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over a year ago
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"I wouldn't walk up to a stranger and run my hands up and down their body 
Oh why? 
I mean with people you know."
I only touch people I'm being intimate with. We aren't a touchy feely family and I don't hug my friends. I cuddle children and animals only. |
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over a year ago
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Very very much so with my children and parteners but not anyone else. Being Aspie makes physical contact difficult with people I'm not intimately close to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the " real world" i just hig and peck on cheek family and very close friends, everyone else its arms length i hate joe public touching me to ask a question it makes me cringe. Why do strangers think its ok to do this just to ask a question grrr x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tactile are you and not just on here I mean oot there in the real world?"
oh yes I'm very tactile only if lady likes that though I love to kiss and look into a woman's eyes and I love to make you smile ,oh and good at massage xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im a a pretty touchy feely person. But only where its ok.x
I have friends ive had for 10+ years who dont like to be hugged etc x"
Waves morning lovely...and its ok here  |
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I've been thinking about this a lot recently. With my family I am not very tactile but with my friend and especially people I have met through running I am which is odd because I'm usually sweaty and disgusting when we hug lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've been thinking about this a lot recently. With my family I am not very tactile but with my friend and especially people I have met through running I am which is odd because I'm usually sweaty and disgusting when we hug lol "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im a a pretty touchy feely person. But only where its ok.x
I have friends ive had for 10+ years who dont like to be hugged etc x
Waves morning lovely...and its ok here "
Booby cuddle? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im a a pretty touchy feely person. But only where its ok.x
I have friends ive had for 10+ years who dont like to be hugged etc x
Waves morning lovely...and its ok here
Booby cuddle? "
Hell yes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im a a pretty touchy feely person. But only where its ok.x
I have friends ive had for 10+ years who dont like to be hugged etc x
Waves morning lovely...and its ok here
Booby cuddle? Hell yes "
God woman i wish! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im a a pretty touchy feely person. But only where its ok.x
I have friends ive had for 10+ years who dont like to be hugged etc x
Waves morning lovely...and its ok here
Booby cuddle? Hell yes God woman i wish! "
One day young lady one day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With one close group of friends we've all become very huggy and huggable. It's so nice!
When new people come into our group they are greeted the same way and the hugging spreads and persists |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a tactile person especially with my children but not an 'in your face one'. I'm not keen on people I've only just met rushing in for a cuddle & a kiss on the cheek. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a tactile person especially with my children but not an 'in your face one'. I'm not keen on people I've only just met rushing in for a cuddle & a kiss on the cheek."
And "in your face" has a very different meaning on Fab  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not particularly touchy feely or tactile. Have been described as a cold fish before, for not hugging everyone I've ever met or bawling my eyes out at weddings. |
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over a year ago
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Very loving and tactile. Massive hugs for family and close friends, and good friends on FAB. Once I get to know a guy on here love all that stroking, kissing and cuddling, and not forgetting spooning |
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By *opinovMan
over a year ago
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"Very very much so with my children and parteners but not anyone else. Being Aspie makes physical contact difficult with people I'm not intimately close to."
I'm a bit like that too (also Aspie), though I increasingly blur the lines between close friends and family. I've taught myself to be a bit less insular and more receptive to the emotional/tactile needs of others - to the point where I'll hug an employee if they seem to need one... they always smile and hug me back and ha e even started hugging each other. I see it as a good thing.
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over a year ago
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"Tactile are you and not just on here I mean oot there in the real world?"
I personally think theirs no substitute for reality pop round and see how tactile I am |
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I'm tactile and affectionate with people who genuinely deserve it or people i've known the majority of my life. I'm not touchy feely with strangers (unless i'm reeeaaally d*unk) and i'm not very much into PDA. |
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"Im a a pretty touchy feely person. But only where its ok.x
I have friends ive had for 10+ years who dont like to be hugged etc x"
Yeah that's pretty much me. I hug my friends and I'm touchy feely with people I know well.
I often have to stop myself tucking in random peoples labels though.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very very much so with my children and parteners but not anyone else. Being Aspie makes physical contact difficult with people I'm not intimately close to."
Relate to that, I have to read the situation carefully, and cuddle them to ridiculous levels when I can, making up for lost cuddles. |
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"Very very much so with my children and parteners but not anyone else. Being Aspie makes physical contact difficult with people I'm not intimately close to.
I'm a bit like that too (also Aspie), though I increasingly blur the lines between close friends and family. I've taught myself to be a bit less insular and more receptive to the emotional/tactile needs of others - to the point where I'll hug an employee if they seem to need one... they always smile and hug me back and ha e even started hugging each other. I see it as a good thing.
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Seems you've taken a big step for an Aspie mate, nice one. |
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By *opinovMan
over a year ago
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"Very very much so with my children and parteners but not anyone else. Being Aspie makes physical contact difficult with people I'm not intimately close to.
I'm a bit like that too (also Aspie), though I increasingly blur the lines between close friends and family. I've taught myself to be a bit less insular and more receptive to the emotional/tactile needs of others - to the point where I'll hug an employee if they seem to need one... they always smile and hug me back and ha e even started hugging each other. I see it as a good thing.
Seems you've taken a big step for an Aspie mate, nice one. "
Thanks, it's not been easy and I've had a few knocks along the way (they can really hurt and take time to move on from sometimes) but it's been a huge help meeting the right friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tactile with close friends and family but not everyone I meet/know
I don't like people in my personal space if am not close to them and will likely freeze if they give me a hug
But once you are in then hugs away !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tactile are you and not just on here I mean oot there in the real world?"
With close family and friends yes. Except my mum. Which is why I am with my child x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very tactile, touch is my favourite sense....my son is the opposite though and hates it at the moment. He wasn't tactile even as a small boy. Giving his relatives a hug has been awkward for a long time. I'm forever hugging  |
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I'm pretty touchy feely, especially where I'm comfortable with and like someone, even if it's just someone in public who's sweet.
Id like to break a few conventions but northern Europe can be a bit inhibited. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends what you mean.
I'm a very tactile person, but with people not so much (or at all) unless I know them extremely intimately (and I mean beyond just having seeing them naked or had sex with them). |
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Very tactile with my male friends and partners, would be touching the whole time if I had my way lol, I think that's why I like dancing and horses and cats too, they are all so sensual!
I'm a touchaholic, but not with people who do not welcome it, and never to strangers! But I really enjoy a meet with the kind of person that just naturally cannot stop touching me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a thing about touching. I don't like people touching me, and I don't like to touch people. I have told people not to hug me before. I really don't know why I'm like this, but I always have been.
But when it comes to sex, the more touching, the better.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Very very much so with my children and parteners but not anyone else. Being Aspie makes physical contact difficult with people I'm not intimately close to.
I'm a bit like that too (also Aspie), though I increasingly blur the lines between close friends and family. I've taught myself to be a bit less insular and more receptive to the emotional/tactile needs of others - to the point where I'll hug an employee if they seem to need one... they always smile and hug me back and ha e even started hugging each other. I see it as a good thing.
Seems you've taken a big step for an Aspie mate, nice one.
Thanks, it's not been easy and I've had a few knocks along the way (they can really hurt and take time to move on from sometimes) but it's been a huge help meeting the right friends."
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