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The least attractive trait in a person?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hi all,

What do y'all think is the least attractive trait in a person?

For me it's arrogance/someone thinking they're above others.

This could be interesting...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If they're a bigot.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi all,

What do y'all think is the least attractive trait in a person?

For me it's arrogance/someone thinking they're above others.

Same ad me m8 but hate people who have a nasty attitude towards there life and people who stick there nose up you as if we have a hierarchy in everyday life

This could be interesting... "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Jealousy,very very ugly.

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By *eliciousladyWoman over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

A know-it-all bore

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

Bigot/racist/jealous/liar/unkind/rude

They're all poor personality traits. I couldn't limit it to just one and there are surely more than the ones mentioned.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Bigot/racist/jealous/liar/unkind/rude

They're all poor personality traits. I couldn't limit it to just one and there are surely more than the ones mentioned.

Agree with all of those. I struggled to narrow it to one! Bigot and ignorance is a particular one for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Being a bigot or being very/unreasonably insecure.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd say ignorance as it covers a lot of different things including , racism, rudeness, & bad manners

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Agree ^^^^

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't find traits unattractive, I find how people go about displaying them unattractive

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi all,

What do y'all think is the least attractive trait in a person?

For me it's arrogance/someone thinking they're above others.

This could be interesting... "
being sexually active

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'd say ignorance as it covers a lot of different things including , racism, rudeness, & bad manners"

Very good point! Hate rudeness. Especially when it's totally uncalled for and comes from a self-righteous perspective.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

^^^^^ this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A know-it-all bore

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do you know any then love your pics great figure can I come out for a visit ? Wherever you are

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Judgemental. Because most will raise traits that are unattractive, yet conveniently forget,that they as human beings may well have or will have, displayed such traits on various levels in their lifetimes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd say ignorance as it covers a lot of different things including , racism, rudeness, & bad manners"

People can t help being ignorant,ignorance is a lack of knowledge,so in that respect we are all ignorant.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Liars. I hate liars

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

Cheats, liars and arrogance!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definitely arrogance for me x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi all,

What do y'all think is the least attractive trait in a person?

For me it's arrogance/someone thinking they're above others.

This could be interesting... "
sb avarice

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

Fugliness

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'd say ignorance as it covers a lot of different things including , racism, rudeness, & bad manners

People can t help being ignorant,ignorance is a lack of knowledge,so in that respect we are all ignorant."

I disagree. There's a difference in being ignorant, being confident in your opinion even though you lack knowledge and then knowing your knowledge is limited and being willing to listen to others and take in what they know.

For me it's about accepting that others know more than myself about most things. Just as I'll know more about some things. Sharing and accepting can only be positive.

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Fugliness"

What can I say?

I'm incredibly shallow...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Fugliness

What can I say?

I'm incredibly shallow...

Haha. Honesty is a positive!!

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

that everything has to be a power struggle and people lying to themselves

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By *eordie JoJoTV/TS over a year ago

Newcastle

Liars ...... Can't stand them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Negativity.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ignorance, Arrogance and Liars

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Negativity. "

This

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By *unky monkeyMan over a year ago

in the night garden

Wearing silly hats.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Negativity. "
yes and women that constantly say no when I ask for a date

can I have a date ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Arrogance. Plain and simple. All the other ones mentioned are wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Arrogance. Plain and simple. All the other ones mentioned are wrong.

Yep, arrogance. No need for it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

the art of not being able to hold a conversation

I've met a few guys where talking has been really hard, they just reply in one word answers and I've felt like I'm doing all the work to keep the conversation going

I find it very off putting

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Many traits are unattractive, but I think I will go with negative people, the ones that are just born miserable and think the world owes them a living.

I try not to associate with those kind of people but when I have its tiring and draining

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Wearing silly hats."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"the art of not being able to hold a conversation

I've met a few guys where talking has been really hard, they just reply in one word answers and I've felt like I'm doing all the work to keep the conversation going

I find it very off putting

True.

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By *usterMan over a year ago

worthing

Thinking they have genitals that the world will adore....Unless they have genitals the world would adore.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So far up their own arses they could f**k themselves!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't find traits unattractive, I find how people go about displaying them unattractive"

Good answer

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Callousness

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

cahoots

"Jealousy,very very ugly."

Agreed

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By *icentiousCouple over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Inwardly focused.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Self pity..

Superciliousness..

Manipulative..

Apathetic...

Smallmindedness...

To add a few

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I have to agree with the negitive people

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By *ady4ladyWoman over a year ago

liverpool

Wow. Im surprised anyone normal ever gets a shag on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ladies who think they are gods gift to men because they are the minority, especially when they treat people like shit because they think they can

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Being a bigot or being very/unreasonably insecure."

People can't help being insecure.

Whether you think it's unreasonable is irrelevant.

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By *phroditeWoman over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Selfish/ self centered and dishonest people are not atractive to me.

Comfortable with most character traits as I accept nobody is perfect, including me.

Conversely I love openess, even if it means a healthy debate resulting in aggreeing to disagree!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Negativity.

This"

Oh yeah that too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Boasting about their sexual conquests.

Looking down their nose at people.

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By *entaur_UKMan over a year ago

Cannock

Isn't there a fine line between arrogance and confidence? Women like confident men.

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By *entaur_UKMan over a year ago

Cannock

Miserable whingers who seem to go out of their way to take offence in anything and everything. Life's too short, lighten up and have a laugh.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"the art of not being able to hold a conversation

I've met a few guys where talking has been really hard, they just reply in one word answers and I've felt like I'm doing all the work to keep the conversation going

I find it very off putting

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that's how most women reply to our messages ,that is a common thing and I too do not appreciate it x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

People with low levels of empathy or respect for others. Many other traits can stem from these deficits that are also unpleasant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"the art of not being able to hold a conversation

I've met a few guys where talking has been really hard, they just reply in one word answers and I've felt like I'm doing all the work to keep the conversation going

I find it very off putting

I have actually found the same on here with guys and gals! Like some are cave people and grunt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ladies who think they are gods gift to men because they are the minority, especially when they treat people like shit because they think they can"

Agree with this.

The power dynamic is whole other topic!

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By *ady4ladyWoman over a year ago

liverpool

I see the irony in some of the comments here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Arrogance, pomposity and a sense of entitlement.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Those that lie and don't have the brains to remember their lies

I find racism hard to deal with too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Unnecessary greed, spitefulness and selfishness......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wow. Im surprised anyone normal ever gets a shag on here

I've said that from day one lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ignorance, Arrogance and Liars"

Now you've just covered most of the male population unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Short arms and long pockets

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ignorance, Arrogance and Liars

Now you've just covered most of the male population unfortunately "

Wow. That's a sweeping statement! There's some irony here somewhere.

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Short arms and long pockets"

Oh yeah... that's seriously unattractive!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Probably mine! I've got the dark triad personality, I can tolerate just about anyone. The only personality traits that annoy me a little bit are lick arses, cringey flirters and women that put other women down to curry favour with men.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think Wayne Rooney is the least attractive trait in a person

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Dishonesty and unkindness.

Kindness makes up for a multitude of failings.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Poor personal hygiene

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Those who enjoy belittling people....hate them...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi all,

What do y'all think is the least attractive trait in a person?

For me it's arrogance/someone thinking they're above others.

This could be interesting... "

Arrogance.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

On here the least attractive trait is when people insult others trying to make themselves look better or trying to win favour with a certain group.

In real life, intolerance.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Aggressiveness

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Aggressiveness "

Oh, and being ginger

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By *ony HardcockMan over a year ago

Shepperton

All of the above ^^^

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Munchausen syndrome.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sycophancy and maliciousness

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

Bitterness

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

Lack of personal accountability

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By *irceWoman over a year ago

Gloucester

"Hi all,

What do y'all think is the least attractive trait in a person?

For me it's arrogance/someone thinking they're above others.

This could be interesting... "

Money money money.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Talking with a mouthful of food

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By *phroditeWoman over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Talking with a mouthful of food "

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By *L RogueMan over a year ago

London

"Definitely arrogance for me x"

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By *L RogueMan over a year ago

London

Oh, and a lack of compassion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A liar.....as it shows no respect to anyone .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Those who enjoy belittling people....hate them..."

Thats a trait inherent with people with low levels of self worth...the need to pull everyone down to elevate their own relative standing.

A couple more...

People who try and turn everything into a competition, as long as they are winning.

People who cannot take criticism with good grace.

People who blatantly dont give a fuck about anyone elses feelings, or treat them as less than human (Fab equivalent as pieces of meat for their pleasure)

People with double standards..

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Those who enjoy belittling people....hate them...

Thats a trait inherent with people with low levels of self worth...the need to pull everyone down to elevate their own relative standing.

A couple more...

People who try and turn everything into a competition, as long as they are winning.

People who cannot take criticism with good grace.

People who blatantly dont give a fuck about anyone elses feelings, or treat them as less than human (Fab equivalent as pieces of meat for their pleasure)

People with double standards.."

All of those... except the double standards thing... I have them on all sorts of things!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People condescending to you. Calling yourself something you clearly are not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Paranoia, makes conversations difficult

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Jealousy and vanity

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People condescending to you. Calling yourself something you clearly are not."

It's Fab - of course they're going to tell you exactly what they think you want to hear....

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By *opinovMan over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Ileum.... yuk!

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

not sure if it counts as a trait but keyboard warriors on here and facebook annoy me

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By *opinovMan over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

"Ileum.... yuk!"

Ooops sorry, I thought you said tract - crap bloody screen on this thing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I can only have one, narcissism

If more than one, add selfishness and attention seeking to the list

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By *aeriequeenWoman over a year ago

Manchester

Would have to be arrogance as the most annoying..judgemental people too as I'd have thought people were a touch more openminded on here

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

Tosspottery. It encompasses a unique combination of personality traits I may or may not find unattractive. I know it when I see it.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"If I can only have one, narcissism

If more than one, add selfishness and attention seeking to the list "

They both go with narcissism!!

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Tosspottery. It encompasses a unique combination of personality traits I may or may not find unattractive. I know it when I see it."

Haha - it's a bit like Fuckwittery isn't it!

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By *aeriequeenWoman over a year ago

Manchester

"Tosspottery. It encompasses a unique combination of personality traits I may or may not find unattractive. I know it when I see it.

Haha - it's a bit like Fuckwittery isn't it!"

Yes both of those terms cover it!

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

"Tosspottery. It encompasses a unique combination of personality traits I may or may not find unattractive. I know it when I see it.

Haha - it's a bit like Fuckwittery isn't it!"

It is a bit. I always thought the difference between them is that fuckwittery is something someone can't help but tosspottery is a choice.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Hi all,

What do y'all think is the least attractive trait in a person?

For me it's arrogance/someone thinking they're above others.

This could be interesting... "

People with pointy fingers and no insight.

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By *lack Shoe Red SoulCouple over a year ago

North Hampshire

"I'd say ignorance as it covers a lot of different things including , racism, rudeness, & bad manners"

I've seen some people who are regular in a club be so rude/arrogant to an old guy, just because he didn't move out of the way quick enough for her!!

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Tosspottery. It encompasses a unique combination of personality traits I may or may not find unattractive. I know it when I see it.

Haha - it's a bit like Fuckwittery isn't it!

It is a bit. I always thought the difference between them is that fuckwittery is something someone can't help but tosspottery is a choice."

Haha, yes, Involuntary Fuckwittery and Conscious Tosspottery!

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

"Tosspottery. It encompasses a unique combination of personality traits I may or may not find unattractive. I know it when I see it.

Haha - it's a bit like Fuckwittery isn't it!

It is a bit. I always thought the difference between them is that fuckwittery is something someone can't help but tosspottery is a choice.

Haha, yes, Involuntary Fuckwittery and Conscious Tosspottery!"

They sound like a range of overpriced paints. I may have a think now to expand the range (they're all pretty much magnolia in my head).

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Tosspottery. It encompasses a unique combination of personality traits I may or may not find unattractive. I know it when I see it.

Haha - it's a bit like Fuckwittery isn't it!

It is a bit. I always thought the difference between them is that fuckwittery is something someone can't help but tosspottery is a choice.

Haha, yes, Involuntary Fuckwittery and Conscious Tosspottery!

They sound like a range of overpriced paints. I may have a think now to expand the range (they're all pretty much magnolia in my head)."

Drooling Sycophancy and Intrarectal Snottery?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Vanity and arrogance. People who think they're better than everyone else and think they're a league above everyone else. You can have a great body and a pretty face but if you're a bitch, yeah jog on.

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

"Tosspottery. It encompasses a unique combination of personality traits I may or may not find unattractive. I know it when I see it.

Haha - it's a bit like Fuckwittery isn't it!

It is a bit. I always thought the difference between them is that fuckwittery is something someone can't help but tosspottery is a choice.

Haha, yes, Involuntary Fuckwittery and Conscious Tosspottery!

They sound like a range of overpriced paints. I may have a think now to expand the range (they're all pretty much magnolia in my head).

Drooling Sycophancy and Intrarectal Snottery?"

you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lying is definitely number 1

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Liars and boy ive met a few...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Arrogance for me

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Tosspottery. It encompasses a unique combination of personality traits I may or may not find unattractive. I know it when I see it.

Haha - it's a bit like Fuckwittery isn't it!

It is a bit. I always thought the difference between them is that fuckwittery is something someone can't help but tosspottery is a choice.

Haha, yes, Involuntary Fuckwittery and Conscious Tosspottery!

They sound like a range of overpriced paints. I may have a think now to expand the range (they're all pretty much magnolia in my head).

Drooling Sycophancy and Intrarectal Snottery?

you.

Haha, steady on now!

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By *habsMan over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

People with a sense of entitlement. And there's a wide spectrum of people that fall foul of this.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definately arrogance not attractive at all

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By *usterMan over a year ago

worthing

"Hi all,

What do y'all think is the least attractive trait in a person?

For me it's arrogance/someone thinking they're above others.

This could be interesting... "

People who respond to questions like this. Damn - I just have.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Liars... That's a biggy in My book x

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By *hocolate007Man over a year ago

london

"Ladies who think they are gods gift to men because they are the minority, especially when they treat people like shit because they think they can

Agree with this.

The power dynamic is whole other topic! "

the power dynamic is balanced just depends if you as a man give away your power or retain it. I recently stopped seeing this woman cos she assumed i had to kiss her ass everytime she came over for a shag,,, now she is on my case tryin to force a meet and askin why i dont pick up her calls. Moral of the story, the power is in your hands to decide how you want to be treated by the opposite sex....

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By *lack Shoe Red SoulCouple over a year ago

North Hampshire

I've changed my mind, bigots, I think they are the worst kind of people

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By *UNCHBOXMan over a year ago

folkestone

Sycophantic, narcissism and duplicity.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The inability to read a fab profile!

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By *habsMan over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Is this still going or is the list exhausted?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi all,

What do y'all think is the least attractive trait in a person?

For me it's arrogance/someone thinking they're above others.

This could be interesting... "

Definitely arrogance for me too. And people who think they are better than others.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Definitely arrogance for me x"

define arrogance

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Definitely arrogance for me x

define arrogance "

Basic meaning, unpleasantly proud and behaving as if you are more important than, or know more than other people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Definitely arrogance for me x

define arrogance

Basic meaning, unpleasantly proud and behaving as if you are more important than, or know more than other people. "

Brilliant description, arrogance can soon turn a beautiful person into an ugly toad

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dont know if they have been mentioned but self pity is particularly unattractive.

As is constantly playing the victim...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

got to be bad manners

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Definitely arrogance for me x

define arrogance

Basic meaning, unpleasantly proud and behaving as if you are more important than, or know more than other people. "

im.not arrogant then . I am very proud . I dont in anyway think im more important than anyone and i dont think i know more than other people either i do how ever know what i know and know that i am alot better than some

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By *ife adventurerMan over a year ago

North Essex

"Dont know if they have been mentioned but self pity is particularly unattractive.

As is constantly playing the victim..."

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think the biggest traut that turns me of is when folk try and use big words and sentences that not everyone on here is going to understand . I think that is the biggest form of whats defined as arrogance . But thats my _iew and im entitled to it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dont know if they have been mentioned but self pity is particularly unattractive.

As is constantly playing the victim...

This

everyone on this planet is a victim in some way shape or form really . Just some have more support and finances to be able to put it in a different place or perspective

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman over a year ago

Hereabouts

"Txt spkrs" wind me up and turn me off massively. As do people who think they're entitled to things because they're on here, such as ordering a blowjob as if it were a number 46 at the local Chinese.

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman over a year ago

Hereabouts

"Dont know if they have been mentioned but self pity is particularly unattractive.

As is constantly playing the victim..."

But the whole world hates me. I'm being punished for what I did in a past life. No one is worse off than me

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By *aucy tiggerWoman over a year ago

Back where I belong

Haven't read the whole thread, but for me it's liars - I can cope with most things but I abhor liars x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dont know if they have been mentioned but self pity is particularly unattractive.

As is constantly playing the victim...

This

everyone on this planet is a victim in some way shape or form really . Just some have more support and finances to be able to put it in a different place or perspective "

Thats different from playing the victim. In my experience they fall into 2 categories.

They can create drama around them and manipulate things so they are the injured party

Or they can for whatever reason simply refuse to take responsibility for their own actions and reflect/deflect responsibility on to others. .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Small-mindedness, cruelty, sense of humour failure, victim mentality x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dont know if they have been mentioned but self pity is particularly unattractive.

As is constantly playing the victim...

This

everyone on this planet is a victim in some way shape or form really . Just some have more support and finances to be able to put it in a different place or perspective "

Thats different from playing the victim. In my experience they fall into 2 categories.

They can create drama around them and manipulate things so they are the injured party

Or they can for whatever reason simply refuse to take responsibility for their own actions and reflect/deflect responsibility on to others. .

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By *xpanding our horizonsCouple over a year ago

East Anglia

"Dont know if they have been mentioned but self pity is particularly unattractive.

As is constantly playing the victim...

But the whole world hates me. I'm being punished for what I did in a past life. No one is worse off than me

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think the biggest traut that turns me of is when folk try and use big words and sentences that not everyone on here is going to understand . I think that is the biggest form of whats defined as arrogance . But thats my _iew and im entitled to it

But some people use big words because they know the meaning of them and they are part of their vocabulary anyway.

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Self pity

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If they're a bigot. "

That's the one!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The constant need for attention and validation.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The constant need for attention and validation."

Ie clingyness

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The constant need for attention and validation.

Ie clingyness"

I agree 100%

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But some people use big words because they know the meaning of them and they are part of their vocabulary anyway. "

I don't find it attractive that's all , don't mean I ain't going to find the woman attractive though , I just like to be to the point and I don't think I need big words for that , that's all

evening how's your day been weathers freezing up here gritters r out in force

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People who dislike arrogance.??

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By *UNCHBOXMan over a year ago

folkestone

Narcissism.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And I don't mind an arrogant women either as once I provide her with a kind of sexual experience where by she's gonna wanna punch me square on right in the face the arrogance soon disappears

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By *lappyMan over a year ago

Manchester

When someone starts a topic and then leaves the site

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Before someone says I'm contridicting myself , I said I don't find big words attractive n it's a form of arrogance , I didn't say I wouldn't fuk the arrogance away

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When someone starts a topic and then leaves the site

I noticed that and I'm like ,,,,,,,,,, okayyyyyy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dishonesty

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Before someone says I'm contridicting myself , I said I don't find big words attractive n it's a form of arrogance , I didn't say I wouldn't fuk the arrogance away

But what if using big words comes naturally to a person? You're saying that it's unattractive. People that use big words to show off (not that I think anybody does) but if they did they'd probably use the word in the wrong context. Using big words isn't arrogant it just means that the person is educated or means that someone has read a lot of books like I have. I'm fluent welsh, didn't get taught English till I was 7 years old, read English books and had my little pocket sized oxford dictionary to look up the words I didn't know and I've got a (big word warning) highly superior autobiographical memory. My spelling and grammar is fucking tip top considering English is my second language. Only once did I ever have 19 out of 20 on a spelling test, Thursday 19th of November 1992 at 2:45pm I spelt the word raspberry wrong cos some cunt thought it was a good idea to have a silent P in it. I cried until I was picked up from school and all the way home and for years after wouldn't eat or drink anything raspberry flavoured. I don't like the idea of someone saying using big words is arrogant, take it back.

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

"Before someone says I'm contridicting myself , I said I don't find big words attractive n it's a form of arrogance , I didn't say I wouldn't fuk the arrogance away

Arrogant would be choosing not to write or talk in a way natural to me due to the assumption people may find it hard to understand. Language is beautiful and I love words. I don't plan on ever being ashamed of that or worrying that others may not like me for it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Zero aspiration/no desire to learn or improve. I can't think of one word to sum that up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Before someone says I'm contridicting myself , I said I don't find big words attractive n it's a form of arrogance , I didn't say I wouldn't fuk the arrogance away

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By *aeBabeWoman over a year ago

London

"Before someone says I'm contridicting myself , I said I don't find big words attractive n it's a form of arrogance , I didn't say I wouldn't fuk the arrogance away

If they use the words in the correct context, what would be the problem? If I'm unable to comprehend their way of speaking I personally don't think they are being arrogant or up their own, but I listen to them in a confused manner and think "now I need to know what that mean" add that to my vocabulary and use it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Before someone says I'm contridicting myself , I said I don't find big words attractive n it's a form of arrogance , I didn't say I wouldn't fuk the arrogance away

the only thing i take back is my girth before driving it bk in deep

as a fluent welsh women you will maybe also apreciate diolect . Which in my part of the country is still a very much used language or vocabulary . Not slang . I am self educated . I taught myself just about everything i know . From reading and research . I just dont find it attractive seawith thats all i kinda find it comes across as oooh plz look at me . Yr a hot loking woman and that rose tattoo is also where in my opinion and love of tattoos is in the correct place on your heavenly body . Taking it back in my opinion would be licking your arse and that id only be doing if it was infront of my face sweet heart

Im.not saying they aint educated but education is nothing and it dont make a person streetwise

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well education to a level is important . But it dont make a person clever

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

An unattractive trait I think is shyness. It's a shame for those who are shy but it's not attractive to me

Also, a lack of understanding is unattractive. I've had a not so good past and my ex couldn't relate to any of it so I never really spoke to her about it so it felt like she didn't really know me well enough.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Az garn yam at yan t see the ollas

theres something for the vocabulary

im goin home at one to see my mam

or in other parts of the country mom or mum

where im from.has a completely different way of speaking to the rest of the country . . . If you spoke to me face to face youd instantly say . Your a geordie you sound like ant n dec

ad say no i dont lol . Listen properly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Zero aspiration/no desire to learn or improve. I can't think of one word to sum that up. "

cumbrian diolect ... Go learn then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Az garn yam at yan t see the ollas

theres something for the vocabulary

im goin home at one to see my mam

or in other parts of the country mom or mum

where im from.has a completely different way of speaking to the rest of the country . . . If you spoke to me face to face youd instantly say . Your a geordie you sound like ant n dec

ad say no i dont lol . Listen properly "

Well a Geordie would know you weren't. Cumbrians all sound weird. And it would be gan hyem if you were.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People rarely have one unattractive trait in isolation.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"An unattractive trait I think is shyness. It's a shame for those who are shy but it's not attractive to me

i can relate to this .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Before someone says I'm contridicting myself , I said I don't find big words attractive n it's a form of arrogance , I didn't say I wouldn't fuk the arrogance away

the only thing i take back is my girth before driving it bk in deep

Im.not saying they aint educated but education is nothing and it dont make a person streetwise "

Education doesn't make a person streetwise and someone could be the most educated person in the land but they might not have common sense. But, that being said, you can't say a person is arrogant or that they're trying to be like oooh look at me just because they have a large vocabulary and they know what the big words mean. For example, my best friend and I use the word peripheral a lot, it might seem like a big word but to use smaller words would mean having to use a lot more words to describe the same thing ie that object/person was outside the very centre of my gaze. We don't use that word to show off or to be arrogant because a convo where we'd use it would go like this her: "did you see so and so then?" Me: "ahh she was in my fucking peripherals butt" It means that we've just spotted someone that one of us has either had a fight with at one point in our lives or someone we think is an absolute wanker and we're confirming the spotting of said person with one another. It's not to show off, no one else can hear what we're saying.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think the biggest traut that turns me of is when folk try and use big words "

What if they're German?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Zero aspiration/no desire to learn or improve. I can't think of one word to sum that up.

cumbrian diolect ... Go learn then

Why? How would that improve me in any way?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think the biggest traut that turns me of is when folk try and use big words

What if they're German? "

Or welsh.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think the biggest traut that turns me of is when folk try and use big words

What if they're German? "

i try to communicate in a way uncle albert would

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Zero aspiration/no desire to learn or improve. I can't think of one word to sum that up.

cumbrian diolect ... Go learn then

Why? How would that improve me in any way? "

i didnt say it would . You said desire to learn

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By *aeBabeWoman over a year ago

London

"Hi all,

What do y'all think is the least attractive trait in a person?

For me it's arrogance/someone thinking they're above others.

This could be interesting... "

Narrow-mindedness and stubbornness

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