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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
My recently single brother has just joined here again... I've just verified him as being real and genuine and wrote a silly verification for him as his sister (although I didn't even read the profile this time round... there are some things I just don't need to know!!) I'm still scarred after finding him here last time!! 
I can't decide if that in itself is weird or not... 
Any thoughts? |
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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"Not really weird. You know he's genuine and doing him a favour. If you see his pics that'll be weird.  "
I'm not looking and he has his face as his profile pic... I've told him under no circumstances does he use his bits for that!
Which technically is totally hypocritical since I've got my tit in mine!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not really weird. You know he's genuine and doing him a favour. If you see his pics that'll be weird.
I'm not looking and he has his face as his profile pic... I've told him under no circumstances does he use his bits for that!
Which technically is totally hypocritical since I've got my tit in mine! "
I would tell my brother he should keep his under cover or he'll scare off all the ladies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not really weird. You know he's genuine and doing him a favour. If you see his pics that'll be weird.
I'm not looking and he has his face as his profile pic... I've told him under no circumstances does he use his bits for that!
Which technically is totally hypocritical since I've got my tit in mine! "
I always thought that was your back for some reason, with a little hat on your bum... i never looked up close at it.
God yeah imagine talking to your brothers cock, or probably best not to. |
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"Not really weird. You know he's genuine and doing him a favour. If you see his pics that'll be weird.
I'm not looking and he has his face as his profile pic... I've told him under no circumstances does he use his bits for that!
Which technically is totally hypocritical since I've got my tit in mine! "
Stupid phone! Or just the muppet using it!
Anyway I think it's weird
I bet you did have a little peak at his pictures  |
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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"That you vouched for him, I get that it's to say he is a real person but on face value it seems odd, people confirming family members on a sex/ swinging site. "
Should he not be allowed to have casual sex?
Single blokes are always complaining that they can't get verified. I've known him 42 years. He can be a twat like most siblings but he's a decent bloke so all above board, what's wrong with me saying he's genuine? |
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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"just don't book a meet with him, lol... Unless you're using each other as bait and hoping to find others of a like mind. Wow, I can't believe I thought that."
I can't believe you said it out loud?! |
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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"I think it's nice you've got that kind of relationship and can have a giggle about it.
Neither of you are doing anything wrong"
We did have a bit of a giggle about our parents... it was a fleeting discussion but we must have got our filth from somewhere! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Christ alive... do none of you boys talk to your sisters about girls?!
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No.
But I was kind of joking to make you feel uncomfortable. I'm nice like that. |
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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"Christ alive... do none of you boys talk to your sisters about girls?!
No.
But I was kind of joking to make you feel uncomfortable. I'm nice like that."
Twat!
If I'd said 'my recently single sister' I'm betting all you boys would be saying different!! |
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"That you vouched for him, I get that it's to say he is a real person but on face value it seems odd, people confirming family members on a sex/ swinging site.
Should he not be allowed to have casual sex?
Single blokes are always complaining that they can't get verified. I've known him 42 years. He can be a twat like most siblings but he's a decent bloke so all above board, what's wrong with me saying he's genuine? "
He can do what ever he likes. Its just my opinion, you asked the question so either you have reservations or want some kind reassurance. |
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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"That you vouched for him, I get that it's to say he is a real person but on face value it seems odd, people confirming family members on a sex/ swinging site.
Should he not be allowed to have casual sex?
Single blokes are always complaining that they can't get verified. I've known him 42 years. He can be a twat like most siblings but he's a decent bloke so all above board, what's wrong with me saying he's genuine?
He can do what ever he likes. Its just my opinion, you asked the question so either you have reservations or want some kind reassurance. "
Nope... no reservations or reassurance required. I generally don't give a toss what people think about me. I was just curious cause I generally verify no-one. I don't rely on verifications because I have a mind of my own. I just wondered what the thoughts would be on reading a verification from someone's sister. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm going with the weird too, but then I guess it's down to the kind of relationship you have and your upbringing. In my family our respective sex lives are private.
In relation to the veri, then you can only verify he is a real male person but you can't say that he will turn up for meets etc.
It's just too uncomfortable for me, I wouldn't do it. |
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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"I'm going with the weird too, but then I guess it's down to the kind of relationship you have and your upbringing. In my family our respective sex lives are private.
In relation to the veri, then you can only verify he is a real male person but you can't say that he will turn up for meets etc.
It's just too uncomfortable for me, I wouldn't do it."
Well we generally don't discuss the nitty gritty but we talk about our relationships etc. I guess we've been brought up in a fairly liberal household where it's not taboo to talk about sex or feelings. I consider that pretty normal so I don't really see any issue.
I'm entirely comfortable saying that he's genuine and decent, of course I can't guarantee that he'll turn up or be the best shag ever just as he couldn't say the same about me but I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
My curiosity lies in what you'd think if you read a funny verification on a single blokes profile from his sister that says he's a genuine bloke.
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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"I'd don't think liking sex is the only criteria for being open minded.  "
Ain't that the truth. However, one assumes (perhaps wrongly) that when people are liberal in the sex department they are automatically fairly liberal in most areas.
It couldn't actually be a bigger fuck up of an assumption! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Christ alive... do none of you boys talk to your sisters about girls?!
I've decided I think you're all weird! The girls totally get it and the boys are alike ewwwww! Muppets! "
If it was two sisters they would behave differently |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Christ alive... do none of you boys talk to your sisters about girls?!
I've decided I think you're all weird! The girls totally get it and the boys are alike ewwwww! Muppets!
If it was two sisters they would behave differently "
Hmm should have read the whole thread  great minds and all that  |
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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"Weird that you found him initially. Not weird you verified that he's not a scammer or fake. Again, so long as you haven't commented on his abilities but more on his characteristics in person."
I didn't find him. He text me this morning to tell me.
He previously appeared in a 'people who might interest you' feed on a different site and I was like WTF?!
Better to know than happen upon him by accident second time round. There are some things you can't unsee!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aww, bless!
Big sis 
Little sis!
Even creepier!
Shut it you... don't you be pulling him!! "
Lol lol come on dirty tell us the profile name lol we can all send him a flirty inappropriate mail lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Weird that you found him initially. Not weird you verified that he's not a scammer or fake. Again, so long as you haven't commented on his abilities but more on his characteristics in person.
I didn't find him. He text me this morning to tell me.
He previously appeared in a 'people who might interest you' feed on a different site and I was like WTF?!
Better to know than happen upon him by accident second time round. There are some things you can't unsee!! "
So did you recommend him fab after he saw you on that site? |
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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"Weird that you found him initially. Not weird you verified that he's not a scammer or fake. Again, so long as you haven't commented on his abilities but more on his characteristics in person.
I didn't find him. He text me this morning to tell me.
He previously appeared in a 'people who might interest you' feed on a different site and I was like WTF?!
Better to know than happen upon him by accident second time round. There are some things you can't unsee!!
So did you recommend him fab after he saw you on that site?"
No... in the interests of keeping our relationship above the line of decency he owned up to being here before I saw him naked by mistake!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Weird that you found him initially. Not weird you verified that he's not a scammer or fake. Again, so long as you haven't commented on his abilities but more on his characteristics in person.
I didn't find him. He text me this morning to tell me.
He previously appeared in a 'people who might interest you' feed on a different site and I was like WTF?!
Better to know than happen upon him by accident second time round. There are some things you can't unsee!!
So did you recommend him fab after he saw you on that site?
No... in the interests of keeping our relationship above the line of decency he owned up to being here before I saw him naked by mistake!! "
I see lol and yes that was a lucky escape, will you block him so he wont see more if you upload pics, lucky you didn't see the pecker |
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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
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I see lol and yes that was a lucky escape, will you block him so he wont see more if you upload pics, lucky you didn't see the pecker "
Doesn't he lose the verification if I block him?
We discussed it like grown ups (read I told him never to use his cock as an avatar!!) and there are no naked pics to be on show. No reason why we can't co-exist here without it being awkward. My pics are always just for friends only anyway... it stops a whole load of shite one liners. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see lol and yes that was a lucky escape, will you block him so he wont see more if you upload pics, lucky you didn't see the pecker
Doesn't he lose the verification if I block him?
We discussed it like grown ups (read I told him never to use his cock as an avatar!!) and there are no naked pics to be on show. No reason why we can't co-exist here without it being awkward. My pics are always just for friends only anyway... it stops a whole load of shite one liners. "
Keeps the green tick..but cant display the verie |
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He may get some stranger offers if people can see it on his profile.
Also we only have your say so that he's your brother.
We don't overly rely on verifications.
3 or 4 generally tend to mean they are a real couple and not just mates or strangers verifying each other to boost their chances.
But if he thinks it will help go for it.
Interesting to see that he's into golden showers.
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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
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I see lol and yes that was a lucky escape, will you block him so he wont see more if you upload pics, lucky you didn't see the pecker
Doesn't he lose the verification if I block him?
We discussed it like grown ups (read I told him never to use his cock as an avatar!!) and there are no naked pics to be on show. No reason why we can't co-exist here without it being awkward. My pics are always just for friends only anyway... it stops a whole load of shite one liners.
Keeps the green tick..but cant display the verie "
Perfect... he can block me then! I like my block list being empty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see lol and yes that was a lucky escape, will you block him so he wont see more if you upload pics, lucky you didn't see the pecker
Doesn't he lose the verification if I block him?
We discussed it like grown ups (read I told him never to use his cock as an avatar!!) and there are no naked pics to be on show. No reason why we can't co-exist here without it being awkward. My pics are always just for friends only anyway... it stops a whole load of shite one liners.
Keeps the green tick..but cant display the verie
Perfect... he can block me then! I like my block list being empty. "
Problem solved |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see lol and yes that was a lucky escape, will you block him so he wont see more if you upload pics, lucky you didn't see the pecker
Doesn't he lose the verification if I block him?
We discussed it like grown ups (read I told him never to use his cock as an avatar!!) and there are no naked pics to be on show. No reason why we can't co-exist here without it being awkward. My pics are always just for friends only anyway... it stops a whole load of shite one liners.
Keeps the green tick..but cant display the verie
Perfect... he can block me then! I like my block list being empty. "
That's right lol, the summary goes, but still sais met 1 girl. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm going with the weird too, but then I guess it's down to the kind of relationship you have and your upbringing. In my family our respective sex lives are private.
In relation to the veri, then you can only verify he is a real male person but you can't say that he will turn up for meets etc.
It's just too uncomfortable for me, I wouldn't do it.
Well we generally don't discuss the nitty gritty but we talk about our relationships etc. I guess we've been brought up in a fairly liberal household where it's not taboo to talk about sex or feelings. I consider that pretty normal so I don't really see any issue.
I'm entirely comfortable saying that he's genuine and decent, of course I can't guarantee that he'll turn up or be the best shag ever just as he couldn't say the same about me but I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
My curiosity lies in what you'd think if you read a funny verification on a single blokes profile from his sister that says he's a genuine bloke.
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Did you say that you're his sister? If it was me I would have verified him as though he was a mate. Then no-one is any wiser or feels weird. Veri's don't prove that someone will show up, or prove anything really. Some rely on the green tick so at least he has that. |
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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
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Did you say that you're his sister? If it was me I would have verified him as though he was a mate. Then no-one is any wiser or feels weird. Veri's don't prove that someone will show up, or prove anything really. Some rely on the green tick so at least he has that. "
Yup... that's what I was aiming for. I'm no good at not being honest... I know what you're saying about the mate thing but that would feel somewhat dishonest. The green tick is sufficient for his purposes. He doesn't need to show the verification saying that he's genuine and I've known him 42 years. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"My recently single brother has just joined here again... I've just verified him as being real and genuine and wrote a silly verification for him as his sister (although I didn't even read the profile this time round... there are some things I just don't need to know!!) I'm still scarred after finding him here last time!!
I can't decide if that in itself is weird or not...
Any thoughts? "
I'm in, the it's a bit weird camp..
If I/we were searching and read a verification from a family member (be that brother, sister, mum, dad, daughter and so on) on any profile it would put us off.
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"My recently single brother has just joined here again... I've just verified him as being real and genuine and wrote a silly verification for him as his sister (although I didn't even read the profile this time round... there are some things I just don't need to know!!) I'm still scarred after finding him here last time!!
I can't decide if that in itself is weird or not...
Any thoughts? "
sorry yes its very weird |
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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"It's a bit like when a mother verifies her daughter or vice versa a bit weird for me but if works for you and you're family who cares what people think "
Yeah in my usual double standards I find that thought a bit icky. |
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over a year ago
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"It's a bit like when a mother verifies her daughter or vice versa a bit weird for me but if works for you and you're family who cares what people think
Yeah in my usual double standards I find that thought a bit icky. "
it's our right as women to have double standards 
I'm not sure if I think it's icky or not ....
I would definitely not want to see any naked pictures or veri's or any of that because that's gross |
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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"It's a bit like when a mother verifies her daughter or vice versa a bit weird for me but if works for you and you're family who cares what people think
Yeah in my usual double standards I find that thought a bit icky.
it's our right as women to have double standards
I'm not sure if I think it's icky or not ....
I would definitely not want to see any naked pictures or veri's or any of that because that's gross "
Yeah no desire to see/read any of that stuff!
However, this has been a really interesting discussion for me. I have always assumed that siblings would all talk about that shit cause we do and I only have my relationship with my brother to go on. It wouldn't occur to me not to talk to him about my relationships.
I am actually wondering whether it really would be different if my sibling was a girl. I'm betting no-one would think it weird for two sisters to discuss sex stuff. Like I said, we don't discuss the nitty gritty but if I'm seeing someone I'd tell him about it. I don't think that's weird at all. |
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"It's a bit like when a mother verifies her daughter or vice versa a bit weird for me but if works for you and you're family who cares what people think
Yeah in my usual double standards I find that thought a bit icky.
it's our right as women to have double standards
I'm not sure if I think it's icky or not ....
I would definitely not want to see any naked pictures or veri's or any of that because that's gross
Yeah no desire to see/read any of that stuff!
However, this has been a really interesting discussion for me. I have always assumed that siblings would all talk about that shit cause we do and I only have my relationship with my brother to go on. It wouldn't occur to me not to talk to him about my relationships.
I am actually wondering whether it really would be different if my sibling was a girl. I'm betting no-one would think it weird for two sisters to discuss sex stuff. Like I said, we don't discuss the nitty gritty but if I'm seeing someone I'd tell him about it. I don't think that's weird at all."
i think you're right if it was two brothers or sisters less people would of found it weird although some still would |
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"Aww, bless!
Big sis
Little sis!
Even creepier!
Shut it you... don't you be pulling him!!
Oh please do.
Okay let me rephrase... please do not tell me about it ever!!! "
LMAO
Your wish is my command! |
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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"I could never tell my sister I'm on here, she just wouldn't understand. We don't really talk about our sex lives at all "
I just asked my roomie at work if he talks to his siblings about sex stuff and he said he does, both to his sisters and his brother.
Funny how people are unable to talk to their families about this stuff. I thought I was probably the norm but actually I'm thinking that's not the case at all. I might do a survey! |
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over a year ago
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"My recently single brother has just joined here again... I've just verified him as being real and genuine and wrote a silly verification for him as his sister (although I didn't even read the profile this time round... there are some things I just don't need to know!!) I'm still scarred after finding him here last time!!
I can't decide if that in itself is weird or not...
Any thoughts? "
It is a tad unusual let's be honest, have you seen his naked pics?
Surely a verification from his sister won't do him any favours???
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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"My recently single brother has just joined here again... I've just verified him as being real and genuine and wrote a silly verification for him as his sister (although I didn't even read the profile this time round... there are some things I just don't need to know!!) I'm still scarred after finding him here last time!!
I can't decide if that in itself is weird or not...
Any thoughts?
It is a tad unusual let's be honest, have you seen his naked pics?
Surely a verification from his sister won't do him any favours???
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You didn't read the whole thread then?
No... I've not seen him naked.
No... he has a green tick that shows he's real, nothing more. There's no need for him to show the nonsense I wrote.
Would you think different if it was my sister? |
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over a year ago
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"I could never tell my sister I'm on here, she just wouldn't understand. We don't really talk about our sex lives at all
I just asked my roomie at work if he talks to his siblings about sex stuff and he said he does, both to his sisters and his brother.
Funny how people are unable to talk to their families about this stuff. I thought I was probably the norm but actually I'm thinking that's not the case at all. I might do a survey! "
I don't talk to anyone about sex stuff. Not friends, not family. Only to people I get jiggy with. |
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By *elloWoman
over a year ago
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I don't think it's weird, I would do the same for my brother
I would hate to be at the same club together so would have to work out a club rota .
If I was reading a guys veries and saw a non sexual one from a relative I would probably find that reassuring that his less likely to be married and playing away and that he has a great relationship with his family. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My recently single brother has just joined here again... I've just verified him as being real and genuine and wrote a silly verification for him as his sister (although I didn't even read the profile this time round... there are some things I just don't need to know!!) I'm still scarred after finding him here last time!!
I can't decide if that in itself is weird or not...
Any thoughts?
It is a tad unusual let's be honest, have you seen his naked pics?
Surely a verification from his sister won't do him any favours???
You didn't read the whole thread then?
No... I've not seen him naked.
No... he has a green tick that shows he's real, nothing more. There's no need for him to show the nonsense I wrote.
Would you think different if it was my sister? "
Sorry I hold my hands up I didn't read the whole thread
It's just a green tick so it's not a big deal is it. Could be weird if he posts on the forum on the get your cock out thread! Lol |
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I sometimes wonder whether to recommend fab to my little sister. She seems very open minded and I think she'd love it! I also think she'd enjoy clubs but don't think I could take her to one myself.
I think if I found out my brother was on here I would ask him if he wanted the veri, as I know it's hard for single guys but I would ask that he doesn't display it and I would literally just put "this guy is real" to ensure he doesn't |
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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"I don't think it's weird, I would do the same for my brother
I would hate to be at the same club together so would have to work out a club rota .
If I was reading a guys veries and saw a non sexual one from a relative I would probably find that reassuring that his less likely to be married and playing away and that he has a great relationship with his family. "
That's pretty much the response I'd have given if someone else had posted this thread.  |
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"I could never tell my sister I'm on here, she just wouldn't understand. We don't really talk about our sex lives at all
I just asked my roomie at work if he talks to his siblings about sex stuff and he said he does, both to his sisters and his brother.
Funny how people are unable to talk to their families about this stuff. I thought I was probably the norm but actually I'm thinking that's not the case at all. I might do a survey! "
My siblings and I have never been close, especially as kids. So it's hard to try to fix it as adults |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"My recently single brother has just joined here again... I've just verified him as being real and genuine and wrote a silly verification for him as his sister (although I didn't even read the profile this time round... there are some things I just don't need to know!!) I'm still scarred after finding him here last time!!
I can't decide if that in itself is weird or not...
Any thoughts? "
It's relatively unusual but not that weird. Unless your veri points out that you met through a mutual vagina.
I am so sorry, but it was the first thing that popped into my head. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't see how you can verify a family member
Surely the point of a verification is to say yes I have met this person, there turned up as arranged, they are genuine etc etc
If you haven't met somebody from a swinging point of view how can you verify them as genuine
Being somebody's sister and knowing them all their life does not make somebody a genuine swinger
Just my view on the subject |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't see how you can verify a family member
Surely the point of a verification is to say yes I have met this person, there turned up as arranged, they are genuine etc etc
If you haven't met somebody from a swinging point of view how can you verify them as genuine
Being somebody's sister and knowing them all their life does not make somebody a genuine swinger
Just my view on the subject "
Some get verified through coffee meets,does drinking coffee make someone a swinger? |
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"I don't see how you can verify a family member
Surely the point of a verification is to say yes I have met this person, there turned up as arranged, they are genuine etc etc
If you haven't met somebody from a swinging point of view how can you verify them as genuine
Being somebody's sister and knowing them all their life does not make somebody a genuine swinger
Just my view on the subject
Some get verified through coffee meets,does drinking coffee make someone a swinger?"
Meeting somebody through the site, arranging for a coffee, them turning up for said coffee makes them genuine as that's what was agreed on and that's what happened |
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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I don't see how you can verify a family member
Surely the point of a verification is to say yes I have met this person, there turned up as arranged, they are genuine etc etc
If you haven't met somebody from a swinging point of view how can you verify them as genuine
Being somebody's sister and knowing them all their life does not make somebody a genuine swinger
Just my view on the subject "
I've verified him as a real person, he's a decent genuine bloke. I have no knowledge of his potential as a swinger. He turns up at Christmas and birthdays and definitely doesn't drink coffee. |
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My upbringing was different to Dirty Girls in that we didn't talk about sex as a family. I wasn't allowed to walk around with just a nightie on and had to keep covered. I'm not comfortable with nudity either. So from our different prospective we will find each others experiences weird.
I am quite open with my boys about sex, in that they've asked me things and I've answered them. they wouldn't dream of me seeing them undressed or vice versa. Our talks are very general though and not specific.
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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I haven't read through all the comments on the thread so I'll ask away: how will he feel reading this thread?
Now I'll turn on full Fab mode and ask if he's as gorgeous as you and can you introduce me to him?  |
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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago
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"My upbringing was different to Dirty Girls in that we didn't talk about sex as a family. I wasn't allowed to walk around with just a nightie on and had to keep covered. I'm not comfortable with nudity either. So from our different prospective we will find each others experiences weird.
I am quite open with my boys about sex, in that they've asked me things and I've answered them. they wouldn't dream of me seeing them undressed or vice versa. Our talks are very general though and not specific.
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Yeah I do think you have to do what's comfortable for you. There was nudity in our house, not to a particularly graphic extent but my parents always sleep naked, as do I now. I can't speak for my brother on this but I'd guess he does too. We didn't when we were wee but I have since I was a teenager.
Our back garden is shaped so that its hidden from our neighbours so Mum could sunbathe topless at home as she did on holiday. (No prizes for guessing why she and I have skin cancer now!!) so nudity was never really a big deal in our house.
I wouldn't say we openly discuss sex but I've certainly talked to my Mum and my brother about that kind of thing. Not in great detail, i.e. she isn't aware of my sexuality or indeed that either of us use this site but she's well aware that I'm sexually active. I'm 42, it's not hard to come to that conclusion. My Dad has a lucky escape from that sort of chat but I talk to him about how to fix stuff.
I think I'm very lucky in the balanced upbringing I've had and my parents are still very much in love after 51 years of marriage. I would hate for it to be any different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't see how you can verify a family member
Surely the point of a verification is to say yes I have met this person, there turned up as arranged, they are genuine etc etc
If you haven't met somebody from a swinging point of view how can you verify them as genuine
Being somebody's sister and knowing them all their life does not make somebody a genuine swinger
Just my view on the subject
Some get verified through coffee meets,does drinking coffee make someone a swinger?
Meeting somebody through the site, arranging for a coffee, them turning up for said coffee makes them genuine as that's what was agreed on and that's what happened "
the verification much as I hate them isn't about being a swinger its about being a genuine person that may appeal to hopefully the next genuine person a relative surely knows they are genuine and as odd to me as this is brother and sister being on a sex site at some point to are going to see your brother's erect cock ,the verification part no problem with |
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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I haven't read through all the comments on the thread so I'll ask away: how will he feel reading this thread?
Now I'll turn on full Fab mode and ask if he's as gorgeous as you and can you introduce me to him? "
He's read/reading it.
I spoke to him this morning and said I'd see what everyone thought.
And I'm so not answering the second question... he's my big brother woman!! |
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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago
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the verification much as I hate them isn't about being a swinger its about being a genuine person that may appeal to hopefully the next genuine person a relative surely knows they are genuine and as odd to me as this is brother and sister being on a sex site at some point to are going to see your brother's erect cock ,the verification part no problem with "
Why would I look?!
He has no need to post explicit photos publicly just as I don't. I'm not on his friends list. We've established that he can block me, keep his little green tick and we can both be on our merry way. |
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Its not weird...
By chance I found out my sis and hubby are on Fab and have been for years...
We had a right giggle about it....
I had to change my profile to shake of a fab lunatic...
They veried me, but couldnt show the veri as they thought they were hilarious with what they sent
But we go our own ways on Fab...
So not weird at all |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"I haven't read through all the comments on the thread so I'll ask away: how will he feel reading this thread?
Now I'll turn on full Fab mode and ask if he's as gorgeous as you and can you introduce me to him?
He's read/reading it.
I spoke to him this morning and said I'd see what everyone thought.
And I'm so not answering the second question... he's my big brother woman!! "
You don't have to come along too. I'm straight.
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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I haven't read through all the comments on the thread so I'll ask away: how will he feel reading this thread?
Now I'll turn on full Fab mode and ask if he's as gorgeous as you and can you introduce me to him?
He's read/reading it.
I spoke to him this morning and said I'd see what everyone thought.
And I'm so not answering the second question... he's my big brother woman!!
You don't have to come along too. I'm straight.
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I'm fairly certain he's just experienced the same shudder!! |
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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"Its not weird...
By chance I found out my sis and hubby are on Fab and have been for years...
We had a right giggle about it....
I had to change my profile to shake of a fab lunatic...
They veried me, but couldnt show the veri as they thought they were hilarious with what they sent
But we go our own ways on Fab...
So not weird at all "
Hurrah!! |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I haven't read through all the comments on the thread so I'll ask away: how will he feel reading this thread?
Now I'll turn on full Fab mode and ask if he's as gorgeous as you and can you introduce me to him?
He's read/reading it.
I spoke to him this morning and said I'd see what everyone thought.
And I'm so not answering the second question... he's my big brother woman!!
You don't have to come along too. I'm straight.
I'm fairly certain he's just experienced the same shudder!! "
That makes me sound like I'm the fugly munter that people refer to on here.
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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I haven't read through all the comments on the thread so I'll ask away: how will he feel reading this thread?
Now I'll turn on full Fab mode and ask if he's as gorgeous as you and can you introduce me to him?
He's read/reading it.
I spoke to him this morning and said I'd see what everyone thought.
And I'm so not answering the second question... he's my big brother woman!!
You don't have to come along too. I'm straight.
I'm fairly certain he's just experienced the same shudder!!
That makes me sound like I'm the fugly munter that people refer to on here.
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Haha!!! That's not what I meant and fine you know it cheeky lady!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its not weird...
By chance I found out my sis and hubby are on Fab and have been for years...
We had a right giggle about it....
I had to change my profile to shake of a fab lunatic...
They veried me, but couldnt show the veri as they thought they were hilarious with what they sent
But we go our own ways on Fab...
So not weird at all
Hurrah!! "
I even went to a social/party with them..
But we agreed no playing at it as that was just to weird lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its not weird...
By chance I found out my sis and hubby are on Fab and have been for years...
We had a right giggle about it....
I had to change my profile to shake of a fab lunatic...
They veried me, but couldnt show the veri as they thought they were hilarious with what they sent
But we go our own ways on Fab...
So not weird at all
Hurrah!!
I even went to a social/party with them..
But we agreed no playing at it as that was just to weird lol "
Oh shit is this weird....
We actually talk about Fab and what we,re getting up to as if its normal chi chat |
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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Its not weird...
By chance I found out my sis and hubby are on Fab and have been for years...
We had a right giggle about it....
I had to change my profile to shake of a fab lunatic...
They veried me, but couldnt show the veri as they thought they were hilarious with what they sent
But we go our own ways on Fab...
So not weird at all
Hurrah!!
I even went to a social/party with them..
But we agreed no playing at it as that was just to weird lol "
Yeah... there's definitely a line.
I know a brother and sister from days of old and I don't think it was ever weird for them. They were always at the same social functions. I figure we're all grown ups, there's no reason we both can't use the same site. I'd imagine our taste in women is quite different so the crossover there is highly unlikely.
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By (user no longer on site)
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If you thought verifying your bro on a recreational sex site is part of every day family life why ask if apparent strangers might think it weird or unusual?
Personally I have no view save that the verification system is not for family reunions? |
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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago
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"If you thought verifying your bro on a recreational sex site is part of every day family life why ask if apparent strangers might think it weird or unusual?
Personally I have no view save that the verification system is not for family reunions?"
Cause I'm nosy and it's created some good points. Thanks for asking though. |
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"If you thought verifying your bro on a recreational sex site is part of every day family life why ask if apparent strangers might think it weird or unusual?
Personally I have no view save that the verification system is not for family reunions?
Cause I'm nosy and it's created some good points. Thanks for asking though. "
of course silly me! |
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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago
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"If you thought verifying your bro on a recreational sex site is part of every day family life why ask if apparent strangers might think it weird or unusual?
Personally I have no view save that the verification system is not for family reunions?
Cause I'm nosy and it's created some good points. Thanks for asking though.
of course silly me!"
Not a problem at all... thanks for your input. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its not weird...
By chance I found out my sis and hubby are on Fab and have been for years...
We had a right giggle about it....
I had to change my profile to shake of a fab lunatic...
They veried me, but couldnt show the veri as they thought they were hilarious with what they sent
But we go our own ways on Fab...
So not weird at all
Hurrah!!
I even went to a social/party with them..
But we agreed no playing at it as that was just to weird lol
Yeah... there's definitely a line.
I know a brother and sister from days of old and I don't think it was ever weird for them. They were always at the same social functions. I figure we're all grown ups, there's no reason we both can't use the same site. I'd imagine our taste in women is quite different so the crossover there is highly unlikely.
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My sis and bro in law went into an over protective mode as im a single woman..
It was we want to know who your meeting
When your going
Where your going
What time your going home
A msg at your meet to know your safe
It was/is really endearing
Bless them |
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"I don't think it's weird, I would do the same for my brother
I would hate to be at the same club together so would have to work out a club rota .
If I was reading a guys veries and saw a non sexual one from a relative I would probably find that reassuring that his less likely to be married and playing away and that he has a great relationship with his family. "
I was going to write something similar. I wouldn't want to see any goings on or pics of bits but I wouldn't have a problem knowing he was here (if he was single!) and would happily write a veri for the purpose of him being a real genuine bloke |
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