are in |
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Good evening.
I have no set pattern of response.
I'd say i'm more sporadic than regular.
I respond to anyone.
I don't take offence at the offence takers.
I don't respond to those that haven't yet learned to put forward a point of _iew without making personal attacks.
I don't fancy anone.
There are a few people whose responses I enjoy and value. |
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"Good evening.
I have no set pattern of response.
I'd say i'm more sporadic than regular.
I respond to anyone.
I don't take offence at the offence takers.
I don't respond to those that haven't yet learned to put forward a point of _iew without making personal attacks.
I don't fancy anone.
There are a few people whose responses I enjoy and value. "
Good evening granny. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"When responding to threads do you only interact with those who agree with you, who you find attractive or who you hope to meet?
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If anything I'm more likely to post if I disagree with something. It matters not whether or not I find someone attractive, more whether I feel I have something to add.
My main problem is coming back to threads and finding them either full, or disappeared!
Mr ddc"
Blimey! Mrs DDC, did you enjoy getting fingered?
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Blimey! Mrs DDC, did you enjoy getting fingered?
The "pics giving the middle finger" thread was too good an opportunity to miss!
I'm still having trouble with my Pisa one..."
I really don't know how you two get away with taking your pictures. I'm off to see this middle finger thread now... |
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I really don't know how you two get away with taking your pictures. I'm off to see this middle finger thread now..."
The fountain in Bologna is in the main square, luckily it only took the one take  |
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over a year ago
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if i find i have something to say i will answer .....who evers thread it is ......but theres been one recently I stopped myself from posting in i just found it too funny ....in a omg god really kind of way |
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Saying that^^ When I posted this I looked at the comment above mine, Miss seductive kisser.. well I just had to go an have a peek this was solely based on her profile picture and how she is stood/bent over.. I were not disappointed with the rest of her pics either.. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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Pretty much the same approach to when I (he) drive. Don't let other drivers annoy you by totally avoiding eye contact, ie, avoid confrontation/disagreements and post accordingly. Accept they'll be those you don't have the time of day for so just ignore, make a note if you feel you need reminding later why they annoy you, lol, but all in all don't hold grudges as some you find annoying may just surprise you and you find you later like what they say on more than the odd occasion. Don't be offended by others who disagree either you might and will learn something, it's fun around here being like this and responding as such. |
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over a year ago
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"if i find i have something to say i will answer .....who evers thread it is ......but theres been one recently I stopped myself from posting in i just found it too funny ....in a omg god really kind of way "
I bet I know which thread you meant  |
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"if i find i have something to say i will answer .....who evers thread it is ......but theres been one recently I stopped myself from posting in i just found it too funny ....in a omg god really kind of way
I bet I know which thread you meant "
bet you dont |
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You see now nicecouple youve got me peeking at you now.. glad I did.. I like rope play myself. Me being the one with the rope that is.. Love the time and tease of tying a woman.. to be left afterwards with full control..  |
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I'm happy to listen and interact with pretty much everyone. I've come to blows with some people... and maybe they make their mind up about me from that... but I tend to forgive and forget where I can. I simply assume that I don't really know them as a person... only as an online forum persona... and that if we met we'd probably get on ok and realise we weren't really as bad as we thought we were... and that tends to help me move on... it also helps that I don't really take this forum all that seriously
When people are clearly pissed off with me I tend to steer clear until they show signs of chilling a bit. It is supposed to be fun after all |
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"if i find i have something to say i will answer .....who evers thread it is ......but theres been one recently I stopped myself from posting in i just found it too funny ....in a omg god really kind of way
I bet I know which thread you meant bet you dont "
Now I'm intrigued |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Wheres the like button .. I actually looked for it like I was on facebook duh. so this is a like to nevaqits comment "
It helps if you click on reply and quote if you're responding to a specific post.
Welcome to the forum.
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"I'm happy to listen and interact with pretty much everyone. I've come to blows with some people... and maybe they make their mind up about me from that... but I tend to forgive and forget where I can. I simply assume that I don't really know them as a person... only as an online forum persona... and that if we met we'd probably get on ok and realise we weren't really as bad as we thought we were... and that tends to help me move on... it also helps that I don't really take this forum all that seriously
When people are clearly pissed off with me I tend to steer clear until they show signs of chilling a bit. It is supposed to be fun after all "
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Im waiting patiently with my whip out |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"Wheres the like button .. I actually looked for it like I was on facebook duh. so this is a like to nevaqits comment "
Thank you
Irony is I (he) has no idea how to use Facebook and Mrs N takes the mick rotten. The thumb is aces around here, welcome also. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Wait a minute im not that stoned yet .. replying to a comment doesnt actually infact scientifically imply I like that comment .. "
You don't have to like a comment to reply to it. Read the forum rules too.
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"I'm happy to listen and interact with pretty much everyone. I've come to blows with some people... and maybe they make their mind up about me from that... but I tend to forgive and forget where I can. I simply assume that I don't really know them as a person... only as an online forum persona... and that if we met we'd probably get on ok and realise we weren't really as bad as we thought we were... and that tends to help me move on... it also helps that I don't really take this forum all that seriously
When people are clearly pissed off with me I tend to steer clear until they show signs of chilling a bit. It is supposed to be fun after all .
Im waiting patiently with my whip out "
And there was me thinking it was a forked devil's tail |
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"I'm happy to listen and interact with pretty much everyone. I've come to blows with some people... and maybe they make their mind up about me from that... but I tend to forgive and forget where I can. I simply assume that I don't really know them as a person... only as an online forum persona... and that if we met we'd probably get on ok and realise we weren't really as bad as we thought we were... and that tends to help me move on... it also helps that I don't really take this forum all that seriously
When people are clearly pissed off with me I tend to steer clear until they show signs of chilling a bit. It is supposed to be fun after all .
Im waiting patiently with my whip out
And there was me thinking it was a forked devil's tail "
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I like to keep them guessing until the very end |
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"Wheres the like button .. I actually looked for it like I was on facebook duh. so this is a like to nevaqits comment
Thank you
Irony is I (he) has no idea how to use Facebook and Mrs N takes the mick rotten. The thumb is aces around here, welcome also. "
Facebook is easier than this fella, not that this is complicated.. some nice adult secret groups on facebook too with just nice people ..a bit like its seems here but easier and with the added fact you can post pics and vids straight into the group.. tell the missus to help you learn lol.. |
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over a year ago
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"Wheres the like button .. I actually looked for it like I was on facebook duh. so this is a like to nevaqits comment
Thank you
Irony is I (he) has no idea how to use Facebook and Mrs N takes the mick rotten. The thumb is aces around here, welcome also.
Facebook is easier than this fella, not that this is complicated.. some nice adult secret groups on facebook too with just nice people ..a bit like its seems here but easier and with the added fact you can post pics and vids straight into the group.. tell the missus to help you learn lol.. "
Hmmm!!!!! Food for thought!! |
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"When responding to threads do you only interact with those who agree with you, who you find attractive or who you hope to meet?
I admit that there are one or two I won't interact with because we rub each other up the wrong way (and I'm sure the feelongs mutal)but apart from that I enjoy the general chat and banter."
I usually don't remember who posts what unless they have a particularly good arse pic for an avatar.
So I argue with everyone ^_^ |
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"When responding to threads do you only interact with those who agree with you, who you find attractive or who you hope to meet?
I admit that there are one or two I won't interact with because we rub each other up the wrong way (and I'm sure the feelongs mutal)but apart from that I enjoy the general chat and banter."
I comment if I agree/disagree/amused regardless. I don't look at who the commentator is.
There are threads I don't open, nocturnal roll call, good morning etc because I think they're pants regardless of who starts them. |
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"if i find i have something to say i will answer .....who evers thread it is ......but theres been one recently I stopped myself from posting in i just found it too funny ....in a omg god really kind of way
I bet I know which thread you meant bet you dont
Now I'm intrigued "
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